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iTearHerToto:
Why not just Fvck senselessness out of her Brainless pussy Just one hot round and she would come back to her senses and go beg her hubby for forgiveness. Hopefully the man of superb character would do so gladly. Be a good Samaritan and Save an over starved pussy

biznus:
she's probably being nice to you and at the same time rubbing it in. Last last I fear women sha. hence I don't chit chat with exs

OmoYorubaNiMio:
What are you doing chatting up married women if not for the fact that you are looking to eat from forbidden fruit??
Continue....

Obi88:
I want to make my story short, I've been dating this my girl since April 2015 when i was in final year in the university while she was in year one, she reciprocated the love infact she made me feel heaven on earth until November 2016 when she started uploading several pictures in a car with a particular guy who happens to be a customs officer,prior to this her attitudinal change, I promised her i'll marry her and from the depth of my heart i meant everything I told her, I even had to influence my state of deployment during my nysc programe to her town of residence, uploading pictures in the car with the guy has never been my problem but the worst happened when she reluctantly (unlike her that usually begs that she wants to visit ) came to spend the weekend with me), right in my presence she was making a call with this particular guy, I mean using this intimate and sexy voice, I left the room in anger to avoid troubles, I returned like after 20 minutes and she was still on the call, I had to take the phone from her and in her bid to resist me, the angel i always loved, cherished and adored hooked my shirt by the neck such that I was shocked to my marrow that such thing will ever happen, i gave a her a resounding slap ( which i regret because I've vowed never to lay my hands on a lady till the day i die), she left my house the next morning and threatened the relationship was over. I never knew the words HEARTBREAK AND DEPRESSION were real till those moments, i begged and begged and everything seemed to normalize after a month, my problem now is that this particular guy calls my girl like more that 10 times in thirty minutes, I called her and asked her what was going on, she told me the guy is her best friend who she has known for five years meanwhile i never knew this guy when things were cool with us, I told her to cut off the relationship but what I get in return when ever i mention this guy's name are insults. Infact there's no type or kind of insult(s) which I've never received from her, I was a corps member but I kept sending her money out of my little savings but she kept demanding things from me like I was already employed, during one of our conversations she told me how she was still requesting for financial aid from her mum when she has a boyfriend (this was a lady that was always encouraging me when I even had nothing when I was in school), between November and now, I've always told her to move on with her life with her best friend (a customs officer ) but after a week or so she calls back promising to change, once i succumb to her plea i end up in tears and agony again, I know it might sound foolish but since November 2016 till now she's been messing with my feelings and emotions. I'm so angry and ashamed of myself that I've not been able to call it a day on this tormenting relationship. I finished my Nysc since April but till now I've not been able to secure a job but I believe God will see me through someday, my story is a very long one but i decided to make it laconic so as not to bore anyone, please i really need advice on how to end this relationship and mean it, I've tried severally but still find myself talking with her again. My soul is no longer with her, I don't want her in my life anymore but i really find it difficult to leave her, I don't want to marry a woman that will make me regret my existence on earth

JustAstrangeGuy:
Am not so handsome
Am not even rich
I don't have any special bed skills

Why would anyone want to make me a side Guy for years? .. seriously!

Lafz.. it's actually funny

osasdivine00:
I did it, guy I didn't regret it.
I was lucky because the girl wasn't that of asking asking, she only asked for the bed relaxing stuff.

Trust me I studied psychology and I am a well reformed Relationship expert.

And before 2020, my blog OSASDIVINEBLOG
@ www.osasdivineblog.com

would be one of the highly rank Relationship BLOG.

What's my point.

The girl I am dating know that I have money,
is the same girl I was afraid to date when I was broke in the year 2017.

We don dey plan wedding self.

To surprise you , she is actually the key of my success today.

She gave me the Apple laptop given to her as gift from a relative abroad.

That was what I used to apply for an online job as a sex/relationship therapist and a blogger which I am now

That is where I got the money I am spending on her now.
What if I looked at the fact that I was broke.


As an expert this is my advice.

