₦airaland Forum

7 years is ok but anything beyond that may create old age complex

It should be within acceptable gap to both parties. However, it shouldn't be more than 7 years unless the babe is the "second-hand" type.

Our greatest problem is our pride and sense of judgement. For instasnce, before any major match that involves us and any other country, we had already assumed a win for ourselves without considering that there is no such word like 'minor' anymore as far as the round leather game is concern. These attitudes tend to slow down our preparations cum performance. Regrettably, we have failed to always learn. I think we should be more focused on preparations and be determined to win whenever there was a match between Nigeria and any other country. In any case, the Super Eagles have disappointed Nigerians particularly sports lovers.

All the contributions are wonderful. On my experience, something of that nature occured. But thank God, I was able to resist it; but kept it to my self in order not to cause embarrassment. The rest is history now.

My friend, nairaland is noted for correct information. Ch facts before making any post. Almost all the banks you mentioned are wrong

There is nothing like elope. All righteousness must be fulfilled.

To me, the Igbos have contributed so much to the development of Lagos especially in the area of commerce. I believe they deserve some level of recognition. The Lagos State Governor has realized this and that was why an Igbo son is appointed to the State cabinet. One thing is clear; Governor Fashola is a very reasonable person. therefore one cannot just advance blames for this action. I am sure something cogent must have informed this decision. I can only advise the governor to look at the move critically as it relates to the constitution and Nigerians' rights to assembly. But in all sincerity we ought to kill this tribal dichotomy. As someone from Delta State, i am sometimes pained and if I had my way, the first thing I would have done about this tribal discrimination was to go to Maryland in Ikeja. If you ask me for what; to pull down that statue in which only the major three ethnic tribes are seen carrying Nigeria afterall, Ibo, Hausa, and Yoruba alone does not make Nigeria. Let us see "Us" as Nigerians

Whoever is not proud of his colour is not fit to live. Tradition marriage predates history. It is a way of showing appreciation to parents of a wife to be. It is worth it. It is good and should be continously practiced. Even God sees it as the real solemnization and not the so-called white one which sometimes undermine the consent of parents and indirectly exposing both the guy and the babe to fornication in the sight of the Creator.

Do you know the problem with most of you who responded to this post? It is your inability to undestand what taste and culture is. In any case, indomie can never be the best. I have tried most of them but none is as good as Mimi Noodles. It is rich in nutrients. However, it is still not the best too.

This is nice but I don't have full control of my time. Still considering available options anyway

In Naija, the concept of cheap labour is now deep-rooted. People are poorly motivated and that's the reason why results are also poor. For instance, I work in an indigenous oil coy, and it's like being exploited. Peanuts men; salary ranges from 40-60k per a month. Bullshit of course!

Simply signs of the end-time, and it is only unfortunate that the stupid pastor allowed himself to be a victim.

Larry O:
That's the last thing I'll do on this earth, call by hubby baba supo or brother sule? over my dead body, even if he is twenty years my senior . The respect will always be there for him, no matter what name I choose to call him. Actually, I have several pet names for my hubby , bedroom own is different, telephone own is another one and also another and special one for public.

By the time you start callg your man brother or baba sule, that means the cordiality that's suppose to be there will be reduced.

So, call him by his name or give him nice and personal pet names ^{not all these common ones} and enjoy the bliss.

I would like to hear the bedroom and telephone names. One could learn something from them

mip:
what was i calling him before we got married was it baba lekan or baba bisi lailai i will not call my husband all that i will rather give him a pet name that will be used by me alone

My dear, the dynamics of marriage sometimes alter our plans after tying the 'nuptial' What do you think?

Hmm:
Let me paint the ironies for you

a) Most campus babes have dated a married man as one of their runs. (REASON: GREED FOR MONEY)
b) Most campus boys are upset that their campus babes are dating married men and cann't understand what they see in them when they are single and available. (REASON: FEELING LEFT OUT)
c) These campus babes eventually get married and start hating babes who date married men conveniently forgetting they once did the same thing. (REASON: FEAR OF LOSING THEIR MAN)
d) The campus boys eventually get married and start running after single girls forgetting what they had criticised when they were younger. (REASON: SELFISH INTEREST)

It is a vicious circle based on selfish reasons, and it would go on till the end of time. My advise do what pleases you as you can't change the world

That is the word! Selfishness. Come to think of it, how many of these guys/babes can stick to one when not married.

Veracious:
You gotta be kidding me,right?

_{***oh i love this tread***}

What a spontaneous reaction! Truly natural and pure, if I may add

Seun, It is highly advisable to circumcize the male child both on traditional and on health grounds. Remember, one man's misfortunes cannot be used for generalization.
consider the circumcized and the un-circumcized

moladun:
hmm in the yorubas culture, u had not  to calls your husbands by her names,  me i am call my husband baba sule,  because the nemes of my 1st borns is sule

what a wonderful w-o-r-l-d !

I really do not know the kind of world we are living in. A world that is full of greed, covetousness, jealousy, selfishness among other wicked and terrible vices. I pray that he (Tuface) recovers and quickly too. But if the contrary, we his fans are happier that he's stamped his feet on the sands of time; and i can assure you that those behind his travails shall be brought to book by the forces of Karma. Amen