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Lovely girls.

God sent in what way? Mr Ibu, are you looking for something?

I never ever pray for this. But there is only one way to always settle this issue.

Don't ask me how.

Useless paedophile.

E no go beta for those devils. God pls, help this child to come back home safe. And may the culprits be caught.

Guy is a peacock. Preening and congratulating himself. You stay in a dead marriage with non existent sex and expect your wife to remain a Virgin Mary?
I would have supported him if he wasn't too pompous ,egoistic and self centred.

The resemblance is uncanny
And if it were me, the food I had already eaten would have found its way outta my mouth.

The dress is wrong for the wedding. Its an unspoken rule that no one competes with the bride on her day. So a white ball gown or couture piece is a no no.

Stelvin101:
Lmfao. Aaaarhhhh, if Na me you give that loan now I for done pay back in 5 months once I put am for MMM

Abi o. Chai, see my money.

Stelvin101:
You better give that your friend 1000 yards make your torchlight ba3 nor go run down one day and nor shine reach to monitor her. My elder sister had a friend like that. I had to chase the gal away from her life coz she comes to my sister's matrimonial home anyhow and na heavy runs gal who specialize in married men.

True. She is out of my life now, thank God. Loaned 400k from me and refused to pay back. As she be sef, I use dat excuse send her out of my life.

@OP, realise this, as u lay your bed, be prepared to lie on it. What you tolerate today, be prepared to tolerate same in 20 years time.

Boundaries are set early in marriage, if you wait till later, it will be termed as sudden change that will do you no good.

Get on your knees, tell God your intention is to correct your husband, that you need His support. Then be prepared when next he attacks to give your husband a dose of his medicine. Make it lightening fast. Before he can recover, walk away. If he accosts you, tell him exactly what he always tells you.

With spiritual backing, there's a high chance of change. A wise woman uses a combination of spiritual, psychological and physical to win her battles.

coolviv:
Op here is what you ll do.
Gather your mind and decide that he ll either stop this or the marriage will end. For him to tell the househelp to disobey u openly is a signal of his growing lack of respect for you which you caused by letting him demean you in public with no consequences.

Now get ready to make him feel you hate him. When he shouts at you in public again for like maybe a minute or 2, ensure that you use the next 28 mins to tell him his life history and his grandfather's own. You can actually time yourself. ..remove your mouth from brake and let it run as if he stole your money. Even after the shout, keep throwing dirty and hateful looks at him such that he ll wonder If it's safe to sleep in d house.

Now after all these, the following might happen:

He ll ask for a divorce or drive you out of his house.. whereby u can get a good lawyer and get some financial benefits.

He ll be so shocked at your actions, he ll remember how he married you and try to make peace and win your love back.

Police will arrest you both and someone will snap d pic and post it on nairaland with the title.. ' Wife goes kolomental on mentally deranged husband (Photos) '.

Don't bother thanking me..

All the best..

Pllllls, see as I wan give advice and you turn serious issue into laffing matta. .
@ the the bolded ROTFL.

Its mostly money. I have a friend who dates married men. She told me once that most often she feels like slapping and tearing the men to pieces when they are humping her. She feels disgusted with herself after the act.

I asked her, why don't you just stop? She said she needed the money. Me I dnt understand how one can sleep with a man u feel nauseous just looking at.

I rated her crazy that day and after my wedding, I dey torchlight her wella where ma hubby is concerned.

Thank God you have told them. Hope they will restrategize and kick you asses in defeat back to Algeria.
Can't wait till five.
Uyo Stadium , here I come

Obviously, Buhari is sympathetic to the Boko Haram movement. As a former military man, he should have known the implications of releasing Boko Haram members and paying ransom.
The poor military lives wasted by this bad decision is what hurts.

Halix75:
Hello guys, I don't know the sources of this lies but to put the record straight, Fatima was married to a very respectful and gentle man whom I know very well even before she met her husband, am one of those who took her marriage box's from kaduna to Daura when she was still in ABU Zaria, attended all the wedding activities, visit their house at wish in sabon kawo kaduna. Her husband never beat women in his life but they have been having family issues which is normal and the woman was so difficult and arrogant and commanding more especially when her father became the president. After all effort to settle the issue by a state Governor and family members proveed abortive She got her divorce just before last Ramadan fasting and not all the kids are sickle cells patient. The husband did very well in keeping her despite all the difficulties. Think of it guys the husband is a serving commissioner of Finance in one of the states, the same party with her father and didn't divorce his wife until when her father became the president of the country? Please we should always do just by writing what is real.

Na wa o. Where do these people get their stories from? This sounds plausible.
Moreover, I wonder why she prefers being a fourth wife. Where she go use her arrogance now; on the old man? Or her senior wives?
SMDH.

Poor children. The elephants are fighting, and they are the grass suffering. Btw, kids are still very young. They shd be with the mother for now.

Much as I appreciate this, she should have given the testimony AFTER delivery. Wishing her a safe one still.

MYGFGSGH:
which region are they claimning? Do you know the history of Biafra, it's teritorial boundries even before whitemen came. But lagos is western Nigeria and part of your Oduduwa?

I would have really replied this if you hadn't assumed I am Yoruba.

SlayerSupreme:

The Akwacross people who support Biafra are disgruntled youths? Okay. It's obvious you're playing ostrich cc ProfessorPeter

Want to conduct a survey? Or get Govt. to call for a referendum?

jaywhoco:
lol...I am good sis... Will need lessons though to answwer the way you asked. Loool

Oya, go village go stay for one year. U go learn by force.

Nikita1:
it shows our value in the sense that the town of ironically dead now. You will even hear the men saying they wonder how this world will be without women in it. Have you ever been to grave yard , Ondo town is the same with grave yard now

Understood. I wish it could have been one week. . More impact would have been felt and the women would get a well deserved holiday.

How does it even concern the writer? Some people just want turn afternoon activists.

Mrdecent:
When I saw bend, my mind went straight to another thing. May God help me. Nairaland front page doesn't even help the matter. Leak this and this,Cleverage of this and that.. Expose boooobs of miss that.. O sun MI

hotspec:
Meaning? How does ds qualify as a news? Ok, i also arrived at my village today...is dt a news?

Yes, its news. That you even typed this from your village is news o.

Op, please explain, how does that tradition show the value of women in the society?

BlackMbakara1:
I can't be shouting i'm being oppressed by another tribe and still want to be oppressed by another tribe that is a majority...

True.

Always giving the North an edge in sectors that matter. Let's just hope na military politics.

DeRay98:
Absolutely, they want the people they will then start to dominate abi.

You know how the land lies. Its a typical cycle. Rope in AkwaCross, then lord it over them by claiming majority numbers. Exactly what the North is doing.

And even if AkwaCross may have wanted to join, they know the deal with this new marriage will be worse than the current one.

Chimdiebere:
I have hard core BIAFRANS from Akwacross so shut up!

Unfortunately for you, I typed, I wasn't talking, so I can't shut up.
Pockets of disgruntled youths here and there doesn't matter. Continue to deceive yourself, I repeat categorically , AkwaCross wants nothing to do with Biafra.

jaywhoco:
I am ibibio from eket in akwa-ibom state...that's all.

Ayeyid, asededighe?