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RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 9:31am On Apr 12, 2013
Toboski: @Poster, there's nothing wrong with you if what you have said does not include condoning violence, as there are quite a number of women who do not like weak men and cannot stand them, this gives them a sense of security and creates some kind of leadership for them by their men. However, it could also have a psychological side to it, that brings me to this question: do you enjoy it when such men get violent and inflict some pain on youhuh if yes, where you violated or abused as a child or did you live with someone who was abused while you were a child? all dis questions will be helpful in determining whether you will require psychological help or not. Finally, for those of you who find it very easy to abuse or insult people in need of genuine advice, you are worst than such people whom you criticize and you are plain hypocrites, i believe dat silence is golden... if you cannot be part of a solution, why add to the problem?
I enjoy pain sadly.i was never absused or know anyone who was but I used to watch quite violent movies. Thanks so much, some people just don't understand cry
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 9:20am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=mike ell]ok lady here is your help you can email me if this helps you at awinikimichael@yahoo.com

if you are attracted to dominant men its normal i mean for ladies they always want to be lead but abusive that really weird so here what you can do to help yourself quit your present relationship and stay alone for a while but in that while visit a church for prayers and the try to meet new guys who are dominant alpha male but not abusive. please you wont find them in club houses and might not find them in the church either so check commercial areas like mall.[/quote]Thanks for your advice but I can't just quit a relationship just like that na?
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 9:09am On Apr 12, 2013
laylow001: Hey girl can i be your p i m p?
You can be much more smiley
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 9:09am On Apr 12, 2013
Sweetlemon: I feel like throwing up!
And you're announcing that here because?!?
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 9:07am On Apr 12, 2013
asholly baby: i think u need cranial surgery
Instead of u to talk brain surgery you wan do like say na u Sabi English pass. Comot!
RomanceRe: Letter To Light-Skinned Females by Mindependent(f): 8:53am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=Mr..Cork] ..huh....ermm sweery..is it illegal to spek engish grammmar in Lagos?? undecided[/quote]Before u smell my nyash go check your own nyash wey shit full. Abeg that sentence wey u just type , na English e be? Any who yes e dey illegal o no try me
RomanceRe: Letter To Light-Skinned Females by Mindependent(f): 8:48am On Apr 12, 2013
pleep: ^ lol checked your profile expecting to find an attractive mixed chick, but what i saw was much better.

awesome profile grin
Thanks boo kiss
RomanceRe: Why Taking Women To Dinner And Paying Is A Bad Thing by Mindependent(f): 8:44am On Apr 12, 2013
Just wasted couple minutes of my life reading that *facepalm* let me tell you, the only reason why guys pay is cos their pigs and they want the girl to be indebted to them so they can get the honeypot that night . Fuckin dogs! angry
RomanceRe: Top 8 Lies Told By Ladies Of Nowadays by Mindependent(f): 8:25am On Apr 12, 2013
tongue It's my real hair
tongue God blessed me with naturally big ass it's not fake
tongue They are my real boobs I've never done surgery
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 8:16am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=Boricua:Negro]Lady, you are gonna sully my reputation and get me in Trouble.

Having these folks think i am some abusive psychotic of some sort.....

I'm Going to Sleep. You Have a Good Night Young Lady.
[/quote]Don't worry your secret is safe with me grin sleep well smiley
RomanceRe: Letter To Light-Skinned Females by Mindependent(f): 8:13am On Apr 12, 2013
Shout out to the girls... And GUYS! Wey dey shine light for them face come take picture come dey form team light skinned. grin una know urself. I hail una o!!! Na u biko tongue
RomanceRe: Is It True?! :o by Mindependent(op): 8:10am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=Boricua:Negro]Yup. [/quote]1st person to actually give an answer, thanks for confirming smiley
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 8:09am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=Boricua:Negro]Now would i admit something so heinous publicly young lady?..... wink

I think you need to close your goddamn mouth before a problem ensues.

A Reaction just as the one seen above definitely would deserve a Smack! in person...

Luckily we aren't in Person.....
[/quote]If only we were wink I would love to be smacked grin
RomanceRe: What's Your Type? by Mindependent(op): 8:06am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=Boricua:Negro]
Thick....

Thick Arms and Legs.

Why does short and fat go with Light Skin?..Lol

Why can't tha niqqah be tall handsome and Light?.... grin

[/quote]Well we can't always have it perfect can we, ain't having no man looking better than us ladies tongue mind explaining what you find attractive about thick? Maybe I should change it to short, fat and blekkkk??
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 8:05am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=Boricua:Negro]You seek dominance....you seek Testosterone and Ruthless Aggression...

Also like to be Humiliated I Bet.

You are probably the type who likes a man to cheat on you...but act as if you hate him soon as he come shom 3:41 am boxers smelling like the crotch of another woman's vajine....

You start a fight with him...hoping he gets physical and violent with you..

All just to so he starts chocking the shitt out of you, while making love to you.....

And You Dig your nails in his Back and Love every minute of it.
[/quote]I do! I do! I do! Are you that sort of man? cheesy
RomanceRe: What's Your Type? by Mindependent(op): 8:01am On Apr 12, 2013
bizz: I used to like thick.....but nowwwww.....I tell U̶̲̥̅̊ slim is D̶̲̥̅̊ sweetest.....but she shud be A̶̲̥̅ fan of bakassi and manchester...if U̶̲̥̅̊ k̲̣̣̣̥n̶̲̥̅̊ø̲̣̣w̶̲̥̅̊ wat I mean angry
I know exactly what you mean, sounds just like someone I know wink
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 7:59am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=Boricua:Negro][/quote]You do realise I'm talking about myself only and not the entire female population
RomanceRe: Letter To Light-Skinned Females by Mindependent(f): 7:56am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=Boricua:Negro]...Hmmmm[/quote]How u go just come hmmm my comment, no vex me o angry
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 7:55am On Apr 12, 2013
[quote author=Boricua:Negro]Confirms what many of us Aggressive Guys always Knew.......[/quote]Which is?
RomanceRe: Is It True?! :o by Mindependent(op): 7:54am On Apr 12, 2013
bizz: A̶̲̥̅♏ liking ur threads....I don't tink U̶̲̥̅̊ r just seekin attention but doin and sayin wat U̶̲̥̅̊ don't in reality angry
Haha everyone is entitled to their opinions but u can never tell if you don't know me wink so how exactly do u think I am in reality sef?
RomanceRe: How To Know If He Really LIKES You- (for The Ladies) by Mindependent(f): 7:25am On Apr 12, 2013
Well based on this, it seems my man must hate me tongue
RomanceRe: Is It True?! :o by Mindependent(op): 7:17am On Apr 12, 2013
In fact lemme even seek the attention sef well well, guys check my profile and pm me, you know you want ta wink
RomanceRe: Is It True?! :o by Mindependent(op): 6:55am On Apr 12, 2013
Ucheosefoh: ur tribe are worst with a legendly record of promiscuity I observe u always open yeye threads to seek for attention I think u have to start keeping urself busy offline
U think my threads are yeye but here u are showing me the attention u claim I seek mschewwww rme
RomanceRe: What's Your Type? by Mindependent(op): 6:53am On Apr 12, 2013
bizz: Slim with nice character is ok
I thought u Nigerian men liked them thick n chunky like toolz, for the life of me I could never understand those who like such but u must be 1 in a million Nigerian men who like slim girls. Interesting

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