JOACHINpedro:
I hope all is well with you

sorry I posted a story here but I quickly erased it and posted it in the literature section

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Wizywiz:
well, she broke up with me then..i loved her so much then...she was so eager and desperate to marry, she gave me an ultimatum on when to marry her, i refused yielding to her pressure we broke up and now she is coming back to yarn dust to me...maybe because she still dey single and in her late thirties...

women have a biological clock so It's quite normal for ladies in their thirties to be eager to get married,especially here in Nigeria (because of family pressure), ladies in their thirties are likely to end a relationship if they don't see marriage in the near future so I don't really blame her but I don't believe in pressuring a man to propose

Lamanii22:




Yeah right...... So worthy...

awwn thanks

Wizywiz:
Same thing i always, ignore and overlook..no calls no chats infact i delete everything about my ex ....i was surprise to see her call earlier this year..after 5 years telling me she wish me unfruitful marriage with my wife..that i wil never enjoy any woman except her that she loved me so much that i will come back to her that she is d only one made for me...imagine after 5 years...i taught she would hav been married by now..because of the way she carries herself then...i never altered a word while she was ranting..i only allowed her finish .then i replied thank you..takia...put off the call and blocked d number again...why hasnt she gotten over me?

Bros you're wicked o , there's nothing more painful than getting "thank you" or "okay" as a reply after ranting on phone or sending a long dramatic text, that shi.t hurts like hell

wizdomnzube:
Our 9ja babes go post so tey na to block them ho be it next option. Especially wen u nor even rewson dis mata after the break up

yyba:
may coronavirus and dangerous thunder locate my ex and her parents immediately .

ahh .. seems she really hurt you

KingZaddy:
you got good points...


your ex is pained when she doesnt see signs of you missing her.


stop being constant online (whatsapp facebook)

dont chat her up

when you make posts let them be business related (life progress)

celebrate birthday of other friends and make sure your captions dont smell of emotional hurts

exactly

samtinx:
~Words crested on a Marble~

thanks for reading

Shormiey:

I don't know now....you didn't indicate...

Gracie is a female name na

Please visit my blog for short stories and articles
https://talesbygrace..com

Wldzgr8st:
Spot on

thanks for reading

Shormiey:
I pick your drift bro.....

I'm a girl tho

"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.

I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.

If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).

You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.

You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*

Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened.

MayorOlohLo1:
Being a short man of about 5" 9", i have an abnormal obession over tall women, Tall Volumptous women, with Colossal bosoms and a Ass like a Tank. This short man loves them big and huge. I would still have a boner at the sight of a goddess with this qualities whils't in extremis, breathing my last.

you're not short , 5'9 is average for a guy. By the way, I'm surprised that a guy who thinks he's short loves tall women because I read somewhere that Short guys prefer short women because tall women make them feel more insecure about their height, I guess that wasn't correct

So I just had a conversation with a female friend who's 5'11 and she complained bitterly about how her height is affecting her love life. Apparently, most of the guys she has met have complained about her being "too tall for a girl". She's very beautiful but she feels that most guys don't want to date her because she's too tall. I'm 5'6 which is average in my opinion, but I've met people who think I'm too tall for a girl �. Few weeks ago, I watched the movie "Tall girl" on Netflix (For those who haven't seen the movie, it centers around a teenage girl who's 6 ft 1½ inches tall), I was amazed at how much the lead character hated her height. While growing up, I was made to believe that being tall is a good thing but it seems most girls don't like being tall because it affects their dating life. So guys in the house, do you prefer short women, tall women, or average height women? Comment below. Ladies in the house, do you prefer being short, tall or average?

Sorry about what happened dear. Someone named Bolarinwa Adedimeji went as far as copying a story I posted on nairaland with my old account (Jane's Dilemma), editing the names of some characters, designing a book cover for the story and publishing it on Amazon and other online book stores. Several others copied the story and posted it on Facebook, I had to message them to take it down but at some point, I gave up because they were too many and most of them changed the title. The last story I posted on nairaland (Blood), was copied by several people from tushstories.com where I initially posted it last year, some of them posted it on their blogs, others on Facebook and the worst part is that many of them changed the title of the story. I don't know how someone will comfortably steal another person's work, change the title and claim to be the author, there's a special place in hell for plagiarists. The first time I discovered that someone plagiarised my work, I actually cried and I contacted the person on Facebook immediately, but now, I don't have the strength to confront any plagiarist online, I'm tired, I've decided to leave them for God. I'll still post my works on nairaland but not the ones I cherish, my cherished stories and articles are sitting pretty in my phone until I decide what to do with them.

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Anijay1212:
Make i grab ftc first.
Ok done,now on my way to the blog.

haha thanks