₦airaland Forum

254tobby:
And who gives it a damn care ?don't misquote issues that are uncalled for,be precised and know what you're sharing with others,don't fabricate statements and furthermore no one is interested to know your shithole country,the likes of vocabulary ..

What r u doing in a shithole forum? HOPELESS NONENTITY u n ur people follow Nollywood like bunch of evil spirits, breath in and out our MUSIC CULTURE n LIFESTYLE, look out for handouts from our BUSINESSMEN n ENTERPRISES even the lions in that WASTELAND u call a country can sing our national anthem
Yet u DESPICABLE ENVIOUS Wannabe is on nairaland puffing up his REFUGEE ASS you r nothing from a nothing land n we don't give a 4k about wannabes

254tobby:
How does safari wild life and marathon entail my point of view??go and drown in the pool of jealousy you bittered gene,and there's isn't any bitter facts you're telling me until I get worth convinced with your statement validity.

Ur piont of view isn't any of my bizness! In 9ja the vocalbulary jealousy, we don't know.
We got no time convincing wannabes, we are CLASS inside out

FortifiedCity:

This one toto go wide like Lagos-Ibadan expressway without traffic

Dis one PRI-CK go small pass needle

How I wish you can relocate your immediate family outside your present state of resident so that she can learn to live n trust only in you, your wife wants to live with you with dictates from her family and never you allow that.
DON'T EVER divorce her except on the ground on sexual immorality, let her pack in back herself, cutt off totally from the sister for good, be strong n know you will pass over this but always do what is best and not sentiments or emotion

TonyeBarcanista:
The thread is a partriotic one. Nigeria has great potential to make us the best in the world but so far we are yet to take advantage of this potentials.

I believe this should serve as a call to action instead of picking offences. It is a patriotic thread

Call to what action?
Call to the likes of Tony Elumele to what action?
Call 2d likes of Globacom to what action?
Call 2d likes of Firstbank, UBA Zenith,etc?
Is it Dangote Industries, Nolloywood industries, Innoson motors or Millitary Defence Company?
Or Industrial towns like Aba, Nnewi?
TonyeBarcanista just like GEJ you are a mistake to this Great country

I rather go with PMB than anything OBJ

Fact is while we youths boost our ego up by insulting one another the POLITICIANS n LEADERS don't give a damn
TonyeBarcanista as we all know is one JOBLESS IDOIT that is good only at ASS LICKING...

254tobby:
Who wanted you to have time for me you people fear facing facts,come up again with a vague information,we'll relegate your lazy brain with bitter facts

Relegate ur SAFARI WILD LIFE brain first, after that I will enter u for a 120km marathon race in my village worth 10000$...that is d BITTER FACT

NwaAmaikpe:




It's not so much of a big deal as long as it is not on Adebayo Road.
The cost of 2 plots of land in Ado Ekiti will not even pay six months shop rent in Enugu.

(You can get a plot of land at Aduloju for as low as 180 thousand Naira.)

FISHBRAIN...appreciation need not be expensive, even a bottle of wine is commendable

254tobby:
You're also a disgrace to facing facts,shame on you x100 with your ignorant peeps in a useless country with a barking population,lamba lolo

U worthless hakuna matata idoit, how dare u quote me? be extremely careful I got no time for insignficant wannabes

mtis:
Tripadvisor is like the Google of world travel..but i bet ya dont know anything about tourism an other stuff like that heh...

Do u think d CHINESE give a 4k about google, youtubes? wakanow.com is my BOMB.
Tourism! What else do they offer? How many millionaires live that country?
Abeg SA Egypt Ethopia is ok but kENYA they r surving on foriegners, nothing 2offer I will live like a GOD if go there but not interested

mtis:
in the meantime Nairobi was named third best world destination for 2018 .World not Africa people an ya here comparing nairobi with what...You should be ashamed of yourself

Now I know an slowpoke in my village is 100xbetter than U, a worthless site is your refrence who d 4k is tripadvisor. You r a disgrace to intelligence

BIA-FRAUD elements I hail

saarumann:
Apart from Lagos, Rivers, Akwa Ibom, Enugu, Cross River which other states in this huge village can compete with Mombassa talk more of Nairobi?

Mombassa compares to Epe, don't ever mention lagos. Ordinary FESTAC TOWN na him be d entire NAIROBI
The entire East Africa nu smell Lagos

saarumann:
See this one? Comparing Kenya with Nigeria is an insult to Kenya. There tourism industry is enough the beat the hell out of Nigeria any day any time talk more of there infrastructure.