If you think you can't date a girl because you are broke then let me ask!

Where is your self value and what are you using it for.

I used mine, you can use yours too.

MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING.

THAT'S WHY I AM RECOMMENDING THIS POST.
READ AND BE WISER.
https://www.osasdivineblog.com/2019/01/how-to-date-a-nigerian-girl.html?m=1

Headlesschicken:
Good day fellas please what is with our Nigerian gals n big tummy,more than 85% of our gals have big Stomach,n they just don't care to do anything about this,n all they keep doing is just to eat eat eat eat n just continue eating anything that comes there way,i believe one of the major reason for this issue is gluttony,cos our gals r highly gluttonous in nature, every guy that comes there way becomes another free meal ticket,that's why u can hardly ask a Nigerian gal whether she has eaten n get an affirmative reply,all u would always hear is No, I've not eaten.
Not only that they eat crap,they equally do not exercise,funny enough the only exercise most of em know is how to v sex, beyond that nothing else..
Please you ladies should kindly look into yuh diet,n life pattern,cos this issue is actually derailing most of you from getting married n causing some of d married male to look outside,cos their women r no longer looking attractive,I know it ain't easy but it's worth it...
Please do not carry this nonsense into 2019,look @ yuh fellow women in d Western world n how attractive they still look even @ their old age...
I rest my case...

Raltrending:
I pray you post, good day, the love I have for my girlfriend is washing away because of this little things, so in March me and my girlfriend went on vacation in ogun state, the money I budgeted for the vacation finished a day before we supposed to head to Lagos.

All I have left is transport money and little money in case of emergency, this babe started complaining that she's not eating what I provide that she want pepper soup, and there is money in her purse but she doesn't want to spend it, she even want to wash her clothe but because I didn't give her money for soap, she decided bringing it to Lagos, on our way home she started buying drink and some goodies, I just keep mute,

yesterday we went to cinema I don't know the film will be so expensive because it's new, and we have already been to fast food to eat, so the 10k I budgeted finished, I asked my girlfriend of 4 years to give me 100 naira to get water for us, babe just throw face away I was so angry, I just realize love is not enough reason to get married to someone, I can't marry a stingy girl,

or someone that won't be able to bring her money out to take care of the house, I'm breaking up with her on the 31st of this month, we are not going to 2019 together, girls should do better.

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nnadychuks:
hahaha you guys are so sure my baby is going to cheat? Trying to change the way I think or reason things Is the hardest task for the devil. If you guys haven't seen a loyal girl before its because you grew up with the mindset that all girls cheat; well, for me, I believe that any of my babe dats working or had worked before won't cheat... I might be younger than your children's age group but you can learn something you haven't learnt before in your life...
you can move mountains with a small faith and great belief, if you believe all girls will cheat on you all you need is the faith as small as a mustard seed then they become whores in your sight
Please don't quote me again, keep your terrible mindset to yourself

BecaciaBarbie:
What if Matete falls in love with her later on? What if they become a thing? How will he handle this? I don't trust friends

pocohantas:
Lol @ Benz.
Must it be a Benz?
Not Lexus or Acura, why Benz?

Doctorfitz:
Lols..

Thank God guys are waking up to the reality of women. Bros that ur angel na other guy h0e no reason am. No good girl anywhere. It took me a while to understand but ever since then life has been beautiful. Married women aren't even exempted

Do as ur power reach,never you try to impress cos she's begging another guy in his dm to suck his c0ck...... Harsh realities. ...

Kylekent59:
Use the 4k and buy wrapper for your mum.


BF/GF life is a waste of one's precious time. Don't be surprised another guy would buy her gift of 50k and take her out to the cinema to watch "Chief Daddy"

MariaLavina:
And you overlooked where she was sexually harassed, where she had to change her PPA twice but still won't stop her from being diiick choked by irresponsible sex starved men?


