Etinosa1234:


When u are converting.. take regard the country conversion rate of the country

U used the conversion rate of USA to judge for the remaining countries
A naira to Aussie dollar is 250 naira. That’s more than enough for processing Aussie visa

And a naira to Canadian dollar is 270, and 320 black market

That can go a long way in processing the visa

Check well. The quoted amount is not correct. Official rate is upwards of 290

AlabiJ:
I see Tambuwal's moves as another sleek attempt by PDP to deny ibo people a chance of flying the party ticket in 2023. If Atiku gets the ticket he may likely pick another ibo as his VP. But if Tambuwal gets it, he may likely pick Wike or a Yoruba person as his vice.

It is Igbo and not Ibo.

Monkeys How on earth do you guys just eat anything?

You don't need to ask such question. The lady was nice to you and even put her money into your business when the going was tough. The least you can do now is to help her family. If you can, place her parents on a monthly stipend. Your new gf doesn't need to know and even if she knows, that shouldn't be your problem.

This guy is the El Chapo of the wire wire world. I doubt he even invested.

Klass99:
The act of moving the money into a different bank account alone speaks volumes.

I will hesitate and have reservations about moving forward with a wedding/marriage to this person BUT on the other hand I believe in second chances.

Sensible people don't take 2nd chances for granted and they often do better when given a shot at a chance to redeem themselves and prove themselves.

If I were the man, I will put marriage plans on hold, extend the dating/courting period and give this person a chance at rebuilding my trust in her. If I messed up too I wouldn't want to be instantly and completely written off.

Well said but people often misuse 2nd, 3rd, 4th even up to nth chance. It all boils down to individual conscience and also their upbringing.

Bola146:
When trust is been betrayed in a relationship, i need to japa, that is a very bad signal I trust you is more loving than I love you

Absolutely.

decatalyst:


And lack integrity is worth losing a marriage proposal for!


She can kill and pin it on someone else. Integrity is key!

Hmmm. This is true. Integrity is everything especially in marriage

chii8:
Waoo... this is huge,you know....most issues in today's marriages gave a warning sign at the beginning but the "love is blind" saga won't let people use their God given common sense.

Very true

Very beautiful

ravensckar:
Honestly, when I read one-sided write ups like these, I feel appalled. Ain't there two sides to a coin any more? The so-called 'desperation' from ladies may not always be what you think. It could be a way of saying their own mind is made up. They have no more time to waste.

Now, let me shock you with my own story. When I met the lady I'm married to today, she told me straight up that she's not in for any long term relationship. She's almost done with school and that if the relationship won't lead to marriage, I should jejely excuse her. Me being the 'guyman' that I was then, I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I sha played along with the intent to chop until I'm full. Now, therein lies my confusion; the said lady in question was everything I wanted in a woman (beautiful, educated, well behaved, God-fearing and highly industrious). But I have just one problem; I wasn't ready for marriage. Money no dey, even the job I was doing then, salary was around 70K.


She sha encouraged me that we should pull our resources together and that we'll survive. Long story cut short, I decided to give it a shot. After all, person wey dey ground no get anywhere to fall to. We got married in less than 4 months of dating. When I mean married, I mean a proper and elaborate wedding. Brethrens, today we're still together. Yes, she's not perfect just like I'm not as well, but we are still happily married.

It was later I understood the reason for her 'desperation'. She had wasted too much time dating some Bleep boys, hence, she felt she has no more time to waste. To her, if it's not going to lead to marriage, then, she shouldn't even venture into it. What we guys see as 'desperation' to some ladies, it's called making up their mind.

True

KevinDein:


It's not unusual for young ladies (20s) to have multiple suitors because that's when they are at the peak of their sexual market value (SMV). The issue here is that women's hypergamous nature gets the better of them. They think these interests are gonna last a life time and they keep holding out for the best option.

A decade later, in their 30s with low SMV, the interests drastically nose dive and they'll probably only get approaches from low value males hence the desperation they show when they meet any man that's half decent. You'll find most of the guys that post on this thread were actually involved with older women.

It's not uncommon.

The best analysis so far. You nailed it!

AfroKnight:


Chai!

Your first born would have been another man’s child. Shît!!!

This is how men end up raising other people’s kids, only to find out the truth at the embassy.

She stayed in your home, ate your food, collected your money and gifts and still tried to trap you in a marriage with the child of another man.

That was cruel of her.

Very cruel and wicked of her.

