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Romance / Re: How To Make A Girl Happy Without Spending Money by merit12(f): 1:08pm On Nov 13, 2014
My friend get out of my thread

*drag him out of my thread by pulling his ears


Black people
Cutehector4u:
Lies
Romance / Re: How To Make A Girl Happy Without Spending Money by merit12(f): 1:07pm On Nov 13, 2014
Madam. Madam.how yourside

No I'm not black
Yes I'm black

Maybe I'm not

Ireally don't know
But
BreezyRita:
Ok o.
@ op, are you black?
Romance / How To Make A Girl Happy Without Spending Money by merit12(f): 12:56pm On Nov 13, 2014
Often times men think the only things that make a girl happy is buying shoes, expensive gifts, and fancy restaurants. While those things are nice, a gift for woman cannot replace these simple steps to making a woman happy. Happiness is the solid foundation a marriage or relationship is built on. So, ensuring your spouse or partner is happy should be a top priority for anyone dating, married or in a relationship. A little romance can go a long ways to make a girl happy and it can often be done free or very cheap.

Things You'll Need:

Sincerity
Instructions

1 Give compliments- Women need to feel pretty. Women want to feel like they are the most attractive person in the room, even when they first crawl out of bed in the morning. They also love to be told when something they do pleases their man. A simple, "You look pretty today." or, "That was a great dinner. Did you make it differently?" Can go a long way to make a girl happy. Simple compliments tell women that you notice and you care.

2 Listen- This means just listen. Men are "fix-it" types and always try to come up with solutions. Most of the time, women don't want a solution. They just want to vent. If a woman doesn't ask for a solution, most likely she just wants to be able to get it off her chest and find a sympathetic ear. It can make a girl happy just to have someone that she can express her feelings to and know that person is really listening.

3 Touch her- This is a totally different step for women than it is for men. Women just like to be touched simply to be touched. Something as simple as running your hand down her back or pulling the hair out of her eyes shows a woman that you love her. Not every touch needs to have sexual connotations. In fact, women much prefer the touches that are simply a show of affection. If you want to make a girl happy, this is an important step to remember.

4 Be sincere. Women can tell if you are only pretending to listen or compliments are forced. No matter what you do or say, make sure that it is in the sincerest form. Women don't want to hear, "You look pretty today," if it comes out sounding like you read it off a cue card.


Modified

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Romance / Re: How To Impress A Girl If You Are Shy by merit12(f): 12:50pm On Nov 13, 2014
embarassedReally dear?nd howdo you mean?
aristocrazzy:
This is one of the realest post you've ever had.
Romance / Re: How To Impress A Girl If You Are Shy by merit12(f): 12:47pm On Nov 13, 2014
tongue[color=#990000][/color]
Handsomeemmy:
And he must be black right? cheesy
Romance / How To Impress A Girl If You Are Shy by merit12(f): 12:43pm On Nov 13, 2014
Getting close to a girl can be the most difficult step in securing a relationship.
It is often difficult to gain a girl's attention if you are shy, especially when in direct competition with other more boisterous males. However, being shy doesn't have to be a liability. Embracing shyness can serve as a huge asset in any male's attempts to impress a girl.


1. Be yourself, even if you feel being quiet and shy will not attract the girl you desire. If a girl is not attracted to you as you are, a relationship is not sustainable. Being yourself will attract girls that are drawn to your personality, which will give you the time that many shy people need to come out of their shell.

2 Go out of your way to embrace your shyness. If you are picked on for being quiet or having "no game," it is to your benefit to laugh along. Doing so will ensure that you are viewed as simply quiet or shy and not creepy or weird. Many girls will actually let their guard down more with a shy guy, feeling that the situation is not threatening.

3 Step out of your comfort zone. While it is OK to be shy and an asset to embrace this part of your personality, the ultimate tool for most shy males in impressing a girl is the ability to have a good one-on-one conversation. While in competition with outspoken males, most shy guys will give up quickly. When an opportunity arises to connect with a girl, action must be taken. Shyness is often overlooked if a girl has a chance to see what goes on in your head.

