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ChizzyBuna:Enjoy your delusion while I get busy with something more important |
No bros it isn't. In fact it's credible. I'm 21 and also a virgin. Besides...
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[s] ChizzyBuna:[/s] Just because you have this belief doesn't make it actual |
True. More on the benefits... 1) You avert chances of getting infected with venereal diseases coupled with multiple abortions 2) You're more likely to have a healthier relationship 3) Your self esteem will be healthy as well 4) No one can bring up any sexual past against you |
sapphiere:Thanks a lot. All the best |
I'm confused. Who exactly owns those stuff? |
Seriously they don't make men like they used to. Just imagine this jargon.
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sapphiere:I know that but I just want you to be specific here please. What site precisely? |
sapphiere:Hi, where do you get your news from? Mind sharing? |
alexola20:I was calm all the way. Not emotional |
Seun:Greetings Sir, I will be glad if you help me change my moniker to michael (all small letters). I have much love for my birth name. Please show me this kindness |
Mind your business thereby you preserve your life. The owner shall find out sooner or later. |
Most relationships nowadays are just for sex and money making but the fact remains that for there to be chances of a better marriage it has to move beyond casual sex and money extortion. Relationships are harder now because conversations become texting, arguments become phone calls and feelings become status updates. |
Elmiguel:Very true. Unwise spending would mentally destroy a guy. Most guys that would hate this post are the ones who have been extorted by their girlfriends or heartbroken recently but the fact remains that no relationship is perfect. Every relationship has its ups and downs. The ones who make it through everything are the ones really in love. More on 19 - I would buttress it with this - one should never go back to an old love, no matter how strong it is. It's like reading a book over and over again when you already know how it ends. Mynd44 Lalasticlala This might need a wider audience. |
vibbb:Nice write. Sometimes the worst place you can be is in your own head. Good family advice will help straighthen you up. Moreover, one shouldn't be too busy to spend quality time with his/her intended. It's important to know more about them to avoid stories that touch |
chris259:I don’t know what he wants to tell me o but I'm well curious about it ![]() |
SmellySperm:Tell him |
As a romance enthusiast, I find myself being enormously clued up about relationships - what makes it healthier, more enjoyable and what makes it rewarding. Thereby I came up with these lessons I intend to share with the public as perhaps it may be useful to some couple out there. Note: If you're in a relationship just for sex or financial gains, you might want to lose this information. I will be concise on each of them for easy reading and assimilation. Thanks for your attention as I proceed... Below are the lessons I've learnt so far... 1. If you expect your partner to love you the way you love them, you will always set yourself up for disappointment. Don't forget this. 2. A good partner is willing to put conscious effort in accommodating to your preferred love language (words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service or physical touch) to show you they care. 3. Be with someone who supports you. They may not understand you completely but they should support the person you were, the person you are and the person you want to be. This is very crucial for those willing to get married 4. Dump anyone who belittles you and puts you down. Your self respect is more important than anything else. 5. If you feel strongly about a certain topic (religion, politics, etc.), save yourself the trouble of dating someone who has starkly different views from you. This would go a long way in averting vain arguments, stress or violence. 6. Gaslighting and emotional abuse is real. Know the signs and get out while you can. Do not subject yourself to wrongful manipulation due to your sexual urges or some other petty reason. It will pay off in the long run. 7. A good relationship is one that adds value to your life. If your relationship is draining you and negatively affecting other aspects of your life, it’s important to ask yourself if being in that relationship is really worth it. 8. Action is more important than words. People won't always tell you how they feel but they will show you. Look at what they do and not just what they say. 9. Set clear boundaries in the relationship. What’s considered acceptable in one relationship may be considered cheating in another. 10. Speak up if something they did made you uncomfortable. Communicate, communicate and communicate. Talk about what you’re into and not into, upfront. 11. Don't date or get into a serious relationship with someone unless you're proud to have a child like them 12. Ask each other personal questions often. Continuously discover and learn from one another. 13. If you're trusting family and friends thinking your partner isn’t right for you, they may see something you don’t. Try to figure out what. 14. Don’t take your partner for granted and don’t let your partner take you for granted. 15. If you’re constantly arguing and having the same fight over and over again, it’s time to decide whether being in the relationship is really worth the trouble. Don't overlook. 16. Put yourself first. The number one relationship you should put first above all is the relationship you have with yourself. It doesn't mean you're selfish, it simply means you won't allow yourself to be taken advantage of by people who don't deserve you. These are the lessons I've learned so far. My heart wasn't broken o. Don't assume in that direction. These are purely my observations from the experiences of other people. No more, no less... Is there something I'm missing? Members in the house, what's your take on this? Have you been jilted before or have you learned any lessons from previous relationships?
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Modarun:With all due respect Sir, work on your comprehension. It sickens me to think that you misconstrued what I wrote just to accuse me of something I totally don't appreciate |
Prechgold1180:I don’t care what you do with your life sir but just so you know negative behaviors and harmful habits are the silent killers of a healthy, good life. If you end up having any misfortune, don't blame others. It's you who handles your life and should take the blame of any misfortune that springs up due to the choices you made. Through perseverance and diligence many people gain success out of what seemed destined to be a certain failure. Whatever you decide, it's your life My sincerest sympaties for your ordeal with the police |
Thanks to the wicked average nigerian and their greedy leaders. Every single soul in nigeria has a sad tale on corruption. Mostly in Nigeria - every man dies. Not every man really lives. |
Seun:Good day Sir, please change my moniker to Michael. I love my birth name and I will be glad if you can do this for me. Please consider my request |
alexola20:Who asked you to pretend? Who asked you to alter your personality? Let me be clear - Your attitude is based on how people treat you and is subject to change while your personality is who you are which can never change. I urged the male readers to change their attitudes towards ladies because most of them need to. It has less to do with personality. You have to understand that chasing a lady is good but attracting a lady is better. You can't be a loser and expect reasonable ladies to look your way. Ladies are generally attracted to men who are more masculine and successful not mere men. If you desire better women then rise up to the level that attracts them. If your attitude is that of a weak man then it's time to change not because your heart has been broken but because you have to else... Every level you enter in life requires a new you. The earlier you accept this, the better it will help you |
Timson527:I didn't say you were lying but come on chairman, prove yourself or are you scared?, |
Not that I don't believe you but upload a screenshot of the "about phone" of the iPhone. I want to check something...
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Chii59:Thanks |
Chii59:Don't sound so surprised. I actually haven't had sex. Yes we exist |
bjprodint:Report him to the mods. It is easier |
Ok |
The only problem with this thread is generalisation... |
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