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IntersexSherry:
its ok. Am not useless though. Its just my looks, that's why people hate and reject me. Well thanks

IntersexSherry:
do i even have courage to kill myself. Though i want to do it but no courage yet

IntersexSherry:
do i even have courage to kill myself. Though i want to do it but no courage yet

goldenpenny2:
1. BOY-FRIEND
The last thing on a boy’s mind is marriage. Boys don’t think of marriage, they want to make money first, they enter into relationship just for fun and s*x, that’s why if the lady should get pregnant, they ask her to abort it, or they’ll deny her, because they aren’t ready for Marriage. Stop dating boys.
Boyfriends will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors because they’ll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wants to marry you.

2. PROMISE (ENGAGEMENT) RING.
That is the spirit that makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man engaged you and when the serious suitors that are ready to settle down see the ring, they’ll pass over you because the ring tells them you have been taken. And time is going, uncle isn’t saying anything again, the ring self have start to rust on your finger in protest. Many promise rings are actually handcuffs, some are not better than key holders.
Aunty, say no to Lord of the Rings.

3. HARD TO GET
This spirit tells you not to accept a marriage proposal in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary shakara so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate. It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don’t pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother. This spirit will not leave you until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying “can’t he even wait for me?” Wait for you? Because you are Jesus Christ?
Aunty, If you love the brother and you perceive he is God’s will for you, accept the proposal and leave Matter for Matthias.

4. PROUD SPIRIT
That spirit that tells you to always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful, educated, and anointed. That spirit that tells you that every brother that greets you is not your class, so you keep ignoring and looking down on them. That spirit that doesn’t allow you to greet brothers except those that ride exotic cars. Aunty, calm down and be humble. You won’t marry yourself oh.

5. DENOMINATIONAL/TRIBAL SPIRIT.
I am a Catholic and must marry a Catholic. I’m a Deeper Lifer and must marry one who’s a Deeper Lifer as well so our marriage will be deep. I am a Redeemer and must marry a Redeemer, any other Brother isn’t Redeemed. Even if God is leading you to him. I’m from Ghana �� or Nigeria �� and must marry from River state. River will soon carry you. This spirit has kept many bound, they entered menopause and are about to join the Women’s fellowship because of their age. Aunty, please understand that every believer is from one tribe called Christ. If God is leading you to another denomination, kindly obey Him, stop delaying yourself by yourself.

6. BAD CHARACTER
The character of some ladies shocks even the devil. They will open their mouth to insult someone and you will cry for the person. They quarrel and fight in public, no shame, self respect and dignity. Their pride, their arrogance, they can’t talk too much, their attitude, all the brothers are running, sorry, FLEEING from them like ants running away from fire. Who wan die? This spirit has kept many ladies single, by the time any brother gets close because of her beautiful MASCARA, her CHARACTER will chase him away. Aunty, this year, work on your character and your mouth, your date will be fixed this year in Jesus Name.

7. POOR DRESS SENSE
That spirit that tells you not to dress well because you are going to heaven. Special Heavenly candidate. You dress and add 10 years to your age.
You dress and brothers will be greeting you “Good afternoon Madam.” “Yes Madam” “Thank you Ma” This spirit tells you to use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and lemon head tie. You are a lady but dress like a man; Sister, no Man wants to marry his fellow man. You dress like masquerade that is going to town. Dress well, don’t under dress and don’t over dress.
Dress modestly, smell good because it’s not a sin. We said don’t dress indecently, we never said don’t dress well.

8. SPIRITUAL PROBLEM.
This is for real, this is why I encourage everyone to be prayerful, prayer isn’t only for Pastors, Things are happening. Be spiritual. There are people whose marriages have been hijacked in spirit realms and only prayers and God can break such yokes.
Read, Discern and make the Needful correction.
SINGLE LADIES reading this, THIS IS FOR YOU.

May your Marriage come Soon in Jesus name. Amen
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ChildOfDoom:
08114440848. Please link me up with booking number odds. Since I can't stop betting, I will try switching to real games

Warrgidanairala:
Anything wrong with that? I'm on a research centred on penis

SmellySperm:
i don't do this on purpose but it's ok if u think I do it on purpose... thanks anyways

SmellySperm:
I'm on zeros rytnow,no hope of survival for the weekend, before i came up bold to ask for help i really need it pls namie

SmellySperm:
guy I need ur assistance pls

mosdii:
my signature says it all

Chii59:
@the bolded, seems you're talking from experience.

mezico96:
He's reasons is his church

Stateoforigin:
Yes, I will curse her.
None of my relatives can be that lose and morally bankrupt

CalliDora1:
You're worse than a serpent. You're wicked in a subtle way.

Forget all that fake praises you're singing about your first gf. If you truly love her and have a "kind" heart like claimed, you wouldn't go having a relationship with another girl knowing you have someone who has sacrificed a lot for you. Without her, you wouldn't have been able to graduate let alone go for service and start frolicking with another girl to the point where you got trapped.

What I see here is greed. You're a greedy fellow who is easily carried away by free things. Now it has hooked your neck. Look for how to get out of it. Your greed has led you to a tight corner that you may never be able to come out from.

Chop here, chop here chop here. Only you. Mtchew.

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes , please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.
When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent, at a point I begin to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just locked up. Fast forward to 2020 , I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions , but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and u confronted her and treat her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up(what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up). I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could did such thing because she came from a very decent background, I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before , she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologize, so last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do ? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?