₦airaland Forum

Divay22:
I don't know the girl next door you're referring to thou.

funmisticqueen:
First of all let me define what the opposite of a safe abortion is. An unsafe abortion is the termination of a
pregnancy by people lacking the necessary skills, or in an environment lacking minimal medical standards, or both.

EVERY YEAR, millions of women lose their lives or sustain some form of disability due to unsafe abortion. In countries where abortion is legalised, the rates of deaths and disability from unsafe abortion is lower than countries like Nigeria where it against the law.

You say that life begins at conception, not birth, till today that argument has not been proven. it only depends on how good you are at debate.

In cases where a pregnancy is at a detriment to the health and well being of the mother and it happens more often than you know, should the pregnancy be allowed to continue? what of cases of rape and incest? should the woman alone bear responsibility?

My opinion on this is simple as long as they are in the right state of mind, women should be the one to make informed decisions concerning the fate of a pregnancy, yes she can have input from her partner if it is beneficial to her or both of them. Only you know how the shoe pinches you.

To those against the legalisation of SAFE abortions, let me hear your views like civilised adults. Insults will not be tolerated, body shaming will not be bothered with a reply.
let's begin.

Colourich:
You can keep doing your abortions, but Nigeria ain't gonna legalize abortion.


I'm pro life.

Divay22:

Amakababe:
It's not secret that most if not all nigerian men are scum. Wicked heartless and stingy.
Yesterday, a guy slapped his alleged lover because she wanted to fry eggs common eggs.
Rubbish!
I just fried 4 and ate them all, yes, I didn't touch your eggs stingy nigerian men.
And PS any man that dares lays his hands on me or any of my close female friends will regret been born nonsense.

cruchenutii:
Last time I checked, you aren't her maker/creator to determine if she will die or not. So?

cruchenutii:
Madame, do you live in Nigeria? Do you live in Lagos? Abuja or Port Harcourt?

Do you know the cost of living for one person as opposed to, a person + a baby?

Do you know if these drugs she has taken has damaged or deformed the child itself?

Please let her see a proper Doctor / Nurse & If she can still remove the baby in peace without damaging her womb. Let her proceed.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Well, whatever beef you guys have should be settled. Stop the hate speech. It doesn't help.
You both are mature, quit behaving like kids.
If you do not know, Elder001 is a feminist, hence his views and ideas does not conform with so many persons on here. He is not gay.

Mimi, how're you?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. He's not gay.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You both make same comments about women being nothing and offering nothing but sex.

He comments the same way you do. But I just remembered, he's based in Nigeria and you're outside the country. He's a show-off.

Keluong:
Why call her a b1tch you idi0t?

graciously03:
with money...you can do all things

Olatara:
Even if it stealing, kidnapping and prostitution. Hmmmm! you are right.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Actually, it's 'I'm not gay' and not the way you typed it.

Well, to answering that, I do not understand what you meant. He only asked that you meet him. No sexual matter was discussed between both of you, was it?

You know I have a feeling you might be one 'Shugarlord213' here on Nairaland, am I right?

Timekeeper:
I know guys can have sex with a lady bearing in mind that he can never marry her as wife.. What about ladies, Can u have sex with your boyfriend knowing fully in your mind that he can't marry you or you can't marry him as a husband? Ladies come in and contribute..... I mean the guy isn't a random guy oo, he is ur Boyfriend but you know he is not gonna be your husband, can let him keep having sex with you.

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UyaiIncomparabl:
Actually, it's 'I'm not gay' and not the way you typed it.

Well, to answering that, I do not understand what you meant. He only asked that you meet him. No sexual matter was discussed between both of you, was it?

You know I have a feeling you might be one 'Shugarlord213' here on Nairaland, am I right?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Hahahaha. What na? Cut the guy some slack.
Don't threaten people like that. Whatever he did, forgive him.

YomzzyDBlogger:
@YomzzyBlog.com

Nollywood Actress, Adesua Etomi-Wellington covered the Latest Edition of Genevieve Magazine and her husband, Banky W could not help but gush over his lovely wife.

