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Datboredberri:
Not only illiterates... Men with no shame who are indecent...

With the kind of posts you make here, I didn't expect this sort of comment from you.

whippersnapper:
Is it only me that hates this guy.

You're not alone.

Any male who has the time to reply this question or linger his attention on this thread must be an idle child.

YourBestWriter:
When a 29 years old man and an 17 years old girl fell in love with each other, please, is it child abuse?

NB: she will be 18 next month.

No it isn't. Do what you feel is best for you.

MeghaneMorgane:
For a lady like myself, if I look for a man who earns more than me, I’ll look for that man for a while. If I find them, they might not be my type of guys as they might be very arrogant thinking they have arrived because of their money. Or they might be way older than me.

My best bet, is to be with a guy who doesn’t have any issues with his wife earning so much money and who will still provide and take his responsibilities seriously even though I earn more. My money will be for back up plan and I will not lose respect for him as long as he takes his responsibilities seriously.
If he is also interested, we can start up a business that will make him earn more than me while I still earn much more.

This life is not hard oo. It depends on how you decide to see things.

Hope you find the one who complements you. Keep the faith.

womenareapez:
notice!
The M monikers actually criticising the guy are all Yoruba men with low self-esteem!

Yoruba men tend to leash on women's wealth, but a real men will see insight in this situation and determine the future possibilities with the said op!

Paradventure them married! That op will get Demi god mentality and be telling others that she is the bread winner of the family and her husband is useless


98% of career women got this mentality hence dangerous to date and not talkless of marrying

Glad you understand what I'm insinuating unlike some ignoramus littered here.

BoredBerry:
Cause I'm a girl don't assume...

1. I'm straight...

2. I wanna get married...

3. I want kids...

Loser.

Cause most of us are emotionally weak and have egos to protect.

Eprincess:
It is because of men like you that the world is still the way it is. This is the 21st century and a man is still bragging, " I can't marry a woman who is more ambitious".

It is men like you that will end up getting married to women with no ambition and when irritated, you get a divorce and start looking for an ambitious woman to marry.

What's wrong in getting married to a woman who is more ambitious, as long as you she respects you and fulfills her responsibilities as your wife.

Your mindset is weak... sorry

Sorry if you feel bad dear but I said what I said and I do know what I am talking about more than you assume.

What do you know about me anyway?

What do you know about anything?

julie90:
It's unfortunate that I don't have the right words for you right now...

You don`t have to reply me anything. Just continue with your career, you`ll be fine.

I agree with him. It isn't low self esteem or whatever a pained mind chooses to term it. It is doing what you feel is right. He has his reason for leaving you. There was no love between you both in the first place. It was just casual dating which I personally deem to have no value.

I personally cannot marry a more ambitious lady because I know what marriage entails and that different minds cannot run a home successfully. Either she unites with me exclusively and follow my lead as a real woman should or she moves on. Else, why do we term ourselves as one body?

We all make decisions based on what we know and what we feel. He knows why he left you and no one here has the right to criticize him on that, besides I'm certain a lot who are criticising him here are the actual failures in the real world, hence the bitterness.

siofra:
I saw this quote somewhere


Independent women only intimidate weak men.

Your quote lacks credibility.

rickpat:
it's all about your true personality...money doesn't make one bad,it only brings out the true character in you......be humble whether Rich or poor...if you find a good man,he will love and respect you and you in turn will love and respect him too.... IT'S ONLY A MAN THAT WANTS TO MALTREAT HIS WIFE THAT'S AFRAID OF HER WEALTH CUS MOST RICH WOMEN WILL NOT ALLOW A MAN TREAT THEM LIKE TRASH... MOST WOMEN TOLERATE ILL TREATMENT CUS THEY'RE NOT FINANCIALLY STABLE TO MOVE ON... nobody wants and deserves to be treated like trash

You'll be shocked to realize you are wrong. You don't know the hearts of people.

mayim:
I swear down. This is the same thing I told myself. You do that to me in front of my wife and kids? My revenge will be super, I will almost take your life. There are better ways to approach issues and for those urging him on, una try o

Glad you see what I see.

Barrister026:
It's so annoying children of nowadays think because they got baby mamas up and down they got no respect for their elders, infact once they notice you haven't had a child yet no matter how old you are, they start looking at you like their age mates or even older than.

My kid bro who I single handedly passed down wears to back then has the audacity to talk to me anyhow just because he is a father of a 5 year old boy and another one is on the way. Well that's how he's been reason he toke a lot of beatings from me back in the days...

The recent happenings happened this morning after so many years, I came home for a very close relative's burial same with our eldest bro whose in his mid 30s. Discussion we were having, one thing led to another... this kid bro of mine flared up shouting at the top of his voice to my elder bro...mom telling him to shut up he's still talking...I immediately pounce on him in the presence of his wife and kid, I gave him the beating of his life, squeezed that his lip he was using to insult our eldest bro, not minding his wife watching.

