After reading so much trash on NL this morning one can finally read a post that is worth reading abinitio to the end..

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

Are you happy and satisfied now that your post have made front page??I am not buying this crap,the price is absurdly high..

bushdoc9919:


GB....the problem with you, and most Nigerians is that you do not want to grow up...and no, I am not talking of childhood or adulthood...or immaturity. I am not even insulting you.

The problem with you Nigerians is that you do not want to use your brains and innovate and develop innovative products. All you people want to do is chop oil money.

It is because of our overdependence on oil....that our economy is vulnerable.

All of you here....instead ofpreaching disintegration, or wallowing in conspiracy theories....go home, use your university degrees.....and follow China, Japan and South Korea along the road of self sufficency and industrial development.

Stop relying on oil...because if oil prices shoot up again, you people will suddenly keep quiet.

Even at high oil prices...the money was never enough. The painful thing about Nigeria is that the looting that is going on is from a pot of money that is too small.

I wonder for you Nigerians. Stop blmaing the US. Start using your brains for once.

If you like....yell at me. I have spoken. Nigeria must industrialize.

Because a divided Nigeria is bad news for all of us....and for the African region. An industrial Nigeria is good news for everyone...even the US.

End your oil addiction, man!

God bless you Sir

Toks2008:


Let me give you an honest advice here. It is very slutty for a lady to say she dumps men and no responsible man will come for you if you continue to hold on to this mindset.

My 50cents for you.

50cents is much for her..

fairygeh:
It's because girls tend to be very emotional,especially after they invest so much in a relationship,money,sex,and still end up jilted.so after any heartbreak,they say they were used and dumped. However,i dislike the word with passion, I would rather say I was heartbroken than use the derogatory word used and dumped
I am not an object to be used.

Its still the same thing,The words are just different..Used and Dumped =Heartbroken,Heartbroken=Used and Dumped..

fairygeh:
It's because girls tend to be very emotional,especially after they invest so much in a relationship,money,sex,and still end up jilted.so after any heartbreak,they say they were used and dumped. However,i dislike the word with passion, I would rather say I was heartbroken than use the derogatory word used and dumped
I am not an object to be used.

Its still the same thing,The words are just different..Used and Dumped =Heartbroken..

lestat:


Your horrifying spelling skills immediately piqued my curiosity as to why you would bother to stress repeatedly how instead of a victim off being thrown out of the speeding vehicle of a relationship infact you are the one who does the tossing? I have to call bullshitt on that and i do infact say that i would stake my 2 Naira that you are a serial dumpee, defined thus, as a virile, fertile, low cost means of expunging semen from the gonads, you have been dumped no less than 20 times in the last 6 months my dear?

Her spelling skills not only piqued me it John-Terrified me..her Moniker belied her spelling skills.. She should change her it.

Sophyrocks:
Honestly, before i started dating i used to hear a lot of all these sob stories from females. And then i wonder and ask 'why all these sob stories'? Is it that guys are this horrible? With time as i started dating and getting to know men, ive come to understand that a guy cannot use and dump you unless you allow him to. Its all about maintaining your standards as a lady and avoiding situations where you compromise your moral values to please a guy. guys will not force you to do what you dnt want to do. So really, all these sob stories of use and dump can be minimised if only ladies know what they want, try nnot to always use their emotions to make decisions, have standards and stick to it. Guys cannot be all that bad and horrible.

Please manage these 5 likes as token for your sensible contribution..

kwencypresh:
like seriously?

Type like seriously again and I will slap you..Must you type Like and seriously at the same time?

OmoUSH:

Your post made my day!

Talk about disillusioned folks, THE BLACK RACE, the everlasting slaves of the world. I regret being born a black man. Why wasn't i created as an European?

Black synonym:Wannabe

all4naija:

You are among those who like to live in the fantasy land and it is not helping to move the continent and people forward. The moment we start fighting over history that is not directly related to us the moment we lose more focuses and attentions which could have be directed at development. Having said that, there is no iota of truth of so many claims about black people as the original Arabs, Moors, Jews or Egyptians. The blacks in the midst were by chances mingling with the original people learning one thing or the other.

However, Semitic people are not blacks or whites but in-between the two of them. They look more like the mixed race people. The word Semite originated from Latin and the online definition:

A member of the group of Caucasoid peoples who speak a Semitic language, including the Jews and Arabs as well as the ancient Babylonians, Assyrians, and Phoenicians. 2. another word for a Jew. Word Origin. C19: from New Latin sēmīta descendant of Shem, via Greek Sēm, from Hebrew Shem.

The Geography has not changed much even after many years while addressing it from the indigenous people's perspective. The Arabs were never blacks. They came from the Arabian desert in the present day Saudi Arabia. Their skin turned dark because of the sun and that cannot be used to qualify them as blacks like those found in West Africa, East Africa and some part of Southern Africa.