He wrote;

"�‍♂️ I feel like I hit the jackpot and married the most beautiful lady in Nigerian history. Inside and Out. Pls argue with ya ancestors. � Congrats on the new cover @genevievemagazine & @adesuaetomi-Wellington lol Love it ������"

Gists via: http://www.yomzzyblog.com/2018/07/banky-w-gushes-over-his-wife-as-she.html

mibrims:
Bro so how far with d woman u did all dat for? This not actually my 1st time treating a woman right buh I think they prefer lies and deceit.

mibrims:
Bro so how far with d woman u did all dat for? This not actually my 1st time treating a woman right buh I think they prefer lies and deceit.

MISEDUCATIONS:
look at this confused Hanseel. one day he is pro-men the next day he is pro-women. just a hoe trying to keep both sides satisfied. in politics uncommited people like you are avoided.
niggah pick a side and fight for it. you cant one day support women and the next day support men. no cant do.

are you a Feminist or Men's Rights Man ?? because you cant be both. thats being a Whòré.

Elder001:
Yeah. I thought they want independent ladies? How come they don't want to share house chores?

Nigerian men really need to restructure their minds.

Keluong:
Will you be there to help her look after the child? She has made her decision to abort, why don't you take your sentimental pseudomoral advice elsewhere. Hypocrites in here

enuk80:
This op must be the greatest liar of all time. I don't believe what op wrote. He just wanted people to comment on his post which I just did

mibrims:
Pls advise! My gal is a corper since April in another state, I’m yet to serve.. we av bin 2geda for 3yrs+ since uni days.. been payin her bills since then, ranging frm buying phone60k, shopping both designer pef, customize jersey and xpensive tins,house rent in sch. Lodging and flexing as big boi wey i be. Buh I cant remember her giving me 1kobo, apart frm the time I was arrested in sch dat she borrowed 2bail me which i payed bak 6 months after I left Nigeria. Now m back 4my Nysc n tins ar a bit hard. I had scheduled my service to November being dat I could not join her in April batch. I’m in the east Wia I come frm while she serves in the West Wia she comes frm. We missed each other so much dat she got opportunity to visit during ileya period. We spent time together and over 100k having fun. She did shopping as usual and went back to her state of service. I put my remaining change into business and became a Lil broke hoping to bounce back b4 November 2get ready for service. I also sent half of the self corn money she rented Wia she’s serving sef. To my greatest surprise my name came out for service this July and m dead broke. I complained to her and she promised to gimme 5k to buy thins for camp wen she’s paid alawee. She was paid and her bank delayed. She became sick and asked me to borrow her 3k to pay back when she resolves the bank issues. Today she called and sounded happy to have resolved the ish and dint even ask for my acc num to pay back cos she promised to knowing my condition. Well giv her time or 4get buh I decided to whatsapp her my acc num b4 she will say money don finish. Now she’s asking if 4K is ok cos she has a lot to do with money.. CAN U IMAGINE?? Minus and plus dats means I’m jst getting 1k frm this gal all these years?? She noticed my disappointment after a brief chat and sent 8k saying she planned to even snd 10k for my camp, day she will look for the remaining 2k dat she’s broke already. Now m feeling like the bad and gready person here.. note I put her on monthly stipend and she has borrowed a lot frm me in the past without paying.. see person i planned to marry..

Hanseel1:
A lady is working doesn't mean she's independent.

You guys have a wrong understanding of “financial independence ”.


My IQ reduced a bit because of your message.

Hanseel1:
Nigerian men/guys are confused.
Y'all will be complaining that women are too demanding, yet you'll still approach dependent ladies.
Young man are you trying to tell me that there are no independent ladies in the city you reside in?

What exactly do you guys want? Tomorrow you'll open threads on nairaland detailing how the so called girl friend is too demanding and becoming a leech.

A student has no business with a relationship. She should focus on her studies.

If truly you're working, then I assume you're not a kid so why should you be dating a kid who's still schooling?

And even if she's still schooling, why should she be dependent on you? Doesn't she have parents to depend on?

Mr. Man your mentality isn't ripe for a relationship. Focus on your career.

I give up on Nigerian men/guys!

BabbanBura:
Even the fully independant become fully dependant at the sight of date proposals - i have a friend (not dating her though) working in an oil company, we went out for dinner. I realised i left ma ATM card in the car cos we went in hers. So i transferred more money into her account than the bill they later gave us and she paid the bills, to pay me back ma balance of about 30k became wahala woo. i remind her tire before one day she open up and said "i thought you were joking when you asked me to transfer the balance"!
OP, you may be lucky, your chances are small though, to get a real good girl who will understand and build life with you rather than suck you trowey.