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Dear mama


Letter to my unborn child



Those songs are my pills

WTF is wrong with t+the world? How do men really get erection from their own blood? I thought d!ck doesn't stand if the hole is a blood.

We don't patronize our heritage. People from afar do..

Why are our ladies brainless?

The b!tch deserves just more than what she has received.
Why pack your sh!ts to someone's house who is not married to you?
Leeches everywhere...

MariaLavina:
Accept your journey in life as a unique one, different from your course mates. Look deeper into your soul, search for your being, accept it, love it and do everything you can to make it a better one. Love yourself, treat yourself tenderly and watch your path clear.

Love and pay for attention to yourself than your hatred for women. I wish you success

Thanks a lot.

GODPUNISHUNA:
I really hope you are like this in real life and not just pretending to be this nice and good on the internet.

It seems you are really one of the few ones that have a heart. Have a lovely day

trust Henitan24 at ur own peril.
Women are perfect pretenders.

Women are deadly mostly the ones that act the 'good girl' sh!t.

MariaLavina:
Phew! What a story....

Now I see the importance of having both genders in a family ( You understand their behaviours and how to deal with them better)

@Mimimile93...It's a big shame you had to learn the ways of Women in a rather harsh and inconvenient pattern., If only you had Sister, Niece or close women figure you would have understood them better and wouldn't have fallen prey. You were soft with ladies, treated them like eggs, you gave them so much regards, care and attention even at your tender age because you believed they are different. And when you grew up in your macho opinion you created a false sense of authority ( breaking up when they cheated ) only to fall back into your weakness for them after a short period of time ( Getting engaged with another lady barely 2 weeks) That isn't a sign of Strength but your dependent nature on woman for completion. Your problem didn't start in a day but since you were child ( If only you had women in your life )


As for your ex girlfriend ,Who am I to judge you? I'm not you, you aren't me, our level of self control, absorbance, tolerance and reactions to negativity are and will never be the same. But one thing I know is I would have never gone far. Killing her can never bring me peace or all I've lost but would rather bring a burden of being a murderer on me. I would have allowed Nemesis catch up on her, be a better person and showed off at her. That would have hurt her more. Death is too good a punishment for some people. But then who am I to judge.

Lastly Mister, Hate is to huge a burden to bear, Let go of your burden, clear your mind of your pasts and move on. Accept your mistakes and focus on the future. Because that is the most important thing. Let me open your heart today, No matter how much you talk I'll of women, hate them or judge them, They will never cease to exist. So why waste so much energy on hating something you can't change instead of getting your own inner peace.

thank you.
I pray I get over it.
It's not easy for me oo.
Especially whenever and see my course mates the level they are now in life it hurts. I don't envy them tho

Henitan24:
Hmmmm I never judged or despised your action/revenge, what I did was to allow you to see the mistake you made in order for you not to repeat it again but you successfully turned the table against me. Just be good

yeah u didn't judge.
Read it well. I said u wanted knowing my story.

Am sorry girl

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I never judged you. Don't turn this table on me pls

hey! I never said u judge me. I only said u were interested in knowing why I hate y'all.

Am sorry girl.

@ y3mi it seems u are d only person dat undastnds dat part I said I fell in love at a young age. Go to nursery/primary schools today and make research u will discoved dat those kids know what is love and boyfrnd girlfrnd stuffs even dan d adlut.

A lady here said am proud to come to a faceless forum to say I killed someone.

How would I be proud that I killed someone? Sometimes I weep for what I did. To be sincere with u, there are times I will have feelins for d girl I killed and I will weep for what I did.

I only get her off my mind whenever I exhibit hatred to women.

I never wanted to bring my story here because I know a lot of people here are chief judges who judge people by the page they walked into the person's life.

People like @ angelboy01 @ ekanempatrick28 @ Henitan24 @ NwanyiAwkaetiti are the reason I posted this thing here.
They were interested in knowing why I killed and hate women.
@ ekanempatrick28 and @ Henitan24 even sent me their contacts since they were bend on knowing what happed.
I wanted to send them via emails since I felt uneasy posting here but to avoid another person asking me the same question I had to post it here.