Tourism, I will compare that to KANOWOOD( films made in Kano not NOLLYWOOD) the money generated is equivalent to Kenya Tourism

Infrasture as in what? Kenya is calabar Enugu Abeokuta put together

All these semantics when its time for action is bullSH-IT, Bankable bizness plan blah blah blah fact is FUND MUST be made available

TonyeBarcanista is a DUMB PRI-CK, while GEJ held sway the useless BUFFON never bother writting this defeatist jargons. How many towns outside Nairobi n Mombasa can Kenya boast of? Must we follow mobile moni pattern of the Kenyans?
Nigeria is at most 35% working her potential n d likes of South Africa Egypt n Ethopia are feeling d heats U hopeless GEJs scumbag is busy rating Nigeria n Kenya, I will compare Nairobi to Calabar and U to d palm wine tapper in Ogbomoso..

Segzee1:


Meanwhile, Igbo ladies are pretty, wonderful and above all very faithful in marriage. But there are things to know about them check it here https://dailyfamily.ng/important-things-you-must-know-before-you-marry-an-igbo-lady/

Ya faithful! like d one that killed her husband was 4kin his apprentice in Cameroon

Hemanwel:
What am I looking for in a Fulani lady that my beautiful Bini woman cannor give?? Is it love? Is it faithfulness?? Or is it sex?
My Bini wife rocks my world! If I were to do it all over again, I would choose my Bini wife.
Banky W can also testify to my submissions.

Italian connections can also testify

RighteousI:
After viewing wedding photos​ of so called modest deeper life girls I was surprised to discover that these girls that are getting married are literally babies, they are 22, 23,24&25 years old, you can still see their baby faces. What is pressuring these girls to get married too early, I don't know. Are they marrying too early because they want to avoid fornicating? Are they marrying too early because they don't want to be like that 38 years old single woman who let all the good guys go whilst she was young?

Instead of giving their true Adam time to find them they rush and get married to male demons who approcah them as an angel. I will advise these modest girls to realise that they are still babies at 22,23,24&25. They should realize that marriage is not a joking matter, they should realize that once you marry someone you are committing ±50 years of your life, they should realize that they are targets of male agents of Satan that want to marry them, they should not rush into marriage just because they are burning and don't want to commit fornication, they should realize that the 38 year old Christian single woman is blessed and better off than the 23 year old Christian woman who married early to a male demon.

Give your true Adam time to find you, don't let male demons poach you out at an early age. Let's say you leave uni at 23, I suggest you research at least 5 years before getting married, research the kind of world you live in and those that inhabit it, come online to research, don't base your marital selection on the advice of anyone, not even on the advice of the elderly Christian women in your church​, not even on the advice of your pastor, mother, sister, brother or father, for all these people I mentioned may yet be agents of Satan who are setting you up to marry a male demon.

also, don't be confident in your gentleness and reclusion, don't believe that just because you are a good girl, the world will automatically reward you with a good man, in most cases what you will get is a male demon that pretends to be a modest Christian therefore and just like Paul advised, singleness with celibacy is your best option, but if you desire to get married and have children, then rushing to get married too early may not necessarily be the way, you need to be bold, aggressive and not reclusive, you need to use any means necessary to expose yourself to as many single "Adams" as you can, note that such true Adams and even Eve's are statistically rare in the population, you need to have done years of research to know​ the type of world you live in, the evil beings that inhabit it and how to prevent yourself from marrying a false Christian man.

also, deceivers will advise you to pray for a husband, that's like advising an unemployed woman to pray for a job and telling her not to physically go from office to office to drop her CV. my advise to you is this, if you want a true Adam as a husband, you have to come out and fight for it, if you are confident in your reclusion and gentleness, if you lack aggression, if you are ignorant of the evil that inhabit the earth due to your lack of research then you be easily be poached by the false Christian man for marriage.

note that the Christian woman has a higher risk of marrying a false Christian than the male Christian, why? because it's easier for a male demon to walk up to a Christian woman to court her than for a female demon to walk up to a Christian man to court him. I'm very sure that most of these true Christian girls will be surprised with the speed with which they got a man that wants to marry them, yes male demons will approach you at your early because they don't want the true Christian man to find you first.

note that there is no Christian attribute that a false Christian man or woman cannot imitate in order to deceive you into marriage this literally means there's no way you can tell who is a true Christian man and who is not. a man who appears modest, prays with you and who even preaches about hell may yet be a false Christian man. can you now see there's no way of telling who is who? but yet there are ways, you need to come specifically online more to research, there are some information you will not be given in your church, such information are only available online.


To conclude, singleness with celibacy is the safest, but if you want marriage then you need not reclusion and gentleness but maturity, years of research, boldness and aggression.

