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eunisam:
source?

CCTV9/Africa....details soon

Sequel to Ebola and Morocco saga, CAF don change their mind.

olu77:
4 babies sent back to sender, the fifth about to be on it's way. Yet there are many people like me out there praying everyday for children. Life is one big mystery that is difficult to comprehend

The back to sender got me...lol, sure you will have a child soon.

If I may ask, why are you a single parent?

When you don't care about anybody, do not expect any care from anybody. Everybody needs help from everybody and your girl friend should be your next sister. What you should say is, you don't have to trim yourself to suit all her wants and needs.

Has anyone successfully registered online?

LEAFLET:
I am wondering if i am alone on this...There is this growing trend about every guy preferring fairer ladies to dark ones but my case is different..I don't find fair girls sexy in any away and it's a great turn off for me...Any other brother with me here? Abi na only me waka come?...

me too, I no dey near them

gabriel212:
OF ALL THE FINE GIRLS WEY DEY NAIJA U STILL DEY MOLEST
SHAME ON YOU!

It's also possible the girl don dey chop the guy money since and still dey do shakara for the man. If girls do you that one, you go nearly cry.

misszainab:
I love my boyfriend, God knows I do. He's my first love and after him, I have not dated any other man. It's been 3years since we started dating. He tries hard to be faithful and I'm faithful to him too. But I'm so pessimistic about the future with him. We're about graduating from school, and after graduation our relationship will become a distant one, and I'm scared of keeping a distant relationship. But I don't want to give up, one main thing I'm concerned about is that he's not financially ohkay for now. I don't know if I should keep on with that.
I know God has a plan for us, he always assures me that with time things will get better, and that is what keeps us going. I Love him because he's very optimistic about the future and that gives me faith. But what if things don't turn out good?



No insults pls, just your kind and sincere advice. Nobody is perfect.

How do you expect a student to be bouyant. Niger girls na wao just looking for a reason to cheat with a sugar daddy. Why would you date a class mate in the first place? I tire for fish brains

Mmmmmmm

Emeka Ike got me laughing...he just lack fashion sense

keyman0007:
I dont get, make mistake dat wat?

mistake of entering into that bad zone called friend zone.

keyman0007:
let leave that sex part for now, no be sex dey my mind.

Ofcourse she is okay and , i obviously cant marry a baboon.

Bros...relationship/marriage is not one person oo, it's two persons....but you been selfish here. Look like you have already made up your mind on what to do. If you make mistakes, don't come back here to complain. Though, I am only suggesting because, if you need a woman, then you have to be a man. If you continue this way, you may be friendzoned and you know na, friendzone is forever.

I think say dem don ban us before, why are they banning us again? If dem like make dem ban us forever, na dem go lose.

deeoneX:
We were frnds for over a year before we started dating. Its been 2years now in our relationship. Rarely does she open up her mind to tell me her depressing emotional issues when she has a troubled one except I compel her into talking. Recently, I did my engineering induction and would be going for my NYSC this November. Just Came home to grab the few things I'll need for camp and particularly, to spend time with her before I leave this week. All through the last week that I've been home, she had been noticeably dodging our dates for both of us to hang out while giving feeble, triffling and diaphanous excuses. On this particular evening, contrary to her manner of holding back her depressing emotions even though I'd noticed that, She eventually told me what even seemed awkward to her cast of mind..."She's Jealous".
While apologizing for how she's been eschewing our planned dates, she said it after I asked what she's been jealous about. "She's Jealous of my success".
My fingers were seized on my phone's keyboard for tens of seconds as I didn't know how best to reply or comfort her since I was struck with wonder . I've planned meeting her someplace without prior notice to talk to her.




Nairalanders, is it normal or rather okay if she feels that way. Besides, how good enough do you suggest I chat her to calm and possibly inspire her mind without hurting her delicate heart? I strongly do aspire a future with her.

Girls do that, it's just some part of insecurity that you may go AWOL after going ahead of them.

praise4055:
I don't know how to say this, but i think this is the right platform where i can air my view and atleast get reasonable advice.

I am not a tall girl, i am just 5ft4 so i really need to be with a tall dude not a shortie or average height guy for the sake of my children which is very important. But i kept on geting advance from short guys and i don't know why.

pls how can i keep the shorties out of my lane? It really fustrating you know!. And how can i attract those tall, huge dark guys(6ft and above) just for the sake of my kids yet to come.

pls no insult. Your advice would be appreciated.

Sorry, but you have to show the tall guys the greenest light. Tall guys like short girls in return, you girls are easy to carry up and down.

keyman0007:
And no its nt sex oh. Am even certain this babe no go even let me touch ham, na spiri koko.
The problem be say na dis kind mind your business compound I dey stay, everybody na inside house dem dey. The babe go lock herself inside house you won’t even see her, plus me wey ones i go work na till night, the dey look me like one big bros I no even too dey smile sef, even while carry the neighbor na radio dey do talk "just good morning", drop her off "and have a nice delay". I tink I like this your secret game approach, but na opportunity and time, And I have this crazy family as well, my younger sister always sniffing around, if she suspects anything she will tell the whole house. You knw hw crazy siblings behave. Which is so awkward for me.

I tell you, you cannot tell what a woman can do. The most innocent are the sex addicts, and there is no way you will like a woman without been sexually attracted to her. Check yourself...otherwise, your marriage will be very boring.

