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suffering:
The women you saw with makeup on, did they have men by their sides? That is the quickest non-explanatory answer to your question.

No it isn't.

Firstly, thanks to my doctor and the advices of some folks here, my right foot is almost healed up and the pain is gone...

I intend to ask...

What exactly are men's attitudes to women who use a large amount of makeup on their faces? Are guys truly attracted or pleased with their women using inadequate makeup?

Don't know about some guys but personally I don't fancy women who paint their faces so colourfully or wear wigs or painted nails...

It makes me see such lady as a shallow regular cheap slut with nothing special to write home-about... That's how I feel...

I have a thing for women who are naturally beautiful and simple unlike the likes of black women who can't live without makeup. Imagine sleeping together in the night and her face will be looking like one witch from the deep sea or a ghost from the underworld...

Ladies, this isn't to bash you but I believe women are expected to be effortlessly and naturally beautiful though some in a way that require things like makeup and filters but if you go to far, you're seen as fake, a fraud or narcissistic. This sets you up for intense scrutiny and ultimate failure...

Ever wondered why deeper life girls are rated beautiful and more feminine?

Guys, how do you feel about ladies who wear excessive amounts of colours on their faces or such others? Do you feel any negative way about it and what are your attitudes towards ladies who makeup?

Forget the long story. Common sense is enough to tell a lady she is meant to be upright and chaste.

By the way, a woman's past is her future. It doesn't matter if she is trying to change, the effects of her past will definitely surface and might bring both her and her current husband down.

In all, it is best to avoid non-virgins. Any man who marries a non-virgin is either weak, inexperienced in relationships or outright stupid.

Kings cum virgins, losers, low value and unfortunate men cum used up women. This has been from the days of old.

What of Michael (meaning one like God)? I read that bearers of this name are mostly successful.

purpinkx:
I think you might need a tetanus shot... to be on the safe side.

I received one yesterday's morning.

MufasaLion:
When your wound get seriously infected, she ain't gonna be the one to feel the pain. Go and see a physician. Her expertise is limited.

I will put that in mind. Thanks

devilmaycry:
Wer is the pic??

Uploaded now.

MufasaLion:
You consulted a pharmacist? You must be a clown.

Dude, go to a clinic and meet a physician. Pharmacists are to dispense drugs, not to be consulted on diagnosis.

Thanks but I reside at a developed area and she had once attended to me on this same issue when I was 14. Plus she is a family friend and neighbor.

Alright, I've uploaded the pictures. It was quite too large before.

Now considering, I just begun the dosage yesterday, the injury middle of my foot is dried up leaving the other at the front which continues to give me such excruciating pain since last week which sometimes makes me unable to sleep, walk or recline comfortably .

It is frustrating. I wished it were my wrist or somewhere else.

Good evening, I posted this here cause of traffic. Pls help me out. Thanks.

I have this issue that has been bothering me. A dirty nail from a garbage heap at a site I went to work punctured my right foot last 2 weeks both front and middle of my right leg. I yanked it out causing little of the blood to flow out and I managed to walk to get a bus back to my hometown.

On arrival, I heat up a little cover of red oil on a knife and applied it at the two spots and afterwards closed up the injury with the knife, bearing the pain the whole while.

Eventually, Last week about two - five days, I could walk a bit well but after some time, the pain started to get back and now for the past three days, the leg began swelling up to what we have in the picture.

I consulted a pharmacist and she gave me some drugs including ampiclox (don't know if I got the spelling right) assuring me it will work.

I begun the dosage yesterday but I am a bit worried cause the swelling begun some days ago when I tried using hot water to try quicken the healing.

I just want to be sure if the hot water isn't going to negate the effects of the drugs I'm taking cause I'm in pains here. Thanks for your submissions.

Pls help for more audience.

pussyphilia:
No man is meant to be dominant. It is all patriarchal arrangement and it archaic. Some guys would have loved being dominated and submissive to their women if not that society lumped everyone into one expectation. I think people should be free to do what they like provided they're not infringing on others.

