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RomanceRe: Opinion: Are You Cool With Your Partner Still Communicating With Their Ex? by Mikester: 7:09pm On Jan 20, 2021
Never had one so... Premarital sex helps no one las las. Don't do it, just like me and you will avert a lot of sorrows
RomanceRe: Opinion: Are You Cool With Your Partner Still Communicating With Their Ex? by Mikester: 7:07pm On Jan 20, 2021
Never had one so...
FamilyRe: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by Mikester: 3:09am On Jan 20, 2021
Whatever you feel about her, let her know. Stop assuming she knows. Relationships should be based on communication not assumptions.
RomanceRe: From Whatsapp To Lovers, See How A Guy Won A Lady's Heart In A 31-Minutes Chat by Mikester: 8:10pm On Jan 18, 2021
Nice but that guy should be wary not to be too nice. I can smell simpism from his chat, clearly a poor way to initiate a relationship
FamilyRe: What Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op): 7:28pm On Jan 18, 2021
Olunmercy56:
Having sex with a man will definitely loose your respect as a woman. But you need to discuss it further. Some men has thin or small tin, some have issues with their sex life, some ladies don't like too much sex, it will be very painful if the guy or the lady didn't tell his or problem before going into marriage
You spoke wisdom. On a normal basis relationships should be based on communication not assumptions. No partner should live with assumptions, they should rather communicate which is more rational
FamilyRe: What Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op): 7:25pm On Jan 18, 2021
Aliii:
she don't align with you ,she's mostly stubborn she don't take whatever you say ..she always feel she's right ,she unapologetic.. All about the women trend ..total dependency on you ..
The last one is a disease. It will not end well. Nice write
FamilyRe: What Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op): 8:05pm On Jan 17, 2021
Liposure:
Is she submissive? is she domestic enough? Does she have a listening ear? is she one of those toxic and proud feminists? These are things i look out for.
Feminism is a total turnoff for me too. It is an anti-marriage program. Nice input
FamilyRe: What Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op): 4:33pm On Jan 17, 2021
debbydams:
abi o, person like me I used to make hidden search about someone m dating before going to see him, finding like can he kill me, can he use me for ritual,glory still remain, we go last if I marry him, is he hot tempered, no mata how much I love a guy once i.found that he's hot tempered nd impatient forget it we meuvvvvv nio.. grin
You're wise

RomanceRe: What Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op): 4:26pm On Jan 17, 2021
Bebson007:
Firstly, you both should be on the same page, what i mean is u guys must decide on what you want. Is it shex, fun, or serious ralationship. Because the essence of a relationship is marriage. Sencondly, know his or her love language
Thirdly knw his or her temperament then Lastly knw his or her essence of being. Cheers.
Thanks for your contribution
RomanceRe: Would You Still Forgive And Love Someone After They’ve Cheated? by Mikester: 4:23pm On Jan 17, 2021
LoveTalk:
Your signature though.
Great piece sha
You're welcome
FamilyRe: What Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op): 4:22pm On Jan 17, 2021
debbydams:
And make findings about the family background,some have hereditary sickness or disability
Make someone no go enter one chance marriage. Nice one
FamilyRe: What Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op):
Olunmercy56:
Yes, especially the sex part, communication and financial aspect
You seem to be ignoring the fact that most men lose interest in a lady after sex...
FamilyRe: What Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op): 4:18pm On Jan 17, 2021
Aliii:
In marriage is forever ..so one must choose what matches you ..first they must be up and down ,forget those Korean movies they are tough times where you and her might get misunderstandings, so here you check if he/she can forgive easily .. Next everyone has a bad habit, so I always advice you life with her for like a month or two to see if you can tolerate her ..and lastly fertility, can she put to bed?
You have a point but what're the signs of the wrong person? Please your opinion...
RomanceRe: Would You Still Forgive And Love Someone After They’ve Cheated? by Mikester: 4:03pm On Jan 17, 2021
Screw forgiveness. Never keep up with a cheating partner especially if it's a lady. You can’t always be nice. That’s how people take advantage of you. Sometimes you have to set your boundaries and walk away if they aren't met
FamilyWhat Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op):
Marriage is a beautiful thing but can be the worst thing to happen to a man if a partner isn't considered carefully. Some of us are fortunate to marry good partners while others are just unfortunate. Some yet dated their husbands/wives then ended up marring their boyfriends/girlfriends. Funny and sad as it is.

Best to marry someone who would bring out the best in us not the stress in us which brings up the big question, "What do you think people need to know about each other before they get married?"

From my perspective so far I believe they include

- His/her financial status
- His/her private life
- Genotype
- Mental health

Is there something I'm missing?
What's your take on this?

RomanceWhat Do You Think People Need To Know About Each Other Before They Get Married? by Mikester(op): 3:52pm On Jan 17, 2021
Marriage is a beautiful thing but can be the worst thing to happen to a man if a partner isn't considered carefully. Some of us are fortunate to marry good partners while some are just sad. Some dated their husbands/wives then married their boyfriends/girlfriends. Funny and sad as it is.

Best to marry someone who would bring out the best in us not the stress in us which brings up the big question, "What do you think people need to know about each other before they get married?"
From my perspective so far I believe they should be

- His/her financial status
- His/her private life
- Genotype
- Mental health

Moreover how do we know the wrong person to avoid? What are the signs to look out for?
What's your take on this?

RomanceRe: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Mikester: 3:23pm On Jan 17, 2021
Nousername4356:
Thanks for your advice sir. God bless you
Amen, Be with someone who brings out the best in you not the stress in you. Take care
RomanceRe: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Mikester: 3:10pm On Jan 17, 2021
Nousername4356:
Hmmmm...word!
Well according to him, the wife left on her own accord. She was keeping late nights without any justification neither was she remorseful. That caused lots of arguments and friction in the marriage. He claimed he was never violent with her and even went to her family house to beg her to come back but she refused. Calling him 'done and dusted"
About the obsession part, me I dont know oo. He just seemed to like me very much. Too much perhaps..he calls me 'raw gold'
Well, I would like my child to have some semblance with him in some areas, although not all areas
But you somehow don't feel safe making the decision of marrying him and I presume you also hate to be just his baby mama. You feel deep down that it might not be best to give in to him as creating this thread has shown. Ma'am if you were my relative, I would advise against giving in to him just as your actual relatives did. Drop him. There is always someone better for whoever we leave behind. That's my mind on this.
FamilyRe: ls it a must, l should take her back? by Mikester:
I've no advice
RomanceRe: God Gave Me Big Yansh & Small Breast - Nigerian Lady Laments by Mikester: 2:54pm On Jan 17, 2021
For a girl, her body shape equates her self worth
RomanceRe: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Mikester: 2:49pm On Jan 17, 2021
Nousername4356:
Hmmmmm..maybe...but he has been a good good friend and lover. Also, he can afford that amount of money without neccesarily breaking the bank.
If that is how you see it...
RomanceRe: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Mikester: 2:47pm On Jan 17, 2021
Nousername4356:
My heart says Yes but my mind says No
The heart is not enough in making decisions. The mind and gut feeling are mostly accurate. If you feel something is wrong somewhere, chances are there is. You need to leave love aside now and be logical

- If he was so perfect, why did his wife leave?
- Why is he seemingly obsessed with you?
- Would you want your child to be like him?

You need to ponder on this
RomanceRe: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Mikester: 2:32pm On Jan 17, 2021
Don't mistake those that are around you for those who are there for you. That man seems to be up to something. Nothing is free in this world. No sane man who worked his ass to where he is now would just want to lavish such amount of money on a non family member. I don't trust his agenda

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