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Romance / Re: HEART BREAK A Blessing Or A Lesson? by merit12(f): 1:14pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
Op nice point ,I'm feeling. It I was here @1pm Watching d op with my 3d glasses |
Romance / Re: Life Waits For No1..Live It While You Can by merit12(f): 1:12pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
Op I'm feeling you Today being human right day,one should be able to express his or herself any bleep time Live Love Talk Smile Dance While you can ,human have no 2head you only got one Amaco................I LOVE MY LIFE(playing that music right about now) Currently enjoying my life I was here @1pm Watching d op with my 3d glasses 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 5 Classes Of People That Get The Mostbeautiful Wives: by merit12(f): 1:07pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
I was here @1pm Watching d op with my 3d glasses |
Romance / Re: Dating A Broke Guy? It Is Not Worth It by merit12(f): 1:06pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
I was here @1pm Watching op with my 3d glasses |
Technology Market / Re: EXPOSED Secret: The Bigger Boys New Method Of Importation. Part 2. A Must See!!! by merit12(f): 10:41am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Well done sir Nice job |
Romance / Re: Cheat Pix That Will Surely Remind You When You Tried Explaining Your Mumuism by merit12(f): 10:28am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Wetin concerns us Using foreign picture to explain naija tinz For ya mind On to d next one Watching this op in 3d glasses 1 Like |
Jokes Etc / Re: Funny Ways Nigerian Respond To Good Morning!!! by merit12(f): 8:01am On Dec 09, 2014 |
emusmith:correct your self |
Romance / Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by merit12(f): 6:56pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
what is this one saying johndanny: |
Romance / Re: How To Test True Love by merit12(f): 4:23pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Noo I'm purple Youngpo413: |
Sports / Re: A Call For Disbandment Of This Present Super Eagles by merit12(f): 8:01pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
I disagree.......... Ask me why #op are you black? 1 Like |
Fashion / Re: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by merit12(f): 1:14pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Thanks ladies for the bashing and I sincerely. Liked it . It create room for me to improve in my fashion sense I understand now that purple is not too good for dark peeps Kisses ladies 5 Likes |
Celebrities / Tonto Dike Finally Explains Meaning Of Tattoo On Her Back. Incredible!!! by merit12(f): 7:43pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
There is no doubt that since the picture of a tattoo of star Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh was posted online some days ago, it has generated lots of controversies both within and outside the country. Many tongues have waged on the controversial picture. Many different meanings have been read to the piece of photograph. For some, the picture depicts some undertone of the devil, while others see no diabolic meaning to the creature created in the tattoo but just a piece of fashion. But According to Tonto Dikeh, "The tattoo took her 10hours to be done with, while she had a two hour break in-between.” Speaking further, when asked if the controversial tattoo had any undertone meaning, she simply answered, “yes, and it is very deep, I am a witch.” says, Tonto! Though she was not willing to disclose the exact meaning the tattoo has, but a very reliable and impeccable source, who is deep into such doings confirmed that only strong people carry such tattoo on their body. According to the source, “you cannot see any ordinary human being with this kind of tattoo; this is what I know very much about. Though I am not suppose to say this, I know the society she belongs to, but I am not going to tell you that. If she does not take things easy with herself, she might not like the end of it all, that I assure you of.” PLEASE! PEOPLE BEWARE OF THIS GIRL ooo gather from here http://www..com/talk/topic,83960.0.html I tot I should share.
