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Stayingtrueee:
A part of me really wants this child but the thought the father doesn't want to have anything to do with it is killing me

Have the child na.. Are you not the mother?

Stayingtrueee:
I am capable of taking care of myself but knowing fully he doesn't want to have anything to do with the pregnancy I'll terminate it but we'll have to go together.

We are talking of a man that doesn't care anymore here. At least at the moment

Don't increase your blood pressure by fighting him,
No matter the pain just swallow it and move on

He has already told you his mind na
So now what I don't understand is this:
Is it that you're not financially stable enough or you can't make any decision on your own?

I don't want to die yet

Probably one Nigeria bobo don do her strong thing in the past.
If not how are Ghanaians better than Nigerians!

Water body

NLPoliceWoman:
Quote the moderators.
What the kid did is against Rule 10 of the forum.
10. Don't violate the privacy of any people e.g. by posting their private pics, info, or chats without permission.
He keeps breaking the rules of this forum.

Press the report button and type 10 in the box.

Thanks alot

Atticusxsz:
Oh! I'm so sorry about what you must be going through as it's. Although, I'm curious to want to know what transpired but i wouldn't want to go prying into your personal life or relating to your love life but i know and believe you'll be fine lastly.

*smiles*

Atticusxsz:
It's damned tOo complicated.
I'm quite optimistic about that and thanks 4 your time and utmost concern.

Thanks for the audience
its because I'm facing something similar right now.

Kriss216:
Carry your synthetic wig commot from my mention, abeg!

For the last time delete me piz

Kriss216:
See who's calling one albino

When did calling Albino become an offense?
I hope everything is OK with your thinking faculty sha.

You know you bringing my pix here without my permission is an offense yea?

Congrats.
The hand looks like albino though. Nice hand

South east
South west
South south
North east
North west
North central

Next time endeavour to make use these not not south east west and north

Atticusxsz:
Nah... it can never and was never my fault. Even her clique of friends were envious of the relationship we had due to several factors. They're always replaying it in her head that we wouldn't last due to the so many female friends i had and who were openly interested in been in a relationship with me if I'll give in. This was a girl that would act hilariously whenever a female friend of mine puts a call across to me or she'll want to see who I'm chatting with. Even when i do show her the chats and all... she'll openly tell me that she's scared that we wouldn't end up together because majority of my friends were graduates with promising future, slay babes from Nysc camp and some working class chicks while there's nothing worthwhile about her existence and not to talk about the fact that she's just gotten admission. It's a funny scenario back then. I'll laugh over it calling her and telling her she's a comedienne due to her witty comments but she'll remind me that I always love evading the topic of discourse.

Athough, i do reassure her 24/7 that she's safe and shouldn't be bothered whatsoever about her fears. I do flaunt her to my hommies because she always come around to see me.

This was a girl her mum humbled and kept reprimanding on a steady that she shouldn't use her wayward life to make me abandon her or flee from the relationship since it's too good to be true that i was dating her daughter and honestly, i came to love her, not until her mum passed away and everything went berserk due to peer pressure from friends at school in Delta state. She had to be free of me so as to put in her all in the hustle and there's no job forthcoming whatsoever so as 4 to help her in anyway necessarily. Although, she had a dad but the upkeep from her dad were barely enough to sustain her week in week out. She had to succumb finally to peer pressure and that's how it all started. So, i tolerated a whole lot, things that i wouldn't even have tolerated due to her late mum and i believe if she's still alive, things wouldn't have gotten to the extent it's. If it weren't 4 her late mum, i believe i would have sank my teeth in her and call the shots. So, i had to agree to her to pursue what she's after so that it wouldn't seem as if it's a guy/bf that's limiting her in life. My rest of mind can never be compromise 4 anything whatsoever in life. So, that's just it.

She's been seeking for my permission to come around from Delta state where she schooled since she's now done with her ND program to see me in Onne in R/S. Telling me about what she's missed, how she's missed me and all, trying to wake up dead memories but that's all crap to me. I had to tell her in person via video call but she's damned still persuasive and slightly hopeful.

What she fails to comprehend fully since I've been preaching and preaching, according to her is that in all the relationships I've had, I've never for once gone back to my ex after splitting or breaking up no matter the persuasiveness, memories or love we shared as long as they were the ones that called the shots. Also, i may have their pics, contacts and all but I've never 4 once call them or chat them up and that's what one of my ex lecturing in Ken Saro Wiwa Polytechnic pointed out to me recently. I had to tell her that I've been living with such a lifestyle since time immemorial and it's been superb and nourishing ever since.

