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Nothing last forever.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Isn't it curious that all the miracles stopped happening after cameras & the internet were created?

Na only 4 bible wey...

Snake dey talk,
Where jesus walked on water,
Samson kill an adult lion with bare hand,
Fire come 4rm heaven to consume sacrifice,
A dead man will come back to life..

Who is this please!
Its bad enough that you don't read your bible please don't make it worse by writing thing upside down.
How did miracles stopped happening?
Where did a snake talk?
Where did Samson killed an adult lion?
I pray the eyes of your understanding be enlighten.

Chiraq77:
I for do am but I don high

Don't mind the Op.
I don't drink but i can't identify many things there.
Its only groundnut that i can see without taking a second look
Wickedness

Congrats

Well said!!!
Even though everyone have his/her time in life.

JustPowerApps:
You ghosted him and he ghosted you back, looks like you met your match This is interesting.

Let me advice you real quick, when you need someone, drop the society believe and be normal to them, I am sure you acted on "who cares less controls the relationship "

Now take this "A bird you hold loosely will fly away"

"Who cares less controls the relationship"
That's a seemingly correct statement.
How can because i love you more than you love me, you will now be controlling the relationship? It can't work for long
With time my eyes will open and you will be in pepper soup

I don't know what placing someone's message on read really means, but from the way you made it sound, it like you were trying to make him worry about you deliberately.
Common babe the relationship is still very much new and you're beginning to start unnecessary drama.

And the same time you want him to be all over you. Who does that?
The way you're looking for genuine love that's how he's looking for someone genuine too.
So try to be more serious with him, if he comes around fine, if he doesn't good.

You can't force someone to be more serious about you

CheapHomes1:
You haven't answered the questions.

How does people keeping money in their houses and are not using it, make naira to be less in circulations and life more difficult?

Did cbn ever say how much new naira notes they will print or did they say the new naira notes they will print is dependent on those people keep in their homes?

So upon all what I explained you still don't understand?
No explanation wey i go give go make you understand then.
Go and make research on your own

I reject poverty
But sickness not my portion.
So I'll go with 50k, its not a forever, i can say goodbye to it faster that such life threatening sickness.

CheapHomes1:
How does people keeping money in their houses and are not using it, make naira to be less in circulations and life more difficult?

Did cbn ever say how much new naira notes they will print or did they say the new naira notes they will print is dependent on those people keep in their homes?

The proper English is hoard,
Eg
If I'm in a position to steal public funds, you think i will keep all in a bank acct or buy property?
No sir
I will keep it somewhere more safe.
In 20 years nothing will happen to the money.
Posterity will use it. That is what I'm talking about. Not kobo kobo

CheapHomes1:
What's the essence of the redesign?

So you don't know the purpose?
Okay lemme assume you're serious.
In simple terms, some people have pack money and keep in their houses and are not using it, making naira to be less in circulations and life more difficult.
So now that it's redesigned,
They have two options,
1. To bring it out and it will circulate
2. The keep it and it will be useless.
Cus the new naira note will replace the old one in there houses.ie even if 1billion is in someone's possession, cbn will print another 1billion to replace that one at the end of the deadline
Hope i did not confuse but convince with the above point of mine

Why it is that is difficult to please people?
I don't know what's wrong with the notes,
Asif you can do better if you were to be in his place.
Mtsw

'It is privilege not a right'
It is not for job seekers though

ExudeLoveToAll:
You think someone who earns 200k and has a ride in Nigeria today isn't available for cheating?

The problem here is the caliber of people making this decision.

If the lady isn't broke, then her decision making process night be different from the typical broke lady who expects to start earning a living from the pocket of another.

Self sufficiency helps one in decision making.

Emmmm.
You're right

wisdomkid:
No STD or disease... Mehn, the first dude offer looks enticing...
But remember your own peace of mind and mockery that comes with it.

You can speak in public, etc

In this our country, rules are for the average and low class,
Moreover cheating coming from a man is normal according to the society

NeckingNgulping:
Yes, only cheating and i hope you're not trying to say you'd overlook it

I want to be a reverend sister abeg i just dicovered my calling today during Sunday service

Amotolongbo:
I would have preferred the second guy, not a ready made one. I like men who are ambitious, not relenting on the meagre they receive as salary.

