Have you never come across quality guys/men no matter how you try?
Have you been meeting annoying personalities of guys all the time?
Are you always smarter than all the guys around you and yearn to meet one who complements you?
Know this, the best guys/men out there would scarcely to never approach you for reasons such as
- if you're always surrounded by people all the time (male or female alike).
It is more worse when you're always surrounded by males. It is even more repelling if you're the type who loves to engage in shallow discussions in public with other shallow minded people. We get very annoyed seeing a girl we like never have a time of her own but always hungry for petty chit-chats and shallow conversations.
If you never walk alone publicly, sit alone at a cool place or stand alone once in a while, you are very less likely to meet quality guys whom you'll appreciate.
- You hardly smile and always wear a long face.
A lady who always frowns or is too serious repels a lot of us.
- You don't dress well
If you're the type who always dress anyhow, exposing your body anyhow or appearing unkempt all the time, you are going no where with quality men.
Before you complain of not seeing quality men around you, practice the above. You think parrot, shallow minded guys are all there is, think again.
She would hate it, but it’s easier for them to be women, follow feminism or some other man hating ideology, than to deal with the bullshit men have to go through.
Women have nowhere near the amount of injustices men face.
Sure, men are more than likely to head a Fortune 500 company, that’s their argument. But this has literally zero to do with the average male, who comes nowhere near as close to this level of fortune and success.
Feminism belongs in the trash bin of history, it’s time to work on mens rights and it’s been time for a while now.
There is very few women’s rights issues.
Unlike men, they have some level of control over a pregnancy.
Unlike men, they are favored during a divorce. This is huge and a gross injustice in which there is nothing a women of today can compare to.
Women choose men more than the reverse. In dating, women have major advantages. Women in dating are major hypocrites. You have to accept their flaws, or you’re a jerk, but they refuse to accept even minor things with a man, and it’s considered a “women has choices”.
Women are punished less for crimes.
Women are believed over men in regard to sexual encounters. Even if both consents, are both over 18, if she cries rape, then he gets charged, regardless. Even if he doesn’t, it may still ruin his life. And I’m sorry, but if you consent you consent, end of story.
In age gaps. If a women messes with a younger man, barely a punishment, the reverse? Hang him at the stake.
In jobs and careers there is a major push for women in careers and universities which again they are given the advantage, even more so with women taking up a majority of human resource positions.
Women can bitch about men until the cows come home, even if what they say is false. No one bats an eye, a man tells the truth of modern women, he is attacked as a sexist.
The old chess players’ and wargamers’ maxim is: If you think your situation is bad, look it at the other side of board. That of your opponent usually looks downright desperate.
Men’s world is aggressive and violent.
90% of all violent crimes (felonies, robberies, assaults, homicides, bullying etc) have men as their victims. In my youth, schoolyard bullying was considered a normal thing, (boys will be boys, you know) and if a boy complained that he had been beaten up into pulp, he was chastized for being effeminate. There is no single Finnish male who had not gotten a kick on his genitals at least once in his life. The geography of fear. Men live in constant danger of thugs beating them up - just to get kicks and a testosterone surge and rise in the pecking order, and rob their belongings. Boys learn very young to avoid certain routes to school to avoid thugs and bullies.
Mens’ lives are worthless unless he provides
This is a trope - Men Are the Expendable Gender. Consctiption is, of course, the trope maker, but this comes by and by in every circumstance. Nobody will shed a tear for a man whose life is cut short. Men’s feelings count nothing. All boys learn very young that crying is a sign of weakness and emotional instability (or if they don’t learn, they will be beaten up). Likewise, a man displaying emotions is a signal he cannot control himself - extinguishing them is called “manning up”. No matter how bad or turmoil or desperate it feels inside, a man must not display his emotions, and God forbid if he seeks professional help - that is an absolute no-no and a sign of contemptible weakness. It is no secret many women prefer psychopaths as their spouses as they demonstrate no weaknesses and their feelings are not genuine.
Men are the insulted and loathed gender.
Men are taken as potential criminals, potential rapists, potential thugs and potential wife-beaters. Men get no compassion and no emotional support on behalf of the society. Women can openly loathe all men and call them “trash” - female hate on males is no crime. You can falsely accuse a man of something he didn’t do and send him to prison. It is almost guaranteed the accuser (be he either female or male) will get all the compassion on behalf of the society. And if you get caught and your story is proven a fraud, you can expect a slap on your wrist. The worst thing is that if you are a man and like children, you are automatically taken as a paedophile and a child molester.
Men’s social and sexual role is far narrower than that of women.
Men has only one social role - that of a provider, a workaholic, a payer, a protector and a leader. If you cannot provide, you are a failure. Even if you get divorced, abandoned and kicked away, you are expected to pay through the nose the living of your ex - a marriage is judicially an extremely bad contract for men in this case.
Conversely, there is no such thing as a female failure. Women’s roles in the society and in the life are far broader and far more flexible compared to that of men.
Men are automatically taken guilty unless proven innocent.
Men’s lives are shorter and men are more likely to end up in prison, poorhouse, mental instution or commit suicide. Men’s lives are also more dangerous than those of women and men are more likely to abuse alcohol and illicit substances. Some 95% of people who die from workplace accidents are men. Getting plastered or getting comfortably numb with heroine are the only acceptable (although socially loathed) way for men to deal with their feelings.