I don't know why some people just judge others anyhow.

Whatever makes you happy and does not hurt others or offend your God. Do it...

Rityonyi:
All drivers employed to drive tear rubber car approach her no time to waste as you already have the ticket she need. Yea she is cheap like that.

My dear men will only see you as mere tool the use to ease tension.

Olosho without brain

An average naija girl thinks the way this Jackson who.re thinks..

They want brand new everything yet their poosies are old smelly cargos

mary4:
Yaa Jackson has disclosed that now she will only pay attention to guys driving brand new cars.

She says she’s no longer interested in those who are driving second-hand cars, so we bet you can imagine the fate of those who don’t even own a car at all.

Yaa Jackson, who is just about 19 years old made this revelation in a video she posted on her Instagram account.

The teen actress who started acting about the same time with Maame Serwaa has also ventured into music and even has her first single out.

Wearing a shirt with its buttons opened, exposing parts of her round b000bs, the actress disclosed that, this time around girls like herself are no longer interested in dating broke guys, so if any guy wants to date her, the person should be ready to buy her brand new clothes and must drive a brand new car.

We are just hoping she didn’t mean that literally as her first single is titled ‘Tear Rubber’

source : https://www.made4naija.com/2018/07/if-you-are-not-driving-a-tear-rubber-car-dont-approach-me-ghanaian-actress-photos/

What does she has to offer a man?

BleSSedMee:
Oga, please calm down. This here happened in India.

Yeah! I know it's in India.

If it was in Nigeria it would have been worse.

Naija women (the ones born from the 80s) are the worst set of creatures on earth.

My middle finger is always on a standing ovation for naija women..

AgbitiOnne:
you are very stup*id for referring to our mothers with such derogatory words.
That you have come in contact with some women who behaved badly to you does not give you the audacity to generalize.
Mr. man be Warned

When I say women, I mean the ones born from the 80s.

Sorry sir..

Partnerbiz3:
Me eat snake?
Maka why naa...?
I always feel that animal will always be harmful...

But not harmful to the tommy

Swiftlee:
There is this lady I really like so much but one major turn off I have with ladies is been over weight or too fat or surplus! I don't know how I can tell her to try and reduce her weight as ladies don't like been told that they are fat. I once did that and became an automatic enemy with one lady. Help me!!

Take her to gym every weekend.

I never took yeyebrities relationships serious..

EntertainingYou:
How to deal with a break up and smile!

Your will power and your determination is the only thing that matters when it comes to moving on after a break up. Nothing else will help you, not your friends and not a string of flings. Hold your ground, convince yourself that you’re ready to move on and get away from the pain. And use these steps to move on and deal with a break up.

#1 Don’t write letters. There’s always a constant itch to get in touch with an ex. When you feel down, when you listen to a romantic song, or even when you’re drunk. But hold that thought. Never try to get in touch with an ex unless you’re just bumping into them accidentally. It’ll weaken your resolve to get over your ex.

If you find yourself writing a long email to your ex, write it if you must but don’t send it. Hold on to that draft copy overnight. When you wake up in the morning, you’d realize that it was just a weak moment and you don’t really want to send the email anymore. By waiting a while, you’d be able to feel stronger about your own resolve. The same rule can be applied to phone calls and texts too.

If an uncontrollable urge to call or text your ex overwhelms you, don’t stop yourself. Instead, just convince yourself that you’ll call the next morning if you still feel like it. Each time you put away a phone call or an email, you’d feel more confident about getting over your ex and moving on.

#2 Deal with the addiction. Exes are an addiction, just like any other serious life threatening addiction in the world. And the worst part here, is that you can’t really cut down a little bit at a time. You have no choice but to go cold turkey and avoid all contact. It will hurt and you will feel terrible, but you’ll feel better a week later, and even better another week later.

Treat your ex like a bad addiction, and learn to deal with the break up. It’ll help you when you start to see your ex as something that’s bad for your life.

