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damilareoye:
Iffa hear stingy kō stingy ni

vault:
I get it, you don't want to lose her in case she says no.....


well if I were you, I would use the oldest trick in the book..... ask her all these things pretending she is not the one you talking about and see what she says....

if her answer is what you'd feared would happen (losing the friendship) then try talking her into what you think should happen (that you can still be friends) even if she says no

I hope u understand me

Stevebamdex:
Why both?

analice107:
When I saw ur post, I rush enter with seriousness, to read so that I won't make the same mistake, but am disappointed because you said nothing.
Why were you, a holy ghost brother hopping from sister to sister? You didn't pray for God's Divine direction, or God kept changing his mind as to ur rightful wife? You were playing trial and error with the sisters.
You didn't tell us how many you slept with and ate their food.
Did u not read the part of the Bible that says "A man who can't provide for his family is worst than an infidel?" As much as I don't subscribe to averies, but I won't Marry a men who doesn't have a bed. It must not be a big one, but a bed. And a pot, and a stove. And a plate and atleast a spoon.
Pls Bros, talk another thing.

Good for you that her family helped you up. But what if I don't ve a family?
Am not lazy, I work, but my man must be stronger than me.

ExplicitContent:
See you,I 'll keep quoting u if you utter things that are careless & unreasonable. so you aware only perfect people have the right to judge still you open your hypocritic mouth to ascertain those guys as not being born agAin simply because they did not do things your way.. I think u lost it Miss. Selfrighteous ass

ExplicitContent:
And what is making you feel you different? Huh? You claim you born again & you sound like this? Who is a born again? What yardstick do you use to judge? Just imagine. You better work on yourself..

Ishilove:
Hmmm... You sound very self-rightteous. No offence but that is what the Pharisees were known for.

Toks2008:
You are begining to bore me.

Please forget my matter and educate people with vivid scriptural quotes and not by human phylosophy.

Thats my point.I hate hypochrisy and i know many people who do worse stuffs than even masturbating yet they front sainthood.

Just hear yourself advising someone having a natural urge to copulate to give himself to fasting and prayer ...why not start fasting and praying if you feel pressed to defecate?

Even paul adviced marriage just as i also did and for those who have the grace to subdue it can do that while those with high libido should find a way to ease of without ponographic inducement but you are here trying to form an alpha.

Im very practical and down to earth so show me from the bible where self servicing is mentioned as a sin and i will change my notion right now.

Just like addiction is bad,in like manner masturbating could be addictive...people must understand difference between bad habbit and sin so the best you can come up is to say from your perspective,masturbation is a bad habit but that does not make it a sinful habbit.

ourchoice:
1. For procreation 2. For companionship if she's willing to be a good companion

Meanwhile, wife is different from girlfriend....and boyfriend is different from husband.

trailblaiza:
azin! She's the definition of HYPOCRISY. Imagine, she approached someone in the group in a very RUDE way. I corrected her and the next thing was that she chatted me up privately saying all sorts of rubbish like "the group belongs to me and you can just say what you like" and the next thing, she deleted me. She has a very terrible character. Whoever marries her don enter one chance!

ourchoice:
agreed! So tell me y u need a boyfriend? Why do u need a boyfriend when u can channel the energy into the things u mentioned? You need boyfriend to foot your bills for free right? Isn't that selfishness and sin?

As far as I am concerned, there are no Godly virgin above 18yrs....only God knows the true virgins....i don't believe in virgins because it's a scam

Ladies that call themselves virgin do worse than non-virgins; we don't need to argue it...you know yourself...its between u and your God, don't convince me because I don't believe there are true virgins. if u are, God alone knows and will reward u...if u are not, it's bw u and your God and conscience, don't sweat it sis

ourchoice:
There are no real virgins above 19yrs in the world

Which virgin? The so-called virgin that kiss, romance, su*ck, engage in oral se*x, engage in anal s*ex, handle, mastur*bate and just preserve her hymen to deceive gullible-men who still crave to marry fake virgin with rotten heart and soul.

God alone knows the true virgins and true virgins don't date or keep boyfriend...go to Deeper Life....

Miriam19:
Can't comprehend either..... Men and sex are like 5&6

rykard:
And how do you intend to filter off the wrong crowd this time

Profvic107:
the fruit is like the virtue(character) the gift like the special ability(anointing)...the ability or anointing without good character will bring a man down very quick with shame..... I go for d fruit of the spirit....

roadsta:
Is it possible to have that special ability(anointing) without virtue(character)?
Is it possible to have the gift of the spirit without the gift of the scripture?

sonofthunder:
over to d ladies

itstpia8:
what are you yourself bringing to your relationships?