Johans:
No. Neither do i smoke or indulge in the corruption associated with teens age. Just a good boy with eye floaters. Dats depressing.

so what the fu*k is wrong with our health? I read on google that it could be retina detachment, why this early stage.

Pennywise:
Girls are known to fake stories in order to look loyal. Dude, u needn't worry about the passes she will disclose to you. U should be more concerned about the ones she didn't disclose.

Point.....common sense no common

keyman0007:
I even want to approach my neighbor direct and say i like their sister oh, dont knw hw crazy that will sound.

That would be crazy men...the man will even stop his wife from following you to work. I tell you, love and infatuation are almost the same. I suggest you indirectly let her know you are eyeing her, then watch her reactions. You guys can start with secret games then when you are sure you like her more than sex, then go meet the man of the house direct. Take my words seriously, you will still have your respect.

Is it on Nigeria that does Pigrimage?

jauntty:
Ocular pressure is one major risk factor for glaucoma but it doesn't mean every high ocular pressure is glaucoma. Some pressure can be low and the eye can still dev glaucoma. Secondly alcohol doesn't cause floaters. Floaters indicates that something is not so right inside the eye. It might not be serious tho. So answer this 3 Questions. 1. Do u see sudden flashes of light. 2. Are the floaters increasing at a fast rate. 3. Do u have pain?

Yea...when I move my eye ball up or down, left or right, I see a flashs sometimes like a circle. I never noticed it until I was diagnosed with those eye drops. I told the doc..he said it has sth to do with the retina but its is not serious yet. I don't have pains, but the floaters increased then but no longer increasing that much. I also see rainbow around bright lights at night. The doc said its due to the pressure and glaucoma. My question again is ...is the rainbow thing sign that I have not treated the glaucoma well? All these symptoms are worse when I drink which I have reduced by all means. I read somewhere that weed (marijuana) helps those with glaucoma, pls have you confirmed that in Nigeria?

Johans:
Dear drsteroid and jauntty

I'm a 19 year old dude, early dis year, i started having eye floaters, it started from a single black/dark floater on my right eye, now i have few floaters on both eyes. This is both alarming and depressing considering my age (teenager.) Please what can be done about this? Thanks a lot.

mine started at 24...someone told me it's due to alcohol intake, do you also drink?

drsteroid:
increase in intraocular pressure is different 4rm galucoma,although increase IOP is a risk factor for glaucoma..glaucoma is said to be present if there is cupping of the optic disc,and if the patient has restricted visual field..so you don't av glaucoma if only the presure was confirmed 2 be high..wot u ve wil be ocular hypertension wil can lead 2 glaucoma if not immediately treated..so u nid 2 goin 4 routine eye examination 2 know if the presure is within the normal range...tanx

This was exactly what the second doctor said. The first doctor and his crew were just getting me scared as if I will be blind the next day. They even gave me a bill of 10k immidiately and told me to come back next month. I started feeling they want to open office for my head after paying series of 7k and 8k every month. The pressure never went up again since then and I have stopped using the drugs. Is it likely to go up again with time, and how often should I go for these examinations.

jauntty:
The two doctors said basically the same thing. Since the pressure is down now, do u still have the floaters When last did you check the pressure?

The last time I checked was about 5 months ago. The floaters are still their but the docs said it does not mean anything that they will clear with with time. Personally, I think the floaters are due to consumption of alcohol. I am not very worried about the floaters because, I still see very clearly without glasses and I didnt loose any peripheral vision. Please, is every ocular pressure related to glacuma? That name scares the hell out of me.

Op...I started seeing floaters in my eyes then I went for examination. The 1st doc said I have glacouma, the second one said it's ocular pressure which may lead to glaucoma if left untreated. So i took treatments which reduced the pressure from 29 to 16 and the pressure never went up again even after stopping the drugs for 6 months. Am I still at risk? ..and which of the doctors were correct. I understand that i have to be going for regular eye examination but how often? Thank you for this thread.

PDF:
Wouldn't even call Kanu a No 9!

Kanu does not wear 9, he wears 4

There was a time we were coming back from frankfurt to Lagos. One ganja man i think was a drug dealer started dieing inside the flight. The flight attendants did their best to help him out but our Nigerian guys just dey laugh. We all knew he might have swallowed some sh*ts but he eventually recovered before we landed. If it is this time of Ebola, nobody for touch that man ooo.

Beer is just good for relaxation...women comes with a lot of trouble.

So...how come she no sabi speak English, is it that the lecturer no teach well or she no learn well?

Mprex:
is it mandatory to comment

Now I know you are the victim. After breaking up with this one, take sometime off relationship and enjoy single hood. You should be able to make yourself happy without a guy otherwise, you will never find peace in life

Mprex:
This is from a friend and i'm @ loss as per what to advice her thats why i decided to share with us here because i know we've got some awesome relationship counsellors in this section


she just broke up her relationship because of some reasons that i am not permitted to share here. There is this guy that has been begging her for a relationship for over a year. Having ended her first relationship, she decided to go out with this other guy that have been pestering her for a long time.

Barely two weeks into the new relationship, she found out that her new boyfriend has another serious relationship with another lady. Funny enough, she is already falling for him and she is hurting real bad now.

I dunno what to tell her because if i ask her to stay, she will be smarting from the realization and if i ask her to walk away she will stil be hurt because she already loves him



members of the nairaland romance section. Pls help me out. Whats your advice

Is it mandatory to be in a relationship? So she broke up with a friend and had to go into another. Fish brains