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Raph01:
SEXY!!!
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/flirting.gif

If I woooooz you ehnnnn

franciskaine:
now differentiate these persons from those who do Internet fraud (yahoo yahoo). Ur opinion can be better off without tribal appendage.

First all, I never mentioned any tribe. Second, I will never support any criminal activity but I will frown more at the ones to who human lives mean nothing to.
Thanks.

NextGovernor:
Wickedness.

We know the tribe that does this, even themselves know. I am not been tribalistic here. I have leaved in a compound by this same people where Red Label and Don Simon drinks were produce and you cant even tell the difference from the imported ones, they sell to supermarkets and bars at cheap price and these people sell them out the same price with the original and even more in bars.

That was how I was crippling down with malaria, nazo I use my leg go one chemist close to my area in Port Harcourt. They gave me fake Autesonat with original tracking number. Went home took it for good 3 days and it got worst that I couldn't even move, I was rushed to the hospital and the pharmacy in the hospital confirmed the drugs were fake and clone with original tracking number. Was treated of malaria with injections and some drugs in hospital before I was discharged.

From that time I knew people are heartless. Bought a drug to treat myself and ended up buying a drug that almost killed me.

We all know this tribe. They go to China and import substandard products. They don't just care if people use these things and die. All they care about is the money.

iamEyesberi:
Sorry just loging here now, buh doesn't like it tho!

OK.

I am going through the same thing but nairalanders encouraged me yesterday and I'm very grateful to them. I'm still in love with her. It's not easy to let go when what you feel is genuine and you have never cheated on your partner. It hurts and I can confidently say I know exactly how you feel. It's like you commented on my post yesterday. You just have to see reasons why you shouldn't be with a cheat.

Here's my own story.
https://www.nairaland.com/3185372/girlfriend-broke-up-me-see

KevMitnick:
Guy keep quiet and take control of the relationship. She is obviously stirring the ship. Why don't you start chatting with a lady and delete the chat too. It will make u feel better and I hope she is not the one feeding you. You better man up. Smh...

Hmmm. I'm not the type sir. I can't do that.

LadyAimy:
Follow back let's talk privately, I'll tell you why I said that

I brought this issue to the house. I can't discuss anything private. Plus say your reasons here. You're the only one that says I'm insecured. Please tell everyone why you think so.

Nairaland is home. Nairaland is family. I'll soon be on my way to the CAC office. I feel better now. Thanks. Others can still continue expressing their opinions on this matter.

LadyAimy:
Yes you are insecure.

I will leave others to respond to you ma.

I have no reason to hide anything from you guys whom I'm seeking help from.

Dear Friends, I know I will get the best advice here. I've been a nairalander for more than 5years.

She complained that I'm insecured and too jealous. Why won't I? She deletes chats with a married man whom she claims is a man she helped treat at the hospital she works. Even when she's at my crib, she still chat with this married man and will clear the chat for me not to see. She said she's going to the cinemas with the man and she'll say no if he asks her out. Does this make any sense at all? She said this is why she's clearing the chats cos she knows I won't understand. Why will a lady in a relationship agree to go out with a married man she knows is trying to sleep with her? Why?

I've never cheated on her nor have I given her any reason to doubt my love for her. I don't know why she's treating me this way.

Am I really insecured in this situation? Should I just forget everything and move on with my life? Please tell me. Please.
I'm to go out to register my company name today. It's a step to establish my company but now I'm so confused, depressed and weak.

I wonder why they won't seal Jehovah's Witnesses Kingdom Halls. We are so so different, our God Jehovah is not deaf. He hears even when you aren't even speaking out. Enough said. Good morning all.

Phi001:
Messi spends his time playing football....he has a manager, an accountant etc that handles all his affairs. Linda, on the other hand, is a busybody. Always looking for gossip. I'm sure she handles her accounts by herself. So they are VERY much different. Don't compare the G.O.A.T to a blogger next time!!!!!!

Hmmm. Birds of feather. The judge said that Messi cannot say he doesn't know his father was stealing government's money. Is he as stupid and dumb as he looks?

Like Linda like Messi.

If you agree LIKE. if you don't agree SHARE

So, no lie dis ghel dey lie. So Linda scam even uncle (dele no my boy, dele dele no my boy) self join? Wow!

Lekewatt:
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Thanks.

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Lekewatt:
what's ur hoc saying? Follow ur hoc, n u will get ur result.

Useless fellow.

kachikwudavid:
According to Ty Bello, Adekunle Gold new music album is about to hit the net soon. So She was asked by adekunle gold to help him make his album art.

Now, look at the beautiful piece she's put together.

