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While do u call her stupid. It is the guy that is stupid for not putting his preek in check . Abeg no try dey this guy's shoes . Do u know what she is going thru? baby wan chop no money for milk pls so.

quote author=jaxxy post=99920726]

U are a good a responsibile man. U took responsibility for ur kids and even married the stupid gal u call wife. The problem with most gals is they are very poor managers. Ur husband gives u his money and u can’t put it to good use, even if u notice it’s not enough u know he’s doing his best u should look for away to find solutions to ur family/hubbys financial issues bt instead she nags and complains and even threatens to live u with the kids. Is this not a stupid woman? A highly irresponsible gal turn wife??

Look bad company corrupts good manners, if u move with fools u will soon become a fool. Disassociate urself from that nonentity. Give her responsibilities to do. Set up a business if possible for her and monitor it because I know she’s useless. Atleast right now

Don’t give up hope yet. God will help u make right decisions regarding ur family. Cheers.[/quote]

Do u know what it takes to feed 3 kids of that age , feeding ,pampars, medical, baby food , no woman can manage that even if there is peace. She go still cook for two of una abeg she too try self.
She is this she is that what about your own character ? Do u help her when u r free.
I have two kids and having a third is not a plan in this life
Wait make them start school u cry more.

Better carry ur wife sidon and talk and pampar her with nice words and appreciate her she put u in prayers and your home will turn Around. Good luck

Anyhow u are people must talk. My boy is 11 he is smaller than his age but the guy no dey let anybody intimidat m and m happy about his approach and me I dey tell m say if anybody do anyhow give m him own.

Some people can make u feel inferior and their own dey their body.

U alone can shut peoples mouth
God bless u

Good for here

Only God knows all

You said it all.
No woman will behave in such away if her brother in-law respects her.

quote author=aroundtheearth post=99102022] For her to throw his things out, OP must have been causing wahala for the woman in the house. It's easy for him to paint her bad but no one knows what she has been enduring. It's obvious from his words "because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it" he has entitlement mentality in the house, isn't allowing her to enjoy her home or marriage in peace because he thinks he should be living there, and who knows what he has been saying to her. In this part of the word, if the law gets involved in such situation OP would be in the wrong.[/quote]

2 bad

Na wa o

Cool

If only our govt dey care for their citizens

Hard work pays
Congrats
Carry go jor

[Na wa o

quote author=handsomeyitayo post=98825023]Hey bro look here, wos wobi..make she broke up with you, she that is going to church ,is she born again? Going to church doesn't guarantee heaven, she just want to hook you to impress you that she is born again and she is God fearing, wise up bro,
So you will not be suspecting her of anything she does, you will have in mind that my girl is God fearing...
Let me tell you, a girl that really loves won't do that to you...
When I was serving in Calabar, I have a girl I date then I'm redeem church ogoja, though am in a choir, I play saxophone, this so called girl is beautiful and pretty a nurse, I do see her teaching Sunday school, leading music, doing church chores,
Omo as a sharp guy, she collect my number, we start to talk and blsaaaa.
I don't know how we start fucking our selves, I Bleep her pkekus well,
If you see her in church she is so religious.
I called my mum that I have found a girl..
Thanks God I didn't take her home,
Meself I have overwhelmed with her love , without knowing she is dating someone near the church about to do introduction.
She denied it, I have to confront her, we fight over it..later she confess, I cursed her that day that if them born her well make she climb altar ,and if she climb altar she will see not see the glory of God..
She said nothing will happen to her, the next day I didn't see her in church, almost two months she didn't come to church..
I ask her colleague, she told me she is crying and can't sleep..the pastor of the church suspect something between us, the pastor summon her and she discussed what happened between us..
Even my choir director a banker , is a yoruba man like me also dating her, that one was shocked seeing me dating her,
The pastor was like why didn't I approach the church comitee for marriage if I need a sister..
They were angry that am dating her...
I later turn that curse to prayer for her because she kneel and beg me crying..
But the girl bleeps my friend corper , even fellowship association group leader ,I saw her director of fellowship love on her phone...
Don't trust anygirl please ..
You never marry her now, don't jump into love, be neutral..
Just be observing ..
Enjoy your life bro ..pray hard for God to give you your soul mate,
Don't be carried away by ladies impressing you...sogbo..
Don't mind my English...[/quote]

What happen to the bank? Any way the family can not say they don't know the kind of brother they have
Is good for her.

God pls help them to resolve this issue.

God help us

I tire for this govt