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Goodlyhrt:
People keep on slating me reminding me how unfortunate i am physically, telling me how grateful i should be if i should get a girl to atleast hug me talk more getting intimate with her.


If i say nw that i dont want to talk to anyone nw make evrbdy dey im lane people wil cal me a loner, ok make i talk nw dey wont respct demselves and stop saying what doesnt consign them.


Infact i dnt knw why people hate me saying al dis sensitive tings making me feel hurt evry nw and then.


I start regreting bein alive sef.


If i chase woman dem go talk, ok, if i go xvideos dem go stil talk. shuuu! no be testicles wey i cary so abi na for fancy.


you dnt knw how depresd i am ryt nw

ugandalady:
it is a highly philosophic question.

although dicks grow on men”s bodies, they should belong to us, women.

men have the right to use it, but we women possess their ownership.

a dick is the natural extension for a woman. the latter claims it for 40 or 50 years” of a man”s life span.

only before marriage, the dick belongs to man. and what use is the dick after kids are begotten？they are no more than the plaything of wives.

so, dicks are something that we women temperarily give men to take care of. they should go back to where they deserve to go, that is, vaginas.

a woman, with a dick in her orifice, is a WHOLE woman.

Chinoy:
It is a well known fact that most couples claim to know their spouse like the back of their hands. Some could go as far as telling you in detail what their spouse loves in terms of food, colour, sizes in shoes and clothes, their dislikes and mood swings. When the chips are down, you hear same spouse

screaming their heads off that they do not know their partner could go do this or that or go to such length. In some cases, some spouses do know their each other to the extent that when they tell you, this is how my husband/wife will react in certain conditions, or handle some matters in certain ways, it is the absolute truth. It is so pathetic that some spouse do not even know who they sleep with daily. They may be nonchalant and since they are married, there is no point in studying or getting to know each other. How well do you know your spouse?

With the increasing alarming rate of killing one’s spouse, it leaves no stone unturned that the victims do not know their spouses well enough before entering into relationship. A man that beats a lady black and blue during courtship will definitely kill her if they get married. There is nothing like “I will change him” or “he will change” or “It is just a matter of time and prayer ”... In as much as God answers prayers, I hope you will be alive to see your prayers answered because if you are six feet under, it will make no impact and you will be singing “had I known, I would have been wiser”. What makes you think you can change an adult and perfect the work his parents could not do. If he/she cannot work on self to be a good or better person, what makes you think you can do the miracle. It is not easy to bend an adult. You must wear perseverance like khaki cloth if that is the path you choose to thread. No wonder, so many heads are rolling in the quest to stay married.
Domestic violence cuts across the globe. In the olden days, men were noted for being easily provoked, violent and man handling their spouse at the slightest opportunity. It was rare to hear that a woman killed her husband. In this computer age , the reverse is the case. Women have grown wings. They have become wiser. They have become learned, even competing and dominating in jobs meant only for men. There are women commercial drivers, engineers, architects, lawyers and so on. They have been empowered and in the process many of them become violent and hard hearted than men.

A woman will serve delicious poisonous food with a straight face with the intention to kill her man. She may be dating a younger man outside and needs absolute freedom to frolic with him and go and come as she so desire. The husband or partner has become a stumbling block and need to be eliminated either by crook or force. Another thing that can trigger killing the spouse is if she finds out he is cheating on her. Most women can not bear the pain. They will resort to killing in other to save their honour. And the spouse will never in his wildest imagination envisage being eliminated by his partner.

Research show that women that murders their men are usually the ones who picked the guys and do thorough clean up on them. The guys agree to marriage so that they can see daily food and some coins to throw around. When you evaluate such relationship, you see that there is no love lost between them. In such cases, the woman is desperate for marriage and the guy being the next available man, before you say “jack”, they are walking down the aisle. If the woman suspects, investigates and find out the man is cheating, you can never imagine what she is capable of doing. It is said that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Such women are capable of killing and it is my candid advice that their husbands should be wise and know when not to cross the boundary. Do not cheat and take care of another woman from her hard earned money because you may get more than you bargained for. In the Western part of Nigeria, a woman recently murdered her spouse... Continued at

http://everydaycountsgist..com/2018/06/how-well-do-you-know-your-spouse.html?m=1

Timewilltell2:
Apart from the ones from horn of Africa . Nigeria has more lighter skin people than kenyans ,ghananians and South Africans. We have more beautiful bodies and can put on nice make up. Is that why the women from these countries try so much to be like us ? . Kenyans look too thin , dark and can't afford good weaves. Ghananians are too dark ,masculine and wear ugly weaves and make up . South Africans are too dark , ugly with no make up and can't afford even the ugliest weaves. Now you understand where all the jealousy comes from .