I call this, Creativity of the highest order... Most of you
might see this as common, but sincerely a lot
of God given talent was put in to produce such
art.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BG2UXqQEbPZ/

Seriously, this is art gone bad.

loveisblind:
Greetings to all NLs.....i think solution to my problem will come from good people of this forum and such will safe me from doing the wrong thing.

It all started wen i was dating my wife of which my fam did not want her as they want me to marry someone else, though they could not tell me to my face why.....Also my wife families did not want her to marry me base on xtian vs Muslim stuff, but we both insisted....after some years we have kids and later we did our wedding witot any assistance from both families i.e. we shoulder it alone......recently, in the night, while she was in her room, PHCN brought light and i was helping her to charge her fon and i saw a guy's number whom they ve been calling each other almost on daily basis, on a normal ground i dont check her fon and she doesnt check mine....but wen i noticed this number, i went straight to chat with d guy, only for the guy to be responding romantically, i pretended as if its my wife behold....d guy was saying ........If i handle you again......I cant belief myself reading such, i quietly dropped the fon, and went to bed, the next morning I confronted her and she said the guy is her friend that nothing attached.....I did not want to escalate the matter for children's record, i went to work, wen i came back i asked her younger one staying with us if she is aware of the guy, she said yes is just a friend to her elder sister......I called my wife again and she was so bold and bragging that whats the big deal in having male friend.........

I noticed he had called the guy wen i was away to work, i dont know what they discussed anyway. I told her not to cook for me anymore and nothing like sex in between us....for some weeks now it has been like this......Now my pains are these:-

I cant report to my family
I cant report to her family too cos the father never attended our wedding he only sent delegates
I dont want to take laws into my own hand cos i feel like pulling down mountain
We married legally and I feel like filing for divorce cos have told her in the beginning that such act is what i cannot forgive in my life
If i divorce, what about my little kids, who will take kia of them cos I know she doesnt have what it take to ?
before i discovered this she told me if she does such i can never find out and i told her if she try it i will surely know

Am totally fed up with the marriage cos there are lots have been enduring, believing its subject to change but for the past 10years no changes.

Please what do you think?

Eeyah, sorry ehnnn

Gasout:
Good evening members in the house. I purposely brought this topic to this section (family) cos I blive i'll have a mature responses and contributions.

I'll try to be brief as possible.
I met this lady 2014 but we started dating November last year. It took her a whole year for her to accept dating me.

But then, she told me that, there is something she will tell any man who desire to marry her bt, depend on the level of seriousness of the man.

Then, I took what she planned telling her hubby to be as nothing serious nt until d relationship began to wax stronger. After being in the relationship for a while, I discovered she posses virtually all d qualities I desire in a lady and wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with her.

I tried to make her tell me what she has in mind that she plan to tell her hubby to be, she refused. At this stage, our both parents re aware of our relationship and we planned to have our INTRO this June.

I proposed to her last week, she accepted and busted to tears. Initially, I thought it was a tears of joy, nt knowing it was something entirely different from my thought.

I took her home with different feelings within me since she couldn't stop crying. When we got to their house b4 she alighted, she hold my hands and told me me 'she's HIV positive'

I was startled for minutes. She said I should think about it if I still want the relationship.

I have make enquiries from Doctors if both of us can marry and He said yes Bt the am nt still convince. Please, Nairalanders, I need ur sincere advice on this issue...

If e face you, make you shoot am. If e back you make you shoot am. If e remain only you..... You're so so on your own.

Ti o ba ko iwaju si e, ki o taaa. Ti o be ko eyin si e ki o shoot e. But ti o ba ku iwo nikan, ki o tun ero ara e pa.

I rest my case.

Partisan:
To my understanding, making Heaven is an individual race and i give no fvck about what others think of Jesus as far as i know his my Lord and personal saviour and through him i would be saved.

Safe journey jare. Greet God and Jesus for me.

Tolatutu:
Gender equality is not about marriage! Can't you people read you don't even know what gender equality is about yet you're attacking her. all we are saying is the only man a woman is asked to submit to is her husband and not every man out there. in society everyone is equal and must have equal rights irrespective of gender.

Did you read what she said? Didn't she mention husband in the home? I pity all of una. U girls started it all. Thank God you didn't dispute that.

tosin400:
The popular actress, Uche Jombo took to her social media to condemn Ooni Of Ife’s wife, Olori Wurola’s speech which obviously wasnt in support of Gender Equality.

See what she wrote below:


Source:http://www.flexygist.com/2016/06/18/actress-uche-jombo-blasts-olori-wuraola-over-her-speech-on-gender-equality/

This is why she couldn't get a decent Nigerian man to marry her. Life was sweet and peaceful when our mothers and great grand mothers never fought for equality with their husbands. The moment you try to equalise or question a man's headship.... There will be trouble.

This lady will carry Bible and call on God when she knows nothing written in that book.

