₦airaland Forum

@LadyGodiva, u seem to make genuine point. however, I am just getting to know this sha

soulpatrol:
@lawuyi. thank you my person, some guys will be jubilating at that idea o! afterall, they want it old school now abi? back to the days when a woman wasn't of much value. it must really trip some guys o. hisssss!

You have a like-mind now; isn't it?

Seun:
I don't respect women who rely on bottom-power.  We men also have pepee power, but we conserve it!

That is it! In addition, I strongly dislike the lazy ones because they rely on BP.

faketan:
Well na you sabi O. But we still have such conservative guys abroad. not only in Nigeria you know.

No mind am. This thing na allover. infact, it is the trend it was taking that made some rights activists to come out
with they now call ''gender equality''.

Respect expected from a wife is a global thing and not necessarily in Nigeria alone. ThiefOfHearts, you know this na.

ThiefOfHearts:
What the hell was she calling him before they got married? Quit being such an ignorant slowpoke.
How do you compare the relationship of children to that of the wife? do you go to the children's father's house to take them away? Seriously what is wrong with you?

Actually I don't even want to know. I don't want to contact lunacy.


na your people be this o, osisi.

You ain't scream enough! For all I care, women must respect men. It is only then that power could shift.

ruescho:
I don't want to live anf die again and again but to get out of this vicious circle by the grace of god!

This is what we call resurrection, contrary to rebirth, what do u think?

Reincarnation excluded?

It's rather sad. In this jet age, a thing like this sounds old-fashioned. They should be prepared for the judgement day anyway.

Easybaby:
Yeah . . .women have Bottom power . . .

Can we take the above to mean that we cannot do without the ''thing''?

Is a pity sha. Immagine if the guy were to be your uncle.

Hi Nairanders, How true is the following statement:

"I've learnt that once a woman decides she wants something, never under-estimate her ability to get it".

faketan:
Your d*ick go bruise if you Bleep am

Never!

fatty27:
You guess what? These people are tapping into oyinbo man culture. They would later claim they are being kolonise. Civilization my foot!

You cannot be far from the truth. Bleep western civilization!

@awarun: We say these things without really taking into consideration our lifestyles(culture). Are u saying that a woman should look at her husband straight in the eyes and arrogantly call him by name. Why don't we allow children to also call their popsies by name just because we are rights agitators? Honestly, calling a husband by his 'raw' name without adding some sweetness to the name smacks of disrespect. We all know these things and should therefore not lie about them.

4 guys and one loving babe

When my journey on earth is accomplished and fulfilled with one thing in mind; assured heaven.

@ehieoo7, when would like to end your own

@lawuyi: Yea mon! Another die-hard apostle of equal rights. But sometimes easier said than to practicalize.

olanajim:
I think the real problem has to do with people who had been hurt in the past, rightly or wrongly, and had consequently decided to generalise. One rough encounter with a bad boy, they starts singing "all men are bad" anthem.

My brother, I agreed with you totally.

It has never been an entertainment. To me, this is a show that is not only debasing women and even men, but an extreme of immorality depicted in a show that does not educate, inform and entertain. It is the latest form of porn! Where is the National Broadcasting Commission?

jkpretty:
Its a dual situation

Men r bad
Women r bad

but make it, some men r bad & some women r bad

As rare as they are, people like you help shape the world with truth. You are damned right, baby.

one funny thing is that, posts like this is usually an avenue for the unmarried guys to vent their anger towards the married. Today they will be the ones to speak against extra-maritals but when they are finally married, they indulge in the same act they earlier kicked against. What a jealous world!

Leave home for a while and when coming back, buy somethging nice for your spouse.

ThiefOfHearts:
Get off the damn computer if "western things" are oh soooo horrible. Gosh.

Calling you some dumb pet name doesnt mean i respect you. How hard is that to understand?

We take the good and do away with the bad and corrupt!
ThiefOfHearts, I love your consistency. But this time, please call a spade a spade.

Protect your own mamaput. As far as she is still under your roof, she has no absolute freedom. She either obey you or choose the way that pleases her; but then, she would have made up her mind to leave your "bunk". Period. Therefore, the issue of over-reaction shouldn't arise at all

ThiefOfHearts:
I was expecting to see that since page 1. Climie.

Bunch of  bloody idiots these people are, I swear.

ThiefOfHearts, what meanest thou by this? You fail to realize that in marriage, the woman is the person that can make it work. These little things a woman does, call it respect, go a long way to cement the union. Unwise ladies often make vain attempts to follow wild western styles and forget that it is respect for the husband that ensures successful marriage. If you doubt this, slap your husband just like the western babe and see the consequences.

ClimieNH89:
I am still waiting for someone to say:

"There is a high rate of divorce in the west because wives call their husbands by their name".

Come on guys, don't make we wait longer.

I refuse to believe you have become so intelligent all of a sudden! 

Of course, there is high rate of divorce over there compared to what is obtained here in Nigeria. Such might not be unconnected their so-called ''open eye''. Is that what we want to achieve by imitating them?

My creed is Be Thyself. Ethical value is Being Closer to God while my ideology is that the obstacles and desires of life are clues to one's purpose in life