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Orgasmgiver123:
Hmmm
Chai
My spirit been always dey tell me say na for NL I go meet my missing rib
Get ready, inform your people that we are coming to ask for your hand in marriage.

Lolzz
I'd like peach and royal blue for the color of the day.

PerfectStranger:
You were the one sending him money so invariably you were the one doing the toasting. You thought he was a cheap guy.

My goodness.
Oh common. No way I was gonna do that.

Orgasmgiver123:
Where have you been all my life?
Na girls like this I dey find nau

Now tell me, are you married

Damn nasty. Not yet oo

PerfectStranger:
Taah! Nothing like selfishness. You were not just his spec. Every guy must not like you.

Was he blind when he was doing the toasting?

Michelle70:
lolz.
The gender fight for this forum sha

Lolzz

PerfectStranger:
Maybe you were not worth his time.

I don't know oo anyhow you put it!
it not the matter of spec. Its selfishness

When i remember when i dey send boyfriend money..
I want use my hand to cover my face with shame..
Some dudes are not worth it..

bammo:
Must you spoil everything

I the the response, sense is very very important.

Geminita1:
Women are not Gold diggers, its called hypergamy, which is absolutely normal.

Don't let men demonise our biological make up while preserving theirs.

Its very natural for women to desire wealthy men. The benefits are just too numerous for her: mental, social, financial, security, healthy kids, longevity, name it.

Any one that calls you a gold digger does not like you. He wants you to adopt a masochist mindset and eat dust with him.

Men want beautiful, quiet, cheerful and respectful women as partners and its normal even when many women are struggling with these qualities. The society expects them to meet those standards anyway.

Why can't men shut up and do the only thing women NEED from them: provide? Why would they fight nature and term us gold diggers and you accept?

I'm not talking of hypergamy here. I'm simply talking about man talking advantage of a woman...
Or do you want to tell me that men like that don't exist?

Ebubu:
for a woman to be a lecturer she is already mostly 30 years plus and married.

why not find an academia loving young girl “who wants to be a lecturer”, then marry her young.

or you want her to use her money and train herself in Msc and Phd then you come and marry her ?

That's not true. Lecturing is just like any regular job for a lady.
And yes. You don't need all the MSc's and PhD's for a start

Just like there are gold differences women, there are also gold digger men.
Why will she offer Sex and money,respect, and loyalty to a man all at the same time.
The man will definitely take advantage of that.
Seeing her like a weak desperate woman.
Its is sad to see a man who does have money and sense. If a woman can be so intelligent enough to take care of herself why will she be disturbing herself with men who are not bold enough.

lilvicky68:
Well-done oh madam Mrs Prof.

Like say you no know wetin the OP mean

Lolzz
Seriously if not for people's comment i wont know!

Personally i dey fear relationship this days.
Almost everyone is becoming selfish

Fahvvy:
Awesome question here...
If she can take care of herself before the relationship, then she should be able to take care of herself DURING the relationship too! And not turn someone's son into an ATM ...

And let's be real here...
The major reason why most women go into a relationship is MONEY and the major reason why most men go into a relationship is S.EX...

So if the woman is getting what she wants (a man to spend on her), why can't the man also get what he wants too?

Seeing that a relationship is supposed to be "mutual" and not parasitic, will it be fair if only one party is benefiting from the relationship and the other isn't? ...

Virginprincess is there saying "money is very important in a relationship" and by money, she means a man's money...

Because in well over 95% of relationships, it's the man who is doing the spending and not the woman...

And what's worse is that, the man isn't getting ANY VALUE that is commensurate with what he's spending...

And by value here, I mean, Respect, support, acceptance, great advice, loyalty etc..

But rather, what he gets is headaches, billing, unnecessary drama and childish behavior ...

So in summary...
If you expect a man to spend on you (and he has been doing so), then you should also be willing to grace his bed just as often...

And let's do a quick reversal here...
If you grace a man's bed as frequently as he wants...

If you respect him and you're loyal to him...

If you're giving him what he wants and you're meeting his needs...

And he doesn't take care of you...

He doesn't spend on you or meet your own needs, will you still be in that relationship?

I guess not ...

So why then will you expect a man to just be in a se.xless relationship with a woman who doesn't meet his own needs when he meets hers!!!!