Who started all these rubbish? A Woman. A woman who disrespected her husband and made a stupid decision that has landed us all into these problems.

Who ate the forbidding fruit first? A foolish woman who fell for a talking snake. Adam has been living in the garden for a long time and had never disobeyed God. Here comes a woman who wasn't ready to seek the opinion of her husband before making a decision. She wants to have the right to make decisions on her own. See where she has driven us to today.

God was angry with Adam for "listening" to his wife and disobeying him. He cursed men. He said we will sweat before we eat. We no object oooo. We men dey serve our punishment jejestically. God also cursed women. He said because you have done this, your husband will dominate you. Other translation used the words "Lord over you."

So why are these women not ready to serve their own punishment even when they are the cause of the curse in the first place? If we want to dominate you, don't fight us, go fight God.

I rest my case.

LugarT:
A company, Condolences.ng has presented a customized Condolence Register in honour of the late Ojb Jezreel to the family. The company while presenting the register posited that although they are not musicians, they have taken inspiration from the long fought battle of OJB Jezreel with Kidney failure and decided that one of their standard Condolence Registers be produced in his honour.

Some celebrities and supporters of the late talented Artists were on hand to receive and sign the Condolence Register which was presented to his senior wife Mabel Okungbowa.

Rest in Peace Babatunde Okungbowa (OJB Jezreel)

Pictures after the cut:

In other news the DJ association of Nigeria killed this Azadus' career.

Aaris & Curtis

EdifiedCEO:
FULL TEXT

It has come to my attention that via correspondence from your good self to His Excellency, Speaker of the House of Representatives of the Federal Republic of Nigeria (a copy of which I also received), you made very serious allegations against me and other members of the House of Representatives group that visited the United States in April 2016 as part of the International Visitors Leadership Programme (IVLP).



In your letter you claimed that I was identified as one of the members of the aforementioned group who asked for the assistance of a hotel parking attendant to solicit for prostitutes at the Residence Inn Downtown Cleveland Ohio.

I am extremely shocked, upset, irked and embarrassed by your letter and want to categorically state that these allegations are completely false, unfounded, malicious and a calculated attempt to malign and cast aspersion on my reputation and character as a Nigerian citizen and Honourable Member of the House of Representatives and to bring disrepute to the hallowed institution of the National Assembly and the entire nation of Nigeria.

Considering the enormity of these allegations it is instructive to note the following:

1) The US State Department and the US Embassy in Nigeria appear to have concluded on the accuracy of these allegations based on the testimony of the employees of the hotel without recourse to a response from the accused individuals or a proper forensic investigation. Paragraph 5 of your letter clearly states that ‘The US Mission took the pains to confirm these allegations and the identities of the individuals with the employees of the hotel in Cleveland’. The Embassy claims the accused individuals were identified by the hotel employees from a photograph of the group. Is this the manner in which such allegations against any US citizen (not to mention Members of the US Congress) are investigated and prosecuted in the United States or does the US State Department and Embassy have so much disdain towards Nigeria and her citizens that they did not bother to carry out a proper investigation? For a country that prides itself as the bastion of Democracy, justice, the rule of law, fair hearing and human rights it is quite alarming that allegations of this magnitude can be made and confirmed without allowing the accused individuals to respond.

2) Without conclusive evidence of any sort or contact with any of the accused individuals the US State Department and US Embassy in Nigeria have less than six days after your letter to the Speaker gone ahead to revoke the US visas of accused individuals based on hearsay from the employees of the hotel in Cleveland. Affected individuals received correspondence from the US Embassy on Wednesday 15th June 2016 indicating the denial of their US visas and requesting that they bring their international passports with current US visas to the Embassy.

3) The accused individuals were not accosted with these allegations while in the US so they could immediately defend themselves, the hotel employees conveniently refrained from making these allegations while the members of the group were in the United States and curiously decided to do so after our departure. What is the reason behind their not reporting these incidents immediately they occurred and why are we only being informed about these allegations two months after our return from the US?

4) None of the members of the group was driving a vehicle while at the hotel and would therefore have had no cause to interact with the car park attendants as the Residence Inn car park is not in front of the hotel but somewhere behind and some distance away from the hotel. You will have to go out of your way to go to the car park so video footage should clearly indicate whether or not any member of the group interacted with a hotel car park attendant.

5) Other groups comprising African Americans and other ‘people of colour’ were also occupying the Residence Inn while this group of House of Representatives members was visiting Cleveland because of the scheduled basketball game between the Cleveland Cavaliers and the Atlanta Hawks at the Quicken Loans Arena which is just across the road from the hotel. What is the certainty of the ability of the probably caucasian hotel car park attendants to accurately identify the specific members of any of the groups at the hotel as being responsible for the purported infractions?