4. Do what you do well. When initially attracting a girl, actions speak louder than words. Excelling at a sport, music or another hobby will draw intrigue while providing another window for a girl to see who you are. Continue prioritizing activities that you love, and girls will be impressed with your passion. The intrigue that you are busy doing something while other guys are stuck hanging on a girl for attention may draw some allure.

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Romance / Re: Ways That Men Try To Impress Women by merit12(f): 12:40pm On Nov 13, 2014
shiloz:
true talk @op
kisses dear

Are. You?
Romance / Ways That Men Try To Impress Women by merit12(f): 12:34pm On Nov 13, 2014
In the wild, male animals attract females by roaring, preening, fighting and exuding pheromones. While those methods may work well in the jungle, they're not always practical for humans -- although they're not as far removed from nature as they'd like to think. Human males have their own rituals that they perform to attract the female of the species, just as wild beasts do.


1 The Midas Touch÷ Men often use money in an attempt to impress women. From bragging about their income to spending lavishly on dates, whether they can afford it or not, men often think that flashing the cash is the way to a woman's heart. Other men drive flashy cars, purchase the best wardrobe money can buy and invest in expensive hobbies, all designed to thrill and attract as many women as possible with the illusion of prosperity.

2 Herculean Efforts÷Just as in the animal kingdom, men often like to show off their physical prowess to attract women. Eating right and working out regularly are often enough to create a physique that impresses the opposite sex. Participating in demanding sports activities is another option men choose. Superior physical strength, agility and endurance in a man frequently go a long way to attract women. Men sometimes show their abilities by fighting other men as well, often for the woman's attention and approval.

3 Sensitivity Wins÷Men though women traditionally have sought strong, manly men throughout history, the sensitive man is often portrayed as the ideal guy of today. While some men are more emotional by nature, others strive to portray a sensitive side to get the girl. While not too many fellas are going to cry over long-distance commercials to attract a woman, many pretend to be touched by the sight of children playing, a newborn baby, a cuddly puppy or a fuzzy kitten to impress a woman.

4The Lying Game÷ Unfortunately, some men feel that they are not impressive enough to attract a woman by being themselves. Therefore, they embellish the truth when they meet a new conquest. Some merely exaggerate a few facts, while others lie in ways that defy comprehension. While the lie may initially impress the woman before she learns the truth, it's a sure bet that the deception will be a stumbling block at the least, and possibly an utter deal breaker. Men who lie at the beginning of a relationship often continue this pattern indefinitely.
Romance / Re: After Yes, Whats Next? by merit12(f): 11:09am On Nov 12, 2014
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Romance / Re: Replies: Why Do Most Women Take A While To Reply Messages? by merit12(f): 7:39pm On Nov 11, 2014
because nothing op
Romance / Re: Suspected Attitude Of Each Dude/lady In The Romance Section by merit12(f): 7:32pm On Nov 11, 2014
Miss good pm

How are you today

I ask people because

Wait. Lemme ask you
Please don't get offended

I wanna know
Are.

you


Were my roszay?
marieolae:
[size=25pt] BLACK!!!!! [/size]
Romance / Re: Suspected Attitude Of Each Dude/lady In The Romance Section by merit12(f): 7:27pm On Nov 11, 2014
typing I have a stroke for all of you that mention my name.


Wait lemme ask the op some question

Op are you dark?

I personally wanna know
Romance / Re: Suspected Attitude Of Each Dude/lady In The Romance Section by merit12(f): 7:21pm On Nov 11, 2014
dear wasup

Before. I respond to ya question
I wanna know this plzzzz







Are



You







??
adepiero:
merit12 - why are you always posting your comments in red and asking if the op is black?

mizmycoli - where do you always get the inspiration for your epistle?

tosyne2much - why do you always create threads with 10 kinds of ___ in romance section?

marieolae - why do you have so many nairaland wannabe bfs, bfs and husbands? Na only you Waka come!

more questions loading...
Romance / Re: Am In Love With A Guy by merit12(f): 1:40am On Nov 09, 2014
No dear ,I'm not well


But are you black?
Jenams:
wats wit u n BLACK! BLACK! BLACK! Are u okay at all?
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland - December 2014 [Nomination & Verification] by merit12(f): 1:10am On Nov 09, 2014
lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: Can U Forgive Her?? by merit12(f): 8:19pm On Nov 07, 2014
MzPreshie:
Lmao!! Chai, this babe sef.
Hmmm, op, this story is too old nah, don't you have a more interesting one?
Nairaland is getting boring everyday.