So if the woman is not a virgin...
If the woman makes incessant demands...
If the woman doesn't reciprocate value...

NO MAN SHOULD BE IN A SE.XLESS RELATIONSHIP WITH HER ...

So before the relationship you mean to say the lady was not taking caring herself right?

The word 'Senior' is ambiguous in this context..
Many people are responding base on age.
OP please more articulate next time.

FG should do the needful!!

obembet:
Stingy man, must u get something in return whenever u help someone?

The way relationship for an average naija babe is give and take.
You won't blame the dude!

minasu190:
I almost shed tears when I watched MIRACLE IN THE CELL

Did you just said almost?
Even my nose cried the day i watched it.

Paulianfa:
Keep on select nah

Who is talking about selection here.
If a good woman see the man that is slapping her every morning and he wants yo marry her. She should just say yea, because he is the only man on earth abi?

karkinase:
Guys lemme tell you something simps listen too.. . Except for spiritual husbands and ancestral curse, no good woman stays single till above 30, even if she stays in a rock. Men can sniff good women from thousand miles away. Once a woman is above 30 and unmarried it’s a huge red flag.

this is a very gigantic lie!!
Because you're a good woman! So every jack, dick and harry that comes across your way, you'll just say yes??
It mean the lady doesn't know her worth.

InfinityFabric:
Which fine half-cast ?

- The one who shit in the toilet this morning while groaning ?
- The one that was bleeding from her private part last week ? Still acting like it's nothing this week.
- The one with p smelly panties ?
- Olodo oshi, you wetin she chop before you see her outside ?

Is this one you based your entire success in life on ?
You're a disgrace to your family, tribe, LGA, State, Nigeria, Africa, Earth, Our Galactic Quadrant, and everything else in Universe.

Has it really gotten to this?

Das1mama:
Thank you so much sister I appreciate, may the Lord also send to you a comforter in time of your need. God bless you and cause his light to shine upon you. Amen

Amen

blockgeek69:
Bros I'm not placing any body on monthly allowance except you are my wife, not just my wife o, a supportive one.

Its your decision to make.
Either ways you're right!

blockgeek69:
Madam said I should place her on 20k monthly upkeep otherwise no parole, that was 2019. When I objected she was like how will she know I'm capable of taking care of her.

Well, I stopped calling, and after some time I deleted her number afterwards.

If you see the one that's not demanding for money. You might take her for a fool.
Her demand was not 100% foolish.

Das1mama:
Thanks brotherly. God Bless

Take heart bro..

Duchessree:
The only thing i think i would change is my choice of university,
Omo i will put my state uni o, instead of putting a federal uni as my first choice in jamb.

My mates even my junior don graduate leave me and i still dey house because of ASUU and the government.

Thats why i told my junior ones not to make the same mistake. None of them are going to a federal university o.
Before govt and ASUU delay them like they're delaying me
I'm supposed to be a graduate now with the way i plan my life o.
Omo I'm tired o, I'm not happy at all.
Thank God it's only 1 year left for me to be done.
If someone had adviced me back then i wouldn't make the same mistake o, that's why i keep advicing my junior ones so they don't go through what I'm going through because of ASUU and the govt.

Shey you for go private university. You will finish 4 year course within 3years
Madam planner...
People destiny differs. And you have no mates on planet earth. Just equals!

Williamxcalper:
Simple question

Somebody is trying to put words in your mouth and you're busy saying simple question.
Becareful with people like this.
He has successfully deviated the attention from himself.

garriAndsugar:
Sister you need a husband yes or no?

Husband giver I greet.

Brotherly a cry for one is a cry for all...
And it would be wrong for you to narrow it down to me because we are not talking about me.
We are talking about people with this kind of mindset.
So stick to the mean point.

garriAndsugar:
For you to quote me that means you dey that age range too and you need a husband

Qatar2022:
Op see her type here

Whatever dude!!!

Sometimes you guys talk about 30yr lady as if her world depends on a man.
May i never meet a man with this kind of mentally in my life even for a neighbor.

garriAndsugar:
The best thing you can give a single lady advancing 30 is a husband

Faber:
I don't know her age...each time I asked her "wetin you want use my age do?" Is her reply.

Oh oh!!! That kan tin!
Okay.. I think you you get her a wrist watch.
Or perfume!