6) The US border agency has it on record that I came into the US with my wife and baby on this trip and although the organisers did not allow them to stay with me in the hotel I was always communicating with my wife on facetime whenever I returned to the hotel. I stayed indoors on the days we had a break from our usually hectic schedule and only had cause to go to the grocery store to pick up items for my room. I wonder when it was I found the time to solicit for prostitutes from a hotel parking attendant and how I intended to bring a prostitute to my room when I had a regular facetime schedule with my wife which we never concluded until I was ready to turn in. This can very easily be verified from my log in activity on the hotels Wi-Fi service.

7) I have visited the US and several countries in the world countless times over the last several years and have stayed at countless hotels all over the world and want to dare the US government to find any instance where I have previously solicited for prostitutes from a hotel employee even when I was not a married man. I am a Hilton HHonors Diamond Member with over 1,500,000 reward points, an Intercontinental Ambassador Platinum Elite Member, a Ritz Carlton Rewards Silver member, a Marriott Rewards Member, a Starwood Preferred Guest Member and a Fairmont Presidents Club Member.

I am a member of two of the rewards programs of the parent hotel brand of the Residence Inn (Marriott Rewards and Ritz Carlton Rewards) and the record of my previous lodgings at all the hotel brands can be obtained to ascertain whether or not I have ever solicited for prostitutes from any hotel employee. Although it is very easy to obtain the previous travel history and track record of accused members, it is obvious the US State Department and the US Embassy have presumed our guilt without proper investigation because of the disdain and disrespect they have towards the average Nigerian citizen even when such citizens are Members of the Nigerian House of Representatives, a treatment they will never mete out to an ordinary American citizen who is not even a member of the US Congress.

It is noteworthy that a member of our group made a formal complaint to the organisers of the programme about his being defrauded to the tune of about $100 at the Renaissance Hotel Dupont Circle Washington DC but neither the US State Department nor the US Embassy in Nigeria has deemed it fit to take any action or initiate any investigation in this regard. Members of the group also expressed their dissatisfaction, displeasure and disappointment with the organisers of the programme over their inability to organise a single meeting with any member of the US congress and constraining members to meet with only one State Representative and several County Representatives and officials contrary to the initial objectives of the programme. Perhaps there are other underlying reasons behind the lacklustre attitude of the US State Department and the US Embassy towards ensuring proper investigation of these allegations.

Your Excellency, this unfortunate and malicious situation has further been exacerbated by the fact that your Embassy by omission or commission has allowed your correspondence to the Speaker to fall into the hands of the print media in Lagos without fair hearing or upholding the rights of the concerned individuals; an employee of one of the national dailies intimated me about this and their desire to publish the story.

This story was indeed published in the New Telegraph of Thursday, 16th June, 2016 alleging that related Members of the House of Representatives were involved in a sex scandal.

You can imagine the incalculable damage to my reputation and image with the publication of these spurious allegations especially when I unequivocally know that I am completely innocent.

It is also unfortunate that at a meeting with your Deputy Chief of Mission in Abuja the attempt by members of the group to express their exception to and displeasure with these allegations, the lack of proper investigation and the tainting of the image of the entire group was considered to be a very negative reaction by your Chief of Mission and your good self.

I suppose the US Embassy expected renowned personalities in Nigeria like Members of the House of Representatives to accept complicity in such malicious and spurious allegations without proper investigation or evidence or any opportunity to defend themselves.

Considering the psychological trauma, irredeemable defamation of my character and reputation before my spouse, children, family, colleagues, leadership, constituents and the general Nigerian and global public and the incalculable damage to my political career, I intend to take the following actions:

1) Institute legal action in the United States against the Marriot Hotel Brand, the Cleveland Council of World Affairs and the US State Department requesting for damages, comprehensive investigation of these allegations to exonerate myself and a formal globally publicised apology.

2) Institute legal action in Nigeria against the US Embassy in Nigeria also requesting for damages, comprehensive investigation of these allegations and a formal globally publicised apology.

3) Demand that the US Embassy and the US State Department (regardless of your revocation of my US visa) allow me to travel to Cleveland even at my own expense to confront my accuser and confirm my innocence. I otherwise have no desire to travel to a country that appears to pay only lip service to the ideals they claim to uphold.

4) Demand for the full video/cctv footage covering the period of our entire stay at the hotel; this should clearly show the movements and activities of every member of the group throughout the hotel.

It is unfortunate that I have to write to your good self under these circumstances but I believe you will use your good office to redress this very grave injustice and redeem the image of your country.


http://www.newshelm.com/2016/06/benue-rep-member-mark-gbillah-respond.html

There's no smoke without fire. And with all this long sermon, you've made yourself look even more guilty.