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IslamRe: NSCIA: No Moon Sighted, Fasting Continues Tomorrow by Mccullum: 9:55pm On May 22, 2020
fasting continue in-sha-Allah,
IslamRe: How To Observe The Eid Prayer At Home by Mccullum: 3:47pm On May 22, 2020
sulaimon22:
I heard on a radio program when an imam said the second rakah is 6 Takbeers. correct me if I'm wrong and if otherwise kindly modify.
second rakah is 5
FamilyRe: Please Help Look Into This Family Issue (I'm Loosing My Mind) by Mccullum: 10:20pm On May 17, 2020
Ope88:
Please don't read and pass, also Pardon all my typo, I'm typing out of duress.

I am from a family of six, 3 girls, 1 boy including my parents.
I had a horrible childhood experience, My Mum (no thanks to her) was something I can't quantify, I can't start writing every of the things she did and I can't say If the religion she practiced contributed largely to the devilish attitude she put up while growing up.

My mum has no good record anywhere, in the church, with the neighbours, with her siblings, we the children, her in laws and even at work, She was always at war with people, if she dreams that someone was trying to attack her in the dream, if she sees the person the following day, she was ready to attack the person.

Also, she would curse her children at any slightest provocation and leave only my brother out(last born and spoilt), She doesn't have any good relationship with her siblings and won't allow my dad visit his family member, I remembered them (Mum and dad) always saying this (don't be unequally yoked together with unbelievers). To them anyone who isn't a Christian (deeper life) is not supposed to be associated with.. My dad on countless occasion will call his mum a witch just because she was a Muslim and one of the oloyes of allasalatu(Muslims will understand this) and had nothing to do with his family members.

This went on and on like this until my elder sister moved out of the house and in the process of trying to find her feet, she got pregnant and my mom practically tormented her life, she later got married to the man, and for that act alone, she's always at logger heads with my sister and her husband..

Later, I got married and then my younger sister followed suit, leaving my dad, herself and my younger brother (whom I have disowned).

Ever since the three of us got happily married, and left the home, my dad slipped into severe depression. Although he has been depressed given lots of things he encountered, job loss, no social interaction, unforgiveness amongst others, it became severe when all his female children left, then from severe depressgion, he started having mental issues, he would wake up and leave the house talking to himself, or start preaching and going out of point with anyone he finds on the street, sometimes he would leave and come home at night, my younger brother who is supposed to comfort and help him, treats him with disdain, my mum who is supposed to check mate his excesses would leave him to his folly and now he has started standing up to her and everyone else in the house..

At 26, he doesn't know his bearing and obviously we have been seeing signs of him wanting to inherit the houses my father built in the same compound.. (and we have noticed that my mum has been making him understand that every of the property belongs to him).

The last straw which broke the camel's back happened one week ago, my elder sister ( who is 9 year older than him) took advantage of the lockdown and visited my father, he is usually exited when we are around him whc helps his severe moodiness. There and then an argument broke out between my sister and my brother, she asked why my brother was insulting our mum for an action that happened in the compound, he beat my sister up and her three children and boasted that, the rest of us (my sister and I) dare not do anything and that by the way we must stop coming to the house, that if he sees any of us He will beat us up, My mum who was supposed to resolve the matter started blaming my sister, asking her why she always love to come visiting, that she's supposed to be in her husband's house or father in laws place and immediately called her hubby to come pick her.

Its been one week my sister left for her house, my daddy who enjoyed her company when she was present started misbehaving again at home. He started roaming, he started cursing everyone.

The reason I'm writing is this, my dad is no where to be found, he left the house yesterday Friday 15th May 2020 and was last seen in ITAMAGA IKORODU, we keep trying his number but he is not picking and now his number is switched off, I'm sure he is still wandering about.

My sisters and I have decided that even when he is found(by God's grace) we do not what him to go back living with my mum and brother.

What other alternatives do we have to care for him, as his own siblings are not happy with him either for abandoning them and their mum (his own mum),, when they needed him the most..


I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LONG POST.. PLEASE HELP ME.



Modified..... My dad has been found today Sunday, 17th May 2020, my sweet mother (elder sister) found her, she has been on her feet since he went missing, luckily he was found but in a terrible state, I saw him via video calls and I wept, he can't recognize even my sister again, and just muttering some words we don't understand, he closes his eyes while saying this and asked everyone to go and leave him, he looks so faint and weak and would not leave where he his...My sister has called his siblings and she's waiting for the next line of ACTION from them.