The same story can be said of Egyptian mummies. The fact that some of them were blacks doesn't mean Egyptians were blacks. Even in present day Egypt the indigenous people are Semitic, neither black or white. The black you see came from Sudan and other black regions within that particular geography. Please, leave mummies out of this if you aren't ready to put on their swaddling clothes.

The Moors aren't straight from West Africa. European only used the term for sub-Saharan Africans in the past as it came to be associated with Muslim which most of them were. Moor has been used in a broader sense than you are trying to explain in your post. But, the true Moors are Berbers who are from North Africa and they look Semitic.

I laugh at Timbuku story though. It is clear it was a place used by the Arabs to educate sub-Saharan people. Most of the writing and learning were done in Arabic. That is a big shame to those who want to claim they somewhat ruled the world in the past. They can keep living in denial or plainly delusional and I don't care. I think the terror in Mali have succeeded in destroying the arts, the ancient walls and fraction of books there.

Stop shipping in terms. Salamanca is due to Berber conquer of South Spain in the past and left their Islamic footprint there. They were from Western part of North Africa of the area known to be Morocco of today.

Constantine also conquered many parts of Europe and that can not be an excuse to tell lies about what we are not. Black people have never ruled the world. We need to take urgent step and get organized and live a civilized life. If we developed well today our posterity will have more good things to talk about us in the future - if that really meant so much to them. The unity of human race is what matter when contributing to humanity not just about color, ethnic or region but about humanity.

Take a cue from what I have repeatedly said here. Black man's problem is to get organized and live a civilized life!

Nice Font!

Idrismusty97:
And this is what will unite us? A stûipid hashtag!

What do you expect from Abula..lolling

victorazy:


God bless u! Some ppl were angry because I said the truth!

Africa is used as a test ground where they test all their newly invented weapons eg. Chemical weapons including Ebola, Aids etc and the so called animals could not be able to research and defend themselves but only to marry 5-10 wives, give bele, spread vvagina, born liabilities called children. and they travel out and could not learn one thing.
Most European uses our materials and their knowledge was stolen from Africa like Egypt
I pity this land, I pity Africa

God bless you bro..Another man who knows the truth..

voodoo85:


and am surprised why it is. i keep wondering why africa is so isolated and people so narrow minded. so much money goes to africa, to plant the tree, teach and vaccinate child etc. (not all orgs are laundering money) but still- no improvement. its like stagnant swamp. u have oil, gold and diamonds but can't rise above your ego and greediness to evolve and become united strong countries. i look at some pictures of nigeria streets. makes me sick. massive mansion with enormous fence- but that piles of shitt and rubbish outside the fence- nobody gives a f*ck. country with so much money- can't have stable electricity in 21st century?? don't talk me about corruption-its everywhere but other countries manage to fight with it. at least u come out from your country to europe, america and asia to learn something

Double God bless you..If people don't hit the like button on this comment it shows how much we hate the truth..

And some mumu's dey predict 5 siro..

Arch1:
Whose responsibility is it to protect the life of Nigerians?

who swore an oath to defend the sovereignty/territorial intergrity of Nigeria?

Who is the president of Nigeria?

Who is the Grand Commander of the Federal Republic?

Who is the commander-in-chief of the armed forces?

Who has the Army, Navy, Airforce, Police, SSS, NSCDC, Customs, Immigration etc under his control?

People don't know their rights,and people be shouting bring back Jona,yes we want him but we should know electing him back to power is double edged sword..Jonathan till 2019 bombing till 2019,What people supporting jonathan to be elected back to power don't realize is the fact that the bombing is happening only in the northern parts of the country,Had it been we were experiencing it all over nigeria, We will all know how bleeped the security of this country is,Maybe then we will vote someone who is capable of tackling the issue of insecurity..

kirikiristars:

A car would be better, maybe that's why he wants to enter the car and drive carelessly

@Kirikiristars,lolling hard at ur moniker,You don't knw the meaning of kirikiri,do you?

As for me,

Bleaching

Wearing skinny Jeans and whole ass hanging out!!! That shit ain't sexy,cute or handsome.

Thanking a girl on facebook for accepting friend request.

tolustx:
It is easier to upgrade d dull one dan it is to make d oda submissive nd virtuous. So 4 me, I wld upgrade d dull nd marry her.

Thanks a bunch bro..I have a gift for ya..

@Rocky,Thanks for ur advice,if you think the devil is not dull,Have you seen him before?lol..From the characterization of devil,would u say the devil is bright?I used dull because am talking about Light/colours..

@holy,Thanks for the Constructive guidance,Your last two lines shits on your comment and you just made your opinion dirty..Would u be so kind to retract it?

@Kane you are approximately right, she is unfaithful but she knows how to rock my boat,a sparkling sinner she was, is, and I am afraid of the fact that she will remain so.

If you had the choice of two women to wed,

The first, from her heels to her dainty head
Was charming in every sense of the word:
And yet in the past,I grieve to state She never had been exactly straight
She is a zig zag diva
But she gives me vitality and I would call her bournvita

And the second,she is
A model of virtue, I must confess
And yet, alas! she was dull as the devil,
And rather senseless in the way of fashion

Though what she is lacking in wit and beauty,She more than made up for in sense of duty.