Same topic was discussed last week or so

Now again
Last time the babe was d boss sleeping with each other

Now dem don change am

All dis black black op self

Dancing shoki outta thread

Shoki

Aaaaaaa


Is writting a message........

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Romance / Re: How Do Newly Wedded Virgins Know What To Do by merit12(f): 8:12pm On Nov 07, 2014
booked

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Romance / Re: Can U Forgive Her?? by merit12(f): 7:58pm On Nov 07, 2014
Shoki na shoki


Aaaaaaa


Shoki


Aaaaa

That's what's someone. Has been doing wif your woman

Typing

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Fashion / Re: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by merit12(f): 3:10pm On Nov 07, 2014
I go with neyo ladies nd gentlemen

Reasons are

1 he is stlyish

2 the suit fits him very well.

3 trying out that hat,it seem like a new trend cos chris brown wore it @d other pic


It seems very simple on him he. Has the atitude
Fashion / Re: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by merit12(f): 3:09pm On Nov 07, 2014
I go with neyo ladies nd gentlemen

Reasons are

1 he is stlyish

2 the suit fits him very well.

3 trying out that hat,it seem like a new trend cos chris brown wore it @d other pic


It seems very simple on him
Romance / Re: With All Sincerity, Which Of These Are You Guilty Of When With A Lady ? by merit12(f): 11:16am On Nov 07, 2014
tosyne2much:
hehehehehehe.. Bad girl

** stops quoting her b4 she corrupts me ** tongue
are you black?
Romance / Re: With All Sincerity, Which Of These Are You Guilty Of When With A Lady ? by merit12(f): 11:15am On Nov 07, 2014
franugo:


na white oro-ro abi na d red one?? Me sef wan learngrin
are you black?
Romance / Re: With All Sincerity, Which Of These Are You Guilty Of When With A Lady ? by merit12(f): 11:09am On Nov 07, 2014
tosyne2much:
ooooya gimme a can of vaseline wink
take oro-ro,na sure pass.vaseline quick dey finish.
Romance / Re: With All Sincerity, Which Of These Are You Guilty Of When With A Lady ? by merit12(f): 11:00am On Nov 07, 2014


Kisses to this op,you try small


black boys and planning lines

I have got you
#watching everysign from today.
Romance / Re: What You Should Do When He Starts Beating You Up by merit12(f): 6:35pm On Nov 06, 2014
Ladies are saying no to WOMEN BEATER since 500ad

A man that loves you will never never raise his hands or belt to hit you. Never

There's a way he uses words,or acts to show he is offended

What can I say in the matters of the heart
Even God gave we humans second chances by sending his son (JESUS)

Who are we humans not to forgive
Give him a second chance and warning .
If he continues (use ya sense)

Op is the guy fine self?
Health / Re: Should A Drug With Expiry Date Of Nov 2014 Still Be On Sale? by merit12(f): 1:52pm On Nov 06, 2014
Drugs can last up 3months after the manufactured expired date.

Don't know of made in nigeria drugs oh
Romance / Re: Words Are Not Enough To Express How Much I Love You And I Need You 24/7 by merit12(f): 12:48pm On Nov 06, 2014
Op be bold and state to whom the love you are expressing may concern




We need names.................

Fear of ban is the beginning of nl wisdom
Romance / Re: HELP: I'm Light-skinned My Gf Is Light-skinned But Our Baby Is Dark & Ugly by merit12(f): 12:45pm On Nov 06, 2014
The holes aren't loyal(chris brown)


If you are suspecting her get a dna test asap

Romance / Re: He Called Me After Two Days Of Wondering.... by merit12(f): 11:31am On Nov 06, 2014
Op I like your spirit

You more like me ,you don't allow insult gets to you
Keep it up it will take you places


I also like your humility for thanking everyone both the ones that insulted and advise you.

I also like you for coming back to tell us
The outcome of how every thing unfold


Once again my dear I like your spirit


Are you black?

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