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StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.

We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.

So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,

One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do?

jelel6:
All Nigerians? Apology? 😂😂😂😂😂

Something they have not been able to demand from their leaders?

So many jokers this lots

Wujio:
Villagers don start to dey play wetin we call Simple Harmonic Tunes for physics on top this one head. " Instability ", Oshimen had beta tone down on pride and be wise.

Many people wey play pass am dey play side aside for Egbeda, Bariga, Okoko, Iyana Oba wey no get the chance he get.

To make it farther and further in life, wisdom and tact is key !

LegendHero:
The black man is getting weaker and weaker under the guise of victim mentality called “Racism”.

While we can condemn what the Napoli handle did, I don’t think it’s enough to start shouting racism and saying Oshimen should leave the club.

If Maguire were to be a black man, he would have hidden under racism to get back at those abusing him.

Nigerians are just dragging this too much. They already reprimanded the handle and I think men should move on.

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SpecialAdviser:
Someone should ask this mugu governor why he reviewed the price of obtaining C of O from 1k per square meter to 10k per square meter if he really want Enugu development. 500 square meter land will now cost 5million naira for C of O

He is on a mission to retrieve the money he used to buy PDP ticket. Thief

GeneralPula:
By the time this one wakes up, he would understand he’s been left behind..

He has grace, but he lacks wisdom !

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria.

It happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.

I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.

But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

Belawy:
Folks it's being over a month now that I lost my job due to little excuse. I was asked to tender my resignation letter because I went for prayer .

This is really tearing me apart and is eating me every day because I'm afraid of the Impact of this job loss on my family. I am steadily entering depression.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I think I must give kudos to our Muslim brothers and sisters for living by the tenets of islam. No Islamic ruling nor nation will give a nod to this madness and we wonder why they are more morally up right than we Christians? Weird acts and cultures are common amongst Christian nations yet we think we are more righteous. Sometimes I regret being a Christian

Nia69:
33 bodycounts ha ha.

She can stay celibate and loyal if she has a good self-control.

HeadNigga:
Propaganda against LP.

It is the people of Enugu that are desperate to kick PDP and APC out of Enugu state.

A new dawn is here. Goliath scared of David

hopefulLandlord:
Christians acting like Yahweh and Satan are enemies don't read their bible

Satan and Yahweh are bestest buddies. The Book of Job has Satan having a pleasant chat with Yahweh, during which they make a bet involving killing people and screwing one guy over. there's no animosity between Yahweh and Satan in the least. They get along just fine.

Moreover, what we learned from the book of Job is that Satan can't do anything without God's explicit permission - God keeps him on a very short leash.

According to the accounts of why David did a census in Samuel and Chronicles, Satan and Yahweh are beyond best buddies. If the angel of the Lord is the Holy Ghost, then Satan is a part of godhead that must be a quadrants, at least.

YungMillionaire:
Funny thing is if the so called christian heaven exists, this trangeder will make it and all the wicked christians on this thread criticizing her will not enter the heaven. RIP beautiful soul. May your sojourn to the other world be peaceful and painless.

Dalil8:
Messi is so humble.


FRAUD! �

Jpblessed:
What happened to AJ?

Romanoff:
This is not true.

There is no manual for a happy marriage asides love your wife, submit to your husband and don't commit adultery.

Your sleeping arrangements or change of name or who does the chores and pays the bills or who cares for the children is totally up to the couple.

There's a manual behind the successful working of everything in this life. The methods may differ but they operate around a common manual.

No use how you think say marriage spos be to dey judge other people marriage.

yomi961:
The bishop is shopping for problem where there is none.
I have a feeling this is all about jealousy.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why are the Christians so scared and make enemy where there is none?
When you folks released your Christian movies no one is gonna attack you for threat or something..what kinda delusion is this!

Why do you Dumbos want to control every aspect of life?
Fear and threats are the only things any religion has to combat...In two thousand years you folks have been unable to come up with a single unrefuted argument to support their extraordinary god-claims (which are then rejected).

That is why it is so difficult to engage any theist in a rational discussion of the issues...They must refuse to acknowledge rationality or they know they will lose...
The God of the bible is the most evil entity ever described in literature...He is more evil than Satan...He is more evil than Hitler...He not only drowned the whole world (imagine all the unborn babies slowly dying in the bodies of their drowned mother!) ..he commanded that all the amalekites be killed… except for the virgins of course...They were allowed to keep those (hmmm… I wonder what for?)

He also had 2 bears tear to shreds 42 children for the simple crime of teasing a bald man!
God supposedly had the time to say don't eat shellfish yet couldn't be bothered to say “don't own other people as property!” He even lays down rules for how you are to beat your slaves...

These are just some of the evil attributed to him. The list goes on and on.
The god of the bible is a true monster...