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Is it every woman that will mean no she means to say yes?

@tnaidaR, what is my offence now?

The best thing that can happen to you now. I pray that God gives you a woman who will not call you by your real name. She should initialize the name and make it 'sweet'

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=40339.msg1002742#msg1002742 date=1175191379]Designplus, you've got to understand that some MEN actually know we're right and agree with us.
There is evil in the world because of the devil not because of women. Besides not all of us are seeds of Eve because as I understand it. If Eve was evil, that means everybody but Adam is evil as welllol, abi o[/quote]waoow!

emmeno:
Final Answer to this thread before we decide to end it,  You don't judge women by the words of FELA ok, because if any chick says sum nasty stuff about guys also betta be ready to Judge yourself.

Sounds a bit unclear. Could you be more explicit please?

moondust:
to a great extent true

Can you expantiate?

Jackal:
Fela had some rolls of weed before singing that song.
Why would anyone take a woman's NO for a YES?
Fela was not in his correct mental state when that song was produced, trust me.

Do you mean, the Afroking did not understand women enough to draw a conclusion on what affects them? C'mmon men, where are the apostles of the legend!

Just it takes same to meet one good lady out of a thousand and one!

Joey82:
perhaps never really had time to study them to draw such a controversial conclusion.

Is it true that you can live with someone for donkey years without understanding the person and 'her' behaviour?

ThiefOfHearts:
I'm quite weary of you festac people o, Mcdoe 

ThiefOfHearts, See me as very different guy! Know me and you get hooked for real.

Quote from iice " people generally are pretenders".

count me out! I don't say yes when I mean to say no.

quote from basetsana " may be your so called legend should say the women he knows"

But he had dozens of them. Was that not enough to understand them?

I think I will support some level of sanity in terms of fashion. We cannot continue to tolerate indiscipline, moral decadence as ways and part of fashion. Some ladies are actually going to the extreme. Their manner of dressing is as good as nudity.
Fashion means manner or style. It may be your manner of dress, the style of speech or the mode of dressing without necessarily compromising morality.
According to established emptiness and trifling nature , wise people look to substance of comfort and convenience and not to the shadow of fashion. Great men unconsciously set the fashion, fools blindly follow the fashion; but wise men/ladies make the best use of it.
It is enough of this provocative and seductive craze all in the name of fashion!

ThiefOfHearts:
more like Fortunately.

ThiefOfHearts, can i always meet you online, or better still on y-messenger for some personal discussions. my ID is aruadiohwo

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=63998.msg1263837#msg1263837 date=1183593217]Is there any girl who doesnt have more than one boy friend? Yeah
Do u know any girl who wouldnt lie to her boyfriend about who is dating? Yeah
Do u know any girl who has made sacrifice for her boy friend before? Yeah
Is there a girl who can befriend a guy who has no money? Yeah.[/quote]Always in the affirmative?

I had been wondering about the answers to these quetions. Would u please help me out?===========YES

Is there any girl who doesnt have more than one boy friend? ================================NEAR NONE
Do u know any girl who wouldnt lie to her boyfriend about who is dating? =======================YES, BUT DURING STONE AGE
Do u know any girl who has made sacrifice for her boy friend before?===========================YES, BUT WOULD WANT DOUBLE PAYBACK
Is there a girl who can befriend a guy who has no money? =   ===============================VERY fEW

Men, life has changed. What babes are concerned with these days is how they can maximize their benefits no matter the odds the guys are faced with in any relationship.

Ordinarily, nothing is wrong. But the fear that usually emanate is that every guy has turned a predator. Ladies are also willing to bulge in most cases.

Through what I would call "conflict resolution mechanism". It's strenght is usually derivable from your ability to communicate, give and take and be willing to forgive at all times.