Very IDOITIC post, where is Pastor chris Oyahkilomeh and Okotie in marriage? Pastors r marrying n divorcing like pure water u r here celebrating ur so called MUMU reasearch n years of studies. Ur parents were 50 n 40when dey had u? Beta do something intelligent not this utter rubbish

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PrecisionFx:
Oga Arabs, native Americans and Japanese aren't whites n they have never been whites.

What do U call them

PrecisionFx:
Most Caucasians whose blood hasn't mixed are pure white. U cant see them that white in pictures, U can only see such real life.
I grew up with German/Nigerians in 042. During their last daughters wedding in Onitsha, Their first daughter (who lived in Germany at that time) can back with his white husband, A pure German breed. White as in white, He was the exact same colour with the white lace traditional he wore. Very disgusting skin though.

nothing like pure white skin, what do u now call d Arabs Native Americans Japanese ?

Mouthgag:
Wasted fools
What is the meaning of white man?

Is their skin color white?
Is it possible for someone's skin color to be white?

They call dark-skinned people black because to them, the black color is
Dirty, Unholy, Inferior etc while they see themselves as white (opposite)

I don't only blame the idiotic OP but the USELESS Nairaland mods that are suffering from supreme inferiority complex

EternalTruths:
God bless Akwa Ibom the gateway to the Rising Sun.


Which ethnic group is Gov Udom from.?

Rising SUN my ASS! Why can't you mind ur BIAFRA bizness and deal without dragging AIBOM into it

Atouke:
Blame buhari for the auto company that didint materialize, when the investor came in 2015 $ exchange rate was $1:N195 thats what the projections was based on soon after breaking groundfor the project $1 exchange rate climed to N500 within a few months, and buhari flip floped on economic policies causing massive flight of foreign capital and investment to Nigeria.

I ask you if you were the investor would you have invested your money in such climate?

the Akwa ibom state govt. is working hard to bring back investors despite the dulling of the APC Federal govt.
Gov. Udom has so far attracted the Jubilee syringe factory,
The electricty meter manufacturing company,
The kings flour company,
The HJ coconut oil refinery,
St Gabriel coconut plantation,
Toothpick and pencil factory,
The reactivation of the peacock paint industry etc
can you point to any Nigerian Gov. Who has done better in this regards?

Bro this holds no water, how come dollar only affected d auto mobile industry n the once u claim dollar did not? Is peacock paint functioning, tropicana? The low light emitting bulb factory also in ITAM what d situation ditto d " take 2d bank" assured Ibiaku Uran road.
Udom is siphoning moni through dis elephants projects

Amarabae:
bad belle.

Bad belle for where, CONFIRM WEP(white elephant project) ordinary automobile industry for ITAM nothing 2show after d razmataz now he won build super highway n 21 storey building at d same time...UDOM na master SCAMMER

Atouke:
Ikot ekpene to Aba road is a federal road, the FG must take responsibility of fixing its roads in the Niger Delta. this region has been neglected for too long.
Besides the AKSG under gov. Akpabio spent time fixing federal roads in the state of which the FG is owing the Akwa IBom state govt. N140bn and have not paid a kobo up till today.

If you have visited Akwa Ibom recently, you will know that there are many evacuation routes from Akwa ibom besides ikot ekpene - Aba road.
unlike in the past.

There is the east west road that connects to PH through ikot Abasi ,The present Govt. is currently investing a lot in linking Akwa Ibom to its neighbours.

There is the 14.1km Ikpe Ikot Nkon - Obot Mme - Arochukwu road linking Ini Local Government Area of Akwa ibom to Arochukwu in Abia State which is 90%completed and the people of Arochukwu in Abia State have already offered a chieftaincy title to honour Governor Udom Emmanuel in appreciation of the road. and As we speak the people of Arochukwu are using that road to Access the Akwa Ibom international Airport for their rotuine flights, as this has become the closest airport for them with good road access.

And there is also another road linking Akwa ibom to Abia State constructed by the AKSG to link our brothers from Amuvi, Asaga, Obinkita, Ibom, Ututu to Ihechiowa and Azumini communities in Abia state.

Gov. Udom is a revolutionary governor interms of development, but he is different in style from gov. Akpabio in the sense that hes a quiet guy who dosnt toot his horn as loud. but hes doing a lot and the people are happy for it.

Mbok make I hear word jare, what is he suppose to do partying n clubing?

Blue3k:
Pretty cool the tolls will keep it well maintained since it will have plenty of traffic.

