₦airaland Forum

PTH:
arab lands are flowing with mineral resources because they keep their women in bondage? 

That's what he says!

@ThiefOfHearts: Take it easy na. Does designplus not have the right to express himself. Anyway, he sounds achaic sha.

NOIBMUUL:
but she's the leader of the house

Of course sha; but is she supposed to represent us considering all the 'sharp' beautiful babes this country is endowed with?

designplus:
The truth is that, calling the husband by name may not really be a problem. But my concern is that, anytime an issue such as this thread's comes up, some rights agitators such as Nite-Angel and others usually capitalize on it to rob shoulders with men. I want to say here that any attempt to whittle down the decree passed on women/command on their rights since creation shall attract more woes to this world. I stand here to defend, give clear reasons why women should realize that men dictate the pulse of this world. For instance, the Arabs know where women belong and have placed them in such place. For this reason, their lands have been flowing with mineral resources. This is because they have not given women leadership a thought not to talk of trying it.

See another response from designplus

Whoever picked that naija babe to represent us has made the big blunder of the decade! Immagine the irritating appearance and the general conduct of the babe. Huuussh!

The credit should go to the NESG. They made this recommendation five years ago. But Soludo should be commended for his courage to accept what he had earlier refused to accept. The onus now is how practicable are some of these theories. For the fact that Ghana did it and got away it doesn't mean Nigeria can also get away with same. Remember, countries have their peculiarities. However, I wish the economic team of Alhaji Musa Yar'Adua the best of luck.

designplus:
j-girl, I can understand your grouse. May be you are the type the would want to'pocket' her hussy. You better imbibe the African culture. I am not against decent women fighting for good rights. However, such crusaders should take pains to school their colleagues well in order to avoid what i would like to call "overstepping''. We have decided to emulate the West in everything and ironically, this has failed to raise moral standards. No doubt, they are white and we are black in different continent and culture. If someone like J-girl hasn't got married and she needs a man for herself, I strongly advise you against demand for excessive rights. Same applies to married ones. STOP demanding for excessive rights by shunning this fight for equality

olanijim, & others, please read what one guy said earlier on this thread. How would u respond to this?

soulpatrol:
@Mcdoe. see me see trouble. that was just a play on words, didnt mean nothing by it. i was simply agreeing with what u said and fooling around with u. but anyways, seems u have a great sense of imagination. dream on o.

@soulpatrol: wetin come be my offence in this situation now?
anyway, u re worth falling in love for, so i dont care what "they" might say!

Those who died doing what they loved and believed are martyrs. Abiola and the wife are hereby remembered for their sacrifice for democracy in Nigeria. RESPECT!

ladydibia:
I really do appreciate what u all responded with, i know the guy very well but wasn't too sure and that was why i asked,but will really want to say a big thank you to both [b]crazykid and $$Rhino [/b] for giving mature respond, please keep it up.And please to the house whenever a question is raise handle it decently and in a mature way,because these things go a long way.Give advice like u will always do to your sisters and brothers,because i believe that is what we are.Once again i say thank u to u all.

ladydibia, I hope you will make good use of these both negative and positive advices?

It is possible but somewhat difficult too. This is because most of the posters are faceless

Sometimes, we terrorize to achieve, otherwise ask the Niger-Deltans. Cry out and be heard, men!

soulpatrol:
@ mcdoe. and u shall be called wonderful henceforth!

You are a nice babe! I wish you can throw more light on what thou mean'est'

It is the building blocks of any relationship. Infact, where trust and confidence is lost in any relationship, nothing worthwhile comes out as the entire union is bound to crack up. Therefore try as much you can to believe in one another even when distrust is trying to rear its head.

trendy:
whatever his name it, i will romantisize it 

Wonderful!

trendy:
Same reason you want a Nokia 6230 and do everything you want to get it
and when you have it , it does not seem appealing again,
now you want a nokia N series 

Can we therefore conclude that it is natural to explore the unknown in order to get satisfaction/fulfilment?

Thanks a lot olanijim. I am overwhelmed with your indept knowledge about this thread. So far so good: a lot of us have learnt so much from your contributions. God declares that he who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favour from the lord.
When two mature people begin dating each other with an eye towards marriage, they must consider many things such as:

What value does the other person hold?

Does he believe in in the union and God?

What is the person's background and and personal standards and values?

What are his preferences, dislikes, character and personality?

Will the person be a complimentary match? Can the person be loved and respectyed?

These considerations amongst others, should be the pivot on which further decisions should revolve.

By their fruits, ye shall know them!

katherinae:
y are people responding to this

, don't understand. Is it not worth it?

@ olanijim, are you a marriage counsellor or a psychologist? Love your stuffs, u know!

Or why so many men and women take to fun outside their matrimonial homes?

VictoriaO:
@Mc Doe
please what does that mean? please i really need answers because i am very confused

It is simply being watchful!

Because they want to be discern'ful'

Why do they say that marriage is not a bed of roses?

Because there is no other life than this. The more you conquer, the greater your satisfaction and fulfilment. Ok?

fawwyb:
Both soul and material provider, ok

Difficult to come by these days. I think material provider best defines love of these days.

k0be:
what the doritos are you talking about, you already know what the right thing to do is so do it. you don't need any encouragement from us.  If you pick up that phone and call that man we'd all be disappointed in you.

Don't be selfish, man. It is a matter of choice.

Try to run anytime you sight her also. This might make her feel the pains and disappointments in fleeing when one sees the person he or she knows not to talk of the one you love.

fawwyb:
THERE ARE ALOT OF DEFINATIONS OF LOVE BUT TO ME,  I DEFINE LOVE AS AN AFECTION TOWARDS A PROVIDER

PLEASE CAN I READ YOUR OWN DEFINATION OF LOVE??

Is it soul or material provider?

This is an hourly occurrence in Nigeria. If you doubt, visit Festac, Surulere, Apapa etc, etc.

showstopa:
marriag is for matured minds

How would you descibe a matured mind in this situation?

The best ways to truly descibe the daughters of Eve! nice piece, men.