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martyns303:
This is going to be long, I hope you endure to the end.

I know what I am about to say will be controversial and not "politically correct", mostly for the feminist and others. I expect a lot of backlash, abuse and calling of names, it is a burden I am willing to take on.

I expect everybody to come here and call this man names, he's an animal, a coward (I agree on this), woman beater and all sort just to be accepted. But I have decided to share a different opinion.

First, people don't just go about attacking other people, not a woman you are married to, not the mother of your children, even mad people don't frequently attack people at random.

The thing is everybody have a breaking point, no matter how much you try to endure and try to be the better person, there comes that point you just can't take it.

Have I hit a woman b4? Yes, twice. It is not something I am proud of, I feel ashamed of myself afterwards. Now I have had my fair share of relationships but one stands out and I pray no man finds himself with a woman like that. This girl's words are venom, she rain abuses at the slightest provocation. If anyone knows me outside NL will know that I am extremely quite, an introvert and avoids confrontation at all cost.

If we agree to meet somewhere and she gets there before, am dead. No matter the reason, she will call me and start abusing me, in fact if you are to hear her, you will call me a fool for staying with that kind of person. But she is not always like that, when she's not angry, she's one of the nicest person ever. Well educated and from a decent home so there's no indication that she will be like that.

The first time I hit her, we went to buy something together at the market. We ended up having a different opinion about an item and that was when she got angry, she started abusing me right there in public. It was as if the ground should open and swallow me, I was so embarrassed I decided to leave and go home. When she got back, she started yelling at me for leaving her behind at the market and the abuses begin. At that point I lost it, already am fuming from the market incident and now this, she has said worst things to me before and I simply walk away but this time I don't know what happened and I slapped her. Of course I apologized and begged and we got back to being normal, I noticed the abuses even stopped for sometime.

Now I don't want to mention what happened the second time, because not even a pope would have been able to handle the situation. At that point I ended the relationship.

Am i going to mention the times she gets angry and begin to damage my properties? Anything she gets her hands on she will destroy it. We all heard about Tonto Dikeh damaging properties worth millions of Churchill's.

The ultimate question is, why didn't I just leave the relationship, answer is, beside her bad moments she's a nice person. Plus I had to endure to keep up the relationship. Now it would be even more difficult for married people.

I am no way encouraging physical abuses by men, but before you crucify the man, have you considered what the man has been through?

No man should raise his hands on a woman, however we shouldn't be quick to throw the men under the bus either. This man is languishing in prison, some of us wouldn't have been able to walk half a mile in his shoes.

May God give us all compatible partners.

I agree wit u on this one ! Most women can really be provocative , I had a girlfriend that so quick to anger and quite an extreme lover , outta anger she hit me like 2wice good solid slaps , there is a kinda slap that u will receive u will react to it immediatly by slapping back , this kept happening until she made me loose it one particular day , I land my own back outta anger and nxt thing she said was I hit her and she started callin her friends dat I slapped her , those ones too begin insult me for phone not knowin I was still around the house why she kept the phone on speaker ... Thing is guys wen she start misbehaving just leave the environment that moment before person commit murder outta anger

goldenfresh:
Has anybody that is waitlisted by TUT gotten any offer of admission?

I think from June

Celebrities and broken homes

Invincible cabals

chizyraky:
If it is ENIC/NARIC then why are others schools not affected afterall they all started admission same time. Some even started later than they did.

ENIC /naric is delayin recently cos of there work load

chizyraky:
hahahaha...you don see am nah. although if u judge from the time they wrapped both applications and receiving of docs, it is 1month +.

Dem slow shaa and this is actually the reason why Egypt route seems abortive for BSc students, cos if they give admissions on time someone can actually have at least 3 or 4 moths to process his/her TRP in Egypt before September.

I think the delay is from ENIC/NRIC as they are aving so many applicant this year

chizyraky:
19th January,2017. Sent my docs on the 16th of January through DHL then I got their conditional acceptance on the 19th.

and it took 4 months to av an interview ni

Admission process seems slow this year , Enic/nric is takin time to give feedback this period cos of many applicants..

Na so them bundle me and my friend right outside the gate of my friend and ordered us to enter there can that we are the ones causing problems in the community and ask for the receipt of my phone and I asked the officer if he walks about with the receipt of his on phone and he tried to slap me , we tried not to enter the van until they cock d gun and we hopped in right away .. Na so dem dey pick people one by one for street , passenger is waiting for conductor to collect change them pack both of dem together enter bus ... We got to station. And we were asked to call whoever we know to bail us .....

