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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Am In Love With Snazzydawn,pls Help by mellow(m): 3:39pm On Sep 13, 2007
[quote author=A-40 link=topic=78320.msg1492131#msg1492131 date=1189693446]@monogpark
Hmm i know a few duds like you who are tripping my advice is to cool your hormones and see her first before you go overboard[/quote]Just help me tell him[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]
RomanceRe: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by mellow(m): 3:07pm On Sep 13, 2007
Tell him don't tell him.

I think you know you himbetter.
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RomanceRe: My Girl Cried For Another Man by mellow(m): 2:25pm On Sep 13, 2007
After employing the use of my mirror I found out that

your girl was not crying for another man but rather for

the sacrifice she has to make for an inconsequencial fellow

who doesn't know the value of love, dedication and trust.
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TV/MoviesRe: Nigerian Actor/Actress You Want To Slap? by mellow(m): 2:13pm On Sep 13, 2007
None so far. the actress is yet to be born[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]
Forum GamesRe: When Was The Last Time You: by mellow(m): 2:01pm On Sep 13, 2007
I am not gay

When was the last time you kissed an ass?
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Nairaland GeneralRe: With Utmost Urgency - Lets Move A Motion For Our Beloved Nairaland ! by mellow(m): 1:54pm On Sep 13, 2007
Seun is the merciless owner of the land and

he should remain so. No impeacment.i no de o!!!!!!
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PhonesRe: NCC Plans GSM 'Number Portability' by mellow(m): 1:50pm On Sep 13, 2007
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RomanceRe: Sometime I Bled In My Soul,crying And Feeling Hurt by mellow(m): 1:40pm On Sep 13, 2007
@ olanajim

Yet I am not using the mirror on Bebeelove but if my name were

liable to use the mirror I would rather tell you who to use it for than who I use it for.
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RomanceRe: How Do I Date A Money Conscious Chic by mellow(m): 9:37am On Sep 13, 2007
So your mirror is not effective after all,[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]
RomanceRe: How Do I Date A Money Conscious Chic by mellow(m): 8:28am On Sep 13, 2007
The guy is still sleeping. He needs to wake up to reality.

The only way to avoid been killed in a dream is to wake up.
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RomanceRe: Please I Need Help by mellow(m): 7:43am On Sep 13, 2007
If you guys will get married the go ahead and have sex with him if

you like but if not don't as you may be way to wide for the guy you

may later marry.
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RomanceRe: "Caught Red-handed" Lesson 101 by mellow(m): 7:22am On Sep 13, 2007
Well you can always tell her that you sincerely believe

someone is remoting you from the village and that you

need to go for deliverance. Next time she catches you

tell her you need more prayers and you don't believe the

formal pastor was strong enough. Who knows, she just might

believe you. Nonsence, she no fit cut off your peckers
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RomanceRe: My Ex Wants To Have Lunch And A Talk! by mellow(m): 7:06am On Sep 13, 2007
Lets stand back 5 x 5 and think for once. The guy might be

in a serious relationship too but maybe he was not too keen

on the way things ended between the two of you and want to

set it right and free his conscience. Its possible. Again its is also

possible that he will want to have you back, who blames a man for

wanting to have back what he thinks is his? Remember the story of ]

IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING and letting it go? You know why you guys broke

up and that is a previlage you are not willing to share with us. You also know

what your feelings are like for him and that also is something we don't know.

So my advice to you is search yourself and tell yourself the truth remember the worse

deceit is self deceit. If you really are serious of hearing what he have to say then you can go

at least for old time sake. But if not please, stay with your present  and also remember that a

bird at hand is worth much more that a 100 in the getto.
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PoliticsRe: Discrimination Against Nigerians In Nigeria by mellow(m): 12:03pm On Sep 12, 2007
I work in an Oil servicing company and most of the things you enumerated

above are untrue. Take for instance, An employee working outside his home

get paid so many stipends that are in the international welfare package. You

are employed either as an international staff or you have a home country status

or home country mobile status and each of this status carries a different salary package.

