Kachisbarbie:


Lie to get into her pants? For real?
Then she probably wanted the pants gotten into.
__Are you trying to confirm the stereotyped idea that girls give their 'factory' for material gains?

@ OP: It isn't general...it happens mainly in relationships where s*x and money is the root of it. Some girls believe that s*x is actually a guarantee for the guy to stay loyal.
__ you would hardly, see a team #NoS*xBeforeMarriage# say something like this.

Toks2008:


Let me give you an honest advice here. It is very slutty for a lady to say she dumps men and no responsible man will come for you if you continue to hold on to this mindset.

My 50cents for you.

dmz:


What stops a lady from #Money4HandBack4Ground# join #NoS*xB4Marriage# later on in life.
She opens a mouth that has swallowed kum to tell her 20th bf NoS*xB4Marriage and somehow she is different from the stereotypes?
Is #NoS*xB4Marriage# for virgins or reformed stereotypes?

FLAWLES:
Not all women...........i can't imagin mahslf saying such words(i do d dumping´)+or its either i think we shld just go our separate way(ad das ntt dumping)

will1am:
It's annoying when some ladies use such words.
A man looking to commit will want to see ample signs of nhonesty,integrity,trustworthiness,thrift, sensitivity,sexuality,physical fitness, wholesome values and NOT--sluttiness, and other character traits.
The sad truth is that the vast majority of Nigerian women are simply unworthy of commitment.They are washed up party girls, who spent their attractive years drinking and sleeping with every good looking douchebag that hit on her.When she realizes her looks are starting to fade,only then does she start looking for a sucker to rope into commitment.By then she is nearly worthless as a wife and mother.
If you ain't got good qualities,you should be expecting to get humped,pumped and dumped nearly every time...
NOTA BENE --I am not a sexist.

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andromida:


Can we be even a bit honest?

Captain001:





When I see comments like this I rest my case for lack of what to write as the most sensible has been said already. Infinite likes

CoolHunk:
When I see that thing they call love in their eyes, that's when I decide it is a good time run. That shiit's scary!

Sophyrocks:
Honestly, before i started dating i used to hear a lot of all these sob stories from females. And then i wonder and ask 'why all these sob stories'? Is it that guys are this horrible? With time as i started dating and getting to know men, ive come to understand that a guy cannot use and dump you unless you allow him to. Its all about maintaining your standards as a lady and avoiding situations where you compromise your moral values to please a guy. guys will not force you to do what you dnt want to do. So really, all these sob stories of use and dump can be minimised if only ladies know what they want, try nnot to always use their emotions to make decisions, have standards and stick to it. Guys cannot be all that bad and horrible.

Basildvalour:
Left for me, the only stance where a lady can claim to have been used and dump is when she was deflowered by the guy who she thought loved her because of the lies and series of persuasion before she willingly gave herself to him.

CoolHunk:
When I see that thing they call love in their eyes, that's when I decide it is a good time run. That shiit's scary!

Basildvalour:
Left for me, the only stance where a lady can claim to have been used and dump is when she was deflowered by the guy who she thought loved her because of the lies and series of persuasion before she willingly gave herself to him.

FLAWLES:
Not all women...........i can't imagin mahslf saying such words(i do d dumping´)+or its either i think we shld just go our separate way(ad das ntt dumping)

moreeni:
Most grown girls don't say or think that. They are usually wise enough to be objective in their thoughts and perceptions. Sometimes, the best that could happen to a relationship is for it to fall apart so other good things could fall together. After all, not all relationships lead to marriages.

logica:
Because a man has no right dumping a woman. The dumping is only legal when it's done by a woman. All men that dump women should be arrested by the police.

IDEApro:
when a lady get into relationship, she hopes it remain permanent to something fruitful meanwhile the guy involved is only trying to measure her qualities and eligibility status. when the guy discover something and bolt, they cried foul and majority of these ladies date guys who are not emotionally ready for commitment.

only a 'runs' girl would never cry foul if she get dumped cos that was a means to an end initially for her

Toks2008:


Lets face it.

In my humble opinion this use and dump situation will continue until we return to the days of our parents where marir=tal union is far more important than marriage ceremony which is the main reason many guys use and dump ladies because most are not financially ready for marriage ceremony even if they are matured mentally and psychologically.

You say your guy is not ready for marriage but you are ok with him squeezing the juice out of you since he is ever ready for that and while he is not ready for marriage,you are busy providing him what a wife will do for a husband.

I think you need to have your head examined.

A man who is not ready for marriage should not have a hard on and our ladies should wake up to understand that most guys out there are psychologically ready and matured for marital union but many are not ready to finance a marriage ceremony.

Too bad our mothers are not helping matters in this area as most Nigerian parents always want to see a glamorous wedding ceremony which is not bad at all provided there is readiness on the part of the couple involved or if they are ready to finance the event which is the case of many flamboyant weddings we see these days.

Unfortunately,this culture had crept nto our seemingly ignorant young ladies psyche hence making them an easy tool for guys to be sampled and dumped.

Some ladies have argued that they are not cheap hence the need for big wedding ceremony and i begin to wonder which is cheaper: getting laid as a girlfriend or getting married in a timely manner and ofcourse no one is ruling out a classy and expensive wedding if the funds are available.

Getting married and celebrating a marital union are two different things and since most Nigerian ladies have laid crazy emphasis on wedding ceremony and a big one at that rather than the main marital union,this has led to many guys just having fun sampling as many ladies as possible as they always say "im not ready for MARRIAGE CEREMONY NOW"

So,if you know your man is not financially ready to do a wedding ceremony then sit tight in your parents homes rather than foolishly give yourself to this guy that may end up dumping you anyways for a younger chic when he feels he is ready for a marriage ceremony.

I honestly do not see anything wrong in a young struggling jobless guy with a roof over his head coming for my daughter's hand in marriage.

As long as my daughter loves him, i wil simply ask him to bring his people and collect a bride price according to Jewish tradition as suggested by the bible in Deuteronomy 22:28-29 (PROVIDED HE MET HER A VIRGIN)

He can go with his wife after receiving blessings and anytime they are ready for the celebration of their union, they are free to do so.

Enough of this bondage we have subjected our daughters because we have made them more of sex objects to randy men because a matured lady needs a sexual relationship likewise a matured man and casting and binding the devil won't solve the situation on ground except they get married in a timely manner.

If you are a lady in love with a guy and the guy wants you to be his wife and he has at least a roof over his head, please take him home to your parents and let him pay your bride price and start your lives together.

When the money comes, both of you can celebrate your wedding.. Stop fooling yourselves laying crazy emphasis on marriage ceremony as a criterion for marital union.

If you like, say this is trash but please look around and see many of our ladies in their thirties still unmarried and ask yourself what is responsible for that growing situation?

A word is enough for the wise.

Dotwillis1:
The funny tin iz, after bn used nd dumped they stil avnt learn d lesson nd stil mingle wit oda wrong guys who does same tin ... And dey keep repeatin same 'used and dump