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Nemesis909:
People wey don separate since 2013.

Mtcheeew.

Haaaa, you know them?

No worry, their are coming back together now.

The yoke is broken

That is how God answer prayers.

Evil people everywhere.

Maybe na one of them do love portion sef. Whichever one, one of them or the two of them eye don open.

I think in this Kemi is right, i listened to that interview cover to cover.

In the first video, she said the pastor wasn't so rich and just started. How come he had a benz and after how many years was that?

He raped you and after few days he raped you again, so she wasn't feeling any pain? I know what it feels like being raped. I also have a school friend who experienced this rape when armed robbers visited them, i know the pains she went through. Since i listened to her, I've being wondering.

Even in her first rape, you were raped and you waited for the criminal to go to his car, bring krest opened it and pour it inside your mouth and you kept drinking it.

Hmmmmm, I believe they both had se.x but I doubt it was a rape. Their relationship must be mutual.
I also saw some of her skimpy dresses online - i mean those throwback pictures) those were not for a born again christain child she claimed to be then.

I know how pained it was then, before i was over powered i struggled in defence, shouted, screamed. For you in your own house, you couldn't defend your treasure? And she had her siblings in.

Lastly, how can you come out with a pyjamas to open door for a total stranger? No bra, pointed front, was shee not trained? It's a taboo in my own house to open door for a visitor without dressing up properly.

This man drove in, how will you not know it's a man and your pastor who drove into your compound?

She couldnt shout, was he using one hand to remove his belt and the other hand to hold her mouth?

Let's hear them in court, lawers are not dummies.

jhorjhor:
Transferwise swallowed my money ..They already debited it from my payoneer account and now they've deactivated my account with them

That company issa scam

What really happened? You may have done something wrong.

If you are legit, escalate to the platform you used. I your case payoneer

Fukkafukkah:

You are full of hate!

Learn to love, did God conderm her or the little innocent son?

Learn some rudiments of love

Am happy for her, just the way am happy for Tboss.

Some get too old to have kids in the name of yeyebrity.

See Ini Edo, Rita and a good number of them.

But Linda looks older, she needs time to relax well.

That's our wrapper, see that baby on the floor, I pity dem sha.

Always plan if not for yourself but for your kids.

realmedia:
Photos from this elderly couples wedding which took place in Zaria state recently has gotten Nigerians all emotional on social media.

According to Facebook user, Chinecherem Ebubechi, who shared their photos online, the groom is a 73-year-old Nigerian Evangelist, Matthew Owojaiye, while his bride is 63 year old Abosede Ayobola.

According to Chinecherem, this was the bride's first wedding. The couple met 50 years ago. The groom had asked her out at the time but she turned him down. Many years later, they met again, found out they were both single and decided to give love a chance.


They got married at the Living Faith Church in Zaria in front of family members and friends.

See more photos from their wedding below

VIA>> https://kupelove..com/2019/07/photos-73-year-old-man-weds-his-63.html

The writer did not even do proper reasoning, they met 50 years ago, asked her out then, but she was only 13, how will a 23 years old ask a 13 years old out in those days when societal value is respected?

I wish the couple well. They look good together, the woman looks happy, that's a good one.

Love this, not when a 73 years old marries 19 years old!!

Ahaha, see this one, sebi she was discussing with her feminist group saying it's time for a female to win, cos she's out now she want Omashola to win?

Feminism is a scam!

All i want now is Tacha out of that house.

Me77, don't quit, habaaaa, it's all about time, time time. Some of them will some come and aak how you did it.

Don't mind anyone, be diligent and for now, just greet no talking or laughing with colleagues. As for uncle, beg him.

Above all, say to God to be in control.

Jiang:
Mehn.....looks how pitiful & visble shocked she is, definitely not a happy Cat.


RIP

Yeah.

See the mouth, like she's been beaten, maybe she was even trying to defend herself and it went bad but not with a knife. That woman has definitely gone through alot.

My help resume every morning either crying or sad. Her husband is behind it all, the man abuse her alot. Call her so many miserable names. She wants to leave but I've being consoling her and begging her not to leave, I want her to inform her husband's employer first and let's see how he can help stop him before supporting her to leave.

