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RomanceRe: To All Fake Christians Condemning Silhouette Challenge by Mikester: 11:59am On Jan 30, 2021
ChizzyBuna:
Until a female priest or female pope happens . Until then, I remain right.
Enjoy your delusion while I get busy with something more important
RomanceRe: Virgin At 20 Year Is It A Shame Or Something To Be Proud Of As A Guy by Mikester:
No bros it isn't. In fact it's credible. I'm 21 and also a virgin.

Besides...

RomanceRe: To All Fake Christians Condemning Silhouette Challenge by Mikester: 11:48am On Jan 30, 2021
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ChizzyBuna:
Guy forget
There are men that have studied how the human mind truly works
These men are called Men of God
These men have one thing in common
They know how to brainwash
In c.i.a declassified documents this technique is called de patterning of the mind.
Women are naturally religious and spiritual
But women have one big problem
They are easily manipulated by WORDS
if you have sweet mouth you tell women what they want to hear then she is all yours.
This so called pastors have mastered the art of pulling large congregation of women.
Look at every church around you
80% of each church are women.

So women fall prey to brainwashing
That is why Islamic countries treat women as inferior
That why the Roman Catholic can NEVER make a woman a priest.

I see pastors as psychologist
The congregation are the lab rats
A whole lot of brainwashing experiment

So anytime you see a girl carrying church matter for head.
Condemning Silhouette Challenge
You are looking at a brainwashed entity

Here are the reasons why so many fake Christian's are so ignorant.
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Just because you have this belief doesn't make it actual
RomanceRe: Why It Is Good For A Lady To Marry As A Virgin by Mikester:
True. More on the benefits...

1) You avert chances of getting infected with venereal diseases coupled with multiple abortions
2) You're more likely to have a healthier relationship
3) Your self esteem will be healthy as well
4) No one can bring up any sexual past against you
CelebritiesRe: 'I’m Proudly Gay’ – Uche Maduagwu Declares (Photo) by Mikester: 11:27am On Jan 30, 2021
sapphiere:
Many sites both home and abroad.
Some of the sites are;
Daily trust.com Lindaikejisblog.com Mirror.uk Punch.com.ng Instagram.com Facebook.com Twitter.com Dialymail.UK.com They are many
Thanks a lot. All the best
RomanceRe: closed by Mikester: 11:25am On Jan 30, 2021
I'm confused. Who exactly owns those stuff?
RomanceRe: Ma by Mikester: 11:20am On Jan 30, 2021
Seriously they don't make men like they used to. Just imagine this jargon.

CelebritiesRe: 'I’m Proudly Gay’ – Uche Maduagwu Declares (Photo) by Mikester: 11:15am On Jan 30, 2021
sapphiere:
From the internet.
I know that but I just want you to be specific here please. What site precisely?
CelebritiesRe: 'I’m Proudly Gay’ – Uche Maduagwu Declares (Photo) by Mikester: 10:54am On Jan 30, 2021
sapphiere:
Whatever rocks your boat.
His life his business.

Modified:

Please disregard posts from the moniker Sapphierre That is not me. The person behind the acct is Ebenezar2O2I
Hi, where do you get your news from? Mind sharing?
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Went Back To Her Ex, What Does It Mean? by Mikester: 6:32am On Jan 30, 2021
alexola20:
Be calming down.
Nothing is important in this life.We are all passing by.
I was calm all the way. Not emotional smiley
HealthRe: Nigeria Has Secured 41m Doses Of COVID-19 Vaccine - Ehanire by Mikester: 5:29pm On Jan 29, 2021
Seun:
You know those are the RNA vaccines that conspiracy theorists are scared of, right?
Greetings Sir, I will be glad if you help me change my moniker to michael (all small letters). I have much love for my birth name.

Please show me this kindness
FamilyRe: What I Just Saw This Evening by Mikester: 8:24am On Jan 29, 2021
Mind your business thereby you preserve your life. The owner shall find out sooner or later.
RomanceRe: Romance Relationship - Lessons I've Gained From Experience by Mikester(op): 2:06pm On Jan 28, 2021
Most relationships nowadays are just for sex and money making but the fact remains that for there to be chances of a better marriage it has to move beyond casual sex and money extortion. Relationships are harder now because conversations become texting, arguments become phone calls and feelings become status updates.
RomanceRe: Romance Relationship - Lessons I've Gained From Experience by Mikester(op):
Elmiguel:
I concur op. Your brain dey there. Let me add this:

17 - Don't spend anyhow on any girl
18 - Never take back a cheating partner
19 - Never return to an ex. It will always end up the same
Very true. Unwise spending would mentally destroy a guy. Most guys that would hate this post are the ones who have been extorted by their girlfriends or heartbroken recently but the fact remains that no relationship is perfect. Every relationship has its ups and downs. The ones who make it through everything are the ones really in love.