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Fashion / Re: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by merit12(f): 7:25pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Bashing methere is God I had to wait because there were many customer on cue ,don't want what happen 500Ad to repeat itself. Dear how are you?again Are you black dear? bluelover: |
Fashion / Re: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by merit12(f): 7:16pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
check out. What I wore to a wedding last saturday,I carried creamy-brown clutch pursh.check. Me out
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Fashion / Re: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by merit12(f): 7:02pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
@houze,glamz ,joywendy(hope u go meeting 2morrow?)Sorry I have been trying to upload the pics again,I'm havin network problem But I will arrange it as soon as I can. Thanks @bluelover Haterz. Got thingz on me Shm My dear,how are you?no no I'm not taking it personal oh,thanks for comment,I will. Get it 6 is a passmark.kisses dear. I was playing colour that's why I picked it beside na dress make I get na madam. I'm going have to give you a very big glass love trust me that shoe is not purple.I will have to snap and send it to you. From afar you think it purple. Yea,thanks dear,I almost spend 5hours making that hair ,if you had say anything otherwise I would have e-flog you.kisses bluelover: 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Chika Ike Shares Her Nakked Pictures Just To Celebrate..see Here by merit12(f): 7:00pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Ochillary:it. Your left over smoked ,the one you recently bought. Black weed(igbo) |
Fashion / Re: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by merit12(f): 6:54pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
check out. What I wore to a wedding last saturday,I carried creamy-brown clutch pursh.check. Me out
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Fashion / Re: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by merit12(f): 2:12pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
ok nah |
Celebrities / Re: Chika Ike Shares Her Nakked Pictures Just To Celebrate..see Here by merit12(f): 4:46am On Nov 15, 2014 |
darne:are you. Black?what did I do? |
Celebrities / Chika Ike Shares Her Nakked Pictures Just To Celebrate..see Here by merit12(f): 9:44pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Chika ike shares her Nakked pictures just to celebrate..see here 2 Likes
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Romance / How To Tell If Someone Is Playing Hard To Get Or Just Not Interested? by merit12(f): 5:31pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Look for signals, like eye contact, to see if someone is playing hard to get or is really interested. Trying to figure out if a person is playing hard to get or is not interested at all, can be frustrating and appear complicated on the surface--particularly with all of the mixed messages that may signal interest one moment and lack of interest the next. People often play hard to get because of cultural and gender 'rules.' Another reason a person may appear to be playing hard to get is simply because they are shy. Knowing, however, if there is real interest is crucial to taking the first step to commencing a relationship. 1 Make eye contact and observe returned eye contact. Typically interest is associated with sustained eye contact followed with a smile. 2 Start a conversation. If a person is truly interested in you, they'll be delighted you've started the conversation and though they may appear shy in the beginning, they will warm up to your questions and will likely ask similar questions as well. 3 Observe behavior that suggests the person is showing up where you are unexpectedly. This could mean that they've asked other people about your schedule or have figured it out from previous observations in public places like the gym or grocery store. 4 Take a look at the person's friends. Do they giggle, smile or watch you. Also be aware of how the person you like responds as well. If they giggle or smile too, that could be a clear indication that the feeling is mutual. If the person suggests a gesture that tells a friend, stop teasing, then it could mean they aren't interested. 5 Take note whether or not the person is returning your calls-if they have your telephone number. If they don't ever call you back, this likely signals a sign of disinterest. If they do often call you back, then you can assume that there is some level of interest there. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Whats The Male Version Of Side Chicks? by merit12(f): 5:28pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
spare taya |
Romance / How To Tell If A Girl Is Using You by merit12(f): 5:14pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
There are, to put it as simply as possible, very manipulative and selfish people in our world and often people use other people. While everyone has a selfish streak, some people really do take advantage of others, constantly and intentionally. This is particularly common in a relationship situation or courtship situation. In this article, you'll find out 1 Think about the time you spend with this person. What is the conversation like? Are you usually doing things that interest both of you or is it more one-sided? Look for some warning signs. If the majority of your time with the person involves you hanging around with their friends and never spending time just the two of you, then that person may be using you. If your conversation is empty and hollow, then there's a chance this person doesn't enjoy your company at all and is in fact using you. 2. Next, ask yourself what this person could be using you for. Do they have low self-esteem? Are they insecure? In this case, ask the girl about her history. If she has had many relationships that usually do not last long, then there's a good chance she's insecure about herself. She feels as if she needs to have a significant other and does not really care who that person is as long as it's somebody. So, if there's been an abnormally large amount of former relationships, take that as a huge warning sign. 3 Is money involved? There are many situations where people use other people for money. Are you constantly buying things for this person? Do you always pay when you go out and do things with this person? Does this person respect you, your time and your money, when you do spend time with them? If you find yourself constantly