Just last Thursday she explained to me how the man collect 50% of what I pay her and the 50% left is used to buy food at home. Now the man is asking her to leave but not willing to give her her money.

Women are suffering, especially the poor.

sharpwriter:
Sorry sister , but please calm down.... Life has many more things to offer... Pursue these, achieve and be happy.. Also pray to God so you forget your days of sorrow. It's well.

Thanks bro.

I thank God for the gift of life.

I almost cried when I watched her video.

I lost my virginity at 23 and only God saved me from hanging myself. I cried day n night. Except you don't value that gift, of you loose it to a rapist or a useless man, you may never forgive yourself.

In my, case i told my sister everything. I became a shadow of myself. I still hate my youthful days! And I hate those who made it miserable for me including my own mother and other members of my family.

AtoningBlood:
Very compulsory my sister. Check the mail out below.


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A new dawn

Let me ask this, after an interview, is it proper to chat up with your prospective client after some days?

Like asking if he/she still need someone for the job? I personally don't do, Do you?

I bought connects yesterday, I wanted a new contract and i started to apply to jobs, I exhausted my free connects in a week.

I had 118 free connects, i really don't apply to many jobs before i knew it 2 connects left cos i applied to contracts requiring 6 connects.

Out of about 15 jobs, i think i had gotten only 8 interview invites. Waitng to get called, i just pray for a positive outcome on one.

Pavore9:
You know your parents better but do you think they are open to therapy as consent is key in developing a therapeutic relationship with the counsellor, also do have in mind that reconciliation is not the only outcome of marriage therapy because at times marriage therapy helps couples see clearer that they have no business continuing the marriage.

Look for a MFT (Marriage and Family Therapist) because it is not only about your parents because to work towards resolution you and your siblings will have to be involved thus the family therapy component.

Thanks.

If i get the right person, I think his/her first role will be to seek their consent.

Pavore9:
Effective therapy is client-centred, your parents must have to leave their comfort zones and go meet the counsellor, not the other way round! Should the counsellor have to travel to go meet your parents, you have given your parents the power over the marriage therapist and would remain dug in, in their trenches.

Leaving whatever you are doing to go see a therapist in his/her office, is the first indication that you desire a change from whatever you are going through.

People go for therapy, therapy don't go to them. Even Jay-Z and Beyonce had to go for therapy for their marriage, they didn't fly in a therapist.

The marriage counselor ethically is not supposed to be in the room with his wife while in session with clients, it erodes privacy.

I suggest your parents get individual sessions at the initial stage because there are likely some thoughts, words and emotions they would be more comfortable to express in the absence of each other before they can have sessions together as a couple with the therapist.

I'm ready to pay for a client going. Reason why I'll need one in Lagos. I know some counsellors travel to clients locations. I want to actually contract the counsellors anonymously, i don't want my parent to know it's me. Counsellors too will know i don't want my parent n sibling know I got him or her involved.

My parent wont honour invitation to leave their base, they wont am certain.

Thanks, I really appreciate your contribution. They have vowed not to come back together. And it's shameful to me. Some of my siblings aren't helping matters. But i know once my parent solve their isssues, the rest will fall in place.

Why do you have issues with my conditions?

I know the parent I have so I need someone who is successful in his or her carrier. Only a professional who is old enough can handle their case. My parent own cars so i did not post for the counsellor to have a car because my parent don't have any.

They are well to do and I want someone who is qualified to sit them down and they can respect such a person.

I used to know some who meet my conditions but back then i see no reason for one so i didnt keep their contacts.

Hi,

I tried getting some contacts of good marriage counsellors but unfortunately I do not know of any certified one.

Can anyone help? My parent are no longer together and the children are divided. Pastors have tried and it has failed. I need professional marriage counsellors please. It's shameful to me, my friends and inlaws who know them to be together can't hear they are no more together. All of the children are adults, but I can say we are enemies of ourselves because of the foundation. We can't continue this way, I want peace in my family.

All I need is link to their website and I do a background check on them. Don't drop anyone's phone line as it wi be a total waste of your mb, time and a pure indication you don't read the full text of my message.