Hereditary diseases and genetic defects manifest themselves either solely or primarly on males.
The hallmark examples are haemophilia (bleeding disease) and colour blindness. They are inherited via the X chromosome and do not appear on women except only as de novo mutants.
saxtaiwo: The economic and job situation in Nigeria is in total chaotic mess. How do you imagine what Nigerians go through in the hands of interviewers. Imagine going for an interview they called 9am and will still not be attended to by 4pm and at the end they will say they are testing your patience and it's part of the interview. My greatest worry is this CV of a thing. I really can't tell the best format for CV writing, we keep hearing of different styles everyday. Until we turn to a productive country where more and better jobs will be created this nonsense won't stop. Please greet everybody on the street of the company your going for interview. Greet the dogs too.
I know the best formats for cv writing if you don't mind, I can be of help.
jeromestarks: Poly or uni, the major mission of a girl is to find a man who will take care of her for the rest of her life. Many have given their best to a man they chose because of iphone and indomie while ignoring the men who is truly in love with them. After being fvcked and used, such girls realize their mistakes then start looking for a fool who will pay Bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony, help their siblings, feed her and house her just to have the pvssy someone fvcked with eggs and indomie. Don't be that fool. Join in fvcking her but dump her and marry a virgin when the time comes. A woman you didn't disvirgin will misbehave in marriage because she will forever compare you to the first man that fvcked her.
ASUU strike will force many university girls to start looking for husband after their whor3ing life in university, don't marry them except you find a virgin amongst them.
If you know a girl who finished tertiary institution as a virgin then you have seen an angel in real life.
A woman who lost her virgin before she met you isn't worthy of being your wife unless you want to have female children who will carry babies for area boys and nuture them under your roof.
Iamdbull: So after a lot of recording and work for my upcoming Ep, I decided to go on vacation, I was thinking of Maldives or London but I decided to go to Abuja to cool off a bit.
So while in Abuja I contacted a tour organization kayhikers club which was the one in charge of taking me to different beautiful natural and exotic location in Abuja.
We have toured different parts of Abuja but yesterday's location was something else. It's called the Suleja Dam. Omg.
We really need a functioning government in Nigeria here because tourist attractions are just wasting here.
TheGidRedpiller: This one thinks women ever intend on being productive in ANYTHING at all!!
This is funny, well, understand something today, if you are already married, you need to know that you are your wife's greatest asset, nothing she ever did to financially support herself even though it's something very lucrative and yielding will ever be inputted into anything concerning her more than the money she gets from you.
If you are not married, understand that even if your future wife earns 10 times more than you, you and essentially MEN in general is her real hustle. Whatever she does for a living no matter how extravagant, IS A SIDE HUSTLE!!
Women hate the idea of having to provide for ANYONE including herself, she will always be in the hunt for men to live off of.
MY POINT; It does not matter what age we are in, women will always be in the minority when it comes to being PRODUCTIVE!!
The regular woman on social media is not trying to take advantage of the golden opportunities that come with it, she is not there for anyone but HERSELF!! Stop lying to yourself.
Even though your comment do not have many likes, believe me, you're very right and it takes one with deep understanding and psychic skills to perfectly understand what you stated.
Most people naturally ascribe others they relate to be selfless, goody-goody and understanding until they get utterly disappointed. They mostly come to their senses when they get reasonably older.
Unfortunately based on women's tender voices, looks and softness, some ignorant men make themselves to believe that women see things and react to them the way they (the men) do. I don't blame them at all cause it comes to the case of deep intuition, feeling and understanding, most men fail terribly. A fact well known.
No one is all good or all bad. People will react to different situations and conditions in different ways in which may be termed good or bad. Everyone is for themselves first before anything else, especially a woman, who is naturally weaker in strength. It is a selfish world, a place of battle and struggle, and being in a relationship with anyone for any duration doesn't change these things.
The internet is filled with a lot of rubbish today and fools also share advices, teachings and all sort of messages besides the high level of salacious content and toxicity, the very things that has made people behaviorally defective.
Why deliberately harbour an irredeemable burden on yourself for such a long period of time?
Why be a willing party to your calamity when you could avoid it from the initial?
Compared to the useless girls in the universities, workplace or city neighborhoods, there are many women who would give you peace of mind out there who aren't internet addicted. If one doesn't find them around him, let him go to where he'll find them.
Issues40: Go and sit down somewhere or better still engage in something productive. All you think about is how to bash women online.
So women who are active on social media do not deserve husbands at all. Let me ask you something Thegidredpiller. Do you know what dispensation we are in?? This is the 21st century son. The age of technology and digitalization. This is the age where a lot of people are making millions gaining financial freedom with the social media.
So tell me son, why should females be left out? What is this problem that you have with females that's holding you down so bad. Are you intimidated by them or something? I'm even starting to think that you are the underdog here because your posts suggest that you are scared of women and that they intimidate you a lot. And you cover all that stuff up with how women are evil and how they should be treated like shit. You devout hours of your life thinking about women and you come here on nairaland looking for young gullible boys to follow and like your posts.
It is the age of technological advancement. Men, as well as women should be allowed to use the social Media as they please. You can't be enjoying social media and be scared of your partner doing the same.... it's selfish to think that way
Don't condemn his message so soon. He is right. You're right. It's all about perspective. He understands what he is talking about but you don't see it his way. Relax and ignore or ask questions but don't condemn the message.
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