Why do you guys like crying wolves? huh? You all love shifting blames, throwing stones and all at women when you are the real problems!. Both genders cheat no doubt and if ur a smart reader u could hav read Wia i said distant partners have skeletons in their cupboards nd i advised not to commit suicide over a cheating partner, was i specific with any gender? I only shared my story here and of course I’m a male. I’m not here for a debate or to shift blames. I was faithful and felt cheated after over coming much temptations. Men and women cheat maybe equally no doubt but if there is gonna be a cure then the women have a bigger role to play... just maybe. Stoping defending ur shameless egocentric gender specie. God forbid


Damn! I dislike petty boys!

Biingoo:
Something has really been bothering me for a while now.

Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?

I mean:

A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time. Bro God bless for this write up, is as if you know my situation right now. Mental brokenness na die disease. For 4yrs my gf no buy me ordinary boxers or afford tfare 2cee me. I did everything for her# spits

A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.

Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and complaining she doesn't have airtime.

I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation; where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
Or is she a ghost worker?

(NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men)

How do some guys manage to date such ladies?
No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men.

See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.

Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual intelligence and other intelligence.

Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul (an average man has enough storms); and not someone who adds stress to your life.

And most guys are still dating these broke ladies just because they think they're so gorgeous or hot, and they're so lucky to be dating them, and would probably not find another woman as gorgeous and flawless like their broke girlfriends.

Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just because of her physical beauty.
They're actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense.

So don't ever think of settling for less brother.

One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money...
Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way way worse than not having money.

Ladies please don't be mentally broke.
Guys please don't date mentally broke girls.

Yes, I've broken another table today!

limbolimbo:
I recently showed interest in a neighbour of mine, I know she likes me, but she is a very traditional person, she wants us to go through the full cycle before anything further. But something started giving me a reason to worry about here mindset towards relationships.

She celebrated her birthday last month, and I got her a very expensive wrist watch, it cost me 94k, she doesn't know this. I also got her a really nice cake, cost me 10k, so in all I spent over a hundred thousand on her birthday. I know for some this may not seem like much or may seem like too much, I think what really matters is tat I was fine with it and could afford it. Within the same period, she would indirectly ask me for funds, she said she was broke, I could have helped her with this but I felt it was way above my position, as I am only a "To Be Boyfriend", to offer her all this after spending a 100k on gifts for her birthday.

A week ago we had a very interesting discussion, about the role of the man and the woman in a relationship, she said that "A man should be responsible for the upkeep of his Girlfriend, he should save a portion from his salary monthly which he should give to his girlfriend for upkeep". I thought that was nonsense and I quickly called her out on it, all I can say now is that I don't think we would be dating anymore, because she took it very personally, she said she thinks she would suffer if she goes into a relationship with me, because I am already showing signs of being stingy.

If I keep writing I would not end, so my question here is, is she right? Should I have instead given her the cash rather than the gift? Because to me it now seems she doesn't see the value of the gift and would rather have cash. I want adult opinions please.

(Please note that I am not trying to paint this lady as an evil person, she is really sweet, loving, caring, she loves getting attention and doesn't have any problem in showing me how she really feels about me, overall she is a great lady.)

placeofallure:
I read an article about the free-sex-for-all going on in the NYSC camp shortly before I went for my service year and that strengthened my resolve to hold myself. What I read was too degrading especially concerning women. As part of the measures I took, I went with many bulky novels and that was what I did, I buried myself in them. Not many people knew me in camp and afterwards, I kept a very low profile.

In reality, many will try to date you whether you're attractive or not. After all, you are far away from where your regular kondo is. All the men know this and they are bloody opportunists. Beginning from my fellow Corp members to my lodge boys, to the zonal inspector to the principal of the school I was posted to. I changed place of primary assignment twice because of sexual harassment. The story is the same with the other principal. I also worked with the state house of assembly and the honourable men were quick to show how dishonoured they are. For an average lady, rebuffing all these advances would seem a Herculean task, it is actually. My boyfriend was in town only once and he barely spent two days. His excuse? Work!

How does a poor lady, who is the 'weaker' of the sexes cope? Usually, it is easy to stand aloof in a corner and chastise, and cast aspersions but have you tried to reverse the roles and possibly wear the shoes for a moment, just a moment? I bet you'll drum a different beat.


