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This publicity monger has been given audience by Nl. This man has fundamental issues that needs to be addressed first.

BuddhaPalm:
If you've ever had a girlfriend or a wife, you'll know that no doesn't always mean no.

She could say no this minute and doesn't want you to cüm the next.

Olamide got a no and not a NO.

See one of my earlier posts.

The girl in the song was neither a wife nor a girlfriend (we can discuss this angle later).
It was a one night stand, after a night of booze and drugs.
Go figure!

elmagnifico411:
\ Do u not know that when a woman says NO\

Irrespective of your gender, a sane person should never make this sort of comment.
No matter the context, you you make the reading public doubt your sanity when you make comments like this.

StOla:
I don't need to relate the meaning of reluctance from the standpoint of rape. The rape only exist in this write up.

Rather, I would relate it to the reluctance of a wife or girlfriend in having sexual relations with the husband/boyfriend. After much cajoling, she succumbs to the mating tactics of the other gender (as it happens with all animals).
While on the duty, the erstwhile reluctant female NOW becomes to hot to handle.

Is this too hard to comprehend?

Was the girl in the song his wife or girlfriend?
Your analogy is faulty.
This was a one night stand after a night of booze and drugs. In that scenario how do you overcome reluctance with an almost total stranger?
Using her hotness in bed as a proof that she consented is like saying it is impossible for a rape victim to physically enjoy the sex. Or that if a rape victim achieves orgasm, she/her was not raped.

BuddhaPalm:
While your earlier article: "Least We Immortalize Nuisance" was exceptional and on point; I cannot say the same for this extremely malicious one.

You are attempting to twist the lyrics here. Verbal persistence = rape abi?


She says "I am in trouble" => She's in trouble because she's late (for home, whatever, etc). Not Olamide.

Rape endorsement is a weighty accusation, and has the potential to irreparably damage this young-man's reputation.

“he has broken my back, he has broken my arm”: Again, rough consensual sex isn't rape. He was rough, yes, and that should be none of your business.

This is slander.

Let us take your argument further.
What did she say or do that he alluded to as being Story for the gods?

voltron:
Go to Lagos Island you will be surprised how rape happens routinely and the raped just get up clean-up and go home like nothing happened.

Not just a sick society but a sick world. If Ched Evans can have supporters then you know the world is nearing extinction.

rman:
The writer of the article is dull.

In fact, the song is a funny way of analysing how girls give all kind of excuses of not wanting sex but turn out to be sex goddess immediately u get them into the act.

It is about the hypocritical nature of girls attitude towards sex and maybe the society at large.

In fact, STORY FOR THE GOD'S is addressing all those holier than thou on this very thread but Bleep pass dogs when doors are closed.

Kai, hypocrites everywhere.

Dude, No means No.
Whether she is pretending or not.
No real man mistakes or misinterprets that.

If she says she does not want it and you forcefully have it, it does not matter whether she somersaults while sucking your d.ick, the fact is that you have violated her. Neither does it matter whether you were high on monkey tail or not.

agrovick:
and I repeat the song is not promoting rape

what is it promoting?

Here are two defenses for the song.
Both are detaield and thought provoking but I am afraid the best they do is allude to a blurry line.
Rape is too serious an issue to imply even in the vaguest of terms.

http://afrovii.com/2014/10/26/story-for-the-gods-a-deconstruction/

http://olatoxic./2014/10/26/olamides-story-for-the-gods-an-exposition/

With this much dexterity and word play in an indigenous language, this guy just wasted it.

If you want to defend a lewd song, try Prick no get shoulder. A song I will not be ashamed of God hearing me play. Depth with relevance.

I have read both sides of the argument.
I am going with the rape one.
If you have a sister and/or a daughter. You will see that even the defense against the rape point is blurry at best and rape is not something to be implied even in vague terms.
This song has crossed the line.
Somethings must not be sacrificed for the sake of beats and melody.
I liked the song without understanding the lyrics but the video put me off.
Now it is a complete NO for me.

I have read both sides of the argument.
I am going with the rape one.
If you have a sister and/or a daughter. You will see that even the defense against the rape point is blurry at best.
This song has crossed the line.
Somethings must not be sacrificed for the sake of beats and melody.

atlwireles:
They played both sides and lost. I don't think Wike is dangerous, he is very politically astute. Amaechi and his crowd underestimated him.

You will make a good diplomat.
I like your politically correct choice of words.

atlwireles:
As much as people might hate it, PDP will win Rivers state. If Wike gets the ticket, he is as good as home free. The Ijaws really don't have another choice in Rivers State, than wrestle the ticket away from Wike in PDP. That's the only game in town. ALL the Ijaws can vote for Peterside, and he will lose handily in Rivers.

