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NwanyiAwkaetiti:
All this one won't change anything. Tell us what we don't know already.

From the days of old prostitution has existed and will continue to exist. Simple.

Oyindidi:
Food don done

Oyindidi:
Food don done

K9blunt:
to say I am sorry you went through all these is an understatement but please be going for therapy... You've been dealt with and left in darkness. You need mental healing. Please try going for therapy.

LifestyleTonite:
US singer, R. Kelly has been accused by a Twitter user of sending nude photos of himself to a 17-year-old boy.

According to a screenshot of the conversation R. Kelly allegedly had with the boy, the singer invited him to come see him and even offered to pay for his flight.

See screenshots of the chat and pictures of the boy below.

https://www.wotzup.ng/2018/07/r-kelly-nude-photos-17-yr-old/

Lautechgossip:
Nollywood actress, Chiamaka Nwokeukwu has established herself in the industry as an actress of note, with great roles to her credit. But the fair-skinned beauty has achieved this success at a price, as she had to dump the boy she was dating at the time to pursue her dream because the boy was too jealous to stomach her foray into the make-believe world. “Yes, I dumped him for Nollywood because he didn’t want me to be a star.

He didn’t want me to follow up my career and he had not proposed to me. The guy can leave me tomorrow and now that I have the opportunity, I need to follow up. God blessed everybody with talent. It’s not easy to have talent, most people cannot act and when you have the zeal and you can do something, you have to use it well.

It’s normal for a boy and girl to meet and if you really love your girl, you would let her go into what she wants. When I get married, automatically if my husband says he doesn’t want me to act again, I will not act again as long as he’s taking care of me,” she quipped in a chat with Potpourri.

“He was telling me that he didn’t want me to act, that I’m a very nice person, I’m humble, that when I go into the industry, I’ll meet big people and I’ll become wild and be doing different things. I was like, I know myself, naturally I’m humble. I come from a very humble home, we don’t have any bad scandal so if you want to be bad you’ll be bad, if you want to be good it’s inbuilt.

I explained everything to him, I was like, let me do this thing, let me just do it. If you see that I’m going astray, I’ll stop. He didn’t want me to even start. Immediately I went for my first shoot, he said I didn’t like him any more but I told I still liked him very much but he didn’t believe me and the only sane thing I could do is to walk away,” she said.

http://kikiotolu.com/chiamaka-nwokeukwu-ill-quit-acting-if-my-husband-is-rich-enough-to-take-care-of-me/

Amagite3:
From; Amagitesblog.com

Lola Omotayo, wife to Peter Okoye of former Psquare, has taken to her Instagram page to celebrate her husband's brother, Paul Okoye's twins who turned one today.

Using her husband and his brother's crisis, she prayed for the twins, Nathan and Nadia that they will never let anyone or anything break their bond. She wrote;

"The best things in life come in pairs, Nathan and Nadia here's wishing you two a very happy 1st birthday! I wish you loads of love, long life, good health, prosperity and peace of mind. May you two continue to bring the entire Okoye family happiness, joy and smiles. My prayer for you is that you always remain close, love one another unconditionally, always support and respect each other and never let anyone or anything break your bond, ever! May God Almighty give you both...double the blessings and twice the happiness all the days of your very long and fruitful life. God's got you! We love you angels so much. Enjoy your fun filled day as we celebrate you today. Big hugs & Kisses. ���������������������������♥️⚽️�✔����������‍♂️�‍♀️���‍♂️�‍♀️����� #twins #okoyetwins #n&n #godsangels #1stbirthday #blessed #happy #july8th #love #innocent #cameronandalionascousins #ibeji #andresbrotherandsister #family #okoyeclan"

Recall that Peter and Paul Okoye decided to go their separate ways last year after several disagreements and fights even on social media.

Paul Okoye even accused Lola of being the reason for their fights.

https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/07/never-let-anyone-or-anything-break-your-bond-lola-omotayo-prays-for-paul-okoyes-twins.html

Rosay15:
... Yes oh my dear...

Rosay15:
... Okay, I agree with u on dat due to ur experience but still yet u don't have to generalize them. Fine, I also knw dere are ladies lyk dat but we don't have to say all ladies are bad cus dis issue is applicable to men also. D only tin we need to pray for is dat God shd give us our own, dis issue is just lyk our country as we are saying dat d country is bad, some people are still making it out of dis shit hole country. What am trying to say in essense is dat we stop saying all ladies are bad or all guys are scum cus to me no matter ur experience with both sex it doesn't worth it.

jordyspices:
Op na wah oh hw can u say 90% of naija girls are runs girls pls be guided

Oyindidi:
Which one be hook up?