Now,suppose you must wed, and make no blunder,And either would love you, and let you win her

Which of the two would you choose, I wonder,The stolid saint or the sparkling sinner?

Your post belied your pissture sorry picture,Manifestly you look like a gentleman..its hard to believe your wrote this but from what have seen from page 0 to 15 I think am convinced..You have defended your post mightily enough..I agree with number 3..But the rest I don't buy it..If you are not a psycho believe me we all need Love..

GenBuhari:
Ebola is a psychological weapon it does not exist.

If ebola is a psychological weapon and does not exist,few people died of ebola in lagos,what killed them?

MISSING: Lionel Messi. Last seen going
into the tunnel for half-time...

GenBuhari:
My fellow Africans you are so daft!

Ebola is a hoax created in your minds by the white man to exploit you, humiliate you and discriminate against you , panic and terrorise you and depopulate you by getting you so fearful and panicked that you would rush to take their dangerous fake "Ebola" drugs that is designed to kill you.

Why do I say we are daft?

Consider this:

Name me a single instance in history when the white man has dealt with us and it has not resulted in us Africans not suffering genocide or exploitation?

Tell me a single instance in history when the white man has made an apology for his genocide against Africa.

Tell me any time the white man has promised that he would stop neo-colonialism and economic exploitation and domination of Africans.

So why is it that Africans do not consider the white man to be our enemy?

Well let me tell you if you have not worked it out.

The white man is our enemy and he is actively working towards our destruction.

repeat:

The white man is our deadly enemy and he is actively working towards our destruction.

Now we have established the white man is our deadly enemy lets consider why I say we are daft.

The same deadly enemy that has been committing genocide against us for hundreds of years suddenly tells us we have a deadly disease, and without getting our own doctors and scientist to investigate, we accept it.

This same enemy that has been working at eliminating us from the face of the earth, suddenly discovers a deadly disease amongst us that we did not discover ourselves, and we are not even sceptical?

This enemy that has been committing genocide against us for hundreds of years (and has refused to stop or apologise) is suddenly more concerned about our health than we are ourselves and we do not question their motives?

As the original humans on the earth we have lived millions of years without any recorded deadly illness wiping us out. Then suddenly in 1976 three deadly viruses turn up in Africa. HIV, Ebola and Murberg viruses all kindly discovered for us by our deadly enemy the white man yet we do not question it.

The white man who discovered the illness are also the ones profiting from the illness, the HIV drugs are very expensive and to prevent catching HIV white man sells us condoms. HIV is also a hoax, it is the treatment provided to us from the white man that kills people "diagnosed " with HIV - but that a topic for another day.

The white man our deadly enemy finds our illnesses and develops and provides us with the medicines and we do not see that something is not right there?

Today our white enemy is now planning to provide us with Ebola cure drugs and vaccines; you must not take these drugs it is aimed at de-populating us.
Those who have ears let them hear!!

DO NOT TAKE ANY EBOLA VACCINES

God bless you bro..if african can unite and fight ebola,I believe it would become history..Nigeria has done it and today we are free from the spectre of ebola..

prettythicksme:
Anyone can say it but guys should always be the one to say it first not a ladies so that we won't look cheap.

We need not worry about who is to initiate the statement,Prettythicksme just told us why they don't like to initiate the statement first,Ladies don't want to look cheap..I thought so too..as for me I can say it a million times even if the way am feeling inside is different,Saying I love you don't cost a thing..Does it?

HARDDON:


Vic wor? Sorry to disappoint u.
A lion does not turn a puccupine at the flip of d coin. If every guy was like yours truly, men would eat at the very exalted tables they were fashioned for n not scrub scraps ...

Let's say I'm a voice of correction to these whack guys that don't know that not for naughts were they born .
N to C snubs like u who think d sun shines out of ur bu77s , try something more challenging like having Kul people who u can hv intellectual talks with n r challenging, not having 500bbm contacts yet none got brains.

"No disrespect buh I killa queen !"






Btw, how twisted can u get? Advertizing ur pin on ur signature so u can hv more recharge card clients? N when they don't send, u turn blind eyes to their pings ?

Go easy on the queen bro..lol..grant me permission to follow..lol

HARDDON:


Isn't it just anonyingly amazing ?

some dudes go chasing for months n can't get a game, yet others just meet same gurl and under an hour be smacking it real good.

This one thing I tell guys: get ur shytes together n get them dough ...... money ain't never wrong.

Then instead of pinging , u call em with a sleek hunk
Instead staying up all night hoping she returns ur call, u be changing 9ners like a piece of apparel . n don't hv to visit same forest twice if it ain't worth it.
U were created da boss, stop selling short n take d role gallantly !

Made For More

I have three words for you for this comment..God bless you!!..

Another fairy tale to tell my unborn kids..