More on 19 - I would buttress it with this - one should never go back to an old love, no matter how strong it is. It's like reading a book over and over again when you already know how it ends.

Mynd44
Lalasticlala
This might need a wider audience.
RomanceRe: Romance Relationship - Lessons I've Gained From Experience by Mikester(op):
vibbb:
13. Make most sense. Sometimes we get too busy, carried away and clouded to the extent of not noticing anything but friends and family will always do.
Nice write. Sometimes the worst place you can be is in your own head. Good family advice will help straighthen you up. Moreover, one shouldn't be too busy to spend quality time with his/her intended. It's important to know more about them to avoid stories that touch
RomanceRe: Romance Relationship - Lessons I've Gained From Experience by Mikester(op):
chris259:
Tell him what exactly?
I don’t know what he wants to tell me o but I'm well curious about it cool
RomanceRe: Romance Relationship - Lessons I've Gained From Experience by Mikester(op):
SmellySperm:
look at this lover boy..huh


Real OG's should we tell him?
Tell him
RomanceRomance Relationship - Lessons I've Gained From Experience by Mikester(op):
As a romance enthusiast, I find myself being enormously clued up about relationships - what makes it healthier, more enjoyable and what makes it rewarding. Thereby I came up with these lessons I intend to share with the public as perhaps it may be useful to some couple out there.

Note: If you're in a relationship just for sex or financial gains, you might want to lose this information.
I will be concise on each of them for easy reading and assimilation. Thanks for your attention as I proceed...

Below are the lessons I've learnt so far...

1. If you expect your partner to love you the way you love them, you will always set yourself up for disappointment. Don't forget this.

2. A good partner is willing to put conscious effort in accommodating to your preferred love language (words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service or physical touch) to show you they care.

3. Be with someone who supports you. They may not understand you completely but they should support the person you were, the person you are and the person you want to be. This is very crucial for those willing to get married

4. Dump anyone who belittles you and puts you down. Your self respect is more important than anything else.

5. If you feel strongly about a certain topic (religion, politics, etc.), save yourself the trouble of dating someone who has starkly different views from you. This would go a long way in averting vain arguments, stress or violence.

6. Gaslighting and emotional abuse is real. Know the signs and get out while you can. Do not subject yourself to wrongful manipulation due to your sexual urges or some other petty reason. It will pay off in the long run.

7. A good relationship is one that adds value to your life. If your relationship is draining you and negatively affecting other aspects of your life, it’s important to ask yourself if being in that relationship is really worth it.

8. Action is more important than words. People won't always tell you how they feel but they will show you. Look at what they do and not just what they say.

9. Set clear boundaries in the relationship. What’s considered acceptable in one relationship may be considered cheating in another.

10. Speak up if something they did made you uncomfortable. Communicate, communicate and communicate. Talk about what you’re into and not into, upfront.

11. Don't date or get into a serious relationship with someone unless you're proud to have a child like them

12. Ask each other personal questions often. Continuously discover and learn from one another.

13. If you're trusting family and friends thinking your partner isn’t right for you, they may see something you don’t. Try to figure out what.

14. Don’t take your partner for granted and don’t let your partner take you for granted.

15. If you’re constantly arguing and having the same fight over and over again, it’s time to decide whether being in the relationship is really worth the trouble. Don't overlook.

16. Put yourself first. The number one relationship you should put first above all is the relationship you have with yourself. It doesn't mean you're selfish, it simply means you won't allow yourself to be taken advantage of by people who don't deserve you.

These are the lessons I've learned so far. My heart wasn't broken o. Don't assume in that direction. These are purely my observations from the experiences of other people. No more, no less...




Is there something I'm missing?

Members in the house, what's your take on this? Have you been jilted before or have you learned any lessons from previous relationships?