When I was in Angloa I was earning more than the citizens cos I was outside my country.
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texazzpete:
99% of the discussions in Nairaland end up in arguments and no-one learns anything. Everyone here is to be congratulated on their maturity! grin

Nigerians suffer for lack of Information. How many Nigerians went to court to challenge the wages pai to Okonjo Iweala and co? Was it not only Gani and a handful of others? What happend to the case? How much furore was raised here on Nairaland, a place supposed to be a gathering point of Nigerian Intellectuals?

The biggest JV (joint Venture) operating in Nigeria is that between NNPC, Shell, Elf and Agip. Shell is the operator, with the NNPC as the majority stakeholder.
When the oil is extracted, 80% is immediately taken off as tax. It's the remaining 20% that is then shared in that ratio of 60% to the NNPC, 40% to the oil companies.
Misinformation like that you just provided is the main cause of the Niger Delta crisis, because people point fingers at the wrong people.
Currently, at an assumed oil price of $60 a barrel, the Nigerian Government gets about 57% while the second largest stakehlder (Shell) takes only $2 as profit. Please ask industry leaders if you doubt this.


@funloving
[b]The analogy you gave represents a minority, contrary to your thinking, but it happens nonetheless. and it's for a far less sinister reason than you think.
A gu brought from the US already earns far far more than his Nigerian counterpart when the money is converted to Naira. The average fresh medical doctor in the Uk should take home at least 2000 pounds monthly. which fresh Nigerian doctor earns the equivalent N500,000? in fact, which fresh naija doctor earns up to N130,000 monthly?
When this british doctor is made to come to Naija, added benefits and incentives may shoot his salary up to 4000 pounds. Will the naija doctor be right to demand for N1m monthly salary?
Sadly, that's the scenario you paint in your analogy.
that's why it's termed jealousy. The Driller was fully satisfied with his wages before the expat came. Did the advent of the white man reduce his standard of living? Don't forget that it's easier for a naija man earning N300k a month to 'live large' than a Briton earning 2000 pounds (N500k equivalent) to live large in the UK.[/b]

the expatriate allowances are paid as an add on to what you were already earning, so a Naija guy getting sent to the US will not expect to earn significantly more than his American counterparts who were already earning way more than him in Naira terms.
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JustGood:
I worked for a multinational company a few years ago and there was a security man who worked there. He had worked as a manager in a construction company in Nigeria. He made a mistake when he left thinking he had made a huge killing with all his earnings in Nigeria and came back home. Needless to say, he ended up a security man: he has no real qualifications - however, he was manager over several well qualified and experienced Nigerians.

There is a second one I know who was a territorial manager for an oil servicing company(name withheld). He also made lots of money in Nigeria and resigned to travel the world. He has no qualifications to help him when he ran out of money and he is now a taxi driver. He said he was going to seek another employment in Nigeria.

It is nothing short of racism. Nigerians don't earn higher wages than white people when they go abroad to work as Highly skilled Migrants
[color=#000099]This is very wrong. My formal Boss who was transfered to The USA as an FSM  in Cementing is earning more than his counterpart in

Coil Tubing who is an American.

The only place there is an actual discrimination is in the area of contract staff and this is done by some creedy Nigerians and not the Multinational

companies.
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FamilyRe: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ? by mellow(m): 12:03pm On Sep 12, 2007
Those people that their Husbands call mama Iyabo

and their wives call papa Ireti are they not humans?

I beg call me what you want to call me but show me my respect.