Easier said than done.
Where were they when Wike was pocketing the party machinery?
As it is,e go hard for even GEJ to dismantle Wike. They are dealing with a very dangerous and rugged character.
I have genuine pity for Rivers people.

TheRealAdonye:
I also find it hypocritical that PDP would say we should vote for Jonathan because South-South has been marginalized in getting a spot in the Presidency. They still use the same mouth and endorse Wike..

Absolute rubbish.

Meanwhile, Wike collaborated with Screening committee to screen out the strong contenders against him..

Where were does strong contenders when Wike was literally collapsing PDP structures into GDI?
The painful truth is that PDP in Rivers state is in Wike's pocket and if they don't want him,they have to beg and cajole not threaten him,
The man is viscous.

Jarus:
A good political calculation in my opinion Dakuku is a decent guy that has made a name for himself in the House. Being a brother to Atedo Peterside, a friend of the President and PDP sympathiser, also makes it interesting.

That said, I'm not hopeful of PDP losing in Rivers in 2015.

Whay has been a distant relative of Atedo Peterside got to do with it? Absolutely nothing.
I am not convinced about this choice. Abe seemed a more rugged politician. Wike is as rugged as they come. I doubt the gentleman conduct of Dakuku will survive the jungle that Wike is about to unleash. The election in Rivers state next year will make the wild west look Ike an edition of Barney or sesame Street. The worst thing pdpd members did was allow Wike to hijack the state structure.
Dakuku is not a grass roots politician.
Another Fayemi in the making.

Infomizer:
It DOES! Apparently...

You are wicked o!

rattlesnake:
Vanity upon vanity

Poor man's anthem.

In saner environments the Attorney General of the Federation and the prosecutor in charge of this case would have resigned 5 mins after the judge threw the case out. This is as direct as an indictment can be.

AjanleKoko:
Not signing Benatia or Marquinhos was a significant error. Price notwithstanding. Since we were within FFP limits, it would not have cost more than an additional 15-18 million euros to land either. Now wer're stuck with an ageing and injury-prone defender who probably may end up not playing a single game for Barca

Oga,
You see my missed calls and sms?
I hope you are fine?

900 million for tents?
There is no honour among thieves!
Even death is an avenue for looting in this country. No fear of God, no respect for the devil.

The document showed that the lion share – N900 million – was used for the procurement of isolation tents which were supposed to have been distributed to the 36 states and FCT; N315,315,000 was meant for the purchase of vehicles; medical and diagnostic supplies logistics and technologies gulped N182 million; while research for virology/genomics got a measly N30 million.

Contrary to the perception among the state governments that the N1.9 billion approved by the federal government last August to contain the outbreak of the Ebola Virus Disease (EVD) would be distributed among the states and the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), it has emerged that the money was used by the Federal Ministry of Health for the procurement of vehicles, isolation tents, secretariat and logistics support, and psychological support, among others, THISDAY has learnt.

However, health ministry sources further revealed that not all the states got the materials supposedly procured for the containment of the Ebola virus.

Shortly after the Liberian national, Patrick Sawyer imported the disease into the country, President Goodluck Jonathan had declared a national emergency for the control and containment of the virus in Nigeria and approved the immediate release of N1.9 billion for the implementation of a Special Intervention Plan.

The Special Intervention Plan included the establishment of additional isolation centres, case management, contact tracking, deployment of additional personnel, screening at borders and procurement of required items and facilities.

However, two weeks after the announcement, controversies arose over the disbursement of the funds when the Lagos State Government cried out that it had been utilising its own resources and had not received a farthing from the federal government.

Shortly after the outcry, the federal government released N200 million to the Lagos State Government, while Rivers State, which battled to contain the Ebola disease when it was imported into the state by an ECOWAS official, also got the same amount.

But a document exclusively obtained by THISDAY, detailing the breakdown of how the N1.9 billion was utilised by the health ministry, showed that areas like research in virology and genomics got very little funds while money was allocated more than once to coordination, logistics and surveillance activities.

The document showed that the lion share – N900 million – was used for the procurement of isolation tents which were supposed to have been distributed to the 36 states and FCT; N315,315,000 was meant for the purchase of vehicles; medical and diagnostic supplies logistics and technologies gulped N182 million; while research for virology/genomics got a measly N30 million.

Other areas to which the funds were allocated included: active surveillance – N29 million; infection control – N11.5 million; planning, coordination and collaboration – N93.5 million; again, coordination – N13 million; outbreak investigation – N25 million; routine surveillance – N10 million; and case management – N30,156,000.