I need few meaningful inputs on getting the best marriage counsellors.

Note: preferred age of the counsellor should be between 50 - 60, must be married with his wife, ready to travel down to my parent state of residence. Must own a car with a driver. Respected and vocal.

Thanks

UjuJoan2:
My daughter is 2+ and is not even in school yet. She is home with a nanny sleeping, eating and pooping all day. By September when she is 3 she will start Pre K, where she will eat, sleep and watch barney most of the time.

Please don't put your kids under any undue pressure. They are still too young.

Are you in Nigeria? This is applicable in US or Canada oo.

Naija here we want our kids to graduate from uni by 17.

Yes, some of my school mates back in the uni graduated under 20. Thanks to private uni.

Hurricanejane:
@ Metooreal,
I believe every child is unique in a special way. Study Your kids and educate each in their own ways.
My child is 4yrs in nursery 2...knows how to write 1-100 perfectly and learning 100- 200.reads novels (children's novels) and practicing advanced maths and english .
Do U think it was taught in her school or by her teacher? Hell no.
Her teacher is still struggling to get the students to write 1-50 since beginning of third term.
U see My daughter started creche at the age of 2yrs where her creche mates was 11months -1yr +...But she was the only student that doesn't talk in class....withing 3 months she started school I had to advice myself.
You see Madam only a mother can be the best teacher for her children ,they are Your future and no school or teacher can impact more knowledge than a mother can. This are the formular I devised.
1) Go back to basic ..the way I was taught in my formative years I went to my mum's library and took my nursery school books and used that method for my Child when she encounters challenges in school.

2) At day time I become that working class woman but once I am home I stoop low to teach my child every evening except she is too tired ...I chat with her over topics that was learnt for the day and pretend I haven't heard such amazing topic then she becomes excited to teach me .

3) I blocked all cartoon network on dstv except only on saturdays (I learnt that from nairaland ).

4) Saturdays and Sundays evening are for reviews of all her school homeworks .

5) I take mental notes of all homeworks and draft mine when am less busy at work for Our daily private lessons.

6) Dont give them pressures during exams or be hard on them
kids learn by fun and games with parents where U Introduce topics to them (My hubby introduce me to the use of bottle tops and stones to teach her greater than and lesser than in maths).

7) Postive reinforcement plays a vital role ..Cheer them up and praise them on how brilliant they were able to accomplish what they do .

build a mini library for Your kids with lots of exercise books for their home use ..Give them little tasks e.g 1-20 and make sure each page is filled with a particular number ..just have fun teaching them when You are tired give them the book and push them to their Dad to coach them while You grade the score...

9) Never compare Your kids to any other children..Give them Your time and attention...

Finally, I learnt a priceless asset I can give my kids are not wealth or investments (although they matter) but knowledge and wisdom acquired through education...

To the doubting Thomas that will debunk my daughter's age and her class with calculator she was double promoted in creche
To Nusery 2 (I did home lessons with nursery 1 curriculum while she was in creche) ....She has been offered another double promotion now to primary 1 which her Dad declined too that she has to go to nursery 3 .

Above all before we begin our daily private lessons I taught her to say a short prayer on her books.

Wow, all these write up for me? God bless you for this piece. Am trying oo but the tv aspect is a bad score for me cos I use that to pacify them alot. 80% of the time, what they watch are education vidoes cos i download them and play via USB (I just connect it and they watch from tv).

cheenway:
Madam,
Please don't allow anyone and EVEN YOURSELF put pressure on those children. Let them remain in that Nursery One Class. I won't lie to you. There will be much more pressure on them if you allow them to be promoted to Nursery 2.
Under the right circumstances, a child should spend at least 4 years in the nursery foundation and should be 5 when in Primary/Basic/Year/Grade 1 (whatever is used in the school).
I rushed my son to start school from Reception 2 just because he could count and identify 1-10 and being a teacher, I felt it was a waste of time for him to do Reception 1. Now he's in Year 3 and I see him struggle a bit, especially in his Mathematics.
Take it from me (I'm a certified teacher and into the system), please leave those babies to do the class again. I guess that's what the school wants to discuss with you. They would be right if they do.