Countersam:
Just yesterday i saw a casual female friend of mine walk bye with a female friend of hers who wore her NYSC trouser and face cap with a white top. She looked quite attractive to me but i didn't just give a second thought even though they were hanging not far from me.

Today, this my friend just bursted into my office ro ask for my phone number that her friend likes me, i didn't hesitate.

She eventually called, said she likes me (i replied that i feel same way) but that she has left town and will visit me if she returns.

Pls advice i hope she said she likes me isnt to come and snap picture with me or collect autograph

mespusinglez:
My Girlfriend of 8 months said "She Need Time And Space"
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Is She In Any Way Tryna Breakup with me or She Wants To Calculate Velocity?
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Because I Can't Remember Doing Anything Wrong.
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Evening Fellas

Jamariwolff:
How do uou control your sexual urge (without masturbation)I'm tired of being fúcked like a goat, my exboyfriend is very handsome tall and good in his stuff.
Every time i try to be celibate, i keep running back. I find him touching my body everyday at the end of it all.
I'm even turning lesbian little by little.

Pls Help me kill this urge all sexual urge, i need to focus on my books and get a first class please .

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I see where the bitterness is coming from if true. Master your emotions, don't be a slave to them. And I think you should forgive.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I should not check in on my sworn enemy? You are always online though, hope you gat a paying job

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How's Ibadan?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Do good cos u never know tomorrow. Mimimile93 comman help your fellow man

Blessinq1:
She has a twitter account and an android phone na. How won't she wake up and say rubbish. As if pastors are the cause of her problems

kimbraa:
You're just insulting your intelligence and likewise that lady. What she wrote happens to be the dumbest I've read. Logically, it seems she's making sense but economically, who's saddled with the job of running an economy? If she claims pastors amass wealth, aren't these monies in banks? What are the primary functions of banks and the CBN? Need I also remind you that Poverty rate in Nigeria happens to be highest in the North? Islamic States.

Blame your short-sighted government, not pastors.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The package was your pm. Too bad you too green to decode such simple code. No need to pretend. Off course i felt satisfied you sent a pm, I actually laughed out loud.

Chukwudi4naija:
I am shocked too my friend for this to have come from a female Nigerian. I wish I could locate her for dropping this sensatioal enlightenment. Epic I must say.

AreaFada2:
Or if she's Nigerian she must have been shaped by a saner society elsewhere. Because almost any 9ja babe as beautiful as she is will be too busy scoping for a rich guy, including a pastor, to marry rather than have sense like this.

Meekdon:
DAILY POST unmasked the prophet behind the viral audio message, which warned Nigerians to pray against disasters in some certain days.
Prophet Udensi Godlove of Land of Oil Prophetic Ministry (AKA Hill of the Lord), Lagos is the face behind the voice, DAILY POST can authoritatively report.

In the audio, which went viral few weeks back, the fiery preacher specifically warned his congregation, nay, Nigerians to pray and avoid traveling out of Lagos on some certain days.

He said, “I saw a lot of dead people and over flow of blood, please let’s be careful.

“June 23, June 28, July 11, July 24, July 30 and August 1, these days have been marked for evil and disasters.
“Do not travel out of Lagos using any of these transportation companies on these dates.

“Okeyson, Benue Links, Agofure, Young Shall Grow, Air Peace, God is Good, Abia Links, Efosa, GUO.

“On July 22, August 5 and 19, no one should travel out of the state using plane, you can travel with them any other day but on these dates, avoid them, they have been marked for blood,” he had said during one of his services few some weeks back.

Barely one week after his prophecy, over 200 persons were brutally butchered by suspected Fulani
herdsmen in Plateau State on June 23, one of the days he mentioned in his message.
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Just on Thursday, June 28 (another day he mentioned) nine persons were roasted to death and more than 54 vehicles burnt to ashes after a fuel-laden tanker fell on Otedola Bridge along Lagos-Ibadan Expressway and went up in flame, trapping motorists and passengers.