PoliticsRe: Nigeria: 2nd Most Corrupt Country In West Africa Under Buhari - Transparency Int by Mikester: 12:25pm On Jan 28, 2021
Modarun:
one dont need to read your comment tn the end to knw you are a fan of the incompetent fossil in Aso rock. nw that Buhari & APC are in power corruption is no longer the fault of the president, its nw down to every Nigerian, but 6yrs ago Goodluck was responsible. Yall hypocrisy disgusts me.
With all due respect Sir, work on your comprehension. It sickens me to think that you misconstrued what I wrote just to accuse me of something I totally don't appreciate
PoliticsRe: Nigeria: 2nd Most Corrupt Country In West Africa Under Buhari - Transparency Int by Mikester: 10:30am On Jan 28, 2021
Prechgold1180:
well I don’t care
Tired of being a good guy
Am going into fraud
And don’t u dare judge
So many things is bleeped up in this country

Just yesterday I was arrested for no just reason the police men handcuffed me
Look for drugs and everything but did not find any

They got nothing to nail me

Got to their station

They brought up allegations that I killed someone 2 years ago that they have been looking for me
D other officer said I m among criminals dat excaped from Benin prison during endsarz

They wrote statements demselves and asked me to sign
I refused I received a dirty slap

They asked me to bail my self with 500k

I was like what did I do

They kept saying Rubbish

They managed to squize my last 30k

Money dat was meant for my sch up keep

Am home now
And I am dem broke

And you expect me not to do yahoo
I don’t care what you do with your life sir but just so you know negative behaviors and harmful habits are the silent killers of a healthy, good life. If you end up having any misfortune, don't blame others. It's you who handles your life and should take the blame of any misfortune that springs up due to the choices you made.

Through perseverance and diligence many people gain success out of what seemed destined to be a certain failure. Whatever you decide, it's your life


My sincerest sympaties for your ordeal with the police
PoliticsRe: Nigeria: 2nd Most Corrupt Country In West Africa Under Buhari - Transparency Int by Mikester: 9:40am On Jan 28, 2021
Thanks to the wicked average nigerian and their greedy leaders.
Every single soul in nigeria has a sad tale on corruption. Mostly in Nigeria - every man dies. Not every man really lives.
FamilyRe: Family Relationship by Mikester: 12:48am On Jan 28, 2021
Seun:
(Emphasis mine)

cheesy cheesy cheesy

Instructions to be obeyed! Come on, this is the 21st century. Where have you been for the past 200 years?

cheesy cheesy cheesy

Now I truly understand the meaning of the word 'hilarious'! So please register asap and let's counsel you!
Good day Sir, please change my moniker to Michael. I love my birth name and I will be glad if you can do this for me. Please consider my request
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Went Back To Her Ex, What Does It Mean? by Mikester: 12:23am On Jan 28, 2021
alexola20:
So because I want to attract a fish-smelling kitten,I should be acting and not really be myself so a w I'll man won't see me as weak.
Bros reading this,just be yourself and any reasonable woman will see what she likes in you without forming a macho man.
Who asked you to pretend? Who asked you to alter your personality?

Let me be clear - Your attitude is based on how people treat you and is subject to change while your personality is who you are which can never change. I urged the male readers to change their attitudes towards ladies because most of them need to. It has less to do with personality.

You have to understand that chasing a lady is good but attracting a lady is better. You can't be a loser and expect reasonable ladies to look your way. Ladies are generally attracted to men who are more masculine and successful not mere men. If you desire better women then rise up to the level that attracts them. If your attitude is that of a weak man then it's time to change not because your heart has been broken but because you have to else...

Every level you enter in life requires a new you. The earlier you accept this, the better it will help you
RomanceRe: See What Happened To Me This Morning. by Mikester: 5:55pm On Jan 27, 2021
Timson527:
i resemble small pikin for your eyes? Why would I lie?
I didn't say you were lying but come on chairman, prove yourself or are you scared?,
RomanceRe: See What Happened To Me This Morning. by Mikester: 3:03pm On Jan 27, 2021
Not that I don't believe you but upload a screenshot of the "about phone" of the iPhone. I want to check something...

RomanceRe: Is There Any Age Too Late For A Man To Get Married by Mikester: 2:44pm On Jan 27, 2021
Chii59:
Cool.
Thanks
RomanceRe: Is There Any Age Too Late For A Man To Get Married by Mikester: 12:41pm On Jan 27, 2021
Chii59:
undecided undecided
Virginnn!!!! undecided
Don't sound so surprised. I actually haven't had sex.
Yes we exist
FamilyRe: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Mikester: 11:53am On Jan 27, 2021
bjprodint:
your sisters and cousins are our heads.
Report him to the mods. It is easier
FamilyRe: Wife Stabs Husband After Finding Photos Of Him With Woman – Which Was Herself! by Mikester: 11:46am On Jan 27, 2021
Ok
RomanceRe: Please Why Do Nigerian Sisters Behave Like Prostitutes by Mikester: 11:39am On Jan 27, 2021
The only problem with this thread is generalisation...

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