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Cholls:
My brother nawao and you say you love her

passey:
My closest dude spent #200k...
Gave the wife #150k to buy clothes for herself.
Paid dowry of #30k
Paid #20k for some traditional rites.

Gave the woman the Ddick and they are married with two beautiful kids...

Now, they worth more than #100m!

oladipuposadeeq:
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Michhy123:
My waiting time expired last year but uncle is not saying anything positive...only to restrict my access to his Facebook page, I can't see his post, who post / comments on his wall etc.i can't even tag him except message to his inbox... IAM trying hard to be myself

HARDDON:
I wouldn't dignify the op with a response...
I'd rather advise the average guy out there.

1. Never start off any r/ship/ marriage on the wrong foot.
From what the op posted, it is obvious he asked her out and she laid down conditions for her to accept him. The major one being NO SEX BEFORE MARRAIGE. And the mallam accepted. Now she quoted it like they both mutually consented.

Note that this statement is Double edge manipulative punch.
a. No sex if I'm to agree to date you
b. This date must lead to marriage.

This is supper selfish already. Never let jRod rule you and accept this thrash.

DON'T LOSS YOUR BALLS because OF SOME OVERUSED VJAY.

To avoid situations like this, stop flogging a dead horse. There is nothing you want to say she hasn't heard world over before.
A reputable employer has no business begging an employee to come work. When there are a thousand and one more qualified, jobless people out there.

However, if you ever make that mistake and she pull this line,
Tell her to slow down. Grab you balls and let her know where they at. That she has to impress you first. If you like her feminine fragrance, you'd take it a notch up.
Not the other way round.

2. Most gurls that make this kind of proposals are the overused ones and feminists with alot of baggages.
These sets are red flags. Runnnnnnnnnn

3. You hand your balls to a woman the very moment you ask her out.

4. Gurls that are really into you would not put self first but rather put you first. Ready to abandoned Creed and culture, friends and family to be with you.

5. Never settle for less. There are better deals out there.


I pray that guy would not make the mistake of marrying her if not, she would be running the show and calling the shots at home.


Kindly note: I am in no way saying there should be s3x before marriage.
Rather, it should be a mutual understanding between two adults not a manipulative bullet from some vJayfied soft bone

nifebabe:
I'm a virgin and I really feel like having sex with my boyfriend(he asks me for it too)...bh I'm scared
Cos we're both broke..
If kasala Goan burst
I no get money to take care of baby
Also, he's not also trying to make money
He can't take care of me
Shey me that I can't take care of myself

Omar09:
I didn't ignore because I know that's true and I like it. You shouldn't have been here in the first place, all you are after is chasing clout and trying to make yourself noticed in this forum by making stu.pid comments here.

Well you caught my eye, I have noticed you. Dum.b dum.b

poseidon12:
Not true.

Michellekabod2:
[s]the father of a child always want to be involved in the child life. As a man can you forget your kid and dash him to a new family? The problem now is the nature of visit. Because of the bad reputation contacting an ex has,most people contact their exes clandestinely in other not to anger their spouses. The clandestine "meeting" or "calls" or "chat" is suspicious itself. The key to solve this whole single-mum-baby-daddy problem is to let the ex be involved in the "[couple's" and the baby's life.
I mean the ex should be in contact with your family(your wife,the kid and yourself),he should be a family friend so that they will be no need for him to contact her alone. The husband should have a rapport with the baby daddy so the number of times he has to call the wife be reduced. Instead of calling her always to ask if he is ill, he can put you on call at times.
If room is made for him to see his own child once in a while(for example quarterly),whereby his visit is planned and anticipated by the husband and wife,then there will be no room for secret meetings or contacts. [/s]



That said,aside single mums,they are people who establish a soul-tie with someone. For life that bond may never be broken,especially their first love. Men in the 40s,married with kids still remember their teenage first love of decades ago,ladies do the same too

Admin9:
Thanks for bringing this up.

I am currently with a girl that has had anal sex before we started dating although i was the one that deflowered her "vaginally". She claims that i was the one that disvirgined her but i am confused if to take credit or not.

partnerbizn3:
Never had any

celibate

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Yimu
Who dash you?