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sistawoman: I see what your saying but for me dating has always been different.

I have children and therefore same night plans would never work for me and when I was actively dating I only dated during the weekends when the kids were away. Addtionally if a guy did not make plans with me by Wednesday there really would no chance for him to get to see me on that weekend.

When I actively dated, in no r/s, I was dating a few guys at the same time. So I could have a breakfast date with one guy, an afternoon strool or drive with another and a dinner and movies date with someone else. If I really like a guy then I might spend the whole day with him. But really I can tell you that any guy I have gone out with wont allow me to pay for anything on the date althou I have offered. After a while of getting shut down a woman stops asking.

Now in a r/s that is different we can do the up in the air, all weekend take up all my time type of thing.

To me, in my world there is a marked difference in dating and being in a r/s with a guy and to me when dating sex is not even part of the equation only in a r/s.

king arizona: don't even know what to comment sef

kachiz: Baby find your way oh, me don find my own. and for what its worth, it was business doing nice with you.

baralatie: U wnt lik my opinion
ok!mo honest opinion
concentrate on ur studies

demelza: If you are given a contrary opinion, will you go back and reverse your decision? Its obvious you thought a great deal about this.
I believe you took the right decision anyway and your reasons are quite superb.