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Press #1 to speak with their agent.

Esseite:
Kyari may not be anyone's favourite but:

The bolded quote goes to show the NSA is more interested in the Lucrative contract memo of 2016 rather than Nigerians whom actually need the equipments for security.

How many budgets have been passed since 2016 that the NSA is still pursuing a contract memo of 2016 rather than ensuring other options of getting the equipments where necessary, if it's not dubious...

I stand with Kyari.

Chai! reading easy o!
but to understand na where wahala dey.
If u like stand with keyamo, na people like u already make this country resemble zoo.

Wow! Why don't we touch up d ingredients a bit since we all want to be mad...

Coke N100
Maggi N20
Small dried fish for chewing effect N150
Small pepper for sniffing effect N50

It's very true.
They will totally bomb IMO state and wipe it out with a surface to air missile if they mess up. Then on 18th February, they also blow up Tanko's bedroom for messing up.

E no go better for who swear for this country head.
I am done with this country, it's high time I returned to my village...

You are in a bank for God's sake. How hard could it be? Ur ishi ukwu bf should have allowed u sit and do the standing and when u get home u can comfortably sit on any part of his body. Must we be irrational in everything these days?

A smart man would have long given his car to his woman knowing he'd get a better one courtesy of his in law.
Treat his daughter better than him and watch him treat u like a son shikena.

This one is called iron love.

May their marriage be better than the horrendous shape they formed with those tanks and called love...

In Nigeria, buhari's daughter is the only person presidential jet can carry and not in desperate times that requires swift measures o but to go and snap photo and go back home.

"We locked the gate"

"Seized phones of journalists and stabbed them to death"

Why is the the heart of man so wicked?

Why not just flog the commissioners on their bumbum and send them home?

Is this not kidnapping and conspiracy to murder?!

I borrowed my colleagues glasses to read this news now I'm upset and have broken it. What nonsense.

Seeing one of the producers or camera men (I dunno which) through a glass window in the house eating eba hungrily and it just didn't occur to them that they should reshoot or edit that part did it for me.

Haven't seen any Nigerian movie aside king of boiz in over a decade.

captainking:
He parted ways with the new girl and continued with his main woman and now that have a baby together...this happened two years ago...this happens to lots of guys,,,,,my advice...forget about the new girl that gives you attention and focus on your woman....you got a good woman bro....keep her

Thanks amigo.
U really are a nice person. No rooms for mistake anymore

Clinghton:
This is where you have to reset your mind set avoid intimacy and lonely places with her, she would surely get mad with you.


you got to focus on the bigger picture.

***Avoid Intimacy and lonely places***
Thank you.

captainking:
This same thing happened to my friend..thank God he got back his senses 2 months to his wedding and stuck to his woman

Wait o. So I am reliving your friends life? How did he handle it?

belwas:
A lady on Twitter has bemoaned the pain of being a single person.
According to her, sex is considered as a sin and masturbation which is quiet safer and easy to do is also considered as a sin so what should singles do when they’re Hot?
http://www.crazygist.com.ng/2020/02/sex-is-sin-masturbation-is-sin-so-what.html?m=1

As chimney wey u be, just Drink cold water to quench the hotness

Bro I get you.
I am committed to my woman for life. Let me explain if anyone had told me I will do like this I will just tell the person to carry his fake prophesy n leave. I did not plan it. I did not want it. I was not thinking at all. It was as if I was on adrenaline rush. I would do anything she asked me to do without thinking. I wasn't bewitched but the feeling for this girl is not whole, I fell for her so fast but she does not own my heart. I'm not confused just got carried away. I am my woman's man

olorinina:
Pleasure and business never go together.. Left for me i would advice you to postpone the wedding and actually think.. This marriage thing is one time o its not just about the wedding not when you guys start leaving together you'll start thinking about your escapades with the office girl and bla bla bla you'll just blow everything
Reason yourself well the fact you easily fell for that sexcapade means you wanted it so understand yourself first no go rush put another person for gbese

missimelda01:
I don't think making her hate you would work, what if she blackmails you? You could loose your fiancée and even your job. Have you tried having a conversation with her? Also try acting cold towards her with the excuse of being professional since it's a work environment. I also think you should confess to your fiancée, it's funny how women have it somewhere at the back of their heads that a man would always cheat in a long distance relationship, she might forgive you, don't begin your marriage on a foundation of lies.. good luck.

My wedding is in less than two months.
You want me confessing? I don't know how I'd feel if was my woman confessing such to me o. I seriously considered telling her after our wedding. The guilt has not cleared one bit and it eats me up when I see her. I decided to tell her but not now the timing is risku

I picked on the last words "very much possible"
Thanks bro.
Will keep you updated on my progress.

dmgr:
Alot has been said up their in which u could pick one or two and apply..

Firstly don't run because of the situation on ground, if not for anything stay and tackle the problem for the sake of your upcoming wedding and the wonderful woman u have, because running won't even solve the problem and it might end bring problem btw u and your woman.

I believe all that has happened, happened because u gave consent to it so start by gradually redrawing your self from that lady and make the relationship u have with her completely professional, and make sure u stand on your ground coz its not going to be easy but it's very much possible .

Why is everyone assuming the painter is poor?

