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MrBrownJay1:
bro, these are examples i am giving you....the list is endless as to why a GOOD woman by your side is bettER.



again, i am talking of GOOD women, not emotionally blackmailing stressful enemies you call mate.... and YES, many menare married to DONKEYS for the wrong reasons and get emotionally blackmail. finding a good woman to be with is NOT easy, but that certainly shouldnt be a reason to settle with either useless women and/or give up on women, does it?



people who talk like you do are only confirming ONE thing... and that is that you have never been happy, because if you had, you would understand that it was ALWAYS right there inside you, thus being my issue on becoming the better version of your happy self (which only a GOOD/RIGHT woman can bring out of you). now, if you think that a better car, a fatter bank account will bring you that reward, i suggest you change your mind quickly, because you will always chase a bigger toys... aka you are never really happy.



and how is sharing these happy moments with a GOOD woman wrong?! d you really think that you can do these hobbies 24hrs/day for 365days/yr without taking a rest? or do you think that having a good woman by your side will stop you from enjoying your hobbies?! lol, life is NOT short, life is LOOOOONG. you could be here till you are 100yrs old, like many do....why would you even think that life was short?!?!?

MrBrownJay1:
bro again, you should NEVER give up on women, unless you are ready to turn gay. it has been confirmed TIMEs and TIMES again that you are better off with having a mate by your side to share life, share issues, share worries, share the good AND bad, the beautiful AND the ugly.... because if not, then you take over everything, and this will bring more stress/worries etc

if you have NOBODY to openly talk to after a long stressful day, nobody to "open up" to and let you emotions out (aka clear your mind), nobody to enjoy the good life with (but useless ashewos and goldiggers) then guess what? you are simply on a lost cause, and no wonder so many Nigerian men are bitter miserable in life. a "good" woman by your side is your support system, your sanity... we ALL do need one (even though many of you will be quick to act like tough guys outside).

why be on e your own when you could share your happiness with a proper woman? so you are going to be happy by yourself? just look at the ceiling and be happy? so you dont want to share this happiness with someone you LOVE/CARE for?! someone with whom you can relate and be "one" (unmarried o)? someone who will bare you beautiful kids, and have a family?!?

how many fancy clothes, gadgets, cars AND homes you think you need before you realise that you are just lonely without a good woman by your side?!?

MrBrownJay1:
bro, thats why i said you MUST meet the "right" woman in your life...she is out there! so keep looking and NEVER give up on women, because guess what?!if you do give up, then you have to settle for them liabilities out there that are left.

MrBrownJay1:
NOOOOO, i am saying that anyone can be happy by themselves, but any smart man knows that you will be HAPPIER with a good woman by your side.

here is a clue: a good woman will A) be here to comfort you when you are down B) bring you up when you are down C) be there FOR/WITH you to share your burden and alleviate your sorrow D) put a smile on your face when you have nothing to smile about E) bring warmth in your heart when you are dead cold... now remember, you dont have to be married to this woman, but you sure should have one of this type of womanby your side in life, because guess what? thats the only one that would be able to let you attain the BETTER version of yourself.... because sadly, alone you can NEVER achieve that.

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!

men like the OP are the ones who end up being miserable in life, then when they turn 45 and single, they will run back to their village to wed some clueless babe who will show him 5 times more pepper than the ones he is so hell bent on avoiding today. sadly, when men evaluate r/ship upon what they see these broken women out there do, no wonder they write such above nonsense!

as much as many women out there are a liability, that certainly does NOT mean we should all decide to be single, and instead, it should be the reason for you to seek the gems out there.

here is a clue: ANY MAN who thinks he can be happy without the need of a woman by his side, his either "gay" or very deluded.

naija01:
I can imagine how awkward to see a nigerian celebrating Argentina win.

funkyjms:
One Madrid fanatic made me laugh my ass out where I watched there match, same for those sitted beside me.

He related almost everything with Barcelona! There was a time the ref was kinda making wrong calls, naso my guys say he knows that ref for Laliga, that he's always favouring Barca...
When Portugal were leading, naso my guy dey shout Messi cannot cannot score two against Degea....everybody just dey laugh
Even said, the penalty caused by Nacho was Pique's fault, that he was suppose to man CR7
When Spain were leading, naso my guy stylishly change topic....say if not for Madrid players on pitch, Spain won't be leading. When we remind him Sergio B. provided the assists, the guy say na luck!!!
What made it more funny is that the guy took it sooo personal; one guy tapped him when Spain equalised, naso my guy wan vex wan start fight.... everybody just burst dey laugh
When scored the freeekick, naso the guy jump ontop chair dey shout up Madrid up Ororo....he was lucky his handf touched the motor of the ceiling fan and not the blade...

