Business › Re: Loan Apps: I Have Used My Hands To Bury Myself by Maxwell4404(m): 10:39am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Oga make I be your manger since you get good Income and you still dey borrow mlmey from loan, I fit manage your bank account and as well mange your life, is like your family were once rich and later became poor but you still have that rich feelings, You never serious for life... YOU'RE A MUMU MANDegunners: I just need someone to scold me badly, maybe it will help me get sense.
Seriously I can't just believe at my age I still do the things I do.
Right now I am in deep hole of debts from these loan apps. Can you imagine someone taking loans from more than 10 apps? Yes that someone is me.
Presently if I should add up all the loans it will be close or more than 500k. The annoying thing is this is like 3yrs now I have been struggling with these apps.
I once was able to clear all the loans but like a dog going back to it's vomit, I still went back to them (I seriously need delivarence).
Why I'm so ashamed of myself is because I didn't take these loans mostly because I don't have a good source of income but because I don't know how to save and I am very extravagantly wasteful. I loving feeling rich, I can buy beer and flex anyone those I know and those I don't.
Thought getting married will help but for where like I got worst after that.
I seriously don't know how to come out of this mess I dragged myself into. Because these loan apps will only give you 7days loan with very high interest. I have been servicing these loans throughout last year and I don't want to continue this year.
I have already spent more than 200k this month alone on interest alone because I have to borrow again to be able to pay others.
I'm owing the following apps: 1. Fastmoney 70k 2. Imoney 50k 3. Gocash 38k 4. 40k 5. Palm credit 70k and counting this is long over due. 6. Kuda 50k 7. Next credit 21k 8. Mint loan 35k 9. 9jacash 12k 10. Add money 9k 11. Ncash 9k 12. Ducredit 70k 13. Ajeloan 15k 14. Easy Naira 12k. 15. Cashsea 26k
I'm even scared to add the total but this my current reality. Virtually all are 7days loan.
I don't know how a sane human being can get to this stage, I don't want to attribute anything to anyone or some village people. This is my owing making, and I have been living with this burden for long. I was hoping to get a job that will pay me like 500k at once but none for now.
I dont even know what next to do. I have alot of other responsibilities to cater for.
I don't even have friends or relatives I can run to. I am writing this because I deserve all the insults in the whole world. I deserve to the stoned. Though I will never take my life because of this, God forbid but I can't grow with these on my neck and it's really weighing me down.
I can't remember when last I genuinely smiled or laughed.
I'm determined to find a way to over come this problem. That's why I'm here.
I know you guys will come for my head but I'm already in this shot so I will accept any insult. But please if someone can say something to help me a little I will appreciate.
I'm not breathing fine but I'm currently harvesting what I planted.
Wish I can get a counselor or therapist who can help me because I'm scared that even if I suffer and clear these I might not learn my lesson because it has happened before.
What can I do please? |
Romance › Re: Major Martins Dies After Taking Sex Enhancement Drug. Lover Detained For 16 Days by Maxwell4404(m): 8:29pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
If you nor fit F**k with your normal strength comot body |
Nairaland General › Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt In 2021 by Maxwell4404(m): 9:55pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
Truth & Belive in your self |
Nairaland General › Re: Send A Shoutout To Nairalanders That Made You Smile This Year by Maxwell4404(m): 9:49pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
[b]Lalastica [/b]Well done |
Crime › Re: Zambian Man Commits Suicide After Beating His Wife To Death On Christmas Day by Maxwell4404(m): 9:28pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Some Women Mouth too Sharp.. |
Properties › Re: 15 Speedboats Destroyed As Cigarette Stub Sparks Fire In Delta by Maxwell4404(m): 11:54pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
All this ijaw boys too like Cigar, if them eat, or even drink soft drink them most some. I tire for this think people |
Romance › Re: Turkish Soldier Proposes To Girlfriend During Oath Ceremony; Generals Applaud by Maxwell4404(m): 5:10pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
An get luck say no be 9ja he dey, dem for arrest you |
Travel › Re: Which Country Is Easiest To Migrate To Outside Africa With 10M by Maxwell4404(m): 5:04pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
Its all depends how large your family is, and its a very good idea traveling Abroad I think of now Traveling Aboard is one on the best Investment for poor Masses, please and please don't give up if you have someone in Spain, Italy, France or Belgium, it would be more better to contact and know more, they will help you on what to do.. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Enters COVID-19 Fourth Wave by Maxwell4404(m): 8:14am On Dec 21, 2021 |
Who carry am Enter, my friend go back now, so Nigeria don get leg to dey waka abi !!! and e no wear nose mask, which kind whala be this |
Travel › Re: Abraham Airaodion Honoured In Dubai For Returning N12M Forgotten In His Taxi by Maxwell4404(m): 11:06am On Dec 19, 2021 |
If you done go dubia before you for know, but its seems you haven't be overseas before Kriss216: Please, pardon my ignorance... what's the economic importance of the certificate? |
Crime › Re: Reginald Ejiogu, Imo Chief Priest Kidnapped by Maxwell4404(m): 11:04am On Dec 19, 2021 |
Chief priest and Native doctor na desame, who won come do charm give who na? |
Celebrities › Re: Ramsey Nouah Celebrates His 51st Birthday Today by Maxwell4404(m): 11:01am On Dec 19, 2021 |
