₦airaland Forum

omenka:
When are the SE governors going to start returning the favours done their people in the SW and North?? This is indeed good for national integration and unity.

4get it Abia chased away Imo indigene n U expect them 2welcome NON- South easterner. I go kill cow if it ever happens

money121:
The presence of single mothers is becoming a widespread phenomenon in Lagos. In the past, people look at them with contempt and speak of their situation with disapproval. Although the scrutiny hasn’t totally disappeared, their increased number is becoming a norm.

Here are reasons most women end up being single mothers in Lagos:

1. Men’s Decision To Walk Out on Family: It’s not news anymore for some men to walk out on their family and go start life afresh with other women. It’s usually a devastating experience for the women when they are suddenly left with sole responsibility of raising children by themselves. The city is an ever bubbling one and there are enough distractions to make the men leave. Moreover, some men are not ready to take on the responsibility of being fathers. They abscond as soon as they get to know a baby is on board. This irresponsible act of men could turn the unsuspecting women into single mothers.

2. Societal Pressure: In an environment like Lagos, when men cheat on their wives and exhibit various traits that aren’t promising, the women are quick to move on. There are so many successful forces to be reckoned with or looked up to as role models. These often spin the women into action and they put back the broken pieces of their life. With many people sharing their experiences, the women may make the legal move and set themselves free from the clause of marriage and start living as single mothers.

3. Career: With a booming economy, women don’t want to be tied down. The city offers lots of opportunities. This has restructured some women and has made them career oriented; they have attained enviable heights in their fields. They find it difficult to give up that part of them. They are liberated women and have high prospects for the future. Men often have issues with this type of women since it is difficult dominating them. At the expense of relationships, they often choose career over everything. They believe they have all it takes to raise children.
4. Reckless Adventure: Lagos with its trendy lifestyle and feisty environment is never quiet. With loads of interesting places to visit and see, it’s always fun time. Unsuspecting young women get caught up in the frenzy of the bubbly city. They may hang out with a couple of people and keep the fun rolling. They get carried away by the excitement and get pregnant at the long run. Motherhood spring up on them and before long, they join the unending list of single mothers.

5. Relativity: It’s all relative. What works for one man could be detrimental to the other. Some women choose to be single mothers all by themselves. This is single mother by choice; some women crave to be that. Some of these women have gone past the marriageable age but desire to have children. While some choose to be single mothers because they resent being controlled by men.

http://www.gistmelove..com/2015/09/revealed-why-lagos-women-end-up-being.html

. Dis is d MOST MUMU thread I have read in Nairaland, e be like say one LAGOS BABE don do u smtin. Make I tell if U go some village u go see hw y girls de 4k n born scatter. Plz nu de write dis kin RUBBISH again

Edipee:
you're not making sense at all. Who knows you? Akpabio is a strategic and brave leader. He's enjoying in Abuja and you're dreaming to be in kirikiri. Huh! Idiokesit

Ka se owo abeg I no fit laugh, STRATEGIC SCAMMER n BRAVE TALKATIVE. Sorry O I AKPABIO popularity na 4pple wey nu de well INFORMED.
SARAKI is singing, AKPABIO go dance SEKEM.

Mznaett:
Akpabio and sweet mouth eh


I just love this guy

Koko (Edipee) di kop iko se ayen eka afo atang o

Wetin concern me EKPO UNAM IKOT adu is just spending is LAST DAYS...Kirikiri prison is next

The one n only SUPER MEGA SCAMMER

PDP THINGS :

Mr SCAM go n join SARAKI

atlwireles:
Wished you knew the meaning of emancipation.