Wat of psquare ??

Hahah who know weda na one of banky or etomi family memeber dey bash bovi like that wit a fake handle

LostCity:
No need trekking, call Uber Lol

hahaha which Skool u dey now

LostCity:
go ask Estonia embassy in Cairo

ok na to trek go there be dat

LostCity:
And for my experience there, it was hell in a cell.

Degree students, Estonia embassy in Cairo won't give you visa,They only give visa to MSc students.

you as a degree student, you're not sure when your Trp go ready,imagine spending two months in Cairo with an uncertainty whether to give you Trp or Not.

just follow India ,within 12 days you are off like others.
Egypt route is hell for degree students but very economical .

why is Egypt not giving visas to degree students

mavinc4u:
Wow. Poor guy. There is a way to check it. Why didn't he check that before travelling. To be honest, a lot of people in naija are with fake driver's license without knowing, you will only find out when you check yours.

no be small thing , Estonia is we'll organized and disciplined.. Even wen they had problems verifyin my ielts score online due to technical issues , they told me to contact my centre before I even got to my centre I was told the university had already called them to verify my result and in less than 1hr they were also able to access it online

mavinc4u:
Oh my word. He travelled with a naija drivers license or he faked a swedish license?

naija license oo , I wonder weda na must to drive for Estonia , the thing is how person wan take know original naija license wen almost everybody na agent to get license ..

mavinc4u:
Lol, started spoiling naija image in esti? Are they high on something?

off course they have deported some naija guys for acing a fake drivers license last year , luck ran out of him and the license was sent to naija embassy in Sweden for verification and they said it was fake .. I will advise us not to travel with any naija license if u are not sure it's original

Apostle no go let this thing die down ni , wat kinda of apostle his he self , was Christ not accused wrongly ?

He will come out and say the media mistook his statement .. Weda u av account or not isn't our problem pls provide good governance , all this talk that touches d heart is not want we want to hear , weda u no get shoe or u wear watch for 17yrs I don't know how this's talks relate to produce good governace ... Oga how do u recieve salary by cash ? Or u loot money and keep in d house since u no get account

Yes , since 2 weeks now ... We are not just getting it right in this country and I wonder who are the beneficiaries for the interbank rate of 306

krispycash:
Why haven't they arrested the ex SGF for diverting funds

ask em ooo foolish organisation .. Before we dey claim it was true dat they wanted to raid his house , comic government !!

zerozeroone:
I'm also awaiting interview date.emailed them still no response

prolly they avnt gotten feedback from ENIC / NRIC .. But ask for updates once a while

olaskul:
She dey mentally unstable and she dey act movie... hmmm

u think say mentally unstable only mean wen person dey kolo like mad man ?

This man forget say na Edo babe him marry sha !!

zerozeroone:
@miles.check the meaning of material before u start behaving like........let me hold myself up.I believe we are all adults and should act as such.thanx

boss n joke I dey oo , but in this case documents is the suitable word in this context .. U don't see the word materials used even on official website of most embassies .. Wat u see is required documents to be submitted or presented... We dey learn !!

our9ja:
Why u go say him wan sow cloth

haha na play I dey oo , documents is the best word to use instead of material .. Dey way him write am be like say na plumber work him wan go do

zerozeroone:
Hello room.can someone please help with which material to present at Estonia embassy in either Egypt or India.thank you

. Material or documents ?? U wan go sow cloth for Indian embassy ?

pman06:
OK, we dey here dey watch. But when GTB and access dey charge 375/$ how interbank rate con be 306/$ na him I no know.

Cbn stopped selling dollars to dem recently .

We av lost our collective sense of wat governance is in this country , if majority of the population hasn't given Buhari a pass mark then it means he hasn't done anythin over the years ! Why attacking bisi who spoke some sense despite been a party member as well ! Who people say they will compel Buhari to continue in 2019 baffles me , on wat grounds or records should he continue in 2019 ?

And we are here celebrating bbn naija mates like say dem win World Cup !!

No wonder gtbank increased its exchange rate same as the black market rate due to d suspension ... May God have mercy on us in this country , not seems to be working customers are alys at the receiving end and helpless !

This niccur no just sabi snap pics , his alys lookin like a jjc !