I'll keep updating the house with reports from our end..
I commend you for being good child in cooperation with your sister for the caring of your father,

Your father need to go and beg his mother and his siblings for forgiveness after he regain his sanity, if the woman still alive

Don't abandon your brother, try to reconcile with him for the unity of your family but apply wisdom and if he is not ready to change, pray for him to change and give him some measurement but retain greetings with him.

Your mother is destructive instrument of your family still she's mother you know, be a good child to her in order not to cause generational curse in your family, what ever you do to your mother your children will replicate it to you in future.

Sorry and be hopeful for better future.
CrimeRe: Rinji Peter Death: Protest At Hwolshe Community by Mccullum: 11:51am On May 14, 2020
RIP....
PoliticsRe: Appoint Tinubu, Chief Of Staff, Group Tells Buhari by Mccullum: 1:38pm On May 12, 2020
That's their own PREDICAMENT...
CareerRe: President Buhari Nominates 42 Ambassadors by Mccullum: 12:23pm On May 12, 2020
One day I'll become a diplomat, congratulations to nominees.
PoliticsRe: Wike Orders Arrest Of PHED CEO, Sends Him To Isolation Center by Mccullum: 7:56pm On May 10, 2020
Wike is bully, even his voice can confirmed that....
RomanceRe: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by Mccullum: 4:34pm On May 09, 2020
Let her go, because the numbers that follow six is more than seven, if both of you can live without one another for seven years, both can still live without each other forever, there is no compulsion in religion and relationship.
CultureRe: Sick Emir Of Rano, Tafida Abubakar Ila Taken To Hospital by Mccullum: 2:46pm On May 02, 2020
DontCough:
My prayers are he recovers quickly from the bewitched ailment.
No man deserves to lose his precious life, no matter what their earthly deeds are.
But Shekarau... Deserve it.
PoliticsRe: Kwankwaso Writes President Buhari Over Kano Mysterious Deaths by Mccullum: 6:52pm On Apr 27, 2020
EdificeRay:
Never forget the most important task in life.

Amidst the global crises, ask yourself :

Is my soul prepared to meet my God?

Hand over your life to Jesus by asking him to come into your heart to be your new master.

This is the only condition necessary for you to be saved. Do not be deceived.

Romans 10:10
For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

Come to Jesus today.
Instead of saying COME TO GOD you're saying come to JESUS. It is you that needed prayers to be guided to right path.
SportsRe: Daniel Amokachi: I Slept At T.B Joshua’s Church For Weeks, Got No Miracle by Mccullum: 7:51pm On Apr 25, 2020
I felt sorry for him due to he was misled by his friend, there is miracle which only comes by working on how to treat one self medically or herbs... no wonder doctors used to say they only treat patients but only God heal.
PoliticsRe: Lati Raheem Is Dead! Tinubu's ‘Most Trusted’ Aide Dies After A Brief Illness by Mccullum: 5:33pm On Apr 24, 2020
May Allah forgive his sins and have mercy for him on the day of judgement, Ameen.
IslamRe: Making Quarantine A Qur'antime In The Holy Month by Mccullum: 10:18am On Apr 24, 2020
Masha Allahu, RAMADAN KAREEM...
IslamRe: Sultan Announces Commencement Of Ramadan 1441AH - 2020 by Mccullum: 9:40pm On Apr 23, 2020
kaluxy007:
Aboki will sign moon and tell Sophistically educated west when to start hunger strike grin