Fear women...
Here in my compound one guy man was running two of them living together same time. Side chic is friends to main chic and a squatter. Side Chi is so holier than thou and spirikoko so main Chic has no reason to bliv her bf is not safe. Main chic travelled during Christmas and bf was frequent than before in d house o. Heavy activity happening and he sleeps over. Side chic now forgot she was side chic sef and now sees him off with diff colours of dangerous looking nighties I will allow u guys to imagine. We heard she ran away without her things when main chic found out now. main chic and bf fighting almost everyday since she returned.

fanmilk:
OK. Like you rightly said, you want imperfect people to advice you... Good, am one so let me drop my one cent here.

You see, what you feel right now for your colleague at work is complete LUST!
Apart from the adventurous nature of how she wants you to do the do in places u never envisage, you did not state any other thing about her, like being smart , intelligent, e. t. c. See bro, this thing you are seeing in her now is SHORT TERM! But your bae on the other hand has Qualities that may last a lifetime. Its obvious u are an adventurous person, so why don't you show your Bae what you want, you will be surprise she may even be more adventurous than you! She may have been hiding that part from you so that you don't see her as a loose Girl!! Try it.

As for that misisi at your work place, you have gat to use your head bro, to gradually withdraw from her and show professionalism in your work!!! Office romance often time end in DISASTER!!!! Because when the matter go CAST!! , You will regret ever having that ADVENTURE!

PEACE!

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Thank you!

mikezuruki:
Bro, you know, when Pastor Adeboye tweeted some weeks ago how he told one of his sons to fire his secretary, people called him all sorts of names.

The thing now here is, trust me, she's not worth it. All those places she has had sex are places where she has done it with people before you. She destroys.

I like the idea that you want to make her hate you, but not the one you want to run because of her. Making her hate you is you confronting the issue while moving is you avoiding it. Which doesn't make it go away. Because I believe you are there first, and should have an upper hand in that office, use it against her.

Also Bro, what if you run and met even a worse situation in your new office, will you keep running? Fight back to save yourself Bro. Your lovely woman certainly doesn't deserve this.

You are correct and like i mentioned before meeting me, she has had sex in all the places we listed to try out. I think I was caught up in the thrills and never felt regrets at first. Not blaming this girl in anyways. I was too stupid ti allow this happen. I don't even allow girls chat me until she happened and for the first time I have gone days now without chatting her which is a good breathe of air. Staying will not be easy buti have gotten one or two moral support to stay and not run and I'm really grateful sir.

HarunaWest:
I disgust you me?
Who is already cheating on his fiancee?
Me or you?

Dey there dey deceive yourself, last last you will conform.

I asked for advise not pointing accusing fingers

Gaggi:
I had a similar experience also. The adventure was so wild and fun that I even started thinking of replacing her with my babe. However, after a while the flaws started coming out. This girl now became a burden and a liability. And we worked in the same office. Fortunately for me she was an intern.
I had to manage her till she left the office then I ghosted her. As for your case, just start withdrawing. Become distant and decline any after office engagement. It wouldn't be easy but she will gradually get the message.
For those who think dating an office girl is all about enjoying quickie etc, please think twice. Office romance should be avoided at all cost.

This looks workable. I pray i don't ruin it by trying to be nice again to her. Cos i am so nice to a fault and always want to help everyone whenever i can. I will give this a try
Thank u sir.

AshiraWealthy:
Go to hell and !!!!!!

Creature of hell you can crawl back from wherever you came out from.

Gay alert!
Expect nothing else

HarunaWest:
I hope she is aware that your getting married on. If she is, then no wahala, continue shining her Congo, even after wedding, continue. Just make sure your wife doesn't find out. Marriage is a different ball game trust me, if you loose this kinda crazy chick, you will definitely regret it.. She's a keeper don't dump her except she's ready to walk away.

Sir, no offense but you disgust me.

punisha:
April is nearby, don't ruin everything you worked hard for just because of fun and adventures you feel will elude u if you don't have a bite.
That you got overwhelmed with guilt means you ain't morally bankrupt. A good sign I'd say bro.
Tryout the rest of your sexual escapade lists with your woman and keep office work official mbok no dey give d office girl chance to near you.



If u choose to continue, it will only end in tears. Flee!
Flee!!
Flee!!!

Thank u sir.
I am fleeing oooo

mumumugu:
NEVER MAKE HER HATE YOU, AN ANGRY GIRL CAN GO AT ANY LENGHT INCLUDING SPIRITUALLY TO HURT YOU.

you gradually opened the gate.now gradually close it back.
tell her you need to be professional in the office as rumors have it that there are secret cameras watching.

If everything fails, threaten to resign from the wirk

Thank u so much bro.
I told her we had cameras in the office but that did not stop the office sex when it happened. I have threatened to move to another city and working on it but I just don't know if it's the right thing to do

proclinician:
Use knife and stab the living hell out of her. Once she dies your problems are solved. You can then live happily everafter.

Children were not permitted on this thread.

Brunosamel:
My Guy at least thank God you have woken up....
If you are a real man stand on your ground and tell her their truth... And give her good reason why you shouldn't be having short term pleasure...

I would have give you a hot slap had it mean you were next to me cuz you have forgotten the golden rules to never date someone of the same place of work...

Don't let konji kill the make you loose diamonds while chasing gold...

I rest my case

Believe me i never knew it will take that turn so quick. I don't know what came over me. I have never cheated on my woman till this. I read of such stories but never thought it can be me someday. I am ashamed of myself.

***** My Brother Said I should Not ask for Advice here but Nairaland is not bad after all. God bless you Guys So much Just a Few advice and I feel motivated to be a Better person ********