₦airaland Forum

GeniusWannabe:
The real cause of suicide isn't money. It's people! Some people just treat others like crap without even caring about their mental states. Talk of why people die in silence. It's because there's almost always no one to trust as people are so judgmental, without compassion and the desire to support.

Please guys if you notice something strange about someone around you, and you feel you have the ability to approach, don't judge and run into hasty conclusions. Just approach them and try to know what's wrong. Some people just need someone to talk to but their insecurities won't let them open up. If they don't give you the response you desire or they come off as rude, simply back off. At least you've done your part, but never try to make them feel bad because you think they're strange. You don't know them completely.

Show love to people, in any way you can, and trust me, the rate of depression and suicide will reduce significantly.

Thank you for the lovely message.

starbuck:
To die hungry am biko, no be the lecturer's fault

Hmmm

Lovelyn451:
I won't add shimgbai

When one think of the way one goes to school, one will not want to add. The students of nowadays are very lazy and disrespectful. Some do not even know what brought them to school.
But i discovered something. Let God fight for you and leave them alone. If i am the one, i will add.

sathel:
Can You imagine?

And all this ones too go finish school and NYSC go post dem go schools to go and teach student..Wetin dem wan teach?? How to hide pistols? Or how to be rugged??

Gaddamit

I wondered also, especially that aspect of ruggedness.

Mustsucceed:
That's your business dear ...your call ..if you were truly intelligent and hardworking "lecturers " who don't know shit"won't have frustrated you ..if you had manners which obviously u don't or carried your self well no one will victimize you ...

Very true.

Odisweet:
the attitude which some ladies give to guys who approach to woo them is actually uncivilized. I'm a student and I've seen this many times especially on campus. A lady should be happy that many guys come her way for relationship but at the same time, should not allow her happiness to turn to pride. Some ladies because they feel they are beautiful and deserve a better guy than the dude standing before her, will not even respond to the guy's greeting let alone appreciate his kind words for her. I think that a lady can politely turn down a guy's approach without ruffling feathers or making the guy depressed for the whole day. if as a lady, you're in haste for a place and an unfortunate guy comes around at such time, you can politely tell him that you're in hurry to have any conversation or even if you are not in hurry and listened to him, your reply could be that you are in serious relationship that you wouldn't want to jeopardize. with such reasonable reply, you give the guy hope that it's not because of his height, pocket or look that you're refusing (even if it's indeed the reason, at least it shouldn't appear so). the guy could conclude that another lady might have his time or not be in relationship and then accept him. Being polite in response to people's requests even if they are beggers will help reduce SUICIDE, DEPRESSION, INFERIORITY VIEW OF ONESELF (which will limit the person's potentials) HOMOSEXUALITY, BISEXUALITY, LESBIANISM,etc. We just need to emulate English peeps' way of responding to issues of relationships.

What you wrote there is fantastic. Waw o. Please which school are you attending? Is like the school is working well on you. Which course also? Because I am thinking of doing my master abroad but what you typed there will make me do it in your school.

Martinez39:
If it's clearly a mistake then I would pardon you even before you ask for forgiveness but if it were deliberate at the time of offence and you later say you are sorry, I no go gree.

Example of offences that I wouldn't forgive if I were in the position to forgive:
1) Cheating in a relationship.
2) Looking down on me, giving me attitude or treating me like trash because I am poor. If it happened that I became rich and you come begging, I would show you the door and maintain the distance between us. To eat from my plate, you must merit it.
3) Killing someone intentionally for a stupid reason.
4) Disrespect, bad behaviour and betrayal in friendship.
5) many more.

One thing you must know is that people's grasp on life and their ideologies may change but their basic nature will not. The christian today may be the atheist of tomorrow but the psychopath of today will surely be the psychopath of tomorrow. Let people learn to take responsibility for their actions. People cannot just act anyhow and expect to have it swept under the carpet. If you forgive the snake, it will still bite you over and over. Same with bad humans.

No 2 is very common in Nigeria society. Looking down on someone.Just like someone they once looked down on yesterday because of money, now today they cant pay the person money or service he is rendering them. Nigerian are full of arrogance and they dont like to help their fellow humans.

Unreasonable men and women. I can easily spot someone that is unreasonable.
A person without character and respect.
Man know man other known as connection. I will rather die doing menial work than for me to give you money to get job for me.

Hmmm

A Lady posting picture showing her buttock. I think character is better than your buttock.
Ladies wearing leggis in public showing the shape of their vagina and buttock are highly childish and immature.
Working hard for someone and owing your salary for 5 to 15days.

Lovelyn451:
They go use lale dirty their leg

Madam, believe it or not. Hausa/Fulani has the most beautiful women in Nigeria. They are very humble and contented. Na North I did my NYSC. So i observed them a lot.

mcrannon@gmail.com

Hmmm.

I am so curious about how God lift a man. President Buhari is a sign of a person that God is with. There is really something about the family we don't know. It is God that lift this man.

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Before you call the boss a racist, you should instead be curious to know what those black dudes did. How dare you offend a white man when we all know that God doesn't create us the same. It's no longer a news that we're inferior to these white folks. They've demonstrated that to us in a billion ways. An act of respect and humility for the Chinese boss would have averted that.



I understand the angle in which you derive your point. Scientifically and technologically, they are ahead of us. But that should not justify him to do what he did.

I am not sure it is the Fulani. there is a clash between obiaruku and Amai people over land.

The issue of change of admission letter is becoming a very major challenge for undergraduate in Nigeria University.

The issue of change of jamb admission letter has been a big challenge to Undergraduate in Nigeria University. Admin., pls put this to the front page

[quote author=sinaj post=49719817]This is just not right.


I cnt withstand the pain of candle wax on my skin let alone burning someone to death.

shortgun:
I fear who no fear woman

Even De Broglie throughout his life fear ........but the question is how we wan do this thing na? d most incomprehensible thing about d universe is dat it is very comprehensible. This life is so easy but we men insist on making it difficult- Confucius