LordAdamX:
What a game of football.

GOAT masterclass. Iniesta, Isco, Busquets, and Costa were a joy to watch. Spanish football is just special...

-Lord

Miremoses1:
but no sane coach will start kepa when you have a f##king World class gk like de Gea. Today wasn't just his day.

Lana1:
Thank God its not left to you. In fact Thank God no one knows who you are

Miremoses1:
that wasn't de gea

usbcable:
Our?

MoR2:

you supporting Spain?

hopefulLandlord:
Antonio Conte signed for Chelsea before Euros too but that didn't stop Italy performing well

Miremoses1:
seems all the real Madrid players from Spain made the list.

madrid5:
conte is a real mechanic coach with the whole 3-5-2 shot, he can't play target man under conte,just imagine Jesus or firmino playing under this Chelsea systems

usbcable:
If only he stayed back in Real madrid he would likely have made the squad.

Simply because he would have been the defacto replacement/substitutions for Benzema in all matches.

What he went chasing after in London was lost in transit.

Patience at times pays

Xavi's emotional letter to Andres Iniesta.


I still remember the first time I saw Andres play.
I was in the youth team and he was in the underage
group and somebody in the club told me 'Xavi, there's
a boy down there who's going to be the best, there is
him and another, Troiteiro, who is like Mario Rosas
and Andres is a lot like you.'


When I saw him play, I said to myself, 'What's going
on, this guy doesn't look like me as much as they say,
he's different'.
This player had more creativity, he was a better
dribbler and could go to the wide areas and cross the
ball.
That was very different to my style because I played
as a four, much more positional like Pep in his time or
Busquets now.


He could play as a four, eight, six or even a 10, and
as a young player he looked like an absolute master
because of the way he positioned his body before
receiving the ball.
He used both feet to play, something that seems
normal now but was revolutionary at that time, he
could control the ball with his right leg whilst his next
move was executed with his left.


What surprised me about him the most was that he
could manipulate the ball with his body, without even
needing to touch it.
You watched him play and it was a show.
It seemed as though he could listen to your thoughts
and it was so natural that he didn't even think about it.
Andres always played with his head up, he never lost
possession.


That was a concept we had been working on with
Joan Vila for years, but it was natural for him. I often
used to think 'f**k, he's four years younger than us,
but he's got an innate talent.'
Andres is, for me, the most talented player in the
history of Spanish football that I've seen. He's
spectacularly talented.


If we talk about him as a person then it's ridiculous,
he's admirable in every single way.
He's exemplary, empathetic, a team player, a winner
and a leader on the pitch, he always wants the ball.
Do people realise just what that means? Where many
players don't want the ball because it's a difficult
situation, Andres always asked for it.


Andres loved the ball and when others thought 'no, no
please don't give it to me.' Andres would come and
say 'Come on, give it to me, give it to me now,
please.'
That's a blessing for his teammates, that's what having
personality is, that's being a true leader.
A silent leader, perhaps, but an authentic one
nevertheless.


I have been a passer of the ball all my life, but I
needed players like Andres, Leo and Busi.
You have been the best partners that I've ever had.
They always gave you an option, no matter how bleak
the picture was. I don't know how, but Andres always
showed up at just the right moment.
We didn't need to talk on the pitch, he didn't tell me
where he was with words, I just knew.
We understood each other after playing together for more than a decade, it wasn't necessary to
communicate.


His body language was the best form of
communication, sometimes during matches we would
watch and wonder just how he did things, he could be
in an impossible corner but would always escape. It
was impossible!
It seems as though nothing was impossible for him
when he was playing football, he would weave, pass
and accelerate with a near perfect balance.
He was as happy in midfield as he was on the wing,
he is a teacher, a true teacher.


Furthermore, people had this idea that Andres wasn't
strong.
They thought he was too little, frail and flimsy.
This was incorrect, when he used his body, defenders
couldn't take the ball. He was strong, really strong,
just look at the number of matches he played in his
career.


In the end, his mentality is key, he's been so strong in
the bad times, even those which people don't know
about.
He had a hard time living away from his family, and
now if you were to ask him, he'd say such a sacrifice
was worthwhile.


Who knew it would end like this? Nobody could
guarantee it, that's what made it so hard and it was
such a long road for him, the normal outcome would
have been to fail, but his mentality was so strong that
it carried him to this position today.