They won't even allow western Asslickers sight this moon that never went missing
You're stupid intruder....
Christianity EtcRe: Lockdown: Dunamis Shares Food Items by Mccullum: 4:56pm On Apr 22, 2020
uyplus:
Has healing failed them? They should be sharing anointing oil, Bible and prayer booklets now. What has changed? Suddenly, no church has gone to isolation camps to pray for Corona victims? Garbage in, garbage out.. For those of you who still gift these fraudsters money in the name of tithes and offerings, I dare you to go and touch a Corona patient, let's see if the devourer won't devour you. Why has your tithe stopped working for you? Now you are scared, using hand sanitizers and facemasks in every ticking second.
STOP THIS FOR NOW AND TRY TO KNOWLEDGE THE KINDNESS OF THE PASTOR FIRST...
CrimeRe: Lady Calls Out Lebanese Man For Putting Trafficked Nigerian On Sale by Mccullum: 7:51pm On Apr 21, 2020
THIS IS BADDEST, INHUMANITY AGAINST HUMANITY, I BLAME THEM NOT WHILE I ONLY BLAMES NIGERIANS THAT ONLY BELIEVING THAT WITHOUT TRAVELLING OUT THIS COUNTRY THEY CAN NEVER BE SOME BODY IN LIFE, BEING A POOR MAN/WOMAN IN YOUR OWN COUNTRY IS FAR BETTER THAN BECOMING A SLAVE IN ANOTHER COUNTRY.
CrimeRe: Lady Calls Out Lebanese Man For Putting Trafficked Nigerian On Sale by Mccullum: 7:51pm On Apr 21, 2020
chrisxxx:
I have seen insults. But this is the most demeaning of black people.
THIS IS BADDEST, INHUMANITY AGAINST HUMANITY, I BLAME THEM NOT WHILE I ONLY BLAMES NIGERIANS THAT ONLY BELIEVING THAT WITHOUT TRAVELLING OUT THIS COUNTRY THEY CAN NEVER BE SOME BODY IN LIFE, BEING A POOR MAN/WOMAN IN YOUR OWN COUNTRY IS FAR BETTER THAN BECOMING A SLAVE IN ANOTHER COUNTRY.
RomanceRe: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Mccullum: 9:49pm On Apr 20, 2020
You have learn your lesson in hard way, just be bold to manage the emotional pains that you'll pass through okay, try to quickly summon your courage by looking for new young ladies as that will systematically erase her in your mind, I'm no asking to your rush in to serious relationship - I meant use another girl as an antidote to emotional pains and move on gradually for brighter and rewarding future, please never beg her because there is no compulsion in love, the true love will never lie; only if you observe very well, you will understand more.
PoliticsRe: Governor Ganduje Converting A Christian Girl To Islam (Video) by Mccullum: 11:00am On Apr 20, 2020
Trailblazer1:
Watch carefully, No Muslim will condemn this evil act undecided


They are what they are. Hypocrites

They only preach religious tolerance when the odds are against them.

The same reason why the support Buhari till death despite being a colossal failure.


Religion of Piss undecided
Do you care to ask about the status of the girl, either she's living with her parent, guardian, or she's an adopted child, after getting facts on these questions then your accusation against Muslims on this forum will be reasonable, It is in the rules of Islam that there is no compulsion in religion.

Crusader!, pls do the needful on those questions.
CelebritiesRe: Rachel The PIPER Foundation reaches Out To 200 Homes In Abuja IDP Camp. by Mccullum: 9:05pm On Apr 19, 2020
Commentators will not observed lack of social distance on these pictures while they won't fail to observes that if it is government officials gathering.
PoliticsRe: Why Was There Fresh Blood Stain In Abba Kyari's Box? (Video) by Mccullum: 6:33pm On Apr 19, 2020
At the point that soul is parting away with the body, who had the experience of seeing fresh dead bodies will understand that some excretion happened at thst period, either by vomiting, urinating, defecating and bleeding of blood.

That's why if some body died, elders will insists that only closer relatives will be allows to go in and see their corpse first, they usually doing that simply because of the unknown condition the corpse might be while only closer relatives can keep the secret of what they saw.

It's not possible of seeing blood bleeding from Christian's corpse due to 95% of them has been refrigerated before the burial day unlike Muslims that mostly buried their corpse on either same day of its death or following day.

I thinks Abba Kyari's corpse was excreting blood after his death and the bleeding didn't stop until when he was buried due to his religion doctrine against delaying of corpse burial once it has been confirmed death and that denied his family of managing that blood bleeding perfectly before he was buried.

May God forgive his sins.
Christianity EtcRe: Fufeyin: I Saw The Death Of Abba Kyari, Prayed About It But It's The Will Of God by Mccullum: 5:50pm On Apr 19, 2020
[quote author=EzeNdiAra post=88622759][/quote]That is why I like Islam as it didn't build the faiths on miracles, Islam foundation of faith is on salvation which was what Jesus came for.
Christianity EtcRe: Fufeyin: I Saw The Death Of Abba Kyari, Prayed About It But It's The Will Of God by Mccullum: 5:46pm On Apr 19, 2020
Harllaby:
[color=#000055]TB Joshua needs to see this right now[/color]
You are the baddest with this picture..... grin cheesy you've thinks on behalf of him.
Christianity EtcRe: Pator Adeboye: Pray Against Flood And Fire Incidents, A Big One Is Coming by Mccullum: 5:42pm On Apr 19, 2020
IS THIS A PROPHESY OR PRECAUTIONARY WARNING AS NORMAL PREPARATION AGAINST THE RISKS OF FLOOD DURING RAINING SEASON...