The world is going really bad.

Henitan24:
All ladies are materialistic including me and some go extra mile to prove who they are not by preferring to look successful than being successful. I love being good looking but not necessarily expensive, in Lagos a lady can dress like Beyonce with just 3k it depends on one bargaining power. What I know is that I, Enitan is always contented with the little I've and how ambitious, intelligent, supportive in term of moral by man is with this alone my future is secure and my happiness is certain.

Rosay15:
When you people stop talking about women?, shey u no dey rest?. Since I have joined nairaland It is only women u guys talk about, shey nah only woman dey do bad Ni.. I tire for unah o..
Because d op chat with some girls now, e don mean says all ladies nah prostitut. Op, u no dey try at all and hope u remember say u get female for your family and aside from that you are being serve wat u order for..
So u dey tell me say u wan relationship and nah for all dis dating site u now go, abeg try to be applying it most time because u can never see a decent lady in all dis social media accept she is into business and d only app which is used for dat is only IG , Fb and whatsapp anything accept dat nah runz dey dere.
So my dear brother whenever u are talking abt ladies issue no dey generalize dem cus u have nt meet all d ladies in naija, even quarter u never meet dem so y u dey say all ladies are prostitute?. Abeg dere are still decent lady out dere which am among cus I no knw how many ladies u don meet now wet u dey talk say all ladies are LovePeddler. And d funniest part of it is dat all guys are dis thread wet b say dem too get dere own for hand dey support u in ur post. Smh

Henitan24:
I can't speak for Nigerian ladies but I'll speak for myself. I've never been into runs business and I'll never. I think most girls are into runs business as it is said because some of you guys also has nothing to offer aside money. Since I've been dating my man for a year and half now he only forcefully added 5k to my flight ticket.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
No miles, no matter how red my account have been I've never allowed myself to fall to the extent of bargain money for sex. I'm no saint mind you but no, I don't do such glaring monetary based hookups. I still prefer to keep some innocence intact. I have no business proving anything to you, you already feel ladies are monsters but that's your opinion.

I try to think about the implication on society when ladies become actively involved in yahoo, 419, rituals for the money like men.
Sex for money is in every society, gold diggers full oyibo... Go to YouTube and search out gold diggers videos. Nigerian girls dey learn.

These are vices in the society which are on the increase because of the headship I guess.

Right from Inception there has always been sex for money and it will always exist so why talking about it like it started today?

The op wants classy flashy girls, why can't he go for the simple homely ones?

Hisduchess:
this is such a lame excuse Oga.so cos am from a poor home then my hands and legs becomes broken from earning a decent living.Oga ashawo work nah longthroat laziness dey cause am.there is no excuse for crime as far as am concerned.

Henitan24:
How are you?

Henitan24:
How are you?

Lonestar124:
Will you take crippled or a deaf and dumb prostitute home for sex?.....you won't even find them attractive.

So you're not ashamed, you're conceived and birth by a wh.ore..work on yourself dear.

Lonestar124:
There's excuse if you really search deeply.

I've encounter few of them but today they're happily married and never ceased to commend me

No prostitute is unaware of deadly diseases contacted through sex but still their engaged it.some are orphans and widows that are dejected.some might be spiritual.

Something must've prompt them into it...in as much I won't like my sister to sell her body for sex..I wont likely pay a random lady just to have sex with her.

It's a determent to my sisters and unborn daughters.

Caring0:
Lolz, do you know some aje butter girls still do runz? There is one man that came to see our pastor, wealthy man, his daughter schools in one of these private uni in lag, but yo the man says his daughter is doing prostitution, sleeping around with guys for money upon all the money he sends her!

Some na disease when din eat into their blood they just like doing runz

Caring0:
Yo my nairaland fam. Good evening yall.
I should have posted this since about a week but I have been down with arm pit boils! (16 boils after using a arm bit body spray! Little did I know alcohol body strays irritates the skin when you apply it on a shaved fresh arm pit!) got admitted, been here in hospital for 7 days now undergoing surgical operation. Its now I can feel my arms yo. Lol

Okay yo so back to the main matter at hand, virtually all Nigerian ladies are into prostitution business. How did I come about this conclusion? I sideloaded an app on my android phone called "in message" my purpose here was to look for a girl I can date around my city since I don't find good looking decent ones in person, I thought to my self yo maybe the decent ones are indorrs and would most likely use dating apps! Yeah great idea!

