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Having apologized and same accepted on behalf nairaland babes, the issue raised by nuxereg calls for real discussions. There is no doubt that it is one out of hundred babes that like discussing politics, why? May be there is a sort of general feeling amongst majority of babes that politics is still a dirty game; what do you think?

Though belated, it is better than not saying anything in the face of these unpopular decisions by government. At least, this can put Yar'Adua, who now in the saddle, on his toes.

uchetobi:
Not all ladies are. But even the guys how mwny of them are real?

Uchetobi, but guys will always hit the nail on the head. In other words, they don't hide their feelings towards any damsel, Is it a lie?

osteen, I hope you are not insinuating that he is the only one that can fight corruption in Nigeria

j-girl, don't u think something solid could still emanate from such staying together? Afterall, there is this saying that 'once there, you can always be there again'. what is your view(s)

clemnegro:
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so what i'm trying 2 say is of course girls are pretenders. Although if they weren't, your relationship would b boring.

Are you now saying that pretence makes the game sweeter, umm, interesting?

When you are the only one calling her, sending text messages. Hell bent on making you go bankrupt due to unnecessary demands.

One thing is key; the world is changing! Take the leap if it is to your advantage and does not hurt anyone. It is a free world.

viee:
remaining friends with your ex depends on two very important factors

how the rlship ended
how matured both of u are

the second is the most important bc  some of us can be really swallow in our views
such people are beta kept at an arms lenght

i love to make and keep friends but sometimes, it pays to keep away from some people
even ex!

I love to quote good contributions. The end of the relationship, to a large extent, determines ones position.

[quote author=cute-ass link=topic=62667.msg1245387#msg1245387 date=1183022550]Well well well, from all indications and expressions, you're good at written english, your problem is the oral part.

I suggest you induldge more in novels, and private practise. Atimes while reading the novels, read them out loud to yourself. It might be some esteem problem or that you know what to say, but your nervousness to make mistakes is what is drawing you back.

So i say "practise makes perfect", be more confident in yourself . . and dearie I'm not giving you these points oo, to think "yea yea", i challenge and expect you to put them into action oo.

As sad as it makes you, use that same effort to make a different, you got it in you, you juat have to prove you're up to the task.

Like i said, read lotsa novels, practise to yourself, and be bold to express it . . you can do this hun!! [/quote]That was straight to the point. In addition, endeavour to get stuffs like 'how to communicate effectively in English' and other books that could school you on the effective use of English. Practice they say makes perfect.
You should also be all ears to corrections.

Most guys do say that  babes are great pretenders. They are also of the view that romantically, when babes say no, they mean yes. Is this true?
A guy recently told me that there was this babe he was pestering to date him but each move he made, the babe had initially rebuffed all his offers; and that to his "pleasant surprise" the babe later succumbed to his pressure. That on one special outing with her, she openly confessed that all the while, she's enjoying the guy's moves but was only pretending. The puzzle now is, how do you know if a lady is interested in your advances considering the fact that most ladies are pretenders? I repeat, are ladies really pretenders?[color=#550000][/color]

The man Ribadu is now fond of rhetorics, full of himself and above all, partial. Infact, he has outlived his usefulness. What we need now is a new blood that can generate results as far as fighting corruption is concerned. We need a person full of energy and not the frail looking and noisy dudes like Mallam, maybe Alhaji Ribadu.

mubowa:
nobody want to be a friend to some body who does not have any friend because we don't know why in heaven or on earth will a living being not have a single friend. to tell u the truth, that is a big pro. advice, i know of a person who can be friend to anybody, guess who? JESUS. he can always be your friend. and for the cute part, maybe u need anothe picture because this aint that cute

That said it all!

The advise here is not against wearing trousers but the attendant deceptions it creates in the minds of guys.

Let's "have a drink" could mean 'to be more intimate'. Wanting to know more about a person. However, the literary understanding could apply too, that is, just taking a drink for leisure. So it all depends on  the individual who is asking for it; what such a person has in mind, to a large extent, determines the meaning.

There is nothing wrong in her advances. It's just that she should have waited for sometime to allow her husband to be buried. One thing i know about women is that, once in love, they can hardly control their feelings.

There is nothing fantastic about her marriage; afterall she has "offloaded" before.

nurexg:
@McDoe ,
Why, have ever been in Love?

Dozens of times. Being in love does not make u to be irrational except you allowed yourself to be. Your case is that of incense which is not only against all known natural laws but also morally defficient. Stay away my brother.

Just be prepared to face the consequences in no distant future, otherwise, I advise you stopped seeing her right away.

Tolu is highly insultive and should be condemned. We should not allow the so-called  western civilization erase our moral values. Agreed, some fathers might be high-handed, but it is not enough for a child to resort to the use of invectives on his dad. I am beginning to wonder on the views of most Nairaland users. They are continously being negative in their contributions.
The truth is that if our fathers were exposed to some of the technology of today, they would have been genius. It is a fact that, inspite of the harsh terrain and difficulties they undergone, they persevere, remain focused and highly determined. So we should accept whenever they told us of their performances during their schools days. No matter what, such stories should be viewed as inspirational rather than insinuating negativity as we have seen in most posts here.
As far as I am concerned, Tolu stands condemned, and should be told to his nose.

Unless the babe is not beautiful, otherwise it is easier said than done.

If she is confirmed a chronic and diabolical liar, then she is not worth the relationship. This is because the pride of a woman lies in her honour and sense of shame

Pretence is key in the life of most ladies and as a result, every effort to woo them would need a little push. However too much pressure tantamount pestering. Exert the pressure when the need arises but dont allow your emotions to becloud your sense of sound logic.

What the guy is doing is nothing short of pretence.  For sure, he cannot snuff life off himself. How on earth can a guy date a babe of such standing (graduate) without spending for her yet he wants to have her around him. Advise your sister to do away with the avoidable "aradite" and move on.

Eradicating marriage will result in confusion and total breakdown of morals. The institution, no matter what, still commands respect and esteem of the highest order

No descrimination or favouritism; I love both. I also urge you to do same

oreofemi, wetin I do you. Just respond to my advances na. You are too beautiful for me to leave. Can't think of it. Pls I am waitiiiinnng.

oreofemi:
My aim is that i don't have a boyfriend ,but am not looking for one ,maybe i can get one in this place.

Don't look no further. I am the right guy. I love beautiful babes. Since I found you in this forum, my heart has been making me jigi jigi. I would love to meet you on planet O ; know what I mean?

There are situations in which the woman would choose the husband. She might also choose the child in other situations. It all depends on relationship that exists btween the husband and the wife. But all things being equal, the wife is likely to be closer to her hussy