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@dream dream cream dream
Take it easy on the poster, infact you are trying to miscostrue the whole essence of this public plea. Apparently, you don't have much to say, allow others.

@Poster
It takes a lot of humility to do this, i belive also if your guy is a nairalander, he would be able to read between lines. Take it easy on yourself, i feel your pains. When you try drown your troubles in tears, you just teach them how to swim. Be calm.

First and foremost, you made him the reason for your existence. Mistake number one. Don't get me wrong, i believe in love, and ofcourse i believe you love him.
But, listen, give him some air. If he wants to frolic, please just hold yourself a bit, allow him, if he's yours believe me, he will come to his senses and to you.
Don't tell his family members anything. I f you can, continue calling them just on a normal jist, get close to them.
Meanwhile, keep your eyes open wide, you see, nothing gives one person so much advantage over another as to remain always cool and unruffled under all circumstances.
I WISH YOU THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

julery:
hello guys i need your advice ,my girlfriend got introduced to this guy like 5 months ago and since then he has been calling her and vice versa.now she told me she was going out to visit a friend .only to hear from her later that she went to visit a guy she has been talking to, i don't know what to believe if she cheating on me or what.since then when ever i see her i don't have anything to say to her, what should i do

Listen, you are not been a man atall. Let me start by asking you some questions.
1)She got introduced to some guys like 5 months back by who?
2)When she was receiving those calls from the guy, what was your reaction?
3)Since she came back from her adventure, why did you decide to act dumb?

I mean, i don't think you have any genuine intention for this girl, because if you do, you would be asking a lot of questions right from day one. And if you continue with your lips sealed, she would probably come back with an engagement ring one of this days.

Hey, if you don't stand for something, you fall for anything.

Bro, you've lost it completely. I mean, how would you feel if some lunatic(of your type) suddenly wakes up from a terrible nightmare and demands your wife? I've carefully read your statements from last year till now and could not honestly fathom what you really wanted from a married woman.

You sound so stupid. Please do us all a favour - get the f**k outta here. You make me sick - lunatic!

NOTE : An unexamined life is not worth living.

[center]Never mistake motion for action.

Every tide ebbs, leaving beautiful pebbles behind.

We live as we like, but seldom like as we live.

The fearful unbelief is unbelief in yourself.

Low-lying land drinks its own water and that of other places. [/center]

This issue need not be overflowed. I mean let us first define what God really had in mind on the issue of marriage.

Marriage is a divine institution and a natural contract by which a man and a woman become husband and wife, for the production and upbringing of children in the fear and nurture of the living God.

A woman denying her husband sex, should have concise reason for that, same goes for the man. It should not be a one way traffic. I think what we should be doing here is offering solution to the root cause and not throwing jabs, insults and all what not to each other. This is a sensitive matter, until you are married you might never understand what this particular topic entails.

Man's second childhood begins when a woman gets hold of him. It is a different ball game from mere girlfriend and boyfriend thing.

In the words of Longfellow :[center] As unto bow the cord is,
As unto the man is woman,
Though she bends him, she obeys him,
Though she draws him, yet she follows,
Useless each without the other.[/center]

They've all missed the bus to reality. Stupid punks who think they are the in-thing. Sent to school to get degrees, preferred to get initiated into rubbish secret cults that has no good intention nor concrete plans for them. When they fail they blame everything around them, including their toiling parents.

NOTE : Crooked by nature is never made straight by education!


See cultism, see you.  If you are that brave, rescue your country Nigeria. hhhhiiiiiiiissssssss

Get some home work done, be a good girl.

I sympathize with you greatly. You see, marriage is the voluntary union for life of one man and one woman; to the exclusion of all others. The picture i'm painting here is that, once you get in be ready to stick to it. Man's second childhood begins when a woman gets hold of him.

Count yourself lucky that your fiancee deemed it fit to go the road of confession. It would have been worse if this was coming in after your marriage with her. Get yourself together, if you are convinced that she is truly sorry for her misdemeanour, forgive and forget it. BUT be very sure she has changed or turned back from her road of adventure (thats what i call it).

Finally, pray that GOD gives you the strength to encounter that which is to come, that you may be brave in peril, constant in in tribulation, temperate in wrath, and in all changes of fortune, and down to the gates of death, loving and loyal one to another.