Guy how can I get dis map

Trivia:
They say events come at you either as blessings or lessons. My marriage has been half of both. I married from a relatively richer family, and I must add that the fact that my wife came from a wealthy family, had absolutely no influence on my choice. I met her when her parents were not as wealthy as they would later become, and we were in love. At that time, my parents gave me a ‘mid-budget vehicle’ shortly after my graduation from a state University in Nigeria. And so, even though my father was not Dangote, he could afford quality life and education for his children. My wife’s parents over the years ascended in wealth and riches, and our wedding was relatively big. Dowry from her side of Nigeria was expectantly high, and I paid it with relative ease.

Fast forward to seven years afterwards, when as a man your financial apron-strings to your parents has had to be cut even before leaving your parents’ house, as you make your way for yourself. I have come to learn that these apron-strings are easier to cut for a man than they are for women, especially women from comparatively well to do backgrounds, and hence the troubles for the unwise woman in this situation.
Leaving the comfort of my father’s house in Ibadan, I could afford a mid-income apartment in a sub-urban part of Lagos, with few house gadgets and facilities. My business was doing great, and even though not luxury, our living was comfortable. But then, comfort is subjective, for no matter how much sacrifices I put into stocking my abode with items to ensure comfort for my wife, she and her parents always believed I could do better. They rarely visited, and when they did, would sit in a corner with their noses in the air, and as they leave shortly I would swear they will take a long bath in hand-sanitizers when they got home. Nonetheless, I did do better, and over the years things went on fine at the expense of my personal self-care.

And then came that family-finance stifling recession. You assure yourself that things would be fine, and all you needed to do was double your hustle. Hustle doubled, and results reduced. Bills increased, and nagging followed suit. I have found out that a woman’s nagging on her husband could either be overt or covert. I’d take the overt nagging any day, over the quiet and obvious discontent. At least with the expressed discontent, you can target your financial attention. No matter how much you try, her communication reduces and you know why. She starts visiting her parents more often, and discussing financial choices with them. They start dropping hints into her bank account. She starts paying some bills and buying ‘luxury food-items’, but you cannot complain, even though you know where the money came from. Yet you double, nay, triple your hustle and hope for better days.

And that’s when the problems started- A classic case of he who pays the piper. Her parents start giving instructions without consulting you. It starts with suggestions, and then downright directives on how your home should be run. But you are the man of the house and you direct otherwise. Short of them laughing at your effrontery, they are infuriated that you dare overrule their wishes. Who are you? You observe the gradual disappearance of your wife’s respect for you, while you notice that her parents don’t even factor your presence in any equation. You are vilified, and your wife is torn between obeying her parents’ wishes and abiding by your directives.

I give you an example. This here school is where my children will go, because that’s what I can afford and they are happy in this school, you say. And the response through her, of course because they don’t call you directly but speak to your wife. They say, ‘what? That school? Okay, find a better school in your neighbourhood and let us know how much it costs.’ You get to know about this when your wife starts hunting for a new (expensive) school. I can’t afford that for the two of them, you say. ‘Don’t worry,’ she responds. ‘Mummy said she will pay for it.’ Now, domestic violence is a big matter to the state government and the news is rife with men sent to jail for wife battery. Otherwise, you would have sent those series of slaps in quick succession, enough to wipe her make-up clean off and change her phone network. Besides, if you had done that, her parents would be glad to take her back in their huge mansion, while you battle for your children’s custody or even access to them. Since you can’t react, you swallow your anger and put your foot down, albeit tenderly.

But things did change for the better part of 2017, far better than before, and during the festive season you conveniently sent bags of rice and vegetable oil to them. Occasionally, you send recharge cards and cash, no matter how small to them, while maintaining your physical absence. You can now restrict your wife’s visit to them. I must add, that the respect has grown tremendously, and hilariously too. Now they call for permission before they send her on errands. Now their calls always go unanswered because I am busy, and they graciously understand, and just wanted to check up on you.

Lessons: In family relationships, money is important. Your love is noticed when supported with money. Maintain your respect with strategic absence. Money used strategically buys your wife's (and in-laws) respect. Teach your wife to always reveal lesser information than necessary; the less you reveal to people (in-laws) about what goes on internally, the better, and more respect both of you get. There can only be one captain in a ship, and as a husband you need to put your foot down, sometimes diplomatically. Your ships must sail in one direction, and orders are from only one captain. As much as possible, reduce or eliminate holes in your matrimonial walls, to prevent matrimonial lizards from creeping in. No matter what you are going through, you will go through it. I knew that that phase would pass, and I pray I live to tell this tale to my kids when they are about to get married. Importantly, I have learnt that my boys should pick from a home and not a house with arrogant in-laws with the feeling of entitlement. And if you can avoid it, try not to marry a woman from a wealthy background, unless you can assure yourself of her humility.

You inlaws are myopic n overbearing, really wished your can relocate outside your present state of abode. Your wife ought 2learn how to put all her TRUST in and only you alone