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GoooodHardDick:
Dating is not an employment, if you're broke get a job and work

Now that you've started talking like an intellectual someone lemme respond.
If you check well my comment has nothing to do with him paying the bills or not.
I only said he should be able to take care of a woman before marriage not after marriage.
Cuz he may get used to not doing anything for her, even after marriage he will not do anything.
And men that can't take care of their family are irresponsible.
Please read again oga!

seanwilliam:
No offense, but for you to say this, It’s either you’re an orphan or ôlosho or handicap or you come from a wretched family. And going by your pics , I’ll go with the bolded. Nonsense!

Mtsw

GoooodHardDick:
Sense is far from you.

You that is responsible, What will happen if you spend on yourself by yourself even on a date with a man? Will you die?

If you say Love is giving, can't you give to the guy? what will happen if you clear your bills? Will you run mad?

How can a man take you outing to know you better , you got there and started ordering like it's your father that'll pay, and you say his irresponsible? You must really stuuupid Why are you Nigeria girls so entitled?

Abeg carry your bittered self and go

SMGGroup:
How you conveniently see nothing wrong in what she did. Nigerian ladies are the worst

I never said what she did was right?
I only corrected that impression of him thinking he can't spend on a woman who is not his wife.
Imagine a lady being with a guy for 2 years and a kobo of the guy has not entered her hand.
What do you think will happen to such woman when she eventually married the guy?

MNDY:
You lie
A lady is different from a woman.
She is supposed to be working and taking care of her own needs.
A boyfriend is supposed to be dashing his babe any amount anytime he feels likes.

What did i say that is different from what you're saying?

That 'i can't spend on a woman that's isn't my wife' is very wrong. Lines of an irresponsible man in the making.
Imagine during courtship you don't take care of her. In marriage it will be worse cuz you've subconsciously condition your mind not to meet her needs deliberately.
Though there is limit for everything.

FREDCLSSICO7:
him dey use indirect take say you too wowo for his liken
he mean say ur NL monicker fine pass u
he shock am say how this kind fine name go get this kind DP

How does my finess or ugliness affect his life directly or indirectly?
Human being sef.

Baronthecelebri:
mumu, you don't know that there's an expensive eatery,we have expensive phones, houses,cars, so there's an expensive eatery. Stupid evening news paper. Olosho.

Toothless bulldog!!!
Yen yen yen. The attention you're looking for you've gotten it.
You can enjoy the remaining part of your day

HolyMan12:
Promise me you will never wear shimmy and I promise I will date you

Lolz

Legend44:
Expensive canteen

Don't mind the OP.

lifenija:
There is something called expensive eatery, know this n know peace.for example u on ur own no go fit buy food with ur money cause e ho shock ur bank balance. Broke nonsense

You are broke nonsense
Your mama is broke nonsense
Your papa is broke nonsense
You posterity are broke nonsense
Your ancestors are broke nonsense

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imadiyi:
Are you the lady in your profile? If yes, please, remove it; if no, do change it; else, leave it blank.

Why? If i may ask?
You're not the first person saying it.
Am getting scared

Sometimes we injure people's emotions because we want ours to heal.
It depends on the offense sha, but cheating, no no no.

swiych:
Lol, what if her bf is d jealous type, na bcus u nor know how I help this girl wen we dey date, imagine somebody wey don dey abroad since 7 years, I never carry phone once ask or beg her 4 anything, when she completed her 2 buildings, I congratulated her, I nor say find me something or whatever, she just reason am say she never buy smtin 4 me once. Just as king remember Mordecai na so she remember me- in case u dey read bible, u go understand

I understand better. You tried

swiych:
The girl is very rich, she's oversea, it really means nothing to her. Me I dey naija, she say she just remember say I never ask her anything since she dey abroad. Hope u understand now?

Hmmmm
It is not right!
Something she can't be proud to tell her man she did that for you.
Or lets assume you're dating someone else you can't tell your babe Your ex got you even a touch light phone talk more of an iPhone..
Oh common na..
Its not like someone is on a sick bed and she helped

Greattestman:
Do you love your bf like that?

Its not even about love its about integrity

swiych:
This question nor get answer o, but na wen ur current bf nor dey try u go begin reason ur ex.

If I were you i will ask questions.
I'm not saying she has hidden motives but it doesn't seems look right

swiych:
She's don get bf already o

And if your gf get that kind of gift to her ex.
Oga leave sentiment. What will you think?
Be honest

That's not true.
Time and chance happens to everyone.
It just few that may not have gotten married earlier just like it happens to any other lady
Most of the spiritual ones marry very early sef cuz there is nothing like 'rocking life' in thier dictionary

Its like you like dating your female teachers.
Which one is 'expensive eatery' again?
Please grow up!

swiych:
Lol, na grace, she just call me all of a sudden say which iPhone I like, I say 12 or 13, she go buy 14 plus

This kind of love!

swiych:
Nor vex, I nor understand ur langua

Longer throat

swiych:
Bro, I don't know how to advise u, but my ex just bought me iPhone 14 plus, so in whatever u do, never ignore ur ex, always maintain good and healthy conversation with her unless she's evil or married.

Olonger!

Sounds convincing but it's fallacy.
Imagine my parents spending their hard earned money to send me to school just for me to come and be financially dependent on a man.
Popsy will get up from his grave and give me a knock

Happy birthday more wins!

Only ungraduate and masters? Add phD to it na.
I wonder how marriage will stop you from achieving those!

If you have another reason just state it out and stop using masters as an excuse.

LaSenior:
No guy is too broke to spend on his girlfriend is either the girlfriend is of the high class type which makes it more difficult for him to maintain

Women and entitlement mentality is only a few lady who is ready to spend on their guy

From experience
I won't advise a lady to spend on a guy.
It will make her too vulnerable from the man's view point

Nothing special
It may just be because of your uniform. Its very common to get a free ride when you're wearing that uniform. But I don't know why old men are after you sha

Congrats.
God bless your union

tnerro1:
Currently fvcking a girl who has a serious boyfriend in Lagos. Am helping the boyfriend to warm the pvssy. Long distance relationships is not worth it.

If i were you

I'll bury my head in shame. Instead of making it look like an achievement.