The message was erroneously attributed to Apostle Johnson Suleman of Omega Fire Ministry.pastor3
However, our reporter obtaned the video version of the message where Prophet Udensi warned his members on some impending disasters in Nigeria and how to avert them.

The man of God, whose Church is located on 103 Iju Road beside Ifako Int’l School College Bus Stop, Agege, Lagos, in the video specifically called on Nigerians to be careful and as well be prayerful as the devil as a roaring lion was seeking for those to devour.
He said God is capable of averting the impending tragedies only if ‘we can pray.’

source: http://www.kendogist.com/2018/06/prophet-udensi-pastor-behind-viral.html

zoho23:
Actress Ruth Kadiri is of the opinion that the recent tragedies taking place in Nigeria are spiritual and she has placed curses on politicians, ritualists, and yahoo boys who use human sacrifice to achieve success.
Earlier, she shared a photo of the havoc wreaked by the fuel tanker explosion on Otedola Bridge along Lagos-Ibadan expressway and captioned it: "The spiritual controls the physical... what they have done with our Dear country we do not know... Rip to dead. God help us all. Fellas watch and pray."

In a follow-up post, she addressed politicians, native doctors, ritualists, and Yahoo boys who use human sacrifice for the purpose of winning elections and gaining wealth and power. She said as they have brought death on others, death will not depart from their households.

Read her post below.

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/5b36095587c1e.jpg

https://www.instagram.com/p/BkmnqBJhchB/?hl=en

spycee1:
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According to Twitter user, Alawode James-Jumoke, it is absurd that the country with the highest number of poor people in the world is also home to the richest pastors.
She also faults the pastors who keep amassing wealth rather than using their considerable popularity to influence government policy that will favour their congregation.
Read her tweets below.



https://mobile.twitter.com/oluwaloninyo/status/1011922381164699650


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More @: https://trendinghelm..com/2018/06/this-ladys-tweets-on-nigerian-pastors.html

cococandy:
So his wife is a prostitute?
Plep

PalmchatApp:
Actress Moesha Buodong has been the target of some people because of what they term as her extravagant way of life and depending on men for survival.

The Beautiful screen-diva may have shut critics who are with the mentality that she does not befriend “broke” men.

According to the Instagram goddess, her first boyfriend was a broke man who cheated on her even though she was mad over heels for him.

“My first boyfriend was a man without cash and we were struggling together but he cheated on me severally and got my heart broken. After such experience, I vowed never to date a broke guy.” she told SVTV AFRICA

Watch her Video Here: http://aftrending.com/i-cant-date-a-man-who-doesnt-have-a-car-and-a-house-moesha-boduong/

cococandy:
So his wife is a prostitute?
Plep

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
A what

I won't take u seriously after seeing your pm. My hateful troll sent a pm... Lol, u just another human being. So quite the forming

EntertainingYou:
True love is the true definition of a perfect romance. But it’s not easy to find. Do you see these 12 signs of true love in your own relationship? By Elizabeth Arthur

True love isn’t felt in a heartbeat or in a second glance.

True love takes time to take shape.

And contrary to popular belief, love at first sight isn’t really love at all.

In fact, love at first sight is nothing but an infatuation.

It’s a strong surge of romantic and sexual emotions that overwhelm you.

Before you wonder what true love is all about and what the signs of true love really are, you need to understand that it’s very important to take things slow in a relationship if you want to ensure its success.

When you first start dating someone or fall for someone at first sight, what you experience isn’t love.

As much as you feel like you’re head over heels in love, you really aren’t.

You’re just experiencing the first stage of love, a small part in the stages of love known as the infatuation stage.

What is true love then?

True love, ironically, can’t be defined.

It’s the kind of love many of us chase after, but few truly find or realize it until it’s too late. So what is true love really?

True love is the kind of love and affection you have for someone that isn’t bound by the laws of human behavior. Human behavior is simple to understand. When someone hurts you, you get angry with them. When someone gets lucky or gets a better job, you get jealous of them. And when someone shatters your ego or humiliates you, you want your revenge. This is human behavior, because these traits are engrained within us.

But when you experience true love with someone, your primal instincts and behavior change only towards this person. True love transcends typical human behavior. It makes you a better human being towards a special someone.

When does one experience true love?

True love takes time to bloom. What you experience in the first year or so of a relationship is infatuation and sexual attraction.

As the bursts of infatuation start to fade with the first few arguments and the first few misunderstandings, that’s when love starts to enter the picture. And this is where most couples start to drift away emotionally, or even end up breaking up because of incompatibilities.

If you’re in a relationship where both of you truly understand each other and feel compatible with each other, and most importantly, love each other, chances are, you’re experiencing true love already.

Experiencing true love in your life

Is true love a once in a lifetime experience? Not really. You can experience them many times over, and with many people at the same time. You can experience true love with your spouse or your lover, your children and any other person you’re attached to in your life.

But true love too, can fade with time. For most of us, our first love is the first time we would have experienced the purest form of true love. We aren’t afraid to let this special someone into our heart and we aren’t afraid to experience heartbreak because we still don’t know what heartbreak feels like. We’re fearless in love and we love passionately with all our heart.

But when the first romance dies, the true love we had for our first partner too eventually fades, even if it takes years and several new relationships to overcome. And as we enter more relationships, most of us split into two groups. One that believes in true romantic love and the other group that convinces itself that true love doesn’t exist. The kind of relationships you’ve had in your lifetime can play a big part in your understanding of, and expectations from, true love.

And if you’re wondering whether true love and romantic love are the same, it really isn’t, even though we almost always associate true love with romantic love. True love is love in its purest form, while romantic love needs sexual attraction to stay alive.

True love can’t be forced

True love has to be experienced naturally and wholeheartedly. You can’t fake true love no matter how hard you try. If a couple fails to pass the test of compatibility in their infatuation stage, it’s pretty hard for both of them to ever experience true love.

On the other hand, if both partners can understand each other and relate to each other, they’ll start to love each other’s company and start to become inseparable. And eventually, this bond will turn into a pure and selfless love that we call true love.

The 12 signs of true love in a perfect romance

True love may be hard to define, but the signs to read true love can be clearly seen in every perfect loving relationship.

If you’re in a relationship and want to know if you’re experiencing the purest form of love, use these 12 signs of true love to find out for yourself.

#1 Give and take in love. You give to the relationship wholeheartedly, without any desire or expectations of getting something back in return from your partner to justify your actions.

#2 Pure happiness. Just watching this special person smile or laugh out loud fills you with intense happiness, even if you’re suffering or having a hard day.

#3 Pain and anger. You get terribly hurt when your lover upsets you, but their actions never anger you. You may get annoyed or frustrated now and then momentarily, but you just can’t stay mad at them for long because staying mad or giving them the silent treatment hurts you more.

#4 Sacrifices. You make sacrifices for their happiness or wellbeing, even if they may never realize it.

#5 The right effort. You go to great lengths and make an effort to improve the relationship, and play a conscious part in trying to please your partner and make them feel loved and special.

#6 You can’t ever hurt them. When you’re truly in love with someone, you can’t even imagine hurting them, emotionally or physically. Payback is a strong human instinct, but true love makes you completely selfless.

#7 You keep your promises. When you make a promise to them, you stick to your word even if this person will never find out if you broke their promise. When you experience true love, your moral conscience becomes very strong when it comes to this one special person.

#8 We. In a perfect relationship, it’s good to have your own space to grow as individuals. But at the same time, if you truly love your partner, you’d see them as a part of your life. When you think of your future, you can’t help but see them by your side.

#9 You share their burden. And you do that even if you don’t really have to. You can’t bear to see this special someone suffering. If they’re dealing with some issue, you’re always willing to offer them a helping hand even when you have your own difficulties to look into.

#10 Pride and jealousy. You beam with pride when they achieve something, even if it’s the same thing you failed at. You may get jealous of a friend who outdid you, but when you love someone, jealousy never enters the picture.

#11 Suffering. You’d be willing to suffer, just to see them happy.

#12 Their perspective. Everything you do, you keep your lover in mind and think from their perspective, be it about planning a surprise party or hanging out with your own friends after work. You don’t ever want to hurt your lover, so you always think from their point of view before making any decision that involves them in any way.


Also Read-"Does He Still Love Me? 25 Questions to Find the Truth"


Read Here- https://www.newsvilla.com.ng/2018/03/11/still-love-25-questions-find-truth/


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