#3 The evil selfish ex. [/b]Let’s face it, if your boyfriend or girlfriend dumps you, they’re evil *at least in your head*. If your ex gets rude or yells at you when you try to talk to them, or if they ignore you, or if they look at you with spite and disgust each time you walk up to them, you have every right to believe that they’re evil, selfish little devils. But you know what, you can’t blame them for it.

Your ex doesn’t like you anymore, they despise you. Of course, they could be nicer and try to be more understanding. But you can’t expect every ex to hold you by the hand and help you find the way out. A few exes prefer tripping you and kicking you where it hurts. Hate them for it. But deal with it. And get over it.

[b]#4 Replay your relationship. While you sitting alone and staring at a wall or an empty glass of wine, replay the relationship in your head. Pick the mistakes and the flaws in the relationship, and try to see where things started falling apart.

But remember to pick the mistakes, not the pieces of the relationship. The love affair is over. What you need here is to try and figure out where you went wrong, and where your partner hurt you. Were you trying too hard to please, insecure, clingy, or were you just too busy with your own life? And about your ex, try to pick their flaws too, so you don’t fall for another person with the same flaws again.

#5 Don’t force yourself. For the first week or so, don’t bother trying to convince yourself that you’re over your ex. Just let life take its course. Do your best to get over your ex by keeping yourself occupied, but don’t force your mind to forget your ex. You may be successful in bottling the thoughts, but they’ll always come back now and then in surges that will hurt you more.

#6 Stay miserable. Allow yourself to feel miserable and hurt. But time yourself and keep an eye on the calendar. Give yourself about three weeks to get over your ex. Mark the date on your calendar with a big red marker.

Think about your ex for those three weeks, but constantly remind yourself that at the end of these three weeks, you’ll wake up the next morning and completely overcome the sadness you’re feeling. Keeping a date marked on the calendar can psychologically prepare you to get over your ex. And at times, your wound may heal even before those three weeks!

#7 Fantasize the high road revenge. There are two types of fantasies you can think about after a break up, the I-wish-we-could-get-back fantasy, and the I’ll-get-even-with-you fantasy. Don’t try anything below the belt like spreading naked photos or cheap comebacks like that, it’s not fair and you’ll never forgive yourself for years if you even have the slightest semblance of a conscience.

Take the higher road. Convince yourself that you’ll put your focus and energy into other positive things, so that one fine day, many years from now, you’d do something spectacular with your life. And fantasize scenarios where you’d run into your ex. It’s not fair, but it helps for the moment. And odds are you may forget all about this a few years later. Don’t know what I mean? Go watch Cee Lo’s F*ck you on youtube. Fantasizing about success and exes makes the dreams of success so much sweeter!

#8 Laugh like a crazy person. For the first few weeks, don’t convince yourself you’re happier. Just wallow in your self pity and depression. But once you wake up one day and feel better, a few weeks later, laugh! Feel the happiness well within you. Realize how good you feel. It takes a while, but you’ll feel it when you’re ready. Listen to happy songs, watch funny movies, and laugh out loud. When you’re ready to move on from your sad state, your mind will be more than happy to help you have a nice time.

#9 Curiosity and the no contact rule. The no contact rule is really important. You can use all the other steps and follow it to the tee, but if you screw up here, you’ll be back on square one in no time. Have you ever looked for your ex’s facebook page sometime *just to see what they’re doing*?

The first time you take a peek at your ex’s page, you won’t think too much about it. But as time goes by, you’d end up visiting their page more and more often, until you realize you’re addicted to the idea of wanting to know more about you ex. There’s no escaping your ex once you get wrapped up in the curiosity of knowing more. Avoid it. Don’t stay in contact, and don’t go looking for information either.

#10 Get better and sexier. Have a life, go on out there and enjoy yourself. Sitting by yourself in the corner of the room will never make you feel better. Date others or at least meet a few interesting dating potentials that catch your fancy. Remember, you’ll have a very difficult time moving on if you find out that your ex is dating someone new, especially if you aren’t getting flirty with someone else already.

Work out and get fit. You’ll look better, and the endorphins released in your body will make you feel more upbeat and look sexier.

