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Silentgroper:
Well he chopped her kuntus

You just like drama
Don't you?
What did he use to eat it. Was it spoon or fork abi knife?

Silentgroper:
he wasnt looking 4 love either...

Broseysey
That lady did not loss anything she never gave him anything she sourced for

The middle pix is definitely a costume

Sunnyhillsfarms:
Thank you very much sir.

Are you for real?
You can easily go to where feed is being sold and ask for the price na shuuu!
The prices differs

I don't see how you conquered here sha
Either ways it was your loss not that she loved you anyway.

Its a free world

Dickjo:
helo can i told u a questions please?

This is a very simple thing na.
You have two tested and trusted options here
Either you go to him and ask him why he does that directly
Or you wait, with time you will figure it out. Time is a revealer.

MisterKennedy:
Hi Medianna

Greetings

DryMouth:
I'm not in anyway asking her to beg for forgiveness...

That's her real character.

If that's her real character then stay far pls

Bro Oyin pasisei we are getting bothered

Elucidate321:
Yes, indeed not many couples. And that is because most couples are together on the wrong foundation. We are in naija. We know the many things that make men and women seek to get married. But as long as those reasons are dishonest, selfish, callous or a means to escape one thing or the other, they will fall into the category of couples you are referring to. But believe me, marriage, true honest loving marriage, with mutual respect and learnt understanding, is a beautiful experience, despite any challenge that comes. I know. Before we met, I and my wife were mostly depressed individuals. But individually, we were disciplined enough not to rush into marriage for any reason apart from what was true to our inner selves. Then we met, and you can say we married late in our lives. But immediately, because our connection was true, we built each other up and brought out the inner joy and peace in us. Even our individual finances started improving drastically. There is no force more powerful than a couple agreeing on any matter in this life. But... everyone with their priorities and choices.

Am learning sir

DryMouth:
There are some behaviour I just can't tolerate.

Since she is so big to enter public transport why didn't she order an uber with her account?

Hmmm you're anyway
But she's sorry na

franchasofficia:
I am married and its one of my best decisions.


I use to be among those guys that detaste marriage for no just reason, but here I am happily married. When I look at my son, joy overwhelms my heart and I can't wait to have a girl child too.



Why many people end up in a disastrous marriage is lies and being too secretive to the man or woman they want to marry.


Don't lie to your partner before marriage, open up with your fears and some negative things about your life. If you are a guy that finds it difficult to resist beautiful women, let your wife to be know, don't keep it a secret.


If you are broke, don't lie to her that you are rich just to lure her into marrying you only for her to discover otherwise.


If your job is unstable tell her, don't tell her that you are thr CEO of your company when in reality you are just the gatekeeper which isn't bad.


Another thing is, be realistic with your expectations from the opposite sex, don't expect too much, just be realistic with the things and qualities you expect from your would be husband or wife. Don't go thinking because you are too beautiful, a virgin, with good paying job that the man you would marry will never cheat on you, nope, just zero your mind and put your fears and expectations to God to help you take care of.



When people become honest, realistic and with less expectations from the opposite sex, they will end up in a happy, healthy marriage.


Marriage is sweet, but this doesn't mean that there are no challenges in marriage.


One of the greatest challenges in marriage today is finance, once a man is able to sort that out via legitimate income source, his marriage issues are 70% solved.

Thanks

DryMouth:
There is nothing to calm again...

During courtship I can't see that kind of redflag and ignore. This lady was using public transport before i met her. She has been calling since morning but my decision is final. No going back

How do you guys do it?

One minute you're in love with the person and the next minute you change it for the person.

Newton2024:
I can say it with all sincerity. My life is now better of than when I was single. I used to be sad and depressed but now I am happy and joyful. If couples possess fruits of the spirit and follow biblical principles on relationship, all marriages would be lively.

Enemies of marriage nowadays:
- ego (my decision is final and I can't apologize)
- comparison (my spouse must be like the spouse I watch on TV)
- faulty mindset
- lack of self-control
- etc

Interesting. happy for you

Newton2024:
You have not met the man God designed for you. The man that is strong where you are weak. The man that is not like you but is compatible with you. That's why you are scared for no tangible reason.

Let no one deceive you, marriage is the sweetest thing in life. Joy of motherhood is unquantifiable. Before it is late for you, seek the face of God in marriage.

This is what people say and think before marriage but how many married people can stand and say what you just said with all sincerity?

frozen70:
This is not a problem because there are solutions

Mama is stubborn, now coupled with old age, she will be more stubborn and problematic

Let the husband and wife go to Mushin if they live in Lagos and make enquiries about old people's home, there is another one at Yaba, that one belongs to Lagos state government while the one at Mushin belongs to catholic

Even if mama comes in and they have a stand by attendant for her, the am wife will still not be comfortable with her presence because she is difficult to handles especially now at old age

They can look for a two bedroom flat where the rent will be cheaper to pay and use the other part to pay for mama's admission to old people home

I believe she will be happier there

If it were to be her mother she will send her to mushin or whatever abi?
No na they can do better. This is what family is all about

Omo. Its both genders

proxillin:
Girls are the one turning relationship to scam jare.

This days in relationship
To get better person its a combination of prayer and fasting with a touch of waiting(Patience).

Nobody wants to play the fool. But two people that have sense at the same time cannot be in a relationship

Okonandmary:
Happy birthday.

Just one question.

I have seen many Nigerians wearing thick turtle neck in the hot sun, how comfortable are you guys in it?

Turtle necks are for winter,autumn and spring not hot weather ( summer)

Lolzzz
Look behind him right over his head.
That should answer the question from my own side

The way no one is agreeing with anyone in this thread is hilarious.

Una like fight more than quarrel for this Romance session

Happy birthday sir greater heights.

At this junction I can conclude its not happening cuz the moon is very much white

toujurs:
this is the reason he should have bleeped her, before giving her. She won't have had the audacity to call 500 naira, ordinary

Lokzz

Someone score 281 here and he just dey hiss anyhow.
You scored 195 you want to commit suicide.

Why common jamb can make one depressed is what I don't understand.
When you eventually pass it and go to school, school sef have a bigger gbese.
So chill. Its part of life.

Because of 500 box you're crying like you gave her your left kidney?

E dey pain me say rain fall this night

Which kan winchy winchy birds dey that last picture
Abi bird dey fly for night

maureensylvia:
I cannot can anymore

I don't know what you're trying to say here..
But,, seconded

Sorry about that
But are you not suppose to be uploading their picture why video.. If something happens how will they be traced?
The story be as e get sha.

Ahhh.

Dey there na. We plenty.
But shey you know the guy is not gonno use the whole of it for hair cut?

People have sent more than that without making noise.
Ordinary 20k. If I were the boyfriend that will be the last time I will accept any cash from her.

Someone up there said its because she stays with her parents. A woman can never please you even if she sheds the last drop of her blood for you.

She doesn't need the money. She is contented.
Next time try giving her other simple things apart from money.