And whats more? I would prefer you call me by my name. You call me

honey on a good day but by name on a bad day? Even god said they should

call him by his name.
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FamilyRe: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ? by mellow(m): 11:06am On Sep 12, 2007
Yes he is.[/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]
RomanceRe: Sometime I Bled In My Soul,crying And Feeling Hurt by mellow(m): 11:00am On Sep 12, 2007
Bebeekove are you still there?[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Ladies What Do You Think Of The Gentlemen On Nairaland by mellow(m): 10:21am On Sep 12, 2007
Yes o!!! last time I saw the Mirror it was held together

by a transparent tape.
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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Ladies What Do You Think Of The Gentlemen On Nairaland by mellow(m): 8:37am On Sep 12, 2007
@olanajim

Have you replaced your broken mirror?
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Fans: Identify Yourselves Here (Old) by mellow(m): 7:45am On Sep 12, 2007
jejelolatu:
Kolo toure wil be missed when he leaves for ANC,bt i dnt think it wd be d same with adebayor,d bro wd most likely have 2 struggle for a 1st team shirt when he returns,as for d blues,they wil "more dan miss essien nd drogba.am so sure u guys wil points early next year.
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RomanceRe: Sometime I Bled In My Soul,crying And Feeling Hurt by mellow(m): 7:33am On Sep 12, 2007
@ Bebeelove

As you can see it is not only the Husband that needs a pacifier

even this particular lady does need something that can make her

forget her predicament.

Just be kind and polite to her and remember what goes around

comes around.

@ olanajim

What do you want from me? Is Babeelove complaining? Am I complaing?

I am achieving my maimum results with the mirror I bought form you so don't

you black and white me. All I
[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color] am saying is that I do really care about her.
RomanceRe: Sometime I Bled In My Soul,crying And Feeling Hurt by mellow(m): 5:03pm On Sep 11, 2007
@Babeelove

i just want you to know that we all have our strenghts and weaknesses.

This may be hers so bear with her.
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incidentally I am thinking about you.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Fans: Identify Yourselves Here (Old) by mellow(m): 4:45pm On Sep 11, 2007
@ Fynewaka

thank you for not subjecting yourself to parental abuse.

@Jackal Can we keep our parents out of this?

@ Razorr Ramor

Hope you are not going to allow Fynwaka steal you away from me?
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Fans: Identify Yourselves Here (Old) by mellow(m): 3:57pm On Sep 11, 2007
Jackal:
@ Fynewanker,

Your parents gave u ZILCH.
If u had any home-training . . . . .You wont be accusing anyone on a public forum, would ya?
Everyone of us here are at their places of work making cheddarz . . . . .
Even as i bludgeon your face and mash it up . . . .I would be paid for it at the end of the day.

However, u are wasting hard-earned money in a cyber-cafe when all your parents ask from u is PAP/PALMOIL. . . . . .
Dont let em cuss u that your own children will do the same to u.
Give up on this war of WORDS with me and go home.
You are too poor to use the internet . . . . .I will not let u waste resources here when your parents are rotting in poverty.
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RomanceRe: Ladies Corner by mellow(m): 1:34pm On Sep 11, 2007
Some guys can be just freaking crazy. Sighs and wonder why[/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]
RomanceRe: Sometime I Bled In My Soul,crying And Feeling Hurt by mellow(m): 1:29pm On Sep 11, 2007
@ bebeelove

you are a girl after my own heart but I still believe at times

you have to ease up. I still feel you though.

@ topic

I never believe in for better or for worse and will never do but

I am going to work real hard to make my marriage a blissful and

memorable one and after all said and done the better we stay for worse

all man find him level.

@Poster

Tell the victim that she should put her kids in a foster home and find her level.

Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured. She doesn't want her kids to experience a broken home

but what home is there when the father is transfering all love there is to his ex wife? Let them

be there and taking care of while she take care of herself till she meets a man such as yours

sincerely.
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RomanceRe: Let Us Kindly Talk About The Gay Condition by mellow(m): 6:42am On Sep 11, 2007
I quess you are right there.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]
FamilyRe: I Have A Confession " I Slept With My Foaster Father And Now Am Carrying His : by mellow(m): 6:42am On Sep 11, 2007
A really funny Lawyer this is.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]

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