Dominant women should be with submissive guys and vice versa. We'll have more stable marriages if that's done. I also think that many gay guys would not be choosing their fellow men if society provide them with more dominant women and not mock them for choosing to submit to women. Let us have a free world please.

With all due respect, you're making no sense.

Nice question but I can assure you won't get a straight answer from the ladies. They scarcely give answers to questions such as this.

Advicing, arguing or asking such questions to ladies will mostly put in frustration as they only follow their emotional thoughts and less logic.

Speaking from experience.








Manipulate them instead.

hmm

hazard7:
He should know it is the absolute truth but I forgot society hates the truth.

It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it but sadly large groups of people such as the society mostly take emotional decisions over the truth.

We need to learn the habit to take our own decisions unapologetically. The essence of life is to live it to the fullest, making the best of all situations and times and not always following what the majority believe in or are doing.

The ideal man is the one who takes life with dignity and grace, making the best of all circumstances not the one who always follow the dictates of the society and is applauded for such.

hazard7:
Splendid, Wow what a mind-blowing piece. Nice one op, I caught cap for you

Thanks man. I wonder what Lalasticlala thinks about my signature.

Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Ishilove pls help move to frontpage

In this single life we live, we are mostly categorized by the majority of us into two groups - the good and the bad. You're either good or bad.

True, we have the good people and we have the bad and very bad people but have you ever considered that nature doesn't seem to care if you are good or bad but rewards you only based on your level of strength and not how good or bad you assume yourself to be?

Yeah, you see people who you deem to be bad, arrogant and unpleasant progressing daily while you who faithfully held to the morals you were taught seem to be continously bleeped up by life all the time. You wonder why in spite of all your morality and upright living, you seem to be inferior all the time with no sign of betterment in sight.

I'll share with you what is going on. Life is a game and those who live are either players or non-players, Liberals or NPCs.

Those people you see took some steps you aren't taking. They grabbed opportunities ruthlessly and compromised on the sentimental messages society tells them. Unlike you, they live life by their own rules and standards unapologetically. They are neither moral or immoral, they are amoral as nature herself is. They do not send anyone or try to please anyone. They are "liberals" - people who follow their own thoughts, wills and rules unapologetically in spite of what society says. This doesn't necessarily make them bad, it makes them alive.

They are players (free-minded) while you are an NPC (subservient to societal whims and standards which limits you from being a better you).

Those who are familiar with game playing will have an idea on what an NPC is. The term non-player character (NPC) comes from the world of video games.

An NPC is a character not controlled by any of the players; the program controls the NPC to advance the plot. Since the character is controlled by the game, the range of actions the character can take is limited and predictable.

NPCs in real life are people who hardly think for themselves or make their own decisions; they mostly live life by what happens to them, what society tell them, what their family tell them and are thus limited and less productive.

An NPC is seemingly a human that is unable to think objectively. Someone using no critical thought or reasoning skills. Simply regurgitating a set of arguments and non-sequiturs bequeathed to them by someone else. In simple terms, If you blindly agree with whatever a person or group says without critical consideration, you're an NPC.

For example, if you easily swallow up what superiors tell you, if you simply believe what politicians tell you during their manifestos in spite of previous or recent demonstrations of incompetence from said politicians and sell your conscience, if you go for inferior products based on what people tell you, criticize you, guilt-trip you; if you go for poorer taste of women or men as the case may be by reason of what people tell you or to avoid shame, rebuke or criticism, you're an NPC, a human robot and not a player.

A)

John (NPC) - When I am 30, I'm going to get married

Pastor Paul (society) - Ha! Isn't that too late? Any man who isn't married at latest 25 is irresponsible and immature. Son, drop that delusion and be a real man. You don't know the happiness that might elude you for making that decision.