This is how this elderly man stand so low of making such pronouncement as prophesy! I'm not surprise any way...
PoliticsRe: Muazu Magaji 'Celebrates' Abba Kyari’s Death by Mccullum: 7:10pm On Apr 18, 2020
The comment of this man, considered by me as immature and it is very unguided statement from political office holder.... Though I'm not a fan of ABBA KYARI still I can't comes out openly and mocked his death, simply because all souls must taste death.... just let his deed be judge by his creator now.
PoliticsRe: Lockdown: Lagos Launches ‘food Kitchen’ To Feed 100,000 Youths Daily by Mccullum: 9:33pm On Apr 14, 2020
NwaNimo1:
This governor no sabee anything....

Yesterday you were locking down.....tomorrow you want to unlock the agbero's to go and feed whilst maintaining social distancing?

Confused puppet.......lets see tomorrows own.


[img]https://media./images/2bad1fa2625a76f4069aeffd7e2f93f5/tenor.gif[/img]
who is confused between you and him? criticizer, please let your criticism be constructive..
PoliticsRe: People That Will Feel The Additional 14 Days Lockdown By The President by Mccullum: 10:07pm On Apr 13, 2020
content208:
Nigeria doctors have healed 61 out of the 300+ corona virus cases with only 10 deaths.

Since the doctors are doing their jobs well, what are Chinese doctors doing in this country?

What Shaddy deal does Buhari have with China?

It's obvious they are not in Nigeria to treat patients; they must be here for something else, something else that buhari isn't telling us.

Between Nigeria and the United States, which country needs extra medial experts more? So, why didn't these Chinese so-called medical experts go to the United States or Italy? Why are they coming to Nigeria where the issue is not as pronounced?

If they love Nigeria this much, why then did their government try to intimidate and maltreat Nigerians in China? What is Buhari hiding?
Must you talk without facts except fictions?....... msheeeew
PoliticsRe: Dayo Razaq Lawal Was The Nigerian Who Retrieved Passports Of Nigerians In China by Mccullum: 7:54pm On Apr 11, 2020
The man full name is Dayo Rasaq Lawal, I love him for doing his job fantastically by protecting his co-patriots in China, Proudly Nigeria!
HealthRe: COVID-19: Another Patient Dies In Lagos by Mccullum: 1:12pm On Apr 11, 2020
Neoteny7:
Oh you're right. It's Jim Caviezel, that has-been who played jesus in Passion of the Christ.
even Christians around the world understood the truth on the image of an actor they were calling God, still impersonating him as their god, what an insult to Jesus himself.
HealthRe: COVID-19: Another Patient Dies In Lagos by Mccullum: 1:01pm On Apr 11, 2020
Neoteny7:
Here
This is not the picture of Jesus, it's a picture of an actor. wink
HealthRe: FG, Local Vehicle Manufacturing Companies Partner To Produce Ventilators by Mccullum: 8:12pm On Apr 10, 2020
That's the problem of Easterners that always beating their chests on any good news relating to one of them, what of the mentioning of other manufacturers that will also contributes in manufacturing of the ventilator in Nigeria, learn how to be humble by giving the thought that command respect from the people to enhance them praise you, not you that will be praising your self... huh wink
PoliticsRe: This Is How Food Items Are Distributed In Rwanda - Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala by Mccullum: 4:12pm On Apr 08, 2020
THIS IS NOT FACTS, IT IS FICTIONS

THIS WHAT RWANDA GOVT SHARING TO THEIR PEOPLE:

Ugandan Prime Minister Ruhakana Rugunda told parliament that the ministry of relief and disaster preparedness would provide food to the elderly, sick and commuter taxi drivers in the capital Kampala and central district of Wakiso.

He said the food parcels would consists of 6 kg of maize flour per head, 3 kg of beans per head and salt. Lactating mothers will get an additional 2 kg powdered milk and 2 kg of sugar.

HOW DOES THE PICTURE OF BAG OF FOODS NIGERIAN EX MINISTER OF FINANCE POSTED ON SOCIAL MEDIA CORRELATES WITH LITTLE 6KG OF MAIZE, 3KG OF BEANS AND 2KG OF POWDER MILK AND SUGAR ACCORDING TO THE STATEMENTS OF UGANDA PRIME MINISTER ABOVE.

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