Damn I 4got! only corruptible minds don't know, what a shame

atlwireles:
Sara, in the world of the almajiris slaves, enjoy your sara

Emancipate yourself from this "corruption mentality" it is d worst form of SLAVERY. Nu let PMB catch U

Abeg make I hear word 1MUMU THIEF n 1 IMF/World Bank CRIMINAL

She be sure n confirmed virgin all u pple just de vex because una ROOTEN past TOMATO

atlwireles:
Another tales by moonlight by these shameless lying maggots called APC almajiris

Another moaning n whining WAILING WAILERS pained that if it was GEJ na SARA be that

CCT plz don't use police officer 2arrest dat DOUBLE CRIMINAL instead use "eleron"(meat sellers) from d nearest market 2 arrest the BORN CRIMINAL

amazingspiderma:
That is his talent,what's yours

Oh I see his giving d church WORLDLY TALENT
While d church de back am with SPIRITUAL TALENT...hmm MAN, MAMMON and GOD.

Most of his LYRICS r RAW n d HOLY HOLY of WHITE GARMENT de BLESS am GOD don SUFFER

Too BAD, if only they were in LAGOS state

anitafancis:
Dear readers please mature advice and no insult pls..


Am going throught a difficult time in my life and needed help badly, to cut the long story short, I met this man throught a friend i was living with, she introduce me to this guy saying he has money and he will be able to take care of me, I had no choice because I needed help and the guy has the money to give..

I started dating him and he gives me money a lot and promise to get me an accommodation which I did believe him of course. I got pregnant for him and he told me to keep the pregnancy which i refused but my girlfriend told me to keep it that he may even marry me. After five months plus, he started changing towards me and telling me he doesn't have money anymore. When I try to talk about the situation at hand, he gets angry and even tries to hit me..

He does not give me money anymore, he is always drinking and smoking.. I couldn't go for an abortion because I was scared and it's too late for abortion. I came home after service on sunday and found out that he was not at home and he has packed all his things and left an empty house for me. I cried throught out that day. Where am I going to start from with almost six months pregnancy? I later found out that he's married and he has 3 kids..

What am I going to do?. Pls advice..

VERY SIMPLE in d state where U live look out 4d Women development centre then locate d Welfare Officer after that make una find d BASTARD He-Goat.
As 4u u beta ZIP n fine smtin 2de do

I tire no be small, Mr Dorobuchi is being HONOURED 4inside CHURCH

and the WAILING goes on

Swaggzkid:
Ok na so them talk when GEJ was in office, All these men of God money has gotten them blind that they have now left church matters and now all their heads is being dipped into politics *SMY*

That was how they all said that GEJ will win the election and I believe come carry my hard earn 5k go bet on top Goodluck head, wetin come hapun


*THAT MAN OF GOD NEEDS FAVOUR FROM THE DULLARD*
Don't waste your precious time trying to quote me coz I won't reply.


#AmBackAgain

READ u no fit read, SENSE U no get na just FTC u sabi.
COCKROACH beta pass U

And the WAILING continues...Pst KUMUYI thanks 4praying 4 PMB
Let OritsejeFRAUD continue praying 4d WAILING WAILERs

SexyStrawberry:
Wow! so this post made FP!!!!!
And I am the FTC !!!!!!!
No wonder I attracted the haters mentioning me below!
Sorry haters, I won't reply ur mentions in Oda not to waste my hard earned MB, yes when it comes to manly strength, women are the weaker sex, but like I said below, there are so many ways to kill a rat, only the smart ones will understand this, not the gullible ones.
Una wey be chairmen of Nairaland sabi mention me for insult, but one solution, una no get.
Continue to dey hate, it makes me stronger.

hmmmmm, so all the girls are so dumb that they cant look for a way to find solution Abi? just one randy man is doing Dis to how many girls in the department, is he King Kong's younger brother ? Dem no get student union leader? or dem no fit change course? first step of solution is Dis, let's assume that all d female students walk out on his arrival for lectures, will that alone not attract the attention of the school authorities? There are so many ways to kill a rat, who is so certain that the girls ain't enjoying Dis nonsense?

What a PITY, women always going after their own

asha80:
hmm ok because I know the typical Nigerian mentality when it comes to buying foreign goods when the local equivalent is available

I am serious bro, anything SOUTH AFRICA is what I hate most U will never catch me using anything that country, even if na free trip I NO SEND.
Tu-Face n co were made by us, OMOTOLA n co the same. If we all can carry this MENTALITY to every other facet of our economy n daily life, 9ja go BLOW. Rome wasn't built in a day

asha80:
hope you are ready to start buying made in aba goods?