John (NPC) - (ashamed) Hmm, I guess you're right sir. [i]

B)

Michael (player) - (in good spirits. Hits the table with his fists)...[i] Guys, after this money set in, I'm going to get myself a young nubile virgin girl to marry. Can't wait! [i]

Rita (society) - [i] (looks at him with resentment) What about those ones you have used and dumped. Who is going to marry them? [i]

Michael - (unapologetically) [i] That's their problem. They knew what they were getting into when they agreed to me. I no kill person.

Rita - Unbelievable! So you're just gonna drop them like that, trash like you! (Hisses) Can you imagine?

Michael - (unperturbed) This sort of thing happen all the time, why is mine news? I'm still gonna get married to a virgin girl. Can't be having unnecessary wahala.

Taiwo (NPC) - Rita leave him jor! Does virginity guarantee marriage stability. Guy I think say you sharp. As for me, I no mind if my woman no be virgin. Dem no dey chop virginity.

Michael - Whatever

From A and B, we have John and Michael. From societies' glasses, Michael seems to be the villain here, the bad guy but Michael is just securing his future and he is ruthless about iit even though those around him do not agree with him unlike John who was easily dissuaded from what he yearns for.

Sometimes, you have to bend the rules and do what will make you happy even though those around you aren't comfortable with it as long as you're sure it will yield you happiness.

Life shouldn't be what just happen to us. There is more to life than what people believe in and you can only experience this when you stop being an NPC and start living life on your own terms.

How to stop being an NPC in your own life

- Realize you are an NPC limited by societal views and you need to open your mind for your own life improvement and to be the best version of yourself.

- Create your standards and abide by them unapologetically

- Understand that no great genius ever existed without a touch of madness and societal criticism. If you want to be great, you must be mad and amoral as nature is. Karma doesn't exist. No one will flog you for the choices you make. You either get the good things from your life from your strength and wisdom or get the evils of life from your weakness and stupidity.

What am I saying?

I'm telling you to open your mind. You're the owner and driver of your life. Don't let others steal your seat or tell you how you should live thereby limiting your productivity. Stop being a zombie, a slowpoke, an NPC. Stop living to please society. Stop being a puppet for those who have small minds.

Take charge of your life and live it to the fullest.

Toks2008:
You as well as all those who gave you a like for this silly comment are immature and the type of guys I was referring to


No Real man will call a woman damaged cos they are single mums...

I feel so irritated reading your comment but then it is your opinion.

You don't know me so hold your peace. Good evening.

Pataricatering:
your parents did a very poor job raising you

Thank you.

TarOrfeeek:
You're a sensible brother.

May your comment resonate deeply in the hearts of ALL Men.


OP is an irresponsible and irrelevant person for making such careless statements.

Just doing the right thing bro. Thanks.

WHITELIGHTER:
@bolded, u see en, God will bless you beyond ur widest imagination

Amen o and you also.

Toks2008:
4. A man who will love you will love you.

Some may say once they are single mums, guys will run from them and YES I agree totally that guys who do not know what they want, boys that look like guys, and Infact, irresponsible men will run from you but this will also attract real men who understand that single motherhood is not a taboo but Infact a proof that a lady is fertile, a proof that she is responsible enough to keep a baby even when they had the choice to abort.. No genuine man will reject a lady cos she is a single mum especially if the child(ren) is her first.

All I wrote is an opinionated advise but any lady in this position could still decide to wait until she finds a husband but she must understand that whilst she is waiting, her time is ticking and menopause will definitely come regardless.

I hope this makes sense.

Wrong. Terming men irresponsible or immature for having standards is wrong. Turning down single moms doesn't make a man irresponsible. There is a huge difference between responsibility and burden. A man who turns down a single mom does so to not place a burden that isn't his upon him. Does that make him irresponsible or a child?

Women ruthlessly place high standards on men who intend to marry them but weak-minded men misguided by information such as yours lower their standards for damaged women, commit to them and eventually regret.

Don't tell or teach men who to commit to, as adults they are in charge of their own decisions. You are right in some areas but get your mentality straight and stop guilt-tripping others for making their own choices.

Jeon:
If you want the best,you have to be the best

Wrong, if you want the best, you have to be the fittest.