Rememeber "Ebami Eda", the Afro Legend? You know that he had many wives. So in terms of women issues, he can be regarded as an authority. In one of his popular piece title 'Yellow Fever', he did say women will always mean the opposite of what they say when it comes sex-related matters; that they are great pretenders. According to him, "if a women says, i no wan do, she means i wan do". How true is this view/perception of women? This further resurfaced an issue which has been treated somewhat in this forum. Despite their (women) claim that they are not, can we take Fela's perception seriously?
Please let us be objective; and the ladies will do us a lot of good by their sincere responses. Thanks.

Because the exercise predates history

Unfortunately, I didn't grow up to see mine. But I call him Wise One posthumously.

ThiefOfHearts:
No his idiotic festac living arse should be banned from even being seen in public, talkless of heard. Go through his posts, all of them are like that are a severely retarded person which he obviously is

so i do sympathize with him because of his plight. 


david, get my message? 

Unfortunately, we haven't heard from designplus for a long time now. I hope he is hale, hearty and living?

PTH:
arab lands are flowing with mineral resources because they keep their women in bondage? 

That's what he says!

@ThiefOfHearts: Take it easy na. Does designplus not have the right to express himself. Anyway, he sounds achaic sha.

NOIBMUUL:
but she's the leader of the house

Of course sha; but is she supposed to represent us considering all the 'sharp' beautiful babes this country is endowed with?

designplus:
The truth is that, calling the husband by name may not really be a problem. But my concern is that, anytime an issue such as this thread's comes up, some rights agitators such as Nite-Angel and others usually capitalize on it to rob shoulders with men. I want to say here that any attempt to whittle down the decree passed on women/command on their rights since creation shall attract more woes to this world. I stand here to defend, give clear reasons why women should realize that men dictate the pulse of this world. For instance, the Arabs know where women belong and have placed them in such place. For this reason, their lands have been flowing with mineral resources. This is because they have not given women leadership a thought not to talk of trying it.

See another response from designplus

Whoever picked that naija babe to represent us has made the big blunder of the decade! Immagine the irritating appearance and the general conduct of the babe. Huuussh!

The credit should go to the NESG. They made this recommendation five years ago. But Soludo should be commended for his courage to accept what he had earlier refused to accept. The onus now is how practicable are some of these theories. For the fact that Ghana did it and got away it doesn't mean Nigeria can also get away with same. Remember, countries have their peculiarities. However, I wish the economic team of Alhaji Musa Yar'Adua the best of luck.

designplus:
j-girl, I can understand your grouse. May be you are the type the would want to'pocket' her hussy. You better imbibe the African culture. I am not against decent women fighting for good rights. However, such crusaders should take pains to school their colleagues well in order to avoid what i would like to call "overstepping''. We have decided to emulate the West in everything and ironically, this has failed to raise moral standards. No doubt, they are white and we are black in different continent and culture. If someone like J-girl hasn't got married and she needs a man for herself, I strongly advise you against demand for excessive rights. Same applies to married ones. STOP demanding for excessive rights by shunning this fight for equality

olanijim, & others, please read what one guy said earlier on this thread. How would u respond to this?

soulpatrol:
@Mcdoe. see me see trouble. that was just a play on words, didnt mean nothing by it. i was simply agreeing with what u said and fooling around with u. but anyways, seems u have a great sense of imagination. dream on o.

@soulpatrol: wetin come be my offence in this situation now?
anyway, u re worth falling in love for, so i dont care what "they" might say!

Those who died doing what they loved and believed are martyrs. Abiola and the wife are hereby remembered for their sacrifice for democracy in Nigeria. RESPECT!

ladydibia:
I really do appreciate what u all responded with, i know the guy very well but wasn't too sure and that was why i asked,but will really want to say a big thank you to both [b]crazykid and $$Rhino [/b] for giving mature respond, please keep it up.And please to the house whenever a question is raise handle it decently and in a mature way,because these things go a long way.Give advice like u will always do to your sisters and brothers,because i believe that is what we are.Once again i say thank u to u all.

ladydibia, I hope you will make good use of these both negative and positive advices?

It is possible but somewhat difficult too. This is because most of the posters are faceless