A man like no other, this guy make me get crush on different girls when I dey small, he's loves moves gave me courage still date to ask a girl out and still feels like even when you're poor love go find you, Ramsey Noah long life my Man |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Right Or Wrong To Give A Beggar My Tithes by Maxwell4404(m): 10:51am On Dec 19, 2021 |
Its really hard to understand all about the bible and what's right to do most times, I have asked this same question about Tithes, for my own understanding i now understand why it most be taken to church, first it's your seed most be taken to an Alter for it's to speak for us in our faith, in every Alter there must be a sacrifices, after giving your Sacrifices to that Alter it must speak for you in everyway... youngdave78: I was wondering if it's a most to take your tithes to church? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Fires Hypersonic Nuke and Drills Near Ukraine Border (Pics, Video) by Maxwell4404(m): 2:56pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
So last last Putin won take over Ukraine, this guy I get same character with Adolf Hitler |
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky’s Fight With Tonto Dikeh Spoiling 'Cross-dressers’ Name - James Brown by Maxwell4404(m): 12:19pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
This mumu dey advise who now, say him other fellow mumu Bob wen Risky they spoil cross dresser name, which one be cross dresser Guy u be Gay, you get luck say you no dey warri we for don burn to moto tire you since, you dey cover your face because your bears done grow and you not fit shave I pity your life |
Sports › Re: Jose Mourinho's "Hand" In The Appointment Of New Super Eagles Coach by Maxwell4404(m): 12:12pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
Jose no fit bring anybody abeg, him level pass super Eagles |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Zazu Zeh Bows To Tiwa Savage, Sprayed Money On Stage (Video) by Maxwell4404(m): 12:09pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
Tiwa go wire this guy again |
Celebrities › Re: We Don't Fake It — Bobrisky Flaunts Bag With Bundles Of Cash (Video) by Maxwell4404(m): 12:03pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
Bobrisky Shithole go done Open wide like frypan I sorry you for |
Crime › Re: Court Jails Prophetess Linda Mabi-Praise 5 Years For N128m Fraud In Lagos (Pix) by Maxwell4404(m): 11:58am On Dec 18, 2021 |
Women get mind sha, what a man can do woman can do more better |
Events › Re: Indigenous Award Nigeria 2021 Holds 5th Edition, Honours Persons From Several Se by Maxwell4404(m): 11:52am On Dec 18, 2021 |
Them dey sell this Award for Onitsha Market |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Cuts His 79th Birthday Cake In Turkey (Photos) by Maxwell4404(m): 6:57pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
I know understand you leave 9ja your home land and the first Citizen in Nigeria, you went to Turkey to do what? |
Sports › Re: Meet Faiq Bolkiah, World's Richest Footballer, Richer Than Ronaldo, Messi by Maxwell4404(m): 2:06pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Which one be Arab Money this guy is from Asia.... Na all rich guy come from Arab Jidemoo: Arab money....Real definition of being born with a silver spoon |
Politics › Re: Muhammadu Buhari Celebrates His 79th Birthday Today! by Maxwell4404(m): 8:13am On Dec 17, 2021 |
Yes nor understand Buhari still dey 79years, for watin |
Family › Re: Cyril George Carsten: Don't Be Nice To Your Mother-In-Law, She Isn't Your Friend by Maxwell4404(m): 7:28am On Dec 16, 2021 |
Na God go punish you, deceive them.. |
Family › Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Maxwell4404(m): 8:24pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Oga sir you have a problem a very big one at that Kobojunkiee: There is simply no fact to what you stated since even religion which you tried to delude with in your comment does not agree with your claim. 
What you have is the opinion of society that is ruled over by the foolishness not its majority, and nothing more.  |
Fashion › Re: Nigeria’s Maristella Okpala Wins Best National Costume At Miss Universe 2021 by Maxwell4404(m): 7:36pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
At least we won something this year Long live 9ja |
Family › Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Maxwell4404(m): 7:33pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
This has nothing to do with religion, it's the Fact we learn and study to know more, on Nairaland and anywhere else, My friend if you can't learn there are people who are willing to learn Kobojunkiee: From the same God who created some Eunuchs, made some to become Eunuchs in life and allowed some become Eunuchs for His sake - Matthew 19 vs 1 - 15? 
Learn to leave God and His name out of the foolishness that is man and his ego.  |
Nairaland General › Re: What Will You Change, If You Could Turn The Hands Of Time? by Maxwell4404(m): 5:00pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Nigeria make UK rule us again |
Family › Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Maxwell4404(m): 4:59pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Its one of the greatest Achievement Man get from God.. |
Career › Re: Why Don't Mechanical Engineer Graduates Set Up Mechanic Shops by Maxwell4404(m): 4:57pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Road side Machine no go give Graduate Machine respect |
Celebrities › Re: Ada Ameh To Beat Kemi Olunloyo Over Sylvester Oromoni (Video) by Maxwell4404(m): 4:02pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
Mama done provoke, Kemi no sabi say Mama na one woman mopol |
Food › Re: Pregnant Python Killed This Morning. See Picture Inside by Maxwell4404(m): 3:51pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
That feelings wen you kill Christmas Chicken and eggs they inside, when you fry am this is same feelings they are having.... Hunger dey the land |