A heartbreak isn’t the end of the world. Sometimes, as hard as you try to prevent it, break ups are inevitable. What you do next and how you pull yourself together to deal with the break up makes all the difference between a person who experiences a break up, and a broken lover who gives up on a chance to have a happy life again.

Also Read- " 13 ways to Tell a Girl You Like Her Over Text Without Sounding Cheesy "

Read Here- https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/03/29/13-ways-tell-girl-like-text-without-sounding-cheesy/


Source:https://www.newsvilla.com.ng

It's easier said than done..

loveformercy:
Self-dating!!! Mind you, being a very close friend to someone is not dating.....Until you hear a very verbal "YES", you are not dating...Body language is no guarantee, it could be a deceiver.....When you toast a lady & she becomes too close to you, never take it that she has said yes until you hear a very clear & verbal "YES" from her.

Assumption is a time waster...you are assuming that you are dating & other suitors are passing bye.

Assumption is the mother of all FVCK UPs.
He assumed the bae was into him.

I thought military and paramilitary personnel don't protest or go on strike..
WTF! Nigeria is a ..........

VP Osibande, Chude said I should tell you that they are disappointed.

omoniomoade:
the father is indian?

Your head dey dia...
You care for a chilled beer?

Wow! Her daughter is everything and more.
Meanwhile, the father should carry out DNA test on her.
I don't trust em cooches

If the guy knows what he's going to get himself into he'd want to remain how he was..

Erection has put so many niggas in poo.

Bhelamblog:
A Young man is currently confused after loosing his job, his client. Now According to him, He had some business to do with the man but then his wife was trynna bang him, So he turned her down, Only for the Husband to call him days after that he has lost his job, and should refund the money he was paid...

The confused guy shared the story on his page, And Some people are liking it to the story of Joseph, Anyway see below!


Gossip From Ebiwali---
http://www.ebiwalisgossip.com/2018/07/man-get-sacked-by-his-boss-after-he.html

Women can do the unthinkable

4FACEADELEKE:
She just wanted to show off here or find a subtle means to put your life in a mess again.Nigerian women are evil,home and abroad stay away from them.

Oh! Is even a woman?

Thank goodness I didn't go to visit her.
She wants everybody here to know she's in Thailand.
So many people go abroad like toilet yet the don't make noise.

The way she was so quick to send me her Thailand address and ordered me to come see her in 20mins time I knew she had an agenda.

Hanseel1:
You aren't living in Thailand
I wasted my time because of you. Do you've to lie just to make a point?

You wasted your time because of me, how?
In what way?
You jumped on my mention and called me a clown then told me to meet you at Wire Rd when I get there I should pm you.

An hour later you quoted me again, dropping your address and told me to meet you in the next 20mins that you will be going out.

You cared less to know if I was busy or not.
I should just leave what I was doing and come and see you for what? Are you the one paying my bills that you would order me to come and see you giving me time? Are you the king of Thailand? Who are you?

What you did, to me I saw it as either you have a hidden agenda or you just wanted to show off here.
That was why I ignored you.

I don't trust Nigerians staying abroad.

Next time learn how to approach people.
You don't just order a total stranger to come see you ok.

Good afternoon and have a nice day!

Priscy01:
A Nigerian man who has been married to his wife for 15 years died of high blood pressure as a result of the shocking confession made by his wife about cheating on him.

According to reports gathered by ToriMill, the wife went to meet his husband in Ughelli, Delta State when he suddenly faint that night. The man was being rushed to the hospital but gave up the ghost on the way to hospital.

After mourning the husband for just two months, she decided to forget about him and move on with her life. This July making it a year that her husband died, the woman went to meet her late husband's family to tell them she has many boyfriends when her husband was alive.

The woman who was said to be work for Local Government Council and also has a store at Koko Garage Market told the her late husband's family that she should be served because she has a new boyfriend less than 6 months after the loss of her husband.

She also told the her husband's family that it was as a result of the confession she made to her husband led to his tragic death in Ughelli.

https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/man-died-of-heart-attack-after-his-wife-confessed-to-him-that-she-cheated.html

till tomoro no one has been able to figure out the real reason(s) why women cheat.

If you know you can't stay with one d!ck for the rest of ur life why marry?