₦airaland Forum

olanajim:
I think the real problem has to do with people who had been hurt in the past, rightly or wrongly, and had consequently decided to generalise. One rough encounter with a bad boy, they starts singing "all men are bad" anthem.

My brother, I agreed with you totally.

It has never been an entertainment. To me, this is a show that is not only debasing women and even men, but an extreme of immorality depicted in a show that does not educate, inform and entertain. It is the latest form of porn! Where is the National Broadcasting Commission?

jkpretty:
Its a dual situation

Men r bad
Women r bad

but make it, some men r bad & some women r bad

As rare as they are, people like you help shape the world with truth. You are damned right, baby.

one funny thing is that, posts like this is usually an avenue for the unmarried guys to vent their anger towards the married. Today they will be the ones to speak against extra-maritals but when they are finally married, they indulge in the same act they earlier kicked against. What a jealous world!

Leave home for a while and when coming back, buy somethging nice for your spouse.

ThiefOfHearts:
Get off the damn computer if "western things" are oh soooo horrible. Gosh.

Calling you some dumb pet name doesnt mean i respect you. How hard is that to understand?

We take the good and do away with the bad and corrupt!
ThiefOfHearts, I love your consistency. But this time, please call a spade a spade.

Protect your own mamaput. As far as she is still under your roof, she has no absolute freedom. She either obey you or choose the way that pleases her; but then, she would have made up her mind to leave your "bunk". Period. Therefore, the issue of over-reaction shouldn't arise at all

ThiefOfHearts:
I was expecting to see that since page 1. Climie.

Bunch of  bloody idiots these people are, I swear.

ThiefOfHearts, what meanest thou by this? You fail to realize that in marriage, the woman is the person that can make it work. These little things a woman does, call it respect, go a long way to cement the union. Unwise ladies often make vain attempts to follow wild western styles and forget that it is respect for the husband that ensures successful marriage. If you doubt this, slap your husband just like the western babe and see the consequences.

ClimieNH89:
I am still waiting for someone to say:

"There is a high rate of divorce in the west because wives call their husbands by their name".

Come on guys, don't make we wait longer.

I refuse to believe you have become so intelligent all of a sudden! 

Of course, there is high rate of divorce over there compared to what is obtained here in Nigeria. Such might not be unconnected their so-called ''open eye''. Is that what we want to achieve by imitating them?

My creed is Be Thyself. Ethical value is Being Closer to God while my ideology is that the obstacles and desires of life are clues to one's purpose in life

Is it every woman that will mean no she means to say yes?

@tnaidaR, what is my offence now?

The best thing that can happen to you now. I pray that God gives you a woman who will not call you by your real name. She should initialize the name and make it 'sweet'

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=40339.msg1002742#msg1002742 date=1175191379]Designplus, you've got to understand that some MEN actually know we're right and agree with us.
There is evil in the world because of the devil not because of women. Besides not all of us are seeds of Eve because as I understand it. If Eve was evil, that means everybody but Adam is evil as welllol, abi o[/quote]waoow!

emmeno:
Final Answer to this thread before we decide to end it,  You don't judge women by the words of FELA ok, because if any chick says sum nasty stuff about guys also betta be ready to Judge yourself.

Sounds a bit unclear. Could you be more explicit please?

moondust:
to a great extent true

Can you expantiate?

Jackal:
Fela had some rolls of weed before singing that song.
Why would anyone take a woman's NO for a YES?
Fela was not in his correct mental state when that song was produced, trust me.

Do you mean, the Afroking did not understand women enough to draw a conclusion on what affects them? C'mmon men, where are the apostles of the legend!

Just it takes same to meet one good lady out of a thousand and one!

Joey82:
perhaps never really had time to study them to draw such a controversial conclusion.

Is it true that you can live with someone for donkey years without understanding the person and 'her' behaviour?

ThiefOfHearts:
I'm quite weary of you festac people o, Mcdoe 

ThiefOfHearts, See me as very different guy! Know me and you get hooked for real.

Quote from iice " people generally are pretenders".

count me out! I don't say yes when I mean to say no.

quote from basetsana " may be your so called legend should say the women he knows"

But he had dozens of them. Was that not enough to understand them?

I think I will support some level of sanity in terms of fashion. We cannot continue to tolerate indiscipline, moral decadence as ways and part of fashion. Some ladies are actually going to the extreme. Their manner of dressing is as good as nudity.
Fashion means manner or style. It may be your manner of dress, the style of speech or the mode of dressing without necessarily compromising morality.
According to established emptiness and trifling nature , wise people look to substance of comfort and convenience and not to the shadow of fashion. Great men unconsciously set the fashion, fools blindly follow the fashion; but wise men/ladies make the best use of it.
It is enough of this provocative and seductive craze all in the name of fashion!

ThiefOfHearts:
more like Fortunately.

ThiefOfHearts, can i always meet you online, or better still on y-messenger for some personal discussions. my ID is aruadiohwo

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=63998.msg1263837#msg1263837 date=1183593217]Is there any girl who doesnt have more than one boy friend? Yeah
Do u know any girl who wouldnt lie to her boyfriend about who is dating? Yeah
Do u know any girl who has made sacrifice for her boy friend before? Yeah
Is there a girl who can befriend a guy who has no money? Yeah.[/quote]Always in the affirmative?

I had been wondering about the answers to these quetions. Would u please help me out?===========YES

Is there any girl who doesnt have more than one boy friend? ================================NEAR NONE
Do u know any girl who wouldnt lie to her boyfriend about who is dating? =======================YES, BUT DURING STONE AGE
Do u know any girl who has made sacrifice for her boy friend before?===========================YES, BUT WOULD WANT DOUBLE PAYBACK
Is there a girl who can befriend a guy who has no money? =   ===============================VERY fEW

Men, life has changed. What babes are concerned with these days is how they can maximize their benefits no matter the odds the guys are faced with in any relationship.

Ordinarily, nothing is wrong. But the fear that usually emanate is that every guy has turned a predator. Ladies are also willing to bulge in most cases.

Through what I would call "conflict resolution mechanism". It's strenght is usually derivable from your ability to communicate, give and take and be willing to forgive at all times.

Rememeber "Ebami Eda", the Afro Legend? You know that he had many wives. So in terms of women issues, he can be regarded as an authority. In one of his popular piece title 'Yellow Fever', he did say women will always mean the opposite of what they say when it comes sex-related matters; that they are great pretenders. According to him, "if a women says, i no wan do, she means i wan do". How true is this view/perception of women? This further resurfaced an issue which has been treated somewhat in this forum. Despite their (women) claim that they are not, can we take Fela's perception seriously?
Please let us be objective; and the ladies will do us a lot of good by their sincere responses. Thanks.

Because the exercise predates history

Unfortunately, I didn't grow up to see mine. But I call him Wise One posthumously.

ThiefOfHearts:
No his idiotic festac living arse should be banned from even being seen in public, talkless of heard. Go through his posts, all of them are like that are a severely retarded person which he obviously is

so i do sympathize with him because of his plight. 


david, get my message? 

Unfortunately, we haven't heard from designplus for a long time now. I hope he is hale, hearty and living?