Andres is a person who has their own angel, don't ask
me how or why, but he just has it. He's like Iker
Casillas.
The rest of us just don't have it, but they do because
at the right moment they are able to make the winning
goal or the crucial save.


We have lived with Andres during our time with
Barcelona and the Spanish national team.
We remember Stamford Bridge and Johannesburg,
just look what happened at the World Cup, and if you
have the time then you should go and re-watch that
match, and not just the goal.
You will realise what Andres really did.


People may ask why it was Andres who scored the
goal, it couldn't have been anyone else, it could only
be someone with an angel. That's Andres.
I also remember those who said we couldn't play
together.
This is Barcelona, a club full of debates, but I felt bad
for him because I always said that I need people who
understand me.


I understand my own style when alongside players
with technical quality rather than physical presence.
Of course, strong players are important, but look at
Andres, Leo and Busi. I hated those debates in which
people said Barca needed muscle, what are you
talking about?
The most important muscle to play football is the
brain, as Johan Cruyff said.


We're both very quiet and that's why I'm in tune with
Andres, we both like to be silent and impose
ourselves on the pitch.
If the club sign three new players then perfect, I'm
going to show those mother f**kers that I will
compete with them even if they cost 250 million
pesetas, I'm going to prove that I can be a Barcelona
player.


This is the exact mentality that Andres had when he
was young, that Busquets had when he was battling
for Yaya Toure's place.
Anyone who doesn't think like this won't make it.
There are two options: fight and claw like we all did
or fall into disillusion thinking you'll never get a
chance.


I remember, for example, what happened to him just
before the World Cup in South Africa; we were
training in the sports city when all of sudden we heard
Carles Puyol shout 'Noooooooo' and I didn't realise
what had happened but when I turned I saw him
leaving the pitch in tears.


He'd only just recovered from an injury and now
another had arrived.
There were doubts that he'd even make the World
Cup, but he ended up doing so because of that
aforementioned strong mentality.
I'll never forget the discussion in the Monaco dressing
room after the UEFA Super Cup that we won with
Pedro's goal.


'Andres, we need you, here you're very important,
very very important, it can't be that you go on like
this. Barcelona can't afford you not to be playing. We
really need you, you're different, when you're not
with us it costs us so much. Believe it, Andres, please
believe it because we're telling the truth, we need
you'.


We saw that Andres was in a real moment of turmoil,
in those months a lot of negatives happened at once.
But he, along with the help of his family, turned
everything around due to his incredible mental
strength.


Sometimes, I get this feeling that Andres Iniesta can't
be properly explained as a player using mere words,
he does everything in such a way that it appears easy
and tricks anybody into thinking they can do it.
That's a lie, nobody can do it like he does. On the
pitch, he's transformed, that's where his real
personality appears, it's his natural habitat.
If he isn't touching the ball then he's unhappy, I can't
remember a single big match where he hasn't
excelled. I've never even seen him raise his voice,
never.


When he complained he did it with respect, in
arguments he never screamed or shouted but simply
put the team ahead of his own wishes.
This isn't easy because every player has an ego.
I can recall the Champions League of 2006 when I
was injured, he took full responsibility playing as a
defensive midfielder, in both Lisbon and Milan.
What incredible performances he gave there.
We reached the final and then Rijkaard didn't put him
in the starting line-up.
When I found out I spoke to Puyol, 'How is Andres
not playing? Why isn't he playing Andres? He isn't
playing, he isn't playing.'
Carles simply looked at me and said 'I don't know, I
don't know.'


The truth is, nobody knew and nobody could
understand the decision.
He had gone from making key contributions in
Lisbon and Milan to not playing, but when he
appeared in the second half everything changed.
He put things in order for us, together with Larsson
and Eto'o he made the difference.
Surely on the inside he was livid, but his first thought
was about how he could help the team.


That anger helped him to be even more useful, any
other player may have thrown in the towel and
sulked, but he didn't, he simply didn't say a word and
then demonstrated on the pitch just why the coach
had made a mistake. That is Andres.


Now that I'm basically out of elite football, I realise
just what it means to play at the top level, I appreciate
what it is to represent Barcelona.
When he leaves, he will understand what I'm saying.
He's won everything and played incredibly whilst
doing so, he's respected by everyone and admired the
world over.


He departs in the manner in which he deserves,
nobody has a negative word to say about him.
Soon he will realise just what he's achieved in his
career and what he has represented, he's proven
everybody wrong, but that's Andres.