Blackmoran:
Yea my ex..... She came all the way from benue to leave with me, every day she keeps bombarding me with pictures of people wedding, fantasising on babies and us having kid together... Though this girl was cool she is homely can cook clean and kind of intelligent to spice it up my family loves her so much especially my dad, she has this free spirit personality.. But my instinct wasn't good with the idea it was too good to be true.. And secondly I wasn't ready financially to take on the burden of marriage but this girl never mind.... During December she travelled with my junior sister to his home town, to cut the story short I followed my instinct and today am a surviver of what would have given me heart attack....... During the thick of the moment she started showing are true colour, that homely girl started showing arrogant trait, the change was fast that I thought this can't be true... I did the right thing I broke up with her... Though my dad was sad about it but I let him know I know her more Than Them and what she portray is not who she is... A week after we brokeup my junior sister gave me the shocking news of my life.... That my ex was pregnant. . I didn't believe her cause We haven't had sex up to 4 months meaning when she was with me she was banging another dick... I waited till eight month later to find out she gave birth to a baby boy...and here let me burst your brain the father of the baby was my best friend who I trust so much...na that one pain me pass ... Lesson when a girl is trying to rush you into marraige run for your life.... If you want to get married do it at your convenient time... All girls would be at there good behavior during courtship, this one even take it to the extreme she even dey cut grass for compound... Na after marriage woman go show you are real colour....

Wow!!!

I am here wondering how 167 is now greater than 169. Wow!

yanabasee:
True....


Girls from poor homes often live with high expectations. They have a believe that their body is what they can offer and they will often act like they've given so much from their body... They don't have courtesy attitude....

Spot on

Seun:
I wonder if the suspicion of COVID-19 reduced the quality of the care she received.

This must have been the case. That hospital is known for negligence how much more a suspicious case.

0KNM:
I’ll advise you still do a DNA test tho... They probably just pushing the baby to you

I agree.

seanwilliam:
Mehn, for the first time this year, I cry .. omo....I learn 15 lessons from this
1. Never have girl friend at tender age
2. Never have girlfriend while you are struggling
3. Dont be too generous
4. Dont live beyond your means
5. A man should be strong emotionally
6. Never date a single mother
7. Never accept a cheating girlfriend back
8. Have multiple source of income
9. Never close your mouth, you never can tell who would help you
10. Your condition is the not the worst
11.you yourself is the most important thing, family comes second
12. Dont invest in business you dont know the "ins" and " out"..
13.learn a skill no matter what
14. Dont trust people easily
15. Prayer works....
And lastly
16. Suicide is never the solution to one's problem

I really learn much ...God would make a way for all of us.. this really got my hearts
Your breakthrough is near Tankunland

You summarized everything bro.

Validated:

Dont mind them, so many Nigerians go the the food banks, even when there was no COVID19. Some even see poverty as a thing to be proud of. Pls I am not against visiting food banks if you really need it, but some see it as an opportunity to exploit the system as they do in Nigeria even when they can afford it.
What they fail to realise that these activities are on their consumer records and some organizations dig up this during background checks to compare with their resume and profiles they put forwsrd.

I am telling you. A lot of them are doing it, abusing the system.

Lol you want to compare Country with country?

But oga, all grocery stores are open now. How come you don't have food?

...with which data?

Confused country

Nice piece

openmine:

It was the 2007 carling cup quarterfinals which is now known as the carabao cup
Former Brazilian player Julio Baptista scored four goals that night!
https://www.anfield-online.co.uk/fixtures/2007/carlingcup/arsenalqf.htm

The most painful part of that match was that we used our full strength squad to play that game while they used some of their fringe players with some youthful additions yet they still managed to score 6 at anfield!

Oh I see

openmine:

I had earlier made the correction!
But Liverpool actually lost 3-6 to arsenal at anfield!

What competition and year? To the best of my knowledge, the highest defeat Liverpool have suffered against Arsenal is 4-1, UCL 2007/2008 or so and Andrey Asharvin scored the 4 goals if I remember very well. The return leg at Anfield was 4-4.

openmine:

I slightly disagree with you on Arsenal fans being the strongest in terms of humiliation!
Infact arsenal have actually inflicted more harm on other teams...for instance my club liverpool!
Do you remember the humiliation liverpool suffered from the disgraceful 7-2 loss to arsenal at anfield?

This never happened please.

Interesting.

princeking2:
Marriage is kinda scary.
Love today.... Hate tomorrow.

God please give us life partners that won't kill us.

Amen

The grass is always greener on the other side until reality sets in.

He has collected his share

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