In addition, for the purpose of safe patient transfer, the health ministry set aside N10 million; laboratory surveillance got N5 million; accelerated completion of the Gadua Centre Reference Laboratory in Abuja got N180 million; and the complete upgrade of the eight zonal NCDC (National Centre for Disease Control) laboratories got N65 million.

Other areas were logistics support for response (DTA, accommodation, etc) – N15 million; psychological support – N2 million; secretariat and logistics – N3.7 million; and sensitisation and public awareness campaign on EVD – N72,377,500.

fireforfire:
Ur just an animal with no conscience.
greedy fool who prefers money over her kids.
how do u know if d nanny is good or bad?
is it when dey pretend to b good wen ur around
and misbehave wen ur not
eediyot justyfying ur fooloshness here wont help u.continue chasing vanities n leave ur kids for d "good" nanny.
Nama.

You are incapable of holding a discussion.
I feel genuine pity for those who have the ill-luck of knowing you in real life.

lagbaja:
Your comment makes it look like an ostrich that buries its head in sand hoping that the hunter does not see the remains of his body
Th poster is simply calling all women ( and men too) to a reality check. No amount of justification for actions will erase the reality of dangers faced by our children. Something has got to be worked out to balance the career and the safety and upbringing of the children. A reliable crèche may suffice, otherwise someone between the man and woman has got to be home.

I see your point and my comment does not disregard that too. Whether you have a nanny or not, you should pay attention to your child. It has little to do with working or having a career.
A bad parent is a bad parent. Also a bad nanny will wreck havoc irrespective of a good parent. Will the housewife carry her child everywhere? At some stage the child will be at home alone with the nanny. Harm could happen once and you find out immediately after bit it has happened.
Some people are against nannies but leave their children with neighbours and neighbours nanny for brief periods. Is that not hypocrisy?

fireforfire:
Hey u ,never u in ur stewpid life quote me again. its pple like u dat encourage dis act if wickedness due to laziness to luk after ur kids.
yes i know d economic situation is harsh, but how well do some moms put dia eye to d ground to know what happns behind dem at home.
slowpokes like u reason with ur lame brain.

You are too daft to appreciate reasoning.
Reasoning is not something you have a grasp of, so i will just let your illogical ramblings slide. Most mothers make great effort to know what happens but thebtruth is that once you are not there for a length of time you are vulnerable. That is why a good maid is inestimable. It is better you don't have a bad one than relying on 'putting your eye for ground'. I do not expect you to understand such simple issues. You mind is too simplistic for such.

fireforfire:
If i were to be d parent if d baby, walahi i will commit murder.
I wil first of all giv her d samuel Doe" treatment, that is cut her ear off n force her to eat it.
Then arange her hands on d table and chop of her fingers, all 10 of dem.
With my pestle i will break qll d joints in her body, ankle, knee, wrist etc.

Then soak d remains of her chopped off fingers in a bowl of boilng pepery water.
A tatoo wil luk good on her, i will place a red hot iron on her face and body so she can share in d pain dat little innocent baby suffered. when im satisfied,
I will finally drive a hot knife, down d nannys throat.and bid her farewell to HELL!!!!

But on a serious note, dis recent uganda news is a wake up call to all d mothers pursuing dia careers left , right n center , carrying women emancipation on dia heads like gala sellers while dey neglect their kids, leaving dem at d mercy of some demonic agents in form of nannies.
Some moms are simply not there for dia kids. 6am they r out for work, 10pm dey com bk to meet sleepin kids.when do u now hv time to play wit ur kids or know whats gwan in dia lives

Women suffry dey pursue money !!!!

Your comment seems to stem from a position of ignorance. Not every working woman enjoys being away from their children. Most do not. The economic realities makevit inevitable. Most families can't even meet up with two pay cheques. Will the children starve? Will they be home schooled? Are those needs free of charge?
Try and engage your brain a little more before you involve your fingers. It is almost impossible to keep a career without maids when you have kids. Not every woman has a mother or relative available to baby sit. It is a necessary evil.
However, i think it is one area where parents should be extremely prayerful about. Some of us have had consistently good nannies and it is not a coincidence.

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SAVEDBABA:
I schooled in Germany so I dnt no wu u guys r talking abt,pls enlighten me

Stop exhibiting your daftness in public. Keep it for private consumption.

BackDatAssUp:
This same APC is also fond of using the Trade Unions. They have desecrated the 4th Estate with their jaundiced journalists, encroached on the Judiciary with the likes of Salami.

APC is a vile evil organization of criminals

They are learning from PDP

Yes

cbrass:
The op maybe right concerning that of fashola reason been that names that starts with Ifa have there root in ekiti hence names like fashola , fabunmi,fasoro, faseyi is common over there

Is that the basis of your silly assumption?