Yes I'm angry with him, the day his wife gave birth out of wedlock, he was jubilating that he the last born first us to give our parent's a grand child. I say see this one, if I wanted to have kids I would have, how many ladies has tried to trap pregnancy on me all through this years. it's just man not yet ready yet, and been married don't Just freak me yet.

Mom been gingering me to apologise to him, but I refused? Why would I?

Yes I was wrong for beating him in the presence of his pregnant wife and kid, I didn't mean to embarrass him...I felt bad myself after the whole thing.. but before he was a husband he was first my kid bro.

I don't know the family you came from, but if I were your younger brother, believe you me, I will make sure you reach the grave. You don't dishonor me in the presence of those who look up to me. There are other ways to handle such circumstances other than violence. A man your age should know better.

doggedfighter:
Why's he dressed like that?


Nigerian situation is so critical that we have started celebrating mental health patients and


drug addicts instead of getting them the needed help.


While religious people tag it grace.



Isn't it obvious that something isn't right?

You're the only sensible person who has commented on this first page.

advanceDNA:
Mayb its tit for tat...
Women say "i chop him money"
So men say "i chop the girl" too

Abi but I think some view it eating her. They know themselves.

Where are those guilty of this?

Islandlady:
okay so you were monitoring me...wow I don't even know u, it shows how jobless u have been, I do my thing as my mood swings, not to impress anyone dear, that's why my comments and posts are raw ..so if you feel I am noisy and am a man without confirmation or prove you are simply stupid!

Anyways I have noticed you now sweety, and pls desist from calling me a man so u won't be unfortunate

You're a lady. No need arguing over that.

Why do guys term sexual activities with ladies as "chopping them" or some cases whereby a lady visits a guy, his friends will hail him saying "omoh, food don land o."

I don't understand...

How do ladies serve as food to us?

What makes them edible?

What food takes away your energy after consumption to the point of a dire need of recuperation?

Are there any foods which only satisfy for 10mins?

Should ladies be really termed as food?



Abeg, clear me out on this one. Every opinion is welcome.

D, G and L

toujurs:
And u had to post this by 3am. Hmmm this one na thieve o, yahoo yahoo. I pity who helps this person, i feel there is a criminal behind this moniker

Why do you feel that way?

AishaDant:
Op, you are a complete child!

I am disgusted reading this.

Why do most Nigerian men always want something?

What is wrong with just being friends with a female? Smh!

You aren't completely wrong though.

The fool in the relationship.

Bonesbreaker:
ur a strong man

Mumu, that is a lady behind that moniker. Be more sensitive.

myrax7:
I am an electrical engineer based in Lagos, I have been applying for several jobs with no response. I don't know what I am doing wrong.. can a professional help me review my CV ?. Thanks

Send me a copy of your resume via whatsapp @ 09011485695. I can be of assistance.

Candidlady:



Now Iam confused

This was the wife's statement

It was when he tried to intervene that they were shouting and they are yahoo guys, ritualists. When they realised that the motorcycle operators were more than them they ran back to the bar, unfortunately, the manager of the bar pushed them out, because he doesn’t know the guys who board the bike. That was how they were lynched and my husband was burnt.”


Situations like this erbody will be trying to save face


Lagos is one overrated state

RIP to Mr David Sunday
May Allah shower the family with the patience, tranquility and peace needed at this time of difficulty
Amin

Lagos is very overrated indeed. My sister knew the man personally. She is heartbroken.

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

Ignore the sadists. A large amount of them are frustrated one way or the other.

Just take a deep breath and wait a little longer, perhaps you can message him after tomorrow showing concern about his well being. Time heals negative emotions.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Wow he must also be a virgin..fact is that most men that complain about ladies having high body count are also guilty of wh**ring around..

They need something better for themself while they ain't in no way better..
If you didn't get married as a virgin then you have no right to request for a virgin lady..

Your opinion.

frozen70:
What's my business, is better to divorce that to be in a painful marriage

It is always wise to know when and what to advise in various situations especially when we don't live in the same household with nor personally know the people specified.

frozen70:
She should sell the land and she will use the money to buy another land in her name then build it gradually

That's how they make some women labour in vain and use the money to flex

When the time is running out he will now come to his senses

Divorce advocate.

Suspect33:
Because when the infatuation which they mistook as love fades, there's nothing else to hold onto.

People don't understand that love has very little to do with feelings, and whatever you feel for a person initially will fade away.. love is an act, a commitment, and only the couple who see it that way will have a fulfilling and enduring marriage

You have made the most matured and reasonable of all the comments on this post.