paying for everything, there's a chance the girl may be using you. In addition, if you are always doing what she wants to do, such as always seeing the movies she want to see, that is also a warning sign you are being used. There should be a happy medium. Today, the rigid gender-roles of more conservative days are no longer the status quo. Any couple, be it man and woman, man and man, woman and woman, etc. should alternate in buying each other dinner and buying gifts. The same theory applies when deciding what you are going to do, you should take turns. If this isn't occurring, there's a chance you may be being used. 4 Think about whether or not this person shows a healthy amount of interest in you. Are your phone calls returned in a timely manner? Do they consider you a reasonable priority? Do they show an interest in you and your feelings? If the girl seldom returns your calls and only calls you on her time, there's a chance she is using you. Also, if she just writes you off whenever you're not spending money on her, there's a good chance she's using you. 4 Think about when she contacts you. Is it because she wants to spend time with you, or is it because she wants something from you. How often does she need a favor? 5 Make a decision. Is she or isn't she using you? If she is, you need to act. Let her know how you feel, be honest. By talking to the person and hearing their perspective, you may find out you were wrong. Perhaps the person was going through a difficult time and clung to you and took a bit of an advantage without realizing it or meaning to do so. It's very possible. This step is most important, you should let the person know instead of just ending things with them. Only by doing so will you know without a doubt whether or not you were being used. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Is It Right To Ask For Cash From A Girl You Are Asking Out To Be Ur Gf? by merit12(f): 9:58pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
broke ass lookin for a babe since 500AD What impression are you giving her? Black people 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Galfrnd S Childish by merit12(f): 9:56pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Creating wobbish thread everyday.........wiithoutt enough info Black. People |
Nairaland / General / Re: Ten(10) Facts That Maturity Has Taught Me About Life by merit12(f): 9:52pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
please do your nokia3310 opens opera?,my network has. Not browse Or. Do. You. Have a nokia charger? |
Music/Radio / Re: Offical Thread For The Dj's by merit12(f): 3:55pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
I. Don show Dj merit on the steel of wheels |
Romance / Re: How To Tell If A Guy Is A Player by merit12(f): 2:10pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
vizkiz:nope I'm blue dear. I have disfriend today. No more friendshiP |
Romance / How To Tell If A Guy Is A Player by merit12(f): 1:59pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Dating has become much more complex than in the old days. Now people can claim to be anyone they want to be, and you almost have to be a private detective to get at the truth. Here's how to spot one and walk the other way. 1 Ask questions. Sometimes people don't ask questions and just accept what is there in front of them even when it sits wrong. You are not a nag for asking questions even though some players want you to think that. 2 Believe what you see. If he is a lousy drunk, flirtatious with other woman when you are around, or disrespectful of people based on race, sexual orientation or gender, then believe it. Too many people allow the player to make excuses for behavior, but the reality is that the player is probably far worse when you are not around. 3 Visit him at home. If you can't come over, visit him at work or call him on a land line, you should wonder why. 4 Beware of the sob story. The sob story always has a price attached, generally financial. He can't pay his cell phone, car note or house payment because of x, y or z. It is the fastest way to part you from your money because it taps into women's emotional side. 5 Don't complicate the issue with sex. People sometimes jump in bed too quickly and become distracted to the point of overlooking player moves. If you are emotionally and physically invested too much, you will not be able to see the situation clearly. Tips & Warnings Keep your eyes open. Do not loan money. Do not have sex before you are sure. Don't blame the other woman for his player ways. |
Romance / How To Test True Love by merit12(f): 1:48pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Many say that true love requires no test. But if you are trying to decide if you have found the one for marriage, answer the questions below. The only rule is to be honest. This true love test is for you and you only. You don't need to share it, but you do need to have an inner dialogue with yourself that is open and honest. 1 Analyze weaknesses. We all have weaknesses. Make a list of what you perceive to be your mate's weaknesses. How do you feel about these lesser-qualities? If it's true love, you will love your partner because of the weaknesses not in spite of them. 2 Listen to your inner voice. Your subconscious is attempting to take care of you, try to listen. How do you feel when your partner walks into a room? Don't over think this step, just focus on your initial reaction upon first seeing your mate. If it's true love, you will feel happy, calm, content, and/or relaxed. 3 Use personality quizzes . Personality quizzes are great snap shots to the soul. Jointly take a personality quiz Read the detailed description about your partner. Without thinking of your mate, focus on the words of the description and ask yourself if this is the type of person you want to be around 24/7. If it's true love, you will find the description of qualities admirable and feel proud to know such a person. 4 Examine your partnership. Marriage is the ultimate lifelong partnership. Would you start a business with your mate? If you wouldn't start a business with him or her, then you shouldn't start a marriage together. If it's true love, then any joint venture should seem enjoyable. 5 Reflect on yourself. A true love test is not about your potential mate, it is about yourself. Reflect on your characteristics when alone and your characteristics when with your partner. Does 1 + 1 = 1? In other words, when added together do you make one whole? If it is true love, you will feel that you are a better person by the addition of your partner.
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