The problem now is the second guy “can” eventually transform into the first guy if he becomes wealthy.

My dear once that second guy starts seeing cash
He will remember that 'it time for me to start enjoying myself' and i hope you know what 'enjoy myself' means to most men and women.

Op sorry to ask oooooo
But is cheating the only 'challenge' of the first dude?
Asin only cheating?

Berrityga:
see me see wahala, your the owner of your puzzy if you like allow cobwebs cover it. Its non of my business but the day we meet and you Say you like me we must fuuuck weda we break up 30mins later thats on God not me.

From the way you talk.
Maturity is very far from you.
Its a very simple maths, why are you all beating, boxing and throwing punches aimlessly?

Killbillz:
And the ones u have not been doing it how many survived? Sex is important but it definitely isn't the basis for holding a realationship. It is an integral part of the whole

Don't use reserve psychology on me.
Anyway we all know sex outside marriage is wrong.
Repeating a lie a millions time doesn't make it the truth.

Berrityga:
Sex is key in every relationship. I can't date without sex.. Infact some of the girls I've dated we started with sex. When the sex was good they decided to keep me. I always tell every girl I meet I can't date without sex so if your not offering me sex please pass.

The ones that you've being doing it, how many of them survived.
To tell you that was never a basis for its survival.

If only the new lady knows the kind of man she's busy 'trapping' herself with!
You're still attracted to your ex, why lead the another lady on?
I don't know what's wrong with someone people!

Pro unitate

seunfly:
You are actually wrong, it is an irresponsible men that spends excessively on frivolous things which includes ordinary girl on a date, those are the type of men that will spend outside while people at home suffers.
Unfortunately this are the type of men todays women run after and complain about how financially irresponsible their husband is.

Who is talking about date here?

Why do you need a public option to do something for your babe?
Please don't buy it before something will happen and you will start demanding the phone back

Its like this days we just find people we can use in the name of love.
I fear relationships

Tbaba001:
I can take care of my bills
The only thing I took away from your comment is MEN WHO CAN PAY THEIR BILL AND MEN WHO HAVE FRIENDS DON'T NEED A WOMAN


PEACE!

Peace!

JackHamma1234:
The lady would not die if she ordered meat pie and ice cream alone or just bottle water. The notion that men must spend on you has no bearing in Morden or ancient rules of dating. Ladies somehow expect a man to :
1. Dress to impress
2. Make her laugh
3. Give her butterflies
4. Direct the discussion
5. Pay for the entire date
What was her own input to the date. She be carton? What is her value in the date? My date paid for her own and also was funny although the date, adding value can't wait to see her again am cooking for her this time cos she deserves it.

The ones that a woman will say 'lemme add value to him' , the man will start seeing her as a mumu. Am talking from experience.

Tbaba001:
So basically a man who takes care of your bill, what you offer is friendship? The equation no balance o

If a lady is a friend she can equally take care of his bills too. Its simple

Tbaba001:
I totally agree with you but please what's the duty of the Woman in a relationship (I don't mean marriage)

I can't speak for others but looking at it from my view of point the woman should be a friend.
And when i talk about friend i don't mean someone who is looking for a trade by barter.
Cuz even the man providing is in his quest to be her friend.

StrongAlphMale:
I just checked your profile picture and I'm not surprised. Poverty has really dealt with you, hence the reason for this entitlement mentality of yours

This one you're on top of my matter mentioning everywhere and tryna insult me belittling me and all of that.
I just hope at the end of the day.
You go and check your mental stability and blood pressure. It will help alot

StrongAlphMale:
Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

You're the one tryna twist my words oo
What does a husband do?
Is it to be dashing wife money?
Its just like a cheating before marriage. Do you expect faithfulness after marriage?

MNDY:
You said a man is irresponsible for not
beginning to take care of his woman before
marriage and that he will become worse when he marries her.
All around the world, that is not how relationship operates.
A South-African lady made a video recently blasting Nigerian ladies
for making love all about money. She said the wrong concept
is noticed in Nigerian guys living there in South Africa.

Baba.
No. I said any man that has the mentality of 'i can't spend on a woman who is not my wife' will be an irresponsible husband because he will not spend on her when he married her.
Spending doesn't mean he should go and take care of her generational problems.