At the end of the day, it's not about whether or not you have a boyfriend or a betrothed, it's about your values as person. What you'd do and what you'd rather not be caught doing.

Seandisputed:
Who no go no go know

I served in Anambra state, during our 3 weeks mandatory orientation programme last year, a married woman was caught having sex with a guy in the camp, her husband was called upon to come take his wife ( the guilty parties were expelled from camp), the husband came around and was told what happened, he gave the woman the ring and drove off considering the fact that it's not been long they got married. Another friend of mine took off her wedding ring 3 days into the programme just to frolic around.

Had an experience at my PPA where i met a fellow corper for the first time when i went to visit a friend at her lodge and we made out, this happened for some time until i found out almost every Nigga bleeped her. I just had to keep my distance.

NYSC is just another Sodom and Gomorrah

Seandisputed:
Who no go no go know

I served in Anambra state, during our 3 weeks mandatory orientation programme last year, a married woman was caught having sex with a guy in the camp, her husband was called upon to come take his wife ( the guilty parties were expelled from camp), the husband came around and was told what happened, he gave the woman the ring and drove off considering the fact that it's not been long they got married. Another friend of mine took off her wedding ring 3 days into the programme just to frolic around.

Had an experience at my PPA where i met a fellow corper for the first time when i went to visit a friend at her lodge and we made out, this happened for some time until i found out almost every Nigga bleeped her. I just had to keep my distance.

NYSC is just another Sodom and Gomorrah

iamay:
virgin? After fingering?

mibrims:
my corper frnd is currently dating a gal that has a serious fiancé waiting for her at home for marriage. He fingers her, sucks and does all sorts to this gal but the gal no gree for sex because she’s a Virgin which is true and that is the only way her fiancé will bliv she is faithful. Now you can imagine if she’s not a Virgin??

lefulefu:
dude or dudes
i can tell u with authority that at least 10 guys are nacking her in camp right now

Peter4luv:
Crying because i thoughts i lost the one i love..still asking myself why i allow myself fall in love with her..

Peter4luv:
Crying because i thoughts i lost the one i love..still asking myself why i allow myself fall in love with her..

KillaBeauty:
Humanity is cursed

Just look at the little child

Drive him out to stay where? I spit on human beings!

Sometimes I wonder why I have to share a planet with these deranged, desperately wicked people

I’d have been better off as an alien

makavellidon:
My ex keep calling me, after 4year she left me

Ire2:
Please I need ways to go about getting back my ex gf, we broke up last year over some misunderstanding as we had major each with our differences, relationship was fine for 3 good years but on 3rd year we started having issues, she was misbehaving and I couldn't take it anymore, I lashed out on her, scolded her, insulted her because she annoyed me so much with her attitude.

She was not cheating on me but the problem I had with her is that she has a deep mind when you offend her no matter how little it is, she nurses it in her heart deep down, after the last quarrel we had we broke up. She called the relationship off saying since we now argue almost 90% of the time that she can't take it anymore but although she loves me that it's not just working.

Although I did hurt her in the past but it was just with words, I insulted her when we had quarrels

I tried to talk to her she refused, I have begged this girl to come back, I love her so much I just can't get her off my mind friends! I want this girl back badly, after being in about 3 relationship with different beautiful girls I still can't get my ex of my mind.

I and my ex do communicate and presently she is not into any relationship, we do have sex some times but when she wants it because we used to be very close and we understand each other a lot. But what I don't understand is why going to 2 years now of begging her to come back lets start afresh she has refused to despite having a very good relationship with me as to the point of us even having sex together from Time to time.

Please guys, help me, how do u get this girl back? I can't think straight anymore, each time I try to forher about her it's not working, I want to be with her. I have gotten her gifts to say sorry, done everything I could, but none is working, I have asked her what she wants me to do to make up. She said nothing that she is not just interested in me anymore for relationship

dyangprof:
Na so failure dey start fa exams

Op said which one is most annoying, you dey say all of the above.