Bro I am 9ja 2D CORE, 4rm my Osun DUDU Osun(black soap) 2my Sir KAY wears.
That was how USA, UK n every other nations got there, local industries must grow and not by EDUCATED BUFFONS that call themselves ECONOMIST

True true dis guy na WEREY

hinwazaka:
A maths/ statistics student who does not know that there is a model for every sector. Who does not know that its the variables ( exogenous and endogenous) that determines the model you would use. I wonder what school you attended. You should ask for a refund. If you want to get a peripheral standard of knowledge of economics, pay into my account and I will school you

A graduate of ECO/STAT that is HUFFING n PUFFING his ADULTERATED illiteracy
Just say u a r STARVING n I will pay into ur DORMANT account so U won't die of HUNGER

hinwazaka:
Module /noun/ a unit that can form part of a course of study, especially at a college or university in Britain
In your rush to act like you know what you speak of, you mistook MODULE for MODEL. If you don't know by now, check my past posts, you are talking to a foremost graduate of ECONOMICS AND STATISTICS. You are asking questions about things that are not relevant in this discussion. Go and read up on Macroeconomics and monetary economics before attempting to act like you know what you are saying. Checking wikipedia doesn't make you knowledgeable.

Personally U a graduate of INFINTE STUPIDITY must I brag about my MATHS/STATISTIC degree over this topic, its best U disappear into that BLACKHOLE u call Economics n Statistics
NOTE; even lunatics don't quote Wikipedia

ttmacoy:
China and India are part of the index because they value the benefits. Russia was too until they were removed like Nigeria due to economic issues.

Article on when India trying to join:

http://in.reuters.com/article/2013/10/11/india-economy-bonds-idINDEE99907V20131011

Do U understand d EXCLUSIVITY given CHINA n INDIA? Why is RUSSIA aint bothered about?
Even in INDIA it is still being disscuss in a hush-hush tone. Nigeria only need 2build is Domestic Economy not trying 2please d WEST

hinwazaka:
Our economy is not like that of China, Russia due to the fact that both of these countries control over 50% of the investment that keeps their market afloat, unlike ours that depends primarily on foreign cash flows. Also savings and injections in both countries is exceptionally high due to the stringent control of their respective governments in relation to demand and supply of money and goods. Also the balance of payments in both nations is on the plus side due to their high exportation rate over importation. Russia and China, both can survive a long spell away from the global market( Russia's economy according to reports, is in a recession, due to economic sanctions), but you and I can't.

Maybe U can't but Nigeria can, can U really explain d Economic Module Nigeria operates. What kind of STATISTICS/DATAS do we u use? Are old r these Data n funny enough our inflation index is base on food prices. As for recession have we ever been out of it? JP Morgan Index can't stop d growth of our economy if we imbibe n strictly put POLICIES encouraging DOMESTIC CONSUMPTION n INDUSTRIES

JP Morgan Index Ni JP Morgan Index ko, all these NONSENSE wey GEJ n NGOZI de use deceive us but de please IMF/World BANK.

CHINA RUSSIA n INDIA don't give a 4k abt them, why should Nigeria?
PMB march ON U r on d RIGHT TRACK

Atlantian:
Who gave the instruction for the DSS to raid a government house of a State ?

Welcome to 1985. But let it be known, that the people of the States, will not allow the slowpoke Federal Government, headed by a nomad to continually encroach on the rights of the people of the States.

We have the rights to seek Secession if we are continually ridiculed. Akwa Ibom State is rich enough to be a country. In fact, that wonderful state provides 60% of the Oil and Gas used in powering this parasitic geographical expression.

Be warned. Next time the DSS attempts that nonsense, they will feel the collective will of the Biafran Allies.

Again, Be warned, Mr. Daura Nomad.

LUNATIC have u eaten?

VanBommel:
but he said the truth

In d world of the Nigerian POLITICIANs/ ELITES there is no TRIBE RELIGION or ENEMIES, they only thing de know is INTEREST.