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donTbone:

You wanna come worship?

donTbone:
Funny enough... The Bible doesn't specify either to pray eyes open or closed.

But as it stands, closing your eyes while pray helps to focus and ignore distractions. If you are guaranteed that you will be aligned with God, then...

My self as an example, I pray, most times, eyes open and closed at intervals, cos I love to walk while praying(no matter how small the space.) But if am lying or kneeling or just at a spot, then there is no need for me to Open my eyes till am done praying.

Fanirandele:
it is wrong to employ an underage housemaid. if you want to be a foster parent be one but employing a child as a maid is wrong. Nothing wrong with career women and only weak men are threatened . Just employ an adult

Blaqsmith:
Thanks. But I just wanted to be free. I've been a prisoner of my own conscience deceiving her all along. She deserves to know the truth.

But why can't you date an atheist?
Why do you think dating theist is a better choice?
Where is your God when I lost my brother after fervent prayers?
What is your God doing to help the homeless and hungry children on the streets?

Anointed08:
"I will set nothing wicked before my eyes;
I hate the work of those who fall away(sinful people like Porn Stars, Perverts and Nudists);
It shall not cling to me. A perverse heart shall depart from me;
I will not know wickedness"- Psalm 101 vs 3 to 4.

* Pornography is vile and can defile a Christian. Whatever or whoever is defiled attracts destruction! It is a spiritual law- Micah 2 vs 10, 1 Corinthians 3 vs 17.

* Pornography is the work of those who have fallen away from God. They are called porn stars. We are not to show interest in what they do so that we do not become partakers in their sins: "Do not lay hands on anyone hastily, nor share in other people's sins; keep yourself pure"- 1 Timothy 5 vs 22.


* Pornography can corrupt your heart and a corrupt heart cannot find favour with God- Proverbs 17 vs 20.
Prayer from a corrupt heart seldom get answer- Psalm 66 vs 18. With pornography comes masturbation, fornication, incest and taboo, sodomy, paedophilia(having sexual interest in small children/minors), Bestiality(having sex with animal such as dogs, horses, cows, monkeys, e.t.c), rape and so on; all these can corrupt a christian absolutely and God does not want that for His own.

* Wherever there is Pornography materials, unclean spirit will be there! What does unclean spirits command? Deception, Corruption and Destruction! They can corrupt and damage your phone/computer or any gadget where pornography is kept. Can you now see that a life without sanctification is heading to demonic possession, oppression and destruction? Please be careful because things are not always what they seem.

* People who see you a christian watching porn can be tempted to start doing the same. Thus, you become the devil's soul winner! The reward for such offense is curse!(See Matthew 18 vs 6 to 9). Please pray that offense didn't come through you. Don't run into a curse, stay on course in life.


* Pornography can be very addictive. Once start, it is always difficult to stop as it becomes a dead weight pulling you down mentally and spiritually. It can't help your spiritual life to grow and it often lead to spiritual insensitiveness, blindness and powerlessness. The reason for addiction to mundane things like pornography is to depopulate heaven and populate hell. So if heaven is your goal, don't touch porn, avoid it like a plague.

God bless you!

Mekwen:
Push not anyone to sin with their utterances because you want views.

Icaretoo:
In love making or sex as the case may be, trying to improve oneself sex life by means of watching mojo exposes the partners involve to a wild fartasty which usual da never get from each other.so for me its a NO for a christain couple however my advise is for the couple to take it one step at a time and OPEN THEIR HEART TO ENJOY THE ART OF LOVE MAKING.
EVERY MOVE, RHYTHM AND SO ON.

repogirl:
Wha is mouth gig?
.... Abeg make una nondey form over holy pass jare! God has given spouses authority over the other's body so what is there? Or is it mentioned anywhere that mouth gig is a sin?

You over holy pass people will be formulating sins for yourselves.

As for porn... I don't think it's good cause it has its bad effects and the holyspirit doesn't agree with it. There are tutorials on the internet that can help curious couples though. That is better than porn.

If you go through 'Every Woman' book, there are topics that address sex and all that. It's a good alternative to porn.

doskie:
lolzz
so a lady can be funny
or is this a guy with a female identity?

goingape:
lol

You hear! How you take hear am if you no dey go backyard take watch am.


Nigeria Christian are hypocritie to the highest order

Abayhormy:
The people making the porn are going against the will of God, because they are usually not married to each other, and what they are doing is either fornication or adultery, so why would you as a Christian buy what they are doing to enjoy ?

cbrass:
Are you married? If not please strive to marry a man inexperienced in sex

Quakertellicus1:
Problem with Porn is that it gives one a flawed idea of sex.

First...the bodies of the porn stars have been so polished that they look fake and unrealistic. Second..the sex is not realistic sometimes...and finally....addiction to porn can turn someone off the real thing.

As someone said here earlier...love is the key ingredient to good sexual intimacy.

ilobasama:
It's not ideal in any marriage that wanna last.

Talking about Christianity, it's not ideal. It is the same thing as being physically present where two other people are having sex.

Is that ideal ?

Integrityfarms:
Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

Is pornography pure

dallyemmy:
Do Not Contaminate Your Soul!
Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life!

Abbeyunique2:
@the bolded, me too. i don't support anything that has been medically proven that can be injurious

thesicilian:
Learn? Experience?
Those are very lame excuses I must say. Does a child learn how to cry? Does he learn how to crawl? Those are very innate traits that will reveal themselves when the time comes

I doubt if there was anybody on ground to teach Adam and Eve how to have intercourse when they were created in the garden.

I guess when people talk about experience, what they actually mean is 'doing it the way that it is generally accepted by the public' The main ingredient in love making, as the term implies, is love. Once a couple loves and understands each other, and know how to communicate their feelings and desires to each other, what else is there to 'learn' from demonic books and videos?

Abbeyunique2:
It's not bad since they are married, research shows that 70% newly wedded couples injure themselves while trying out new sex position. moreover human being are curious in nature, they like to explore. Mojo gives them starting point. being christian doesn't mean that one shouldn't have fantastic sexlife, are u of the opinion that doggy, 69 etc among christian couples are sin?

asalimpo:
if the porn stars are born again and filled with the Holy Spirit, and are not commiting adultery or fornication (on set) - no problem. Or if they were inspired by God to shoot the video, Carry go!!
But you know that's as possible as passing a camel through the eye of a needle.

Besides, when watching porn, you are participating in the act itself! mind and body and soul!
Sx is for husband and wife (two people) not an or.gy (more than 2 people).

damilareoye:

Abbeyunique2:
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing.