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Jigba:
Please don't kill yourself. You've been through a lot to end your life just like that.

Seek help wherever you are.

BestDude:
you would break me if you commit suicide.

You would break my heart if you commit suicide.

I know what it feels like brother. I know just how you feel. I wish you were in Nigeria, people from here would have made attempts to find you and make you whole again.

But don't go near any woman... It appear you are not destined for such.

Please do not commit suicide, I beg you. You can be a source of inspiration to people if you turn your life around...

You are not handicapped, your hands and ears and eyes are working... Steve Hawking was condemned to wheel chair and the only thing that worked in his body was his eyes, every other part was dead due to an illness. He was proclaimed to have just a few years to live but he lived over 50 years more.

He didn't take his life.

Tinosa:
U must have been blind while reading and judging me. Where in my write up did I say I just took up feeding for few months I have been doing that since I got married OK? What I said is that I took up all responsibilities in d house including feeding which I have been doing. Also, my last visit to d hospital stated that I lost 3kg in 2 weeks due to poor feeding. U think I like going to sit at my parents? For ur information, I have no choice so I don't endanger my life and that of my unborn child. Funny enough my husband even ended up suggesting it to me before I could even say anything and am there now and feeding very very well (trust mothers) so mind ur words please. I'm not d one making u frustrated of women abeg!

zynellsmum:
I almost in tears.im sorry for your dad.take heart bro..

CAPSLOCKED:

"LOVE.. SOME OF US ARE JUST IN IT, EXPECTING THE WORST, HOPING FOR THE BEST."


LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING MATE.
IGNORE ALL THESE PEOPLE GIVING YOU IRRELEVANT ADVICE AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART ONCE MORE.
"EVERY WOMAN IS NOT THE SAME", THEY SAY. "YOU CAN'T HATE ALL WOMEN JUST BECAUSE OF A FEW BAD ONES. YOU SHOULD GIVE IT ANOTHER CHANCE", THEY SAY.
BUT I TELL YOU WHAT BRO, NOBODY KNOWS WHAT YOU'VE FELT MAN. NOBODY HERE WENT TO JAIL WITH YOU. NOBODY HERE LOST THEIR DAD BECAUSE OF THE ACT OF A WITCH BUT YOU. NOBODY HAS BEEN PUNISHED LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO LOVE AND BE LOVED BACK. SO HOW CAN THEY KNOW WHAT YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH OR WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH?
"GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY BECAUSE ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME " IS THE REASON YOU KEPT TRYING UNTIL YOU LOST YOUR FIRST CHANCE TO MAKE IT ABROAD WITH YOUR GUYS. IT'S THE REASON YOU LOST YOUR DAD. IT'S THE REASON YOU WENT TO JAIL. IT'S THE REASON YOU'VE DATED MORE THAN 250 WOMEN IN YOUR LIFETIME. IT'S THE REASON YOU'RE WORKING IN A BAR. IT'S THE REASON YOU'RE SUICIDAL. YOU MUST BE CRAZY IF YOU EVER FEEL YOU NEED TO GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY. IT DIDN'T GET BETTER AFTER YOUR FIRST HEARTBREAK AT 7. IT DIDN'T GET BETTER WITH THE GIRLS YOU WERE WITH BEFORE AND AFTER YOU LOST YOUR TRAVEL DOCUMENTS.. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK IT'LL GET BETTER NOW, OR TOMORROW?
YOU CAN GET THOSE PETS AND ADOPT AS MANY KIDS AS YOU WANT, JUST LIKE YOU SAY YOU WANT. SAVE UP THAT MONEY YOU EARNING, GET YOURSELF NICE THINGS. GET THE LATEST PLAYSTATION CONSOLE. WATCH SPORTS. LISTEN TO MUSIC AND WATCH MOVIES IF YOU WANT. SMOKE THE BEST WEED AND DRINK ALCOHOL LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW. YOU DON'T NEED A WOMAN TO BE HAPPY. YOU DON'T NEED MARRIAGE TO BE ACCOMPLISHED IN LIFE MAN, ALL YOU NEED IS YOURSELF, HEALTHY AND SANE AND SO FAR ALL YOU'VE GOTTEN IS THE WORST THINGS IN THE WORLD BECAUSE OF FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS. SO DON'T LET NOBODY WITH ZERO EXPERIENCE ABOUT ANYTHING ON THIS FORUM TELL YOU YOU'RE MAKING THE WRONG CHOICES IN YOUR OWN LIFE DESPITE ALL YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH. YOU DESERVE HAPPINESS AT LEAST, NO BLOODY SOUL SHOULD DEPRIVE YOU OF THAT.
YOU'VE SUFFERED TOO MUCH ALREADY. FEELING GUILTY FOR WHAT YOU DID MAKES NO SENSE BECAUSE SHE KIND OF DESERVED IT. I'LL ENCOURAGE YOU TO DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN AND AGAIN IF SHE'S EVER RESURRECTED.

LASTLY..
BASHING WOMEN EVERYWHERE YOU FIND THEM IS TRASHY. TO BE HONEST WITH YOU.
THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN EVER FIND PEACE AND JOY IS TO KILL THAT HATE YOU FEEL FOR THEM AND JUST FOCUS ON YOUR WAY. THE ONES THAT OFFENDED YOU ARE IN YOUR PAST. LEAVE THEM THERE.
DON'T KILL YOURSELF.
AFTER ALL YOU'VE FACED YOU OWE YOURSELF A WONDERFUL TIME, AND THE BEST OF YOU IS YET TO COME.

Oyindidi:
Thank goodness ... Finally, mrcork thread help somebody. Don't feel that way again, I know it comes naturally but think of your love ones, think of your fun moments and smile. I was suicidal too, I once walk into a busy road to end it all. Mine started when I was a teen but I'm glad I overcame that deadly thought

milemimi93:
You know what?
A waste pipe is useful.
Because it carries sh!ts to the pit.
Initially I hated you and called you pvssy ass-licker since u said u came on nl to chase cooches. And I wanted seeing you bin banned here forever.
But now I even want to see u on nl more often and pls create more threads if you can.
U don't know how many lives u do save by your post and threads.

Whenever I have a blue day, I come to nl to read just only ur posts and threads. And whenever I do that, I will feel relief.

You always make me laugh.
I laugh to keep out of crying whenever I read your post.

I was suicidal few days ago and one of your thread relief me. The thread you created on "TOP FIVE REASONS GUYS COME TO NL TO CHASE GIRLS"
I swear that thread saved my life. I laughed all through the night.

Please MrCork thank you so so much for saving me and always making me happy whenever I read your posts.

I am sorry for past dissed.

God bless you and your dealings..

Oyindidi:
Cc miseducation, donstan18, milemimi93, mimimile93. Food don done

Oyindidi:
A thread people don't view or post on. You go there to derail without anyone chasing you out of his/her thread and the mods won't ban you too. The mod can ban us on this thread cos its active. We are derailing

gistmate:
He ran away after our first night. What did I do wrong? You waited until you have dated a guy for several weeks before sleeping with him. Though you were hot for him and curious about what getting in the sack would be like; you made a conscious effort to get to know him and trust him first.

So, you met a guy. He seems fantastic. He says all the right words, does all the right things, and you decide to sleep with him a little more quickly than normal because you feel oh-so comfortable around him. Then guess what happens? He stops calling you.

At first you feel rejected. Then you feel used. You don’t feel smart anymore, like you don’t have as good of a read on guys as you thought you did. And then you let all your crazed emotional states get the better of you; and you start to talk to your friends about this whole debacle, over and over again.

Then, you review every little thing that went down with this new guy; every word, every sentence, every text message the two of you shared. You want to figure out exactly what you did wrong in this scenario and why he’s not calling anymore. OMG….what a waste of time. What a waste of energy and what a waste of self-confidence; that you’re throwing out the window. Stop beating yourself up.


See the top 10 reasons why he must have left you after sex

All He Wanted Was Sex and nothing more:
Most times it doesn’t really matter how long you stay with a guy before you decide to make love to him. The truth is that some guys can still pretend till you are ready to go down the lane. He will remain all calm and loving; won’t be pestering you. But the moment he gets what he want, voom….he goes.

Lust made him stay calm
On a second thought, he may have wanted to stay with you deep down within him but after a first time with you, he changes his mind. It maybe because he expected more from you. He thought he would be so wowed with you owing to the lust that drove him to you the first time.

The sexual chemistry just isn’t there
Even though people say men are just after getting laid, there is still another side to it. Men still have a desire for quality rounds. If he doesn’t feel the connecting, he runs.

Source: https://www.gistmate.com.ng/guys-give-reasons-why-they-leave-after-sleeping-with-a-girl/

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I already cut him loose. I'll remember next time OK.

NgeneUkwenu:
Then why is she keeping quiet?

Oyindidi:
Milemimi93, mimimile93 see this post

carlsmith7:
There's this girl I met at a bar so we exchange numbers and after sometime you know we got to know each other very well ,we just got talking as friends ,nothing attached . after sometime, you know we did the expected and now I have no doubt that she really loves me...... she buys me stuff but the thing is I do not love her and little did I know she has pneumonia she's involved her siblings and told them like this is the guy she likes and she wants to marry and the funny part is I've not even asked her out yet.....like we just had sex once and she's taking it off so seriously ......guys I have someone I love and someone I want to engage ....what do you think I should do

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Ive surprised surprised him with gifts so it's nothing

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
My dear it's one lacking that u get to top. He has never asked me for money. Even for me to use my money to buy stuffs and cook for him na wahala. He prefers to gimme money to cook for him.

Men differ though.

CAPSLOCKED:
IF YOU'VE NOT KILLED THE FIRST GIRL THAT HID YOUR DOCUMENTS GO AND DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
If my boyfriend decides to top up my account after a good one that doesn't make me a prostitute?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
When u gave your gf money and all you did that cos she's a prostitute?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Miles check dictionary na

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
If my boyfriend decides to top up my account after a good one that doesn't make me a prostitute?

Armstrong34:
Please NL,pardon my grammatical construction due to the fact i was an engineering student as it may not meet upto standard to the level of the professors of English we have here....

There's this lady am currently in a relationship with and Sincerely she's really the type of girl we guys are always hoping to come across.... I have come to love her buh only for me to notice she has à tattoo on her arm...And sincerely there's this societal perception about tattoo that speaks of Waywardness and irresponsible lifestyle..... buh on the contrary... this babe is just so different that am just confused.....I have come across girls who appear so so bad and even sleep at the club buh are still virgin while some girls who claim to be responsible and decent are upgraded and modified Oloshos....
Please help a brother, I don't wanna make a mistake based on the general assumption on what people would say

Oyindidi:
Na stories like this you dey like

Oyindidi:
Na stories like this you dey like

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
No I'm not.

K9blunt:
Good, endeavor to go for it religiously.... You have to have a happy ending. Good luck!

K9blunt:
Good, endeavor to go for it religiously.... You have to have a happy ending. Good luck!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The same lady faked orgasm just to collect money for Cab. Height of hypocrisy if u ask me.

BestDude:
my mood has changed since yesterday after reading what you went through. I won't lie, destroying an ex life once crossed my mind.

I hated women for many years cos of her and your thread just revived those memories.

And after reading your tread, a girl I was being called with for misbehaving might be in for rude shock. Your story changed my entire mood since yesterday and I just gonna be on a side until she makes and another demeaning remarks towards me and she will see another side of me.