Naaa, these kids at 3 count 1 tp 50 perfectly. Identifies colours, shapes, all of those. Assign letters to objects. They are the best in the class. Of they won't be promoted, it's as good as not promoting any child in the class. They write 1 to 4 very well. Reception is after they have attended nursery 2, reception is before primary one. Kids in their school read well before entrying to primary one.

I actually jumped into concluding it's the writing 1 to 10 the school wanted to see us for but it was for us tp discuss other things about them.

We have discussed and they meet all the requirement for promotion.

Thanks all for your responses.

This is not kidnapping anymore, it's adultnapping.

But what's happening in this country?

Blade21:
I have 2 sons and they are unique in their own ways, my first son at 3 couldn’t write 2-10 on his own but he was perfect with anything oral while my second son is 3 now and he can write 1-300 on his own very good with problems and all but he’s terrible with anything oral. Your kids are unique do not let any school pressure you. I wish you all the best

Thank you for this.

I really appreciate this.

When I even hold their hands to write, they write it before I even move their hands with theirs. it's just them being on their own and writing it down. I will sleep well tonight at least because I have been worried about the school decision.

Beremx:
I think it is rather to hasty for your child to be promoted. Don't rush him. Allow him to learn what he is capable of learning for his age. Besides, a three year old child is supposed to be in KG1 and not KG2.

please did you say your child of 3yrs is in nursery one? haaaa?!? I guess you mean KG1. Nursery one is for 4 or 5yrs.

Beremx:
I think it is rather to hasty for your child to be promoted. Don't rush him. Allow him to learn what he is capable of learning for his age. Besides, a three year old child is supposed to be in KG1 and not KG2.

please did you say your child of 3yrs is in nursery one? haaaa?!? I guess you mean KG1. Nursery one is for 4 or 5yrs.

I think different schools have the names for pre-school sessions. Some call it KG and some Nursery. But I know they have creche, nur1, nur 2, reception before entering into primary 1. Same for those who name their pre-school sessions as creche, kg1, kg2, reception then primary 1...

Nursery 1 is not for 4 or 5 years, when will the child leave pre-school if that is it?

Beremx:
My son is 3yrs and 4months. He cannot write 1-10 on his own but if I write 1-1000 for him to rewrite, he will write it perfectly not knowing what it is. He knows how to rewrite but not perfect in counting yet. He knows how to count 1 to 100 and A to Z. With extra lessons i give him, he is the best in his class. Kindly give him extra lessons too. it will help a lot

Thank for your response.

They rewrite perfectly, count 1 to 50 perfectly without assistance. What the school insist on is writing it on their own from 1 to 10. They write 1 to 4 for now.

If they insist they must write 1 to 10 before they can be promoted i will withdraw them and ask for a refund of their end of the year fees.

I don't know who n who will be promoted in their class then.

Thanks for your responses. I just weak, I even spanked one for asking me to put on tv instead of concentrating on mastering writing 4.

God please forgive me, i will also hug them and ask her to forgive me now.

My sister who is a teacher always commend them, i just wonder why this guys feel the writing is most important.

I already told my hubby before now i want them out of that school cos of the pressure on kids. But he said no that the pressure is okay but i hate to hear my kids aren't doing well.

I went for their review session last term and my girl bit all other kids hands down in terms of counting and identifying 1 to 20. I was even amazaed myself. Habaaa!!!!

Hi house, please help me.

My kids are 3 years old in Nursery 1. Their school rule for promotion to nursery 2 is any pupil in Nursery must be able to write 1-10.

They count 1 - 50 well. I went for their review last term and my daughter happens to be the best in class.

But writing is the issue. They can only write 1, 2, 3 n 4. One can write 7.

They are serious about this. Now i have been called for a meeting again. I'm worried that the school is so touch on promoting a 3 year old kid. My kids are really sharp, they sing a to z, assign letters to veggies and even know shapes and colours.

Just the aspect of writing and am now worried.


Mothers i need your opinions please. I don't even have time to compare my friends kids with mine or even ask cos they might not even tell you the truth.


Dominique, please i need urgent help cos i might be in their school tomorrow. Those guys are crazy i think.