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You tried sha. Though its a complicated story you have here
I hope you find someone that will stand by you very soon.

Atticusxsz:
I've been in relationships like 3 to 4 times in my entirety but we splitting up just happens but the one that occurred between one of my ex and i in 2018 and the response she got from me was top notch... there's no need beating about the bush. There's no stressing and rolling on the floor with excessive emotional meltdown.

In all my dating experience, i would prefer my gf breaks up with me than me going through with it because of past experiences and it's been working like that ever since.

She called me severally on phone to drop the national cake on me but i wasn't with my phone. My phone was been charged at a charging booth within my neighbourhood. So, she came from Ogale in eleme where she's residing then with her mum to Onne to see me, although her mum's already late 2 months back.

Onome: Corpertion o... you know i really want the best 4 you in life and instead of making things easier 4 you, it's been getting worse which isn't no fault of yours.

Atticusxsz: I understand you completely.

Onome: I will always pray to God to grant you your wishes and give you someone that you'd be so proud to call your better half.

Atticusxsz: So?

Onome: If God wills and wants us to be together/end up together, there will always be a way but as it stands now, i think we aren't compatible and it can't just work. I know you won't want to break up with me, so I'll take the initiative to say we need a break so as to recollect and know where we are headed in life.

Atticusxsz: Ok... that would be cOoL.

Note: If eyes could kill, i would've drop dead on the spot that day. For two weeks, Onome related what transpired on that day to her clique of friends and co... swearing up and down, telling me that I've got no heart and feelings, not knowing that i was just been fair to her since she called the shots.

It's been 3 years now and Onome no one allow me hear word... hoping and wishing for a reunion, abi na comeback but I've got a lot on my plate, not to talk about the ones I'm trying to minus from the harem readily available.

So, break up abi na wetin una call am no dey move any artery 4 my body.

Make una continue... we go follow una 4 yansh.

You did not tell us what lead to the break up! Was it your fault?
(I love love stories)

MeghaneMorgane:
The day I didn’t zip my trouser and everyone was seeing my pant. Nobody bothered to tell me. Thank God I wore under ware if not my private part would have been on full display. It was a colleague who told me to zip up and that was like after 30 minutes of walking up and down

It happened to me once too.
Na one man say 'zip your trouser and I was wearing that trouser on my d.p
I zipped it before leaving home o but I wasn't embarrassed sha

Thank gwad for pant

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you huncle...

I mean its absurd

Use A-Z oil. That's the only lubricant I know for now

JoyousFurnitire:
Oh I guessed right

It's Modina and not Medinat/Modinat

Abeg its an heavenly name stop saying it like one Yoruba name

JoyousFurnitire:
Just tell him your name, Modina

I can sue you for toying with my name..

marwanafrica:
yes
allow me to bless you or you bless me

Ahhh
Me am looking for who will bless me oo
Hope you're not trying to prank me to see if my name is medianna for real

marwanafrica:
yes

Should I be scare?

marwanafrica:
Wow.
send me your acct number or Should i send you mine, you might be classic than me

Acct number you say?
Should I be scared?

marwanafrica:
you wellcome, Is that your real name?

Kindof

Suspect1:
nobody asked you about your younger brother, so keep shut noise makes!

Ahhh

Mabinu.

marwanafrica:
i like your name

Thanks

Some have shoes but don't have leg.
Some have legs but don't have shoes.
Such is life.

Truvelisback:
Are u hurt?

*Smiles*

Truvelisback:
Medianna, Yes and No. God has given us a freewill of Choice. I.e U can choose who u want to be ur wife or husband. However, there those who seek God tru Prayers and wants God's lead or direct them on who to be their marriage partner. God could speak to them, givem a sign or speak to or show them in dreams or visions. This could would involve a serious fastings and prayers.

When wisdom speaks. Its undisputable
I dey your back this time around.

Truvelisback:
Another parable But know this, i can tell well whether most girls are virgin by mere looking at them(without sex). I.e from their face, their breasts, or their body. I can tell abt some girls by even by just mere looking at their profile pics.

Noted.
Even profile pics..
Do you want to tell me something?
Guru maharajah weldone

Even though we have not had his side of the story
Try calling him one more time. Or drop a massage for him about the points you just drop for us. And then ask him a simple question at the end of your conversion.
"Should I move on"
Anything he says weigh it and work by it. If he doesn't give a direct answer. It means 'yes'
Don't be afraid of loosing, its better you face him now and loose than for you to loose later.

Nyascobar1414:
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See this ekuke....

This one you are slim....


Your toto go be like Lagos/Ibadan express...


Shift jareh.

Thanks