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Dnt make it sound like bein single is a taboo

To be honest op, av forgotten if i even had a new year resolution at d beginnin of dis year. They're not easy to keep to you know

Bro dis ur post is long oh. I bin dey read am b4 but i stop when i see say e long. No vex. Yes, space is gud. Which is why if am gona get married, i'd luv to av a separate bedroom to myself alone

quin debbie: Hi nairalanderz am realy bored and lonely,I need friends dat re intrestin 2 chat with 2 add me. 26a050b1.tanx

go play tenteh

texanomaly: So after your wife has a child you won't be turned on by her anymore?

yes he won't. Neither would i

dasparrow: Its perfectly okay. It is better not to get married than get married due to societal expectations and then end up perpetually miserable. Most Nigerians know NOTHING about marriage. They marry just to procreate like rats. Many cannot even adequately provide for the children they birthed and that is why we are beginning to read of some adult Nigerians using their selfish parents for rituals so that they the adult children can get out of the perpetual cycle of poverty that their parents put them in by bringing them into this world when they the parents know they come from a dysfunctional 3rd world country like Nigeria where nothing works and where basic amenities like light and water are still not easily and readily available.

Look at the youths of today. Many are touts, cultists, kidnappers, drug traffickers, scammers and the likes. And tomorrow they too will marry and have children that will not become upright citizens of our world once they reach adulthood. Anyone who cannot deal with marriage should not be pressured into it. Imagine living the rest of your life with some stranger you met along the way. If they change and become evil, you are stuck in the union because Nigerians frown at divorce. So either way, you can't win when it comes to Nigerians because our people are toxic oppressors and have an unhealthy obsession with marriage instead of them to be obsessed with good leadership and deal mercilessly with corrupt looting politicians so that our country Nigeria will not sink like a ship.

U've made some really good points

Danhumprey: But he should know that his forefathers' name would be cut-off forever when his Dad and he himself die and cross to the great beyond.

but his dad's has brothers who av children. They all bear the same surname, so i dnt see how the name wuld be wiped off. If datz wat u mean

Chinwem: How do you know you don't like it when you haven't even tried it?

one dozn't need to try it b4 comin to a conclusion. Pple learn from pple's mistakes u knw

homesteady: Does he want to give his parent heart-attack?

which one be heart attack again na? Lolz

[quote author=tpia@]Its not necessarily mandatory.

Is he gay?[/quote]nah, he's very much straiqht

Ogegod87: No. On what grounds?

he dozn't like marriage

emilyone: its not ok, every body deserves to be married and have an offspring.

u sound lyk u're makin the decision for evry1 to get married. Some pple myt not jux lyk marriage u know

Cikoloko: Op watz ur own view about it?

my own view is dat evry1 has their life to live. If he is sure of the decision, then i tink he's good to go. The only thinq i see there as a problem is 'stiqma' and where the stand of the parents lie

Is it okay for an only child (male) to decide not gettin married?

Is it okay for an only child (male) to decide not gettin married? Na question i ask oh

ozor1: OK.noted..we need osaze in the team..like if you think I'm correct

We don't

NL guys be like

Harbosede02: Op,aw old r u??

what does that have to do with anything?

what is your take on some1 who cant av sex bcuz he/she is too shy to go naked in front of some1?? It'll go a long way to help some pple

[quote author=Marc-us]Realest me.[/quote]u're dope bro, thumbs up. Nice pic. I actually meant u're d.o.p.e. NL and their censorin Poo

fruityjojo: PHOTOSHOP! I dun belive dis pishur at all

hehe....just anoda way of sayin u're crushin on him