So I quickly signed up yo and every lady I chatted up looked decent, classic and well dressed, about the 20 first responded well but along the line they all changed and said they don't need a relationship they only want hook up. I said to myself, yo! Is every one here all about hook up? I was quite confused!

Don't get me wrong I know there are ladies who do runz business in Nigeria, but I didn't expect it to be this much like out of every 9/10 ladies do runz and the only 1 left out only wants to date for the money! (gold digging)

I met a few girls in person at shoprite, and I asked them if they do hook ups, and they said yeah! Like about 7/10 in girls I met at shoprtite all agreed for hook up.

Now back to inmessage, every lady on there both the pretty and very decent looking ones do hook up. Only very few like 2/100 was there for relationship and they are most likely not to reply you if your profile is not flashy.

Now here are various screenshot I was able to get because I reinstalled the app and the messages Al cleared. I had to re chat the ones online so I could get screenshot.


Why am I posting this? I am posting this because it's surprising at how far this generation has degraded! Especially with the Nigerian youths!

90% of guys in Nigerian are into yahoo business, now the same for the girls, 90% of them are now into runz business.

I was with a girl sometime ago, her nf called her in my present, we were about to have sex, it was a friend with benefit something because she don't want to date me but likes the sex since she already has a bf, so we agreed on fwb, after she dropped the call, we went down hard.
Shine your eyes before you marry any Nigerian girls because most have been bleeped in exchange for money.

All naija youths hustling ill hustles.
I weep for Nigeria.

Lonestar124:
Don't make mockery of them because if they have the money in abundance, they would not monetize their body.

Some of them are from poor family.........Now, as good person that want his good goals to precede him.

You've to ask them why they're into the business, their
intention, and the implications in it.....Help them if you can.

The wealthiest thing you will do for your fellow human being is changing their life positively.

Sex is love not financial stipulation.

Thuglife2020:
I swear I’ve been battling this for awhile now. I don’t know what to do. I need you guys’ advice. I’ve been friends with this particular girl for more than a year now. We are good friends and we do talk almost everyday. It get to some extent because I couldn’t continue with her being a friends. I truly love her. I wooed her but she declined and told me we can only be good friends. I have a very good plan for her and planing to help her further her education but I’m afraid to loose her to someone else. I’ve tried my best to gain her heart but she will always tell me we can only be friends. I love her more than anything in this world even my current girlfriend. I want to move and cut communications with her but it’s not been easy for me. She will beep me almost everyday and the moment I her call, I can’t help myself but to call her back. I don’t know what to do. Please I need you guys advice.

bethyz:
Abeg give the girl a chance because of one day cooking you are already judgemental. Just first time cooking. Please she cant be perfect on first time cooking . Everyone is different. And whatever is keeping her moody give her time and space to breath. Ring na next year December ooo. We never even reach this year December and you come here to make mouth.
What makes you think she will like to marry you sef? Did she write looking for husband on her face.
Stop placing yourself high while you are not Yeye ring you never buy. First day cooking you are making mouth ranting up and down. Show muscle of how you can cook. If you can cook why didnt you do it and leave the girl to think if you are worth it or not. Mr perfect. I meet a guy who complains like you i dump your ass like a heart beat. Nonsense!

Madlov3:
Hi! For the sake of anonymity, i decided to use this new account.

I met this girl last December, but we officially started dating in January, I love her and I think she loves me too.Everything is going so well and all things been equal, i may pop the question next year December.
The problem started when I told her to come spend last weekend with me and honestly I regretted that.

After going to pick her on friday evening, i told her there’s isn’t food at home and that i was thinking of cooking spaghetti.
Getting home, it occurred to me that i have never tasted her food so I decided to let her do the cooking.(NB:I cook! like am a very good cook) so after some minutes in the kitchen, she signaled me to come eat but damn!the food was a colossal disaster! It was so overcooked and tasteless. I was not happy that evening and I complained about it.
The next day was a Saturday! She prepared yam and veggies but that was another disaster, the yam was salty and the veggies were also so overcooked. They were no longer greenies but brown.

Another thing i also noticed about her is is throughout our 3 days together, she was always moody! I really don’t think it’s because of the food disaster because my complain lasted for just some minutes.Am still trying to figure out why someone will choose to be moody and sad for no tangible reason.
Last weekend with her was a depressing one for me and right now, am seriously rethinking popping the Question next